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Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 8:58pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
indie22: You are replying to something i wrote 2weeks ago Dumbo. |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 9:13pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
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Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 9:16pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
Elegantdiva: Op, you are on your own on this relationship.. How did u guyz even get to the stage of engagement During marriage be ready to handle bills on your own. I have married friends who do not work but learning a skill cause they are tired staying idle at home.. But guess what? Their husbands take very good care of them financially and the husbands are doing with pride and joy.. Their children robust and happy all the time.. These are women without jobs oo... So their husbands should throw them away because the wives are not working Due to what some people are saying u shouldnt expect him to care for u financially.. Well it depends on u,if u can cope with his stingy or broke nature for life when u guyz get married. Its your choice dearie. Just take a look around your environment with married women with stingy husbands.. They look worn out , hungry and weak... While the married women with generous husbands look fresh and fit... U go even pray to marry quickly... It all depends on how u want your future to be . You wear the shoes , you know where it pinches.. Think. |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by nikenry(f): 4:55pm On Apr 16, 2016 |
This man can not be a good husband, quote me. Run for your dear life except you want to continue like dis in marriage. Every responsible man strive to meet d needs his wife and children. A word is enough for d wise. Most Nairalanders are wicked. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by queenfav(f): 9:24am On Apr 17, 2016 |
luciouscookie:muah!It beats me why some people make comments contrary to what they actually do in real life.Many of d female nairalanders that commented above are probably one of those that cant walk into a fast-food to buy food of 1k for themselves ,except their bf does that for them,yet they would be on nairaland forming bosslady!There is no award for most liked female,its a free forum,abeg speak your true mind!Who una wan impress here?Every woman should strive to make her own money,but a man who claims to love a woman provides for her,protects her, and professes his love for her by his attitude,care and commitment. Kim kardashian is not hungry by all standards,yet kanye still spoils her silly with exotic gifts.That doesn't mean she cant get them for herself,but it's nice seeing that ur man occasionally gets u nice gifts and vice versa.Issues like this are what has resulted in the current situation where we find hardworking women being “husbands” to lazy men,who dont see anything wrong in letting a woman pick up their bills.Nikenry and amelian,God bless u both for saying it as it is.. Make some dey there dey talk wetin dem no go fit advice their younger sister to do. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by EfemenaXY: 9:43am On Apr 17, 2016 |
I'll never understand how some women reason. You're in a relationship. Not yet married. You've been smart enough to ask while dating, your man's attitude towards money. He's been forthright in his response to you. You obviously don't like it, but at least you know where you stand now. Why not leave the relationship now while you can? And find someone else who's on the same frequency as you regarding money matters? He isn't going to change overnight - so you better get that bit straight. If, you do decide that you can live with attitude towards money, then good luck. But pls don't come back here under a different moniker, x years later with y number of kids to berate your "stingy" husband. |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by indie22(f): 9:17am On Apr 18, 2016 |
ibotjaycob: You're obviously quite retarded... You also sound frustrated like you need a job, find something to do before unemployment drives you round the bend. |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 9:39am On Apr 18, 2016 |
indie22: Loool, i will employ you. Dumbo you can tell how i sound by reading what i wrote? Get that ear infection checked out. for real mail me if you need a job |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 9:43am On Apr 18, 2016 |
indie22: And next time you feel the need to insult me, you need to do better than this primary school insult you managed to come up with. |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by indie22(f): 9:58am On Apr 18, 2016 |
ibotjaycob: Lol...You're such a dumbass. You think anyone needs to go consult a dictionary to reply you? From your posts, anyone can easily tell you are devoid of any form of intellect or brain power, you honestly sound unemployed, hungry and angry....Your broke ass self cannot even employ a church mouse. Nobody needs a Psychology major to evaluate you or a dictionary to respond to your retarded post. Hahahaaa!! Primary school simple grammar is all you can comprehend considering you sound like you've smoked up most of your brain cells on cheap weed. |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 11:03am On Apr 18, 2016 |
indie22: You need to be educated to trade bants with me, get in line...Your generic rebuttal is super weak. This is a pseudo intellectual and effeminate attempt at trying to sound smart. you pale inbred primitive m0ron. Let's play your childish game...since I see you're a fvcking id!ot!. Put a tombstone on all your hopes and aspirations, you are below me. You are just the maggots at the bottom of the garbage can, you should be in a farm rolling in the mud with your kind. |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by indie22(f): 11:22am On Apr 18, 2016 |
ibotjaycob: Hahahaaaaaa!!! You're so pained, it shows in your posts!!!! Hahahaaaaa. Loser. Bye Jackie. |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 11:30am On Apr 18, 2016 |
indie22: I was expecting more, really? Pained? how old are you? you see, you just proved me right about your primary school mentality. 'Pained' This is all fun for me. Your 5th grade insults! classic. I didn't even know you were a female, my bad. But then , are you the one on your profile pic? or are we catfishing on NL now huh? looool See this clown |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by indie22(f): 11:39am On Apr 18, 2016 |
ibotjaycob: Jut so you know, the only reason I reply is to rile you up and watch you be a fool all over Nairaland, with your meaningless and childish retorts. If you're not pained, stop replying.....I already said "Bye". However you can keep giving me more comic relief this morning, it's always fun to watch people spazz out over a non-issue, a clear sign of frustration and deep personal problems. Toodles! |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 12:31pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
indie22: I already told you, this is nothing but bants for me sweetheart, don't get your blood pressure up over nothing. I don't want to read online that someone swallowed bleach because of an online insult. However, you have not said anything about you stealing someone’s pic and using it as yours. Why sweetheart ? You not proud of what you look like? CatfishIndie |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by indie22(f): 12:34pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
ibotjaycob: You no dey tire? Hian. Biko....goodbye, no need to mention me again. This has become boring. Thanks. |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 12:36pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
indie22: Bye CatfishIndie ☺ |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by diva90: 12:58pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Typical Nigerian woman mentality, we feel like if our man is not spoiling us with gifts and money then he's not doing his job well. He just stated that he's in a tight spot financially. It's now up to you to handle the situation and your emotions properly. There will come a time in the future when he will have in abundance and he will be giving you. For now you have no choice than to compromise if you love him. If you r thinking of calling off your engagement just because of this small issue, then you were never ready for the marriage and his love in the first place |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by Nobody: 1:16pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Please read her story very well.. Since they were till they got engaged he has not given her one shishi... No treats. No bday gifts.. Haba! How stingy and tightfisted can a man be? Op, the choice is yours ooo |
Re: Pls Come In And Judge This Case BTW I And My Man by raumdeuter: 1:49pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
Amelian: She said he gave her a tablet and something. Ask her what has she ever given him |
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