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Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by iykekelvins(m): 1:45pm On Apr 10, 2016
[color=#099999]No feeling exactly
I would so cherish the girl though[/color]
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by chigoizie7(m): 1:46pm On Apr 10, 2016
halfricanadian:
Thank u for ur time and sharing your story

It really inspired me tank u

God bless you
Dankie,


But ur attitude is really something else.

Haba, loosen up already,


See, let me tell u what u don't know,


With your behaviour, u re just trying so hard to black out some scenes in your life and even don't want to remember it ever again, but indirectly, u re vulnerable to guys like me.


I have seen that u lacked LOVE, perhaps, u have lost hope in it, not that u still don't believe in it, but that it wasn't meant for u.


My type of guy will just want to prove u otherwise, he will want u to still see reasons to love again, but how does he do that? Practically, he will lead u by example, and no matter what u do to push him out, he will not because he is trying to prove a point, and that point must be proven, else his reason for coming into your life would be defeated.

Gradually, u will start seeing him differently from other guys, gradually u will start falling back in love, and eventually, u will.



But, what happens next? I will dump u again, why? Because I have proved my point, and it goes on and on and on.



My advice is, be strong, don't make people see how vulnerable u re, they might just take advantage of it.
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by halfricanadian(f): 3:13pm On Apr 10, 2016
chigoizie7:
Dankie,


But ur attitude is really something else.

Haba, loosen up already,


See, let me tell u what u don't know,


With your behaviour, u re just trying so hard to black out some scenes in your life and even don't want to remember it ever again, but indirectly, u re vulnerable to guys like me.


I have seen that u lacked LOVE, perhaps, u have lost hope in it, not that u still don't believe in it, but that it wasn't meant for u.


My type of guy will just want to prove u otherwise, he will want u to still see reasons to love again, but how does he do that? Practically, he will lead u by example, and no matter what u do to push him out, he will not because he is trying to prove a point, and that point must be proven, else his reason for coming into your life would be defeated.

Gradually, u will start seeing him differently from other guys, gradually u will start falling back in love, and eventually, u will.



But, what happens next? I will dump u again, why? Because I have proved my point, and it goes on and on and on.



My advice is, be strong, don't make people see how vulnerable u re, they might just take advantage of it.
thats where u missed i can never by Gods grace never be vulnerable never!!!!!

I dont make my mistakes twice
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by chigoizie7(m): 3:18pm On Apr 10, 2016
halfricanadian:
thats where u missed i can never by Gods grace never be vulnerable never!!!!!

I dont make my mistakes twice
We are human.


U never fell in love the 1st time consciously.
It was just a stroke of chance. And it will still happen again.

Ever find yourself being helpless in a situation u can't help?
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by halfricanadian(f): 3:22pm On Apr 10, 2016
chigoizie7:
We are human.


U never fell in love the 1st time consciously.
It was just a stroke of chance. And it will still happen again.

Ever find yourself being helpless in a situation u can't help?
Whoever has God is not helpless

I am not helpless and never will b in any helpless situationI have God jesus christ and holy spirit

Wat helpless situation is greater than d holy trinity? cheesy

I dont make mistakes twice
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by chigoizie7(m): 3:38pm On Apr 10, 2016
halfricanadian:
Whoever has God is not helpless

I am not helpless and never will b in any helpless situationI have God jesus christ and holy spirit

Wat helpless situation is greater than d holy trinity? cheesy

I dont make mistakes twice
Let's just assume, I flow with u, best of luck.






























I still beg to differ.


Ever heard of, we found love in helpless places?
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by halfricanadian(f): 3:39pm On Apr 10, 2016
chigoizie7:
Let's just assume, I flow with u, best of luck.






























I still beg to differ.
grin differ na i am not goin to differ

I av spoken
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by halfricanadian(f): 3:41pm On Apr 10, 2016
chigoizie7:
Let's just assume, I flow with u, best of luck.






























