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We live in a world where infidelity and cheating is the order of the day. No thanks to civilisation and other factors that have contributed to this. While some people consider it as utterly distasteful and a breach of trust, some consider it as a norm we have to live with in this modern world. Kindly let's hear ur view as to if you can forgive a cheating partner or if you've forgiven one b4.

As for me. I can't forgive a cheating partner. I can only pretend to have forgiven her to have my pound of flesh back.

Never ever will i especially wen i never cheated

God purnish devil

I can depending on the person in question's reaction

Most guys would say why would they forgive their cheating partner, meanwhile, they cheat on their wives or girlfriends and yet they forgive them..

My dear beloved guys, forgive and forget.. You should know how many times we don sin, but God dey forgive us. That doesn't mean, she should keep cheating because you forgave her.. Must we sin, for Grace to Abound?

A wise man once told me, 'you should never give your partner the opportunity to cheat on you twice'.

I will forgive, on the ground that she has genuinely repented.

It's quite complicated as a lot of extenuating circumstances may bear on the whole issue. A partner doesn't just up and cheat if it's not in their nature to do so. I'd suggest a thorough investigation of the circumstances that birthed the cheating thingy.

Sometimes people cheat to draw attention to an issue that they have otherwise tried to address to no avail. Others do it to try to tell you something, while others are just plain bored of the relationship and want out and seeing you're playing Stevie Wonder and acting like you're not getting the message, a romp in the hay with the guy/girl next door may just give you back your sight like Bartimaeus.

Others cheat just because they can. They are the no good self-conceited and selfish partners who do it because they can get away with it. They are plain promiscuous. To these, do let them go!

The unfortunate of these lots are those that cheat due to serious pressure from the an admirer of the opposite sex. It takes God's grace and a mammoth sense of self-control and enviable discipline to resist certain kind of sexual temptation. And even while succumbing you feel the guilt and see your partner in your minds eye before ecstasy deletes their picture from your mind a picture that becomes more lifesize as soon as the act is done.

Two things happen here subsequent to the act of sexual betrayal you just enacted; you promise to NEVER repeat the experience while debating with whether to confess or not OR you give in and let go thus having a secret lover(s). To these, the matter may be discussed in a bid to find out what informed the temptation in the first place and how a re-occurrence can be prevented.

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We live in a world where infidelity and cheating is the order of the day. No thanks to civilisation and other factors that have contributed to this. While some people consider it as utterly distasteful and a breach of trust, some consider it as a norm we have to live with in this modern world. Kindly let's hear ur view as to if you can forgive a cheating partner or if you've forgiven one b4.

....if she's lightskin...forgive!

...if she's dakskin like Refiner or Onstelly from nairaland......send her packin!!