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lestat:
Bro let me tell u from experience, it been proven times without number! If your gut tells you tat your partner is cheating then they are! It's a fact! No one can explain it but it's something spiritual that has to do with broken trust! Hence why 98% of victims of infidelity always say they felt it but ignored the feeling!
Now for the evidence just wait for her to be asleep then take the phone to the toilet and check all u want!
But if she is skilled u won't find anything easily, I suggest whatsapp messages and sent sms messages folders.
Then check dialed numbers that are called frequently but aren't saved now also check stranger frequent callers!
Now if there's a number saved but calls frequently irrespective of being saved with a woman's name copy this out and call it also.

Now you have to establish the type of cheating thats going on either emotional or sexual, after u do this let me know

Kachy1605:
let me tell you what will work for you as simple as abc. It worked for me. Just start using condom on her and she will ask why this new development? And you will answer her that whn the right/safe time comes you will stop using bt for now is til further notice. Trust me she wil breakdown that you have found out something and she will open up to bt note at 1st she wil claim innosaint bt maintain ur stand. Luck to you and inbox my thank u

Amakabill:
..i can check her phone records from our system for a fee...very simpe

kullozone:
She'll open up for him to enter abi

poik:
dirty mind. of all the meanings to that statement, this is the only one that pops in your head abi

Bluezy13:
Running to a third party in marriage is demeaning and risky

josite:
i pity the woman and women generally.woman should please get the man's definition of cheating very well and finds it most acceptable before marrying a guy.any guy who will not accept u are first a human before becoming his wife needs be excused.

humans in this era are not like those in the pre i/t era,now the wife neeed not take a bus to where the comforter is meaning she will link the comforter online and there are bound to be needs for comfort in this real stressful climej which the spouse cannot provide or which the wife rightly thinks from an assessment of the husband that the hubby cannot provide.insisting you will be all things to your wife is where men start the journey to failure and heart attack and untimely death.

the wife ,with whom u were actively involved in many cheating games in different forms before marriage at the expense of some other persons like her boss,her bf oversea etc is now expected to transform into zero- cheating personality over nite.

why cant men begin to accept "cheating" if they cant accept cheating.why cant you allow it hidden away from you if ur wife or spouse is really making great efforts to keep it away from U.

GOD being good,with a good heart,the cheating that will hurt you will miraculously be brought to your knowledge and even then you must act wisely and not engage in confrontations because all confrontations has a way of ending in manners unintended.you should notice a core area your spouse is not having anything near enough and reasonably u should know if she cant manage ,she will still be angling for more finaces the way she used to do and if the sex is bad ,u should expect humans makes up bad deals even unconsciously.what u must do to the today's wife is do things out of a good conscience and having done your best and after having seen u do ur best ,then leave her with her phone.As a matter of fact as u suspect she may actually be reporting u to the guy whom she thinks she ought to have married and she might actually been reporting your lousy bed manners.

most wives has a best friend ,a male ,completely unknown to the hubby and that is exactly what most husbands cant handle.not every man she met and didnt marry are less than u,my dear bro,quite a number of them are more than u,and the saddest fact is they are the ones ur wife really want for a hubby but some of them happens not to want her for a wife.please cherish living long enough to enjoy your labour,let her keep her fone to herself is that is her wish. i know how reading your spouses messages can ruin your nite,your sleep,your peace,your career and the marriage itself and can affects your driving .accept the burdens of an era .someone is actually chatting ur wife up.

Jagabanthelion:
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Feminist Ma,if d man ur wife truly wants doesn't want her as a wife,she has a right to remain unmarried,rather than marry a man she doesn't truly desire. D moment she marries anoda,she signs a contract to channel her feelings for d dude that rejected her to u her husband.If she still keeps such feelings,she breaks d marriage contract n deserves to be freed to go beg d man of her dreams for another chance. A wife who desires another man is capable of killing her husband jst to be free wit d man she desires. So the solution still remains,let her go. Even d bible permits divorce ONLY on infidelity. Its not a small matter. My principle on fidelity is simple and balanced.If u catch me cheating,decide what happens to d marriage,n if I catch u too,vice-versa.Your decision will NEVER affect mine. That's my way of supporting the gender equality u feminists have used to corrupt our once chaste n decent ladies.

EggovinMma:
ypu need to kneel down and pray for your wife.Ask God to protect your wife from the hands of lustful men who target people's wives. Read psalms of David. It is well.

Jagabanthelion:
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Feminist Ma,if d man ur wife truly wants doesn't want her as a wife,she has a right to remain unmarried,rather than marry a man she doesn't truly desire. D moment she marries anoda,she signs a contract to channel her feelings for d dude that rejected her to u her husband.If she still keeps such feelings,she breaks d marriage contract n deserves to be freed to go beg d man of her dreams for another chance. A wife who desires another man is capable of killing her husband jst to be free wit d man she desires. So the solution still remains,let her go. Even d bible permits divorce ONLY on infidelity. Its not a small matter. My principle on fidelity is simple and balanced.If u catch me cheating,decide what happens to d marriage,n if I catch u too,vice-versa.Your decision will NEVER affect mine. That's my way of supporting the gender equality u feminists have used to corrupt our once chaste n decent ladies.

jayhumble:
With the current economic situation of the country... Any man who thinks he's a sole owner of any girl/lady/GF/wife must be high on petrol. Well, except if u are rich enough cuz money is what naija girls care about before sex anyway, but if u are in the average or struggling class and you are expecting 100% commitment and loyalty from a naija girl of this generation. Na sorry be your case.

All girls has got alternatives these days... Even married women got some sugar daddy giving em money and stuff the hubby can't afford... That one no be new things except u be learner

It's even funny that struggling Nigerian guys still fall in love these days... Choiii love kwa.

Better stop worrying urself and Take a chill pill OP...

quivah:
Gosh! You so look like someone I know.. The eyes,lips, nose .
I last saw him around 2010/11/12 I can't be more precise.
He used to visit his cousins at ogijo,ikorodu.
That's enough details... The resemblance is too striking.

whoisuche:
Those who love God doesn't commit adultery or cheat on their spouse. So don't generalize not every one is corrupt.

SAINTSAMURAI:
ITs obvious she is indeed hiding something from you, but since u have no proof, i will advice u to secretly confront her close friend, as in best of friends, if u play ur game well, her best friend will open up to u.

laikas:
excpt she is dump, if i were to cheat on my husband nt evn my cloz frnd wil hear abt it.

Mopricelezz:
I'm sure most people are quick to conclude that she is cheating because its the husband that complained. I'm sure if it were to be the wife, u'll see comments like 'your husbands phone is his private property', 'Stop invading your husband 's privacy', 'everyone is entitled to his privacy', 'if he is cheating keep praying for him', 'what you don't know wont hurt u' etc.
OP, trust is the bedrock of every marriage, y marry her when you never trusted her? Or if u did before marrying her, when did you stop trusting her?
Well, Op your wife might not be cheating on you. Are u sure you didnt do something wrong and she is trying to get back at you by putting up this attitude? Search yourself. And in all, you should talk to her, you never can tell. She MIGHT NOT be cheating. Goodluck Man

josite:
cell phones are personal, use yours and let her use hers.