BoboYekini:
The saddest part is that this OP is not a small girl o.

Dyt:

E ku ojo meta

How old is the relationship?
What's the cost of the Tab he gave to you?

Elegantdiva:
Pls before you guys eat me raw, get my plight first. I av a mind of my own and I av been taking care of my needs even before I met him. My issue here is,why he does not like spending on me not like weekly or monthly thing. @lst,we av xams,val,birthday .is it bad for your man to get gift forhis woman? ..don't forget when we go outing,I do pay up our bill sometimes ,i equally mark his birthday . And for the record, he is not cheating on me. I can vow for that. All I want is to see a day I will look back and say 'ha!this thing I av was bought by my man'

@OP:

It seems your love language is receiving gifts.

I know someone like that who always wants to receive gifts no matter and little and honestly, she is also very generous. She believes giving gifts makes the world go round.

Since you like receiving gifts, learn how to give him gifts too and tell him you like to receive from him no matter how little as it makes you feel loved. Also learn to understand as he is currently not with you and you can't tell the magnitude of the project he has on hand.

His love language might not be giving so he needs to learn and you need to be patient. Also learn his love language and imbibe it if it is not within you.

I wish you all the best in your relationship.

Dyt:


Ode
Oponu
Airada
Mimics her
Yen yen yen yen yen
Cele ntan ee
Yimu

ahann dyt kilode

Ewolepe

BoboYekini:
E ku ojo meta

Awanu
Awon omoge nko

SAMBARRY:
ahann dyt kilode

Ewolepe

Don't mind me jor

bukatyne:


@OP:

It seems your love language is receiving gifts.

I know someone like that who always wants to receive gifts no matter and little and honestly, she is also very generous. She believes giving gifts makes the world go round.

Since you like receiving gifts, learn how to give him gifts too and tell him you like to receive from him no matter how little as it makes you feel loved. Also learn to understand as he is currently not with you and you can't tell the magnitude of the project he has on hand.

His love language might not be giving so he needs to learn and you need to be patient. Also learn his love language and imbibe it if it is not within you.

I wish you all the best in your relationship.

most mature post on nl.THE rest just kept blabbing. Bukky bukky

Dyt:


Awanu
Awon omoge nko

Won frosh

SAMBARRY:
most mature post on nl.THE rest just kept blabbing. Bukky bukky

Lol! @ most matured post on NL

We all can't see same things same way all the time.

How are you and family?

bukatyne:


@OP:

It seems your love language is receiving gifts.

I know someone like that who always wants to receive gifts no matter and little and honestly, she is also very generous. She believes giving gifts makes the world go round.

Since you like receiving gifts, learn how to give him gifts too and tell him you like to receive from him no matter how little as it makes you feel loved. Also learn to understand as he is currently not with you and you can't tell the magnitude of the project he has on hand.

His love language might not be giving so he needs to learn and you need to be patient. Also learn his love language and imbibe it if it is not within you.

I wish you all the best in your relationship.

'I' am her boyfriend, and my love language is sex. Does the absence of sex calls for complaints and bitterness?


Do people even believe in this love language thing? Who hates gifts anyways?

Is it safe to say Nigerian girls love money? When men say that, why can't women defend themselves, by saying "money" is their love language?
Why do women get angry when we call them gold-diggers, since gold is the love language?

Acidosis:


'I' am her boyfriend, and my love language is sex. Does the absence of sex calls for complaints and bitterness?


Do people even believe in this love language thing? Who hates gifts anyways?

In some cases, it does especially in marriage.

Love language works.... @ least for us. Maybe a little more complex.

@ who hates gifts... I don't particularly like them. In fact, I can do very well without them.

RE Modification...

Gift /= Money.

I know a husband who loves gifts so much that the first time his wife sent cake to his office, he called all his friends to tell them about it. Does the said husband love money?

People who lovers of gifts do not mind a lip gloss of N300 or a coke of N100. All they want is a gift and is different from gold digging.

bukatyne:


Lol! @ most matured post on NL

We all can't see same things same way all the time.

