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My view on how to treat your wife
1.Don't compare your wife to other women. You don't know what their husbands are going through.
2. NEVER expose your wife's weakness to your family or friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems are best solved between you and your woman.
3. Don't think you are man so you can use intimidation, shout or violence to communicate your moods. Agreesive men don't make a happy home.

4. Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is stupid.
5. Do your responsibilities as man...don't leave every to your woman.

6. Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of the home everyday. She is swamped with house work and helping you raise the kids.

7. Don't be wasteful spending money on drinks, friends and extended family.The wife and children are your first responsibility.

8. Sex is also important to women. Her pleasure should be considered before your own.
9. Never compare your wife to your ex-girlfriends. If you loved them so much why didn't you marry them instead of your wife.

10. Never shout down your wife or challenge her in front of the children. The children are watching. They won't listen and obey her too.

11. Tell your wife she's beautiful even if you know she's looking normal. Women love compliment.
12. Don't forget that women also want attention and someone to share their thougts with. Never be too busy for your wife.
13. A prayerful man is a better equipped husband. Pray always for your wife and family. Don't leave the prayers to your wife.
14.Treat your wife like a queen. Buy her gifts, take her shopping and once in a while, cook for her.
15.Please don't forget your these anniversary dates. Wedding ,engagement,the first time you kissed. I beg you. These dates mean a lot to women. (Don't ask me why). I also don't know.
16. Your mother should not have the final say in your marriage. You married your wife, not you and your mother. Let her talk in her own husband's house.
17.There are 5 days each month that you have to say "I'm sorry", "yes baby" and "I love you" more than 7 times a day. That's when she's menstrating.

Slap her when she prove stubborn to reset her brain

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The counter thread go sweet pass this one.

Words of wisdom. I hope women also treat their husbands as Kings. Some women deny their husbands of sex and then later complain that he's looking outside. Some men may be patient with such women some may not just give a damn. Women treat your husbands well if you want to be treated as a queen.

@ziego
what you wrote goes for men and women... and the thread should be named HOW TO ACT WHEN IN A R/SHIP

MoneypassGod:
The counter thread go sweet pass this one.

this IS the counter thread of "the 30 rules about godly women" BS

dayowunmi:
Words of wisdom. I hope women also treat their husbands as Kings. Some women deny their husbands of sex and then later complain that he's looking outside. Some men may be patient with such women some may not just give a damn. Women treat your husbands well if you want to be treated as a queen.

if you treat your woman as a queen she will treat you more than a king that's how it works.
But if you treat her like a queen and she doesn't reciprocate, then she is not a real woman
I like the fact that the OP talked about comparisim. Alot of people go wrong in their relationship because they keep comparing their woman to their friend's woman which is so wrong. Imagine your friend's gf has a very bad attitude that you don't know of because he definitely won't tell you.
because he wants you to believe he is in charge... He yells at her, uses her as a sex slave and you all make fun of it... But he won't come clean as to why he is doing all that to hero.
Now you will want to melt the same treatment on your loving and respectful gf without knowing that, your friend doesn't get the kind of love your gf gives to you.
But some men will blindly compare. "If he can yell at his woman, why can't I yell at mine? " and the trouble starts

amokeme:
if you treat your woman as a queen she will treat you more than I king that's how it works.
But if you treat her like a queen and she doesn't reciprocate, then she is not a real woman
I like the fact that the OP talked about comparisim. Alot of people go wrong in their relationship because they keep comparing their woman to their friend's woman which is so wrong. Imagine your friend's gf has a very bad attitude that you don't know of because he definitely won't tell you.
because he wants you to believe he is in charge... He yells at her, uses her as a sex slave and you all make fun of it... But he won't come clean as to why he is doing all that to hero.
Now you will want to melt the same treatment on your loving and respectful gf without knowing that, your friend doesn't get the kind of love your gf gives to you.
But some men will blindly compare. "If he can yell at his woman, why can't I yell at mine? " and the trouble starts

Yea, i concur, comparison is such a distasteful act that can break one's morale and self-esteem and should be avoided. The bottom line is taking your time to observe and scrutinise the person before saying I do because marriage is for the long term, if someone rush to marriage because of sex then after the honeymoon and the sex what next, I choose character over beauty.