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ponkitibobo:
Thanks. Just my thought too. Or how else, ur ex of 20yrs get connected back childless. And the only encounter wit her produced a baby. This is mystery common sense cannot explain. Some things are bound to be.
May she is d most appropriate woman my friend suppose to marry. Who knows.
People should look beyond d surface. Things happen for reason beyond what we can see .

Your last statement was way off. If you are sure it didn't happen to you, don't destroy their home more with such reasoning.

Cos he cheated with an ex who gave birth for him, then maybe she was the one he should have married. You are just realizing that after 20 years abi. Let him leave his so he can marry the person he was supposed to marry.

HaneefahRN:
Your last statement was way off. If you are sure it didn't happen to you, don't destroy their home more with such reasoning.

Cos he cheated with an ex who gave birth for him, then maybe she was the one he should have married. You are just realizing that after 20 years abi. Let him leave his so he can marry the person he was supposed to marry.

No no no.. Don't misunderstand me. I can't complicate issues for my friend. Am only thinking aloud. At least my friend has a stable marriage.

ponkitibobo:
Am not a story teller.....use ur brain

My brother you do not have to be a story teller to pass information... If you had listened to your own advice and used your brain in passing this information in the first place then we probably won't be having this discussion...

haul:
Sir, nothing is new under the sun, don't go choke yourself up like you've committed a grave offence.

Now, you bought condom and you forgot to use it?

You departed for over 20yrs just to find out she's childless?

You both got in heat of the moment and the result was a beautiful daughter?

The cynthia husband probably gave birth to kids outside without informing cynthia.

Nature just have a way of compensating cynthia also by giving her a child, you're just a the person used to drive all these nature bound things to happen.

I study coincidence a lot, and I know nature bound one when I see them.

For all those condemning him, jesus is naturally bound to be betrayed by someone, jesus knew this, judas was just a victim of circumstance.

He who is without sin should cast first stone. Sir, go and make peace with your family, you've done no wrong. If your wife can't understand you, then I guess she can live, but if she knows you well, she can stay. "We live and you learn, either you freeze or you burn"---jadakiss.

Person wey go marry two wives nogo stop at one.

I can believe some men can reason like this! you mean what the man in question did wasn't wrong at all OMG you call after 20years of departing a coincidence if the wife doesn't understand she can leave? what ever happened to the trust and love they shared? does that mean the man has been using his wife to console himself till he meet with his ex? so he has wasted 20 years of her life using her as a second fiddle and now that his almighty EX as appeared she can then go to blazes you have gotta be kidding me with this post above.

would you have accepted such if it was your wife that got back to her ex after 20 years and bears a child for him right under your nose that's if you are married anyways.

once you are married, your ONE. you don't toss your partner emotion about like a tennis ball please. this is ridiculous..

taryour:
I can believe some men can reason like this! you mean what the man in question did wasn't wrong at all OMG you call after 20years of departing a coincidence if the wife doesn't understand she can leave? what ever happened to the trust and love they shared? does that mean the man has been using his wife to console himself till he meet with his ex? so he has wasted 20 years of her life using her as a second fiddle and now that his almighty EX as appeared she can then go to blazes you have gotta be kidding me with this post above.

would you have accepted such if it was your wife that got back to her ex after 20 years and bears a child for him right under your nose that's if you are married anyways.

once you are married, your ONE. you don't toss your partner emotion about like a tennis ball please. this is ridiculous..

I don't trust your acumen cause they are riddled with emotions.

I don't appreciate people who pick faults without solution, that was my opinion and I still have right to it. I'm a realist, you're talking from emotions.

ponkitibobo:
Thanks. Just my thought too. Or how else, ur ex of 20yrs get connected back childless. And the only encounter wit her produced a baby. This is mystery common sense cannot explain. Some things are bound to be.
May she is d most appropriate woman my friend suppose to marry. Who knows.
People should look beyond d surface. Things happen for reason beyond what we can see .

Of course Baby Mama Ex is the appropriate wife and woman for your friend, the other woman who has been married to him and has cared for him in the 20 years Ex was gone is useless. You guys should throw her out for Sweet Cynthia.

(Ladies, never delete your exes. So many husbands need to start learning to forgive and realise that they and their sacrifices meant nothing after 20 years )

Tough one because I don't see his wife forgiving such easily. Somehow she will come to know in the future , so it may be worthwhile confessing to her now before it blows up into an even bigger scandal

taryour:
I can believe some men can reason like this! you mean what the man in question did wasn't wrong at all OMG you call after 20years of departing a coincidence if the wife doesn't understand she can leave? what ever happened to the trust and love they shared? does that mean the man has been using his wife to console himself till he meet with his ex? so he has wasted 20 years of her life using her as a second fiddle and now that his almighty EX as appeared she can then go to blazes you have gotta be kidding me with this post above.

would you have accepted such if it was your wife that got back to her ex after 20 years and bears a child for him right under your nose that's if you are married anyways.

once you are married, your ONE. you don't toss your partner emotion about like a tennis ball please. this is ridiculous..

People can be so judgemental. If God judges us by our inadequacies, who can stand. It has happened and it has happened.
Shld he hang himself, park to live with Cynthia because his wife can not forgive.
Or keep it a secret for life.
Its advice that is needed and stop talking as if u are a saint and infallible...han