How are you and family?

we ARE good o.
hope your Easter was great

Enjoy sweet

bukatyne:


In some cases, it does especially in marriage.

Love language works.... @ least for us. Maybe a little more complex.

@ who hates gifts... I don't particularly like them. In fact, I can do very well without them.

You don't particularly like them? What is your love language?

yvelchstores:
One thing I will be sure to do is to train my daughter not to think/ reason the way most girls reason. It's sickening!

As in ehn... It's so annoying!

SAMBARRY:
we ARE good o.
hope your Easter was great

Enjoy sweet

It was great stress o my sister.

Enjoy yourself too.

Acidosis:


You don't particularly like them? What is your love language?

Acts of service majorly.

bukatyne:

Acts of service majorly.

alright, noted

Acidosis:


alright, noted

Noted me?

For what kwanu?

bukatyne:

Noted me?
For what kwanu?

..preparing my toasting lines

Elegantdiva:
Pls before you guys eat me raw, get my plight first. I av a mind of my own and I av been taking care of my needs even before I met him. My issue here is,why he does not like spending on me not like weekly or monthly thing. @lst,we av xams,val,birthday .is it bad for your man to get gift forhis woman? ..don't forget when we go outing,I do pay up our bill sometimes ,i equally mark his birthday . And for the record, he is not cheating on me. I can vow for that. All I want is to see a day I will look back and say 'ha!this thing I av was bought by my man'

He told u he has projects he is working on, y is dt too difficult to understand besides u r nt his wife yet. For d record wat gifts ve u bought for him too, after all is a give n take thing. Dnt u think he too might like to wake up one day n say these gifts were got by u. U r jst too selfish

Acidosis:

..preparing my toasting lines

Lols!

You are 10yrs too late

bukatyne:

Lols!
You are 10yrs too late

ahahahaha taken 10 years ago?

Acidosis:

ahahahaha taken 10 years ago?

Yeah.

bukatyne:

Yeah.

Chai! *covers face*

Dyt:


Ode
Oponu
Airada
Mimics her
Yen yen yen yen yen
Cele ntan ee
Yimu

Don't mind her jare, she's a learner

emilyone:


Don't mind her jare, she's a learner

Kowa bere lowo was
She should ask us
These men will make it look like they don't even eye another
Catch them and just watch drama of denial

Very funny. All the same thanks....I give gifts not to him alone...am a very generous person. I can empty my acc just to make the next person happy . Am not asking him to pay my bills but give not mata how small. In 6yrs of our relationship, I only count my tablet and lappy which are not enough. I love gift. I love exchange of gifts

Elegantdiva:
Very funny. All the same thanks....I give gifts not to him alone...am a very generous person. I can empty my acc just to make the next person happy . Am not asking him to pay my bills but give not mata how small. In 6yrs of our relationship, I only count my tablet and lappy which are not enough. I love gift. I love exchange of gifts

Seriously, he might not be aware of your love for gifts, no matter how small. So, it's better you tell your man what you love; telling him wholeheartedly in an emotional way may just save/make your relationship better...

Elegantdiva:
Very funny. All the same thanks....I give gifts not to him alone...am a very generous person. I can empty my acc just to make the next person happy . Am not asking him to pay my bills but give not mata how small. In 6yrs of our relationship, I only count my tablet and lappy which are not enough. I love gift. I love exchange of gifts

Tablets and lappy are not enough

Please list here the things you have bought him without lying

Naija girls you would buy them lappy they would buy you handkerchief and singlet say dem don buy you gift.

Like say you be Atilogwu dancer

ibotjaycob:
Very Smart. The best thing to do in a relationship is to invite strangers to give their opinions. DUMBO

I don't understand.....why call her dumbo?


You're pointing fingers at someone else, very quick to call names and abuse..... shows you're devoid of any sense of good home training yourself.

It is when you are jobless and have no money that you will insult a woman for trying to ensure that her man is capable of taking care of his family when the time arises.

It's from dating that you will know men who will refuse to buy baby food or pay school fees.

When they cannot show their giving side when dating, you will marry them then see the true meaning of stinginess and selfishness.