ok

Barcelona had Messi..........but still went for Suarez and Neymar

lonelydora:
Except me. I am a married man with a difference. Chai...... I love my lovely wife too much and can never cheat on her. What am I looking for in other girls that she doesn't have times 10. Baby I love you.

Lol

MRSANITY:
how wide can you spread your legs?

That's a male

kenonze:
Yes.
In addition most men cheats because opportunity presents

A.K.A one night stand. And na that type dey choak the troath.

vickie1900:
What about reasons why married women cheat?

1. Lack of sexual satisfaction from their husbands

2. Lack of lovey dovey from the husband

3. Lack of monetary finances to take care of the home

4. Them don swear for the woman for village

5. Add yours

No. 4 got me cracking.

kenonze:
Yes. In addition most men cheats because opportunity presents

Good point

ElectroCute:
WHY MEN CHEAT?? Women are like fruits. Each with her own's special taste. But the problem is (some) men love fruits salad.

badt boi...

I don't know how right this is but nature should be held responsible and not all this reasons you spelt out. it is in the nature of man to cheat and only and man who has set out to fight that natural instinct of men to cheat will be free.

sukkot:
nigga we heard you the first time

nigga if you did, why did it take you so long to say so?

Dyt:
Ofcus
They must look for justification
Shior

If the man was treating the woman same way and we cheat, we are tagged whores

In all 80% of marriage go wrong is the man
#fact#

What a twisted lie! Most marriage failures are caused by the women! The world is conditioned to make the woman look like she is the saint while the man the devil in the case of a stormy relationship or marriage!

Aqva:
Cheating is wrong, i am not in anyway trying to justify it. However, as a man, i must put myself in some men's shoes and then try to rationalize why the married one's cheat.

1. Neglect of the man
Most married women tend to neglect the men when the kids start coming. No more loved up evenings, no more hanging out. They always claim to be tired even when they have maids. Men tend to seek solace outside because they need someone to hang out with, to watch movies with and to share romantic moments with. Unfortunately, many girls out there are willing to fill this vacuum.

2. Neglect of herself
Give most women 3 to 5 years of marriage and you would see majority of them are no longer that sexy chic they used to be. No more doing up her hair regularly, no more trim figure, no more keeping up with the fashion scene. The sexy woman you married now looks like your aunty. We all understand that kids are a handful and make you tired but the problem is that they are so many sexy hot girls out there that makes your husband remember the old days. For men who are easily tempted or those who married their 'spec', they start looking for another spec since you are no longer the spec they married.

3 Reduced Intimacy
A lot of men consider intimacy and sex as a big factor in choosing a wife. If a woman has a good character but is poor in bed, most men would look somewhere else for a wife. However, many men married their wives because they used to get satisfaction from her. After marriage, most women don't care about pleasing the man. A lot always claim tiredness. For those men who have a high libido, expect them to look elsewhere for satisfaction.

4 Nagging
It's easy for a single girl to be loving, caring and understanding. After marriage it becomes a different kettle of fish for some women. they nag you over every little thing. For a man who can't stand it, he seeks solace outside, mostly in the loving arms of another single lady.

5 Variety
This is a point that has no justification but many men cheat because they want a different variety. They claim that you can't eat one soup forever, hence they seek out a different 'soup'. This is bad and is totally the man's fault. However, it is one of the major reasons most men cheat.

6 Temptation
These days some when com at a man with full force even when they know he is married. There are lot's of single girls out there ready to claim another woman's husband. Sometimes, it's difficult to resist a sexy girl who wants you and is offering herself willingly. Most men fall for this reason. Even pastors have fallen for this reason. That's why couples should be prayerful and men should pray against temptation.

7. Some men are dogs
Some men are really dogs. They cheat for cheating sake. They act like they are under a spell. They would sleep with their maids, secretary, bread seller, in short anything in skirt. Give them a model wife who gives them everything and they would still cheat. A lot of men who have many wives and girlfriends usually fall into this category. No justification for such men. They are cursed.

If you say such men are cursed,what then will you say of King Solomon and King David

lonelydora:
Except me. I am a married man with a difference. Chai...... I love my lovely wife too much and can never cheat on her. What am I looking for in other girls that she doesn't have times 10. Baby I love you.

How old is your marriage?

I can tell you why men cheat.

I am a married man and I know how hard it can be.

A man cheats for only one reason.

An opportunity to cheat presented itself.....pure and simple!

Its takes a man of uncommon strength of character to turn down such an opportunity.

That his wife is this or that is pure rubbish.

