indie22:




I don't understand.....why call her dumbo?


You're pointing fingers at someone else, very quick to call names and abuse..... shows you're devoid of any sense of good home training yourself.

You are replying to something i wrote 2weeks ago Dumbo.

Elegantdiva:
Pls before you guys eat me raw, get my plight first. I av a mind of my own and I av been taking care of my needs even before I met him. My issue here is,why he does not like spending on me not like weekly or monthly thing. @lst,we av xams,val,birthday .is it bad for your man to get gift forhis woman? ..don't forget when we go outing,I do pay up our bill sometimes ,i equally mark his birthday . And for the record, he is not cheating on me. I can vow for that. All I want is to see a day I will look back and say 'ha!this thing I av was bought by my man'

Elegantdiva:
Pls before you guys eat me raw, get my plight first. I av a mind of my own and I av been taking care of my needs even before I met him. My issue here is,why he does not like spending on me not like weekly or monthly thing. @lst,we av xams,val,birthday .is it bad for your man to get gift forhis woman? ..don't forget when we go outing,I do pay up our bill sometimes ,i equally mark his birthday . And for the record, he is not cheating on me. I can vow for that. All I want is to see a day I will look back and say 'ha!this thing I av was bought by my man'

Op, you are on your own on this relationship.. How did u guyz even get to the stage of engagement
During marriage be ready to handle bills on your own. I have married friends who do not work but learning a skill cause they are tired staying idle at home.. But guess what? Their husbands take very good care of them financially and the husbands are doing with pride and joy.. Their children robust and happy all the time..
These are women without jobs oo...
So their husbands should throw them away because the wives are not working
Due to what some people are saying u shouldnt expect him to care for u financially..
Well it depends on u,if u can cope with his stingy or broke nature for life when u guyz get married.
Its your choice dearie.
Just take a look around your environment with married women with stingy husbands.. They look worn out , hungry and weak... While the married women with generous husbands look fresh and fit... U go even pray to marry quickly... It all depends on how u want your future to be .


You wear the shoes , you know where it pinches..
Think.

This man can not be a good husband, quote me. Run for your dear life except you want to continue like dis in marriage. Every responsible man strive to meet d needs his wife and children. A word is enough for d wise. Most Nairalanders are wicked.

luciouscookie:
Nairalanders are wicked!!! @op don't mind them forming what they are not. Who doesn't like being spent on by her man. Tomorrow now if you marry this kind of guy and complain about him not taking care of you and the kids, they will be the first to ask if you didn't notice all that during courtship. In relationships there are little things that matters, it mustn't be expensive gifts and all that but most times it's good to show your partner you care. Don't nag him about it because it might just be his nature, teach him how to by buying him gifts once in a while.

muah!It beats me why some people make comments contrary to what they actually do in real life.Many of d female nairalanders that commented above are probably one of those that cant walk into a fast-food to buy food of 1k for themselves ,except their bf does that for them,yet they would be on nairaland forming bosslady!There is no award for most liked female,its a free forum,abeg speak your true mind!Who una wan impress here?Every woman should strive to make her own money,but a man who claims to love a woman provides for her,protects her, and professes his love for her by his attitude,care and commitment. Kim kardashian is not hungry by all standards,yet kanye still spoils her silly with exotic gifts.That doesn't mean she cant get them for herself,but it's nice seeing that ur man occasionally gets u nice gifts and vice versa.Issues like this are what has resulted in the current situation where we find hardworking women being “husbands” to lazy men,who dont see anything wrong in letting a woman pick up their bills.Nikenry and amelian,God bless u both for saying it as it is.. Make some dey there dey talk wetin dem no go fit advice their younger sister to do.

I'll never understand how some women reason.

You're in a relationship. Not yet married. You've been smart enough to ask while dating, your man's attitude towards money. He's been forthright in his response to you. You obviously don't like it, but at least you know where you stand now.

Why not leave the relationship now while you can? And find someone else who's on the same frequency as you regarding money matters?

He isn't going to change overnight - so you better get that bit straight. If, you do decide that you can live with attitude towards money, then good luck.

But pls don't come back here under a different moniker, x years later with y number of kids to berate your "stingy" husband.

ibotjaycob:


You are replying to something i wrote 2weeks ago Dumbo.

You're obviously quite retarded...

You also sound frustrated like you need a job, find something to do before unemployment drives you round the bend.

indie22:


You're obviously quite retarded...

You also sound frustrated like you need a job, find something to do before unemployment drives you round the bend.

Loool, i will employ you. Dumbo you can tell how i sound by reading what i wrote? Get that ear infection checked out. for real mail me if you need a job

indie22:


You're obviously quite retarded...

You also sound frustrated like you need a job, find something to do before unemployment drives you round the bend.

And next time you feel the need to insult me, you need to do better than this primary school insult you managed to come up with.

ibotjaycob:


And next time you feel the need to insult me, you need to do better than this primary school insult you managed to come up with.

Lol...You're such a dumbass.

You think anyone needs to go consult a dictionary to reply you?

