Hack her phone to get evidence, if you report to her friend or confide they will just be pushing you around.women are the same.

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

Kai stop dat jare we respect them....who ar u 2 judge our women....we have d gud 1nce and also d opposite hmm guy respect ur sef hmm we wont take shitt frm u jare

Avalon316:
Do those Nigerian women cheat?

So people with fallen boobs, stinking pvs$y and fat tummies cheat?

Some of their customers no dey try sef

you can not kno d plain truth if you are too in a hurry.

healthyarena:

Someone can't even play with this one, he will just implicate the pesin

Lol! Serious implicator lol

With the current economic situation of the country... Any man who thinks he's a sole owner of any girl/lady/GF/wife must be high on petrol. Well, except if u are rich enough cuz money is what naija girls care about before sex anyway, but if u are in the average or struggling class and you are expecting 100% commitment and loyalty from a naija girl of this generation. Na sorry be your case.

All girls has got alternatives these days... Even married women got some sugar daddy giving em money and stuff the hubby can't afford... That one no be new things except u be learner

It's even funny that struggling Nigerian guys still fall in love these days... Choiii love kwa.

Better stop worrying urself and Take a chill pill OP...

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Instal keylogger for android on her phone. You will see everything she does on her phone remotely including calls, text messages, pictures, her gps location, etc. Most importantly, the app runs on the background undetected. What you seek, ye shall find.

NB: You may not like what you will find out.
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Oga you are the problem of your self ohhhhhhh...
i think you dont know your wife.

YelloweWest:
Leave her alone and stop checking her phone.

is it wrong for a husband to check his wife phone? hell no

If not that you said no insult, I would really insulted you. But why do some people like giving themselves unnecessary hypertension, if your wife cheat, you to do the needful and if you are not that kind of man, sorry no advice

I am very particular about my phone.
Does that mean that I am cheating? No.
Your problem is insecurity. Plain and simple.

How long have u been married 2dis woman dt u don't trust her yet? She's private about her chats/phone = cheating? That she's keeping some info from u, it doesn't necessarily mean d info is bad. FYI everyone (@OP inclusive) has stuff they keep away from their partners. Look d other way, & with time you'll know what it is.


Nothing stays hidden for ever. If she's cheating you'll know. If she's just gossiping about girlie stuff with a friend,you'll still get 2find out.

YelloweWest:
Leave her alone and stop checking her phone.

Shut up.

Oya ,go and tell the USA to stop policing the world. The superior sex must always check and control the weaker sex.

Life isn't fair. Life isn't meant to be fair.

Sai my paddy Kingtom, how far? Longest time...

I hope you see fuel buy sha...

@OP... stand up and be a man and not a wimp.
grow a set of you know what.
demand that she immediately hand over her phone to you without hesitation or send her back to her father's house for breaking your peace of mind.

and while you're at it let her check out your phone. fair is fair.

2016 men(or small boys) with no liver or backbone, sha.

CertifiedFreak:
Why you would wanna gather concrete evidence before confronting ur wife is beyond me. Only wussies show ur kinda behavioral traits.

God bless you. Evidence as if we are in a courtt of law
My girl started acting funny. suddenly 'just friends' became 'family friends' then distractions.... I dropped her like a hot potato No time bros

These optionsl could help...

Buy her another phone in form of a gift.But before giving her install a phonespy software in the phone.She will never see the software in the apps section.Register at phonespy website...all sms,bbchat,wattsapp,calls etc will be uploaded live on the website....go to the site n have fun by downloading all recorded calls and. Chats.

Or put sleeping tab in her drink ....den do the needful

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

one thing i've learnt in life is LIVE AND LET OTHERS LIVE....relax ur mind and prevent high-blood pressure. Don't police ur wife, just let her be because HE THAT SEARCHES FOR SOMETHING MUST FIND SOMETHING

Decryptor:


The guy who talked about Decryptor diskette is what grabbed my attention to the thread because my moniker was mentioned!

Funny enough OP, there is a sure fire way to detect if your wife is cheating on you via the kind of conversations she has on her phone! I'm sure her phone has a memory card. If it does, leave the rest to me....that is if you are in Abuja. Just get her memory card and i will run a software which will check for cache files where chat and messages are stored on the card. The messages are usually in Unicode format and with the use of another software, i will be able to decrypt the unicode into something readable! I have done it for people before and i will do it free of charge for you.

WARNING: The findings after i do the forensics MIGHT BREAK YOUR MARRIAGE!

Ewo! Don't break the marriage o
I guess he wants amendment

If it quacks like a duck...

She might not have done "it" yet, but she's most definitely on a slippery slide.

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

See, By November 24 this year, it will be 3yrs since I got married. And em 25yrs old. The last thing my wife would wants to and can hide from me is her phone and what she does with it. The reverse is also the case(em not a saint, em just a striving muslim). I hope u are not the weak man?

in short, I dare you to collect the phone and take away from her for as long as it takes you to access its datas.

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

how abiut you watch her till she sleeps?

amunkita:


Re u not alwayz at home while she baths

Guy wise up nd catch the biatch red haned..

When I caught my X-bitch, I had to run with the phone nd hid in a neighbors house, there I found out she was planning marriage with another..

Ur Ex wicked o

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

Reading all the comments makes me shake my head. A lot of people are very pessimistic.

Your woman might not be cheating, you sound like you give her lots of attention and that's what a lot of women want and need. While I was reading your post, something came to mind. Is your birthday coming up or ur wedding anniversary. She might be planning to surprise you. We are humans and most times when we see someone acting suspicious, we think negative thoughts. Give your woman the benefit of doubt. Not all that glitters is gold and not all that stinks is poop. Be optimistic, think positive things and receive positive results.

Good luck and hope you enjoy your married life

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

She is not ..she is still probably having chats with her former lovers or the true love of her life .

Oga what kind of a household are you running that you are afraid to have an honest discussion with your wife?

Stop being a sisi man and take charge of the situation. Why una dey marry when una never ready sef? Be honest with your wife for once in your life, but be compassionate in the process.

pcguru1:

I have never come across any phone that stores chat in a memory card, however BBM stored my chats but that was during backup.

It does! Especially Whatsapp. However, it takes someone who is into Cyber Forensics to get the files. Those files are what are used in retrieving your chat history incase of re-installation of the Chat Application.

danjumakolo:
These optionsl could help...

Buy her another phone in form of a gift.But before giving her install a phonespy software in the phone.She will never see the software in the apps section.Register at phonespy website...all sms,bbchat,wattsapp,calls etc will be uploaded live on the website....go to the site n have fun by downloading all recorded calls and. Chats.

Or put sleeping tab in her drink ....den do the needful

CHAI!!
nkan be....some men are something else, i hope u applied for the on-going police job?....because they need u

Goa, don't sweat over what has timeline. Very soon, she go grow old and tired but, before then, from now, till then and during then, you too polish your shoes, press your shirt, carve your hair and find shawties wey go dey commot your mind from the troubles she dey give you.

The truth is, if you find out she's been cheating, you will be sad, if you find out she's not cheating, then she knows you don't trust her or you've accused her wrongly, she will make you sad. Why don't you just go with the flow and hook yourself up with some hot bunnies

Sugahylz:

You go fear advise na! Her best friend ll open up to him?

i know hw to do it beta

francizy:
Sai my paddy Kingtom, how far? Longest time...

I hope you see fuel buy sha...

fuel? I buy o my brother I buy