Quite likely a cheating man still loves his wife and would choose to stay with his wife when it comes down to the wire.

Some men are just DOGS!

durotimi12:
Some men are just DOGS!

No they are not. In that case then it suffices to say that the women they sleep with are also BITCHES!!

A serial cheater simply got lost in time. He just needs help finding his way back.

You have to be a man to understand.

papawemba:
Variety is the spice of life.

Dude go and learn how to code html tags on a forum

Pinkyberry2:
cheating is expensive u know. most men that dont cheat cant afford it. I feel u r in dat category.. when u have d millions u will know better....









my thought.

I swear...you are very correct! A man who is rich has this kind of affluence and charisma which is a force of attraction that overwhelms ladies. It is a natural phenomena. In the animal kingdom, the Cock that has a more prominent and reddish cockscomb will attract most of the hen. It doesn't need to run for too long to catch a hen to mate. The hen go just bend down raise nyash for am! But Cocks that have a withered and pale colored cockscomb will find it difficult to mate. Same with Lions (their manes), Elephants (their tusks..."the whiter and longer, the more attractive" ), the Peacock (Their Feathers) etc. For humans, it used to be more of strength which creates the ability to gather food and hunt in the medieval times but in today's world, it's MONEY!

So that's why as a lady, if you decide you want a rich husband, be prepared to share him with other ladies. Note: Poor men cheat too but their willingness and success to cheat is usually limited because of their low cash power!

Ganoderma:


Dude go and learn how to code html tags on a forum

I dont mind learning from you.

lonelydora:
Except me. I am a married man with a difference. Chai...... I love my lovely wife too much and can never cheat on her. What am I looking for in other girls that she doesn't have times 10. Baby I love you.

You that is already cheating with your bike. How on earth did your wife allowed you to have that.

Moreso, you probably just married without kids. The OP was against women lacking those your wife's times 10 qualities. If your wife had it, why would you cheat except you are number 7 on the OP's list

Next baby mama

4C2215131:


Stale, played out, over thrashed, boring topic! Don't y'all ever get tired of run of the mill topics such as these?

No! You have seen it and enjoyed it while you just joined nairaland. New peeps join the forum everyday, so let them get the thrilled u once had.

I am sure there are thread and section u still enjoy now.that is because you grow here and find new interest by the day. Peace bro

Ganoderma:
I can tell you why men cheat.

I am a married man and I know how hard it can be.

A man cheats for only one reason.

An opportunity to cheat presented itself.....pure and simple!

Its takes a man of uncommon strength of character to turn down such an opportunity.

That his wife is this or that is pure rubbish.

Quite likely a cheating man still loves his wife and would choose to stay with his wife when it comes down to the wire.

I will like to fault you on that one!

Let me tell you something that happened while i was staying with a distant cousin in his matrimonial home some years back.

This guy was happily married and him and his wife were always inseparable, cuddled and played with each other whenever they had the chance to. Their marriage was pretty good during the first year and with the way they behaved, i was usually green with envy and wondering how lucky my cousin was and prayed for me to have a marriage like theirs which was supposedly "Made In Heaven" (Or so i thought) until his wife had their first baby. After having that child, (my cousin confided in me) her sex drive tanked seriously! She no longer craved for intimacy as before and then trouble started! Arguments over trivial things and sulking became the order of the day between the both of them. My cousin started wearing a frown on his face and seemed to be in deep thought most of the time like something was eating him up. The wife channeled more of her attention to raising the son she had for him, taking him off to a nursery and becoming more devoted to her job! But when i dropped by last year to visit them, my cousin's regained his youthful glow and the smiles returned. He became his jovial self but to the chagrin of his wife (which she complained later to me), he always kept late nights and hardly even ate at home. I later got to know that he was having an affair with an undergraduate of UNIABUJA in the same town where they lived.

So you see, most times, the women are the architect of their own marital misfortunes and when it explodes, they blame the man for not sticking his stuff into his trousers forgetting that when the man really want to, and you as his wife decides not to play with the thing out of the trouser once in a while, he will go outside to look for solace!

You can imagine a sexually active man not being able to make love to his wife for months and the woman expects him to be playing Pope Benedictus in the house? RUBBISH!!

Reyginus:
Nonsense. Men who cheat do it because they have no respect for the marriage institution and no self control. Nagging or any of those things you listed above, save for 7, can never be a reason to cheat if you have the self control to respect what you are in.