From your posts, anyone can easily tell you are devoid of any form of intellect or brain power, you honestly sound unemployed, hungry and angry....Your broke ass self cannot even employ a church mouse.

Nobody needs a Psychology major to evaluate you or a dictionary to respond to your retarded post.

Hahahaaa!! Primary school simple grammar is all you can comprehend considering you sound like you've smoked up most of your brain cells on cheap weed.

indie22:


Lol...You're such a dumbass.

You think anyone needs to go consult a dictionary to reply you?

From your posts, anyone can easily tell you are devoid of any form of intellect or brain power, you honestly sound unemployed, hungry and angry....Your broke ass self cannot even employ a church mouse.

Nobody needs a Psychology major to evaluate you or a dictionary to respond to your retarded post.

Hahahaaa!! Primary school simple grammar is all you can comprehend considering you sound like you've smoked up most of your brain cells on cheap weed.

You need to be educated to trade bants with me, get in line...Your generic rebuttal is super weak. This is a pseudo intellectual and effeminate attempt at trying to sound smart. you pale inbred primitive m0ron. Let's play your childish game...since I see you're a fvcking id!ot!. Put a tombstone on all your hopes and aspirations, you are below me. You are just the maggots at the bottom of the garbage can, you should be in a farm rolling in the mud with your kind.

ibotjaycob:


You need to be educated to trade bants with me, get in line...Your generic rebuttal is super weak. This is a pseudo intellectual and effeminate attempt at trying to sound smart. you pale inbred primitive m0ron. Let's play your childish game...since I see you're a fvcking id!ot!. Put a tombstone on all your hopes and aspirations, you are below me. You are just the maggots at the bottom of the garbage can, you should be in a farm rolling in the mud with your kind.

Hahahaaaaaa!!!

You're so pained, it shows in your posts!!!!

Hahahaaaaa. Loser. Bye Jackie.

indie22:


Hahahaaaaaa!!!

You're so pained, it shows in your posts!!!!

Hahahaaaaa. Loser. Bye Jackie.

I was expecting more, really? Pained? how old are you? you see, you just proved me right about your primary school mentality. 'Pained'

This is all fun for me. Your 5th grade insults! classic. I didn't even know you were a female, my bad. But then , are you the one on your profile pic? or are we catfishing on NL now huh? looool
See this clown

ibotjaycob:


I was expecting more, really? Pained? how old are you? you see, you just proved me right about your primary school mentality. 'Pained'

This is all fun for me. Your 5th grade insults! classic. I didn't even know you were a female, my bad. But then , are you the one on your profile pic? or are we catfishing on NL now huh? looool
See this clown

Jut so you know, the only reason I reply is to rile you up and watch you be a fool all over Nairaland, with your meaningless and childish retorts.

If you're not pained, stop replying.....I already said "Bye".

However you can keep giving me more comic relief this morning, it's always fun to watch people spazz out over a non-issue, a clear sign of frustration and deep personal problems.

Toodles!

indie22:



Jut so you know, the only reason I reply is to rile you up and watch you be a fool all over Nairaland, with your meaningless and childish retorts.

If you're not pained, stop replying.....I already said "Bye".

However you can keep giving me more comic relief this morning, it's always fun to watch people spazz out over a non-issue, a clear sign of frustration and deep personal problems.

Toodles!

I already told you, this is nothing but bants for me sweetheart, don't get your blood pressure up over nothing. I don't want to read online that someone swallowed bleach because of an online insult. However, you have not said anything about you stealing someone’s pic and using it as yours. Why sweetheart ? You not proud of what you look like? CatfishIndie

ibotjaycob:



I already told you, this is nothing but bants for me sweetheart, don't get your blood pressure up over nothing. I don't want to read online that someone swallowed bleach because of an online insult. However, you have not said anything about you stealing someone’s pic and using it as yours. Why sweetheart ? You not proud of what you look like? CatfishIndie

You no dey tire? Hian.

Biko....goodbye, no need to mention me again. This has become boring. Thanks.

indie22:


You no dey tire? Hian.

Biko....goodbye, no need to mention me again. This has become boring. Thanks.

Bye CatfishIndie ☺

Typical Nigerian woman mentality, we feel like if our man is not spoiling us with gifts and money then he's not doing his job well. He just stated that he's in a tight spot financially. It's now up to you to handle the situation and your emotions properly. There will come a time in the future when he will have in abundance and he will be giving you. For now you have no choice than to compromise if you love him. If you r thinking of calling off your engagement just because of this small issue, then you were never ready for the marriage and his love in the first place

Please read her story very well.. Since they were till they got engaged he has not given her one shishi...
No treats. No bday gifts.. Haba! How stingy and tightfisted can a man be?
Op, the choice is yours ooo

Amelian:
Please read her story very well.. Since they were till they got engaged he has not given her one shishi...
No treats. No bday gifts.. Haba! How stingy and tightfisted can a man be?
Op, the choice is yours ooo

She said he gave her a tablet and something. Ask her what has she ever given him