I still beg to differ.
grin differ na i am not goin to differ

I av spoken.
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by chigoizie7(m): 3:44pm On Apr 10, 2016
halfricanadian:
grin differ na i am not goin to differ

I av spoken.
U must differ, I am inviting 72 mountain on fire prophets, for 40days fasting and prayer, u must differ, by fire by force
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by halfricanadian(f): 3:48pm On Apr 10, 2016
chigoizie7:
U must differ, I am inviting 72 mountain on fire prophets, for 40days fasting and prayer, u must differ, by fire by force
Ok na im ready too

I have God i fear no evil

Remember joseph,daniel and d 3 men thrown into the Burning sulphur?

Who God keep 1million pastors cant touch

they can pray but its left to God to answer na cheesy

Lets watch
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by chigoizie7(m): 3:55pm On Apr 10, 2016
halfricanadian:
Ok na im ready too

I have God i fear no evil

Remember joseph,daniel and d 3 men thrown into the Burning sulphur?

Who God keep 1million pastors cant touch

they can pray but its left to God to answer na cheesy

Lets watch
Oga eme gi voom na anya.
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by halfricanadian(f): 4:00pm On Apr 10, 2016
chigoizie7:
Oga eme gi voom na anya.
Olorun ga ju gbogbo yin lo
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by Affable0709(m): 4:02pm On Apr 10, 2016
The feeling is awesome especially when she is cool... But it often doesn't end well.. I know it, ive seen it.
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by chigoizie7(m): 4:13pm On Apr 10, 2016
halfricanadian:
Olorun ga ju gbogbo yin lo
So, u wan pay me back in my coin abi?
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by fzybah(m): 4:19pm On Apr 10, 2016
Sincerely, I've experienced this few times bt I really do respect a lady dt takes away her fear and approaches d guy she wants .... If any lady walks up to me, if she's sincere with her feelings and she's really d type dt I'd love to be with, we're gud to go and if she's nt, I will humbly tell her NO and make her a best of friends ..... I would never take advantage neither take her for granted ....
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by halfricanadian(f): 4:23pm On Apr 10, 2016
chigoizie7:
So, u wan pay me back in my coin abi?
cheesy will return the favour
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by djgrafiti(m): 4:28pm On Apr 10, 2016
phensbassey:
I've observe that majority of guys take ladies who ask them out for granted
But for a good looking girl to ask a guy out is heaven sent..and its also rare for girls to open up, for fear of been seen as cheap, desperate..
my question is for the guys who av experienced this, how do you view the relationship?
It doesn't really matter who asked who out,my gal did and i am very happy to have a wonderful lady like her....back to the topic...i will be happy,if i am single and available i will give her a chance but if i am not i will make her understand in a very humble manner.
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by frostland(m): 7:22pm On Apr 10, 2016
as if the ops is referring to me because like 5 girls have ask me out and I can't say I love dem becus I feel like I should be the 1 asking them out nt dem asking me out
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by phensbassey(op): 7:47pm On Apr 10, 2016
frostland:
as if the ops is referring to me because like 5 girls have ask me out and I can't say I love dem becus I feel like I should be the 1 asking them out nt dem asking me out
hmmmmm five..derisss God o
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by frostland(m): 9:13pm On Apr 10, 2016
phensbassey:
hmmmmm five..derisss God o
yes BT if I count from sch Tim to nw e fit reach 8 BT Na only 3 I don slaughter,as I gud boy me no won slaughter again
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Apr 10, 2016
I hve been in dat situatn b4, nd i dated girls like dat, i neva saw any of cheap, i respct nd luv dem. I feel like normal as in providence brought us 2geda.
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by STILESGANG: 11:24pm On Apr 10, 2016
dulux07:
Its no big deal, if she's my type, i accept and if she's not, i refuse politely. I believe a girl asking a guy out does not make her cheap, its how quick she opens her legs that makes a cheap.
So you would be happy if a runs girl denied you of sex for six months at least that would make her a woman of dignity in your eyes.
Re: Guys How Do You Feel, When A Lady Ask You Out? by Lagban(m): 11:25pm On Apr 10, 2016
Cutehector:
If she is fat, I will run away from her cool
same here...I am allergic to fat ladies.
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