Cheating is wrong, i am not in anyway trying to justify it. However, as a man, i must put myself in some men's shoes and then try to rationalize why the married one's cheat.

1. Neglect of the man
Most married women tend to neglect the men when the kids start coming. No more loved up evenings, no more hanging out. They always claim to be tired even when they have maids. Men tend to seek solace outside because they need someone to hang out with, to watch movies with and to share romantic moments with. Unfortunately, many girls out there are willing to fill this vacuum.

2. Neglect of herself
Give most women 3 to 5 years of marriage and you would see majority of them are no longer that sexy chic they used to be. No more doing up her hair regularly, no more trim figure, no more keeping up with the fashion scene. The sexy woman you married now looks like your aunty. We all understand that kids are a handful and make you tired but the problem is that they are so many sexy hot girls out there that makes your husband remember the old days. For men who are easily tempted or those who married their 'spec', they start looking for another spec since you are no longer the spec they married.

3 Reduced Intimacy
A lot of men consider intimacy and sex as a big factor in choosing a wife. If a woman has a good character but is poor in bed, most men would look somewhere else for a wife. However, many men married their wives because they used to get satisfaction from her. After marriage, most women don't care about pleasing the man. A lot always claim tiredness. For those men who have a high libido, expect them to look elsewhere for satisfaction.

4 Nagging
It's easy for a single girl to be loving, caring and understanding. After marriage it becomes a different kettle of fish for some women. they nag you over every little thing. For a man who can't stand it, he seeks solace outside, mostly in the loving arms of another single lady.

5 Variety
This is a point that has no justification but many men cheat because they want a different variety. They claim that you can't eat one soup forever, hence they seek out a different 'soup'. This is bad and is totally the man's fault. However, it is one of the major reasons most men cheat.

6 Temptation
These days some when com at a man with full force even when they know he is married. There are lot's of single girls out there ready to claim another woman's husband. Sometimes, it's difficult to resist a sexy girl who wants you and is offering herself willingly. Most men fall for this reason. Even pastors have fallen for this reason. That's why couples should be prayerful and men should pray against temptation.

7. Some men are dogs
Some men are really dogs. They cheat for cheating sake. They act like they are under a spell. They would sleep with their maids, secretary, bread seller, in short anything in skirt. Give them a model wife who gives them everything and they would still cheat. A lot of men who have many wives and girlfriends usually fall into this category. No justification for such men. They are cursed.

Is that so

Good write up. Most times na women dey make man cheat. lalasticlala, this is front page worthy.

[size=16pt]1. Cos they've seen their wives pùssy too much. They need something fresh


2.their wives tie wrapper too much...


Case closed. [/size]





That "caring" man down we know your type....

Except me. I am a married man with a difference. Chai...... I love my lovely wife too much and can never cheat on her. What am I looking for in other girls that she doesn't have times 10. Baby I love you.

Modified: Before I got married, I was into girls. So, I can't do it now because there's nothing in girls I have not seen. I love and respect my wife. That's why I can't cheat on her. Most men cheat because of their mind set. If you believe you can stay with one woman, then you can.

Nice

Let me share this analogy to shed more light: we all knw that pounded yam and efo riro is the best food in town, As much as we all love eating pounded yam, we get bored so we occasional try out fast food(with emphasis on fast) like Jollof rice, fried rice and small chops. so don't blame the player, blame the game.

Nonsense. Men who cheat do it because they have no respect for the marriage institution and no self control. Nagging or any of those things you listed above, save for 7, can never be a reason to cheat if you have the self control to respect what you are in.

A man that will cheat will cheat....... cheat is in d blood

its not cheating if u dont get caught

Men cheat because we cannot eat only okro soup everyday.

make I noe lie I b no 7, tho I am still young and single, but I dnt do ladies without class tho....joking ooo

is this all?

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MRSANITY:
Men cheat because we cannot eat only okro soup everyday.

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How much do u have?

Yes I concur

A cheat will not tell you he is a cheat. A cheat is a cheat,NO ESCUSE.

amiibaby:
A man that will cheat will cheat....... cheat is in d blood

Another lie. Cheating is in not in anyone's blood. We choose to because we want to.

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Reyginus:
Nonsense. Men who cheat do it because they have no respect for the marriage institution and no self control. Nagging or any of those things you listed above can never be a reason to cheat if you have the self control to respect what you are in.

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Textbook stuffs.

Pray to God to lead u not into temptation

A true lover doesn't cheat.

Thanks OP,
But see there's no whatsoever Justifiable reason in this Universe that supports Humans to cheat (Married&Single)
It's just as a result of Greed and lack of Self-sufficiency

Gbagam...

It's just explicitly wrong

E be like I wan sleep cos of this English wey o just speak now, therefore make i

*sips dogonyaro and kulikuli together get myself

"Cheating is wrong, i am not in anyway trying to justify it. However, as a man, i must put myself in some men's shoes and then try to rationalize why the married one's cheat".........Bitter truth is that sin can not be rationalized as one really need to pray for the Grace and discipline to keep off it! As long as a thief can not rationalize stealing my phone why should promiscuity be rationalized?

WHY MEN CHEAT??
Women are like fruits.
Each with her own's special taste.
But the problem is (some) men love fruits salad.

Who cheating don epp?

OK

some men ar wicked sha weytin they wan get from cheating?

kenonze:
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Textbook stuffs.

Pray to God to lead u not into temptation

Makes absolutely zero sense. Praying to God against this is like praying to God to make Nigeria great. God has nothing to do with it.

kenonze:
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How much do u have?

how wide can you spread your legs?

amiibaby:
A man that will cheat will cheat....... cheat is in d blood

Baseless