I agree with you 100%. SELF-CONTROL is the key word. If a person lacks self control such person is a worthless person and they are the that commit different kind of atrocities, why? Because they lack self-control. It also applies to women, that is when you will see some women going as far as sleeping with another man even their husband's friend all because of money. It all narrow down to SELF-CONTROL.

Excuses as usual, people cheat because they don't respect the how's they took.

ilawanson44:


I will like to fault you on that one!

Let me tell you something that happened while i was staying with a distant cousin in his matrimonial home some years back.

This guy was happily married and him and his wife were always inseparable, cuddled and played with each other whenever they had the chance to. Their marriage was pretty good during the first year and with the way they behaved, i was usually green with envy and wondering how lucky my cousin was and prayed for me to have a marriage like theirs which was supposedly "Made In Heaven" (Or so i thought) until his wife had their first baby. After having that child, (my cousin confided in me) her sex drive tanked seriously! She no longer craved for intimacy as before and then trouble started! Arguments over trivial things and sulking became the order of the day between the both of them. My cousin started wearing a frown on his face and seemed to be in deep thought most of the time like something was eating him up. The wife channeled more of her attention to raising the son she had for him, taking him off to a nursery and becoming more devoted to her job! But when i dropped by last year to visit them, my cousin's regained his youthful glow and the smiles returned. He became his jovial self but to the chagrin of his wife (which she complained later to me), he always kept late nights and hardly even ate at home. I later got to know that he was having an affair with an undergraduate of UNIABUJA in the same town where they lived.

So you see, most times, the women are the architect of their own marital misfortunes and when it explodes, they blame the man for not sticking his stuff into his trousers forgetting that when the man really want to, and you as his wife decides not to play with the thing out of the trouser once in a while, he will go outside to look for solace!

You can imagine a sexually active man not being able to make love to his wife for months and the woman expects him to be playing Pope Benedictus in the house? RUBBISH!!

Is a woman also justified to cheat when her husband doesn't give her enough sex? By the way the sex drive of a woman reducing after childbirth is common. For any man to choose to reward the woman who went through pregnancy and birth to have his baby by cheating on her because of what's essentially a medically condition says how selfish he is
Nigerians are just ignorant, that case all they needed to do was see doctors or sex specialists to help the woman get her drive back

lonelydora:
Except me. I am a married man with a difference. Chai...... I love my lovely wife too much and can never cheat on her. What am I looking for in other girls that she doesn't have times 10. Baby I love you.

Scammer

TheN1:
Good write up. Most times na women dey make man cheat. lalasticlala, this is front page worthy.

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Honestly sir people mostly and immediately justifies sins because they themselves are sinners and wanted to sin and are also likely sinning and so they don't blame the one who also is sinning or write about reasons for sinning. Like say each one has his or her own sin he is rearing. This is exactly what our first father did in Eden. But for those whom God is helping, who has given themselves to God to be helped of Him don't sin irrespective of what anyone may be or may not be doing around them, and even if a partner in marriage is being unfaithful and even if it is Sodom and Gomorrah he is living as the whole world has almost become now. Because God keeps him or her and she or he also keeps herself or himself. Thank you

chubbyFred10:
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ilawanson44:


I swear...you are very correct! A man who is rich has this kind of affluence and charisma which is a force of attraction that overwhelms ladies. It is a natural phenomena. In the animal kingdom, the Cock that has a more prominent and reddish cockscomb will attract most of the hen. It doesn't need to run for too long to catch a hen to mate. The hen go just bend down raise nyash for am! But Cocks that have a withered and pale colored cockscomb will find it difficult to mate. Same with Lions (their manes), Elephants (their tusks..."the whiter and longer, the more attractive" ), the Peacock (Their Feathers) etc. For humans, it used to be more of strength which creates the ability to gather food and hunt in the medieval times but in today's world, it's MONEY!

So that's why as a lady, if you decide you want a rich husband, be prepared to share him with other ladies. Note: Poor men cheat too but their willingness and success to cheat is usually limited because of their low cash power!

So you marry a poor man so he'll cheat less and then what? you pray for him to remain poor? In most cases the men that were poor become the worst dogs once they become rich and the woman that suffered with them is treated like trash
Can't blame women for no longer wanting to suffer with men after watching how their mothers and Grandmothers were treated by the very men they hustled with once they made it.

amiibaby:
A man that will cheat will cheat....... cheat is in d blood

Are you really serious about this. Hmmmmmm,
Cheat and cheaters are handiwork of environment, opportunities and disposition.

kenonze:
Yes.
In addition most men cheats because opportunity presents

wow. U too much. I checked ur Dp and u are really hot.
Please is there an "opportunity" for me to cheat with u?