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The hatred on linda been single at 35 increases daily. i sense this is what she thinks

Chai

exactly... wat she must be finking

she won't marry herself...people should leave her alone....she's not the only celebrity that is single with that age....haba....free her joor....everytime linfa this linda that....haba

she won't marry herself...people should leave her alone....she's not the only celebrity that is single with that age....haba....free her joor....everytime linda this linda that....haba

I think it reveals a low mentality on the part of the bulk of Nigerians that they should be so obsessed with someone else's singleness. Is singleness a crime? NOTE: By minding her business without her even knowing u acknowledge she's greater than u. Enough of this crap.

There is no law that says everyone must get married...itz a choice...itz better to even stay single dan to end getting married because of ppl mouth and itz aint working becoz den ppl will still talk and u'll be in hell on earth...so ppl allow her itz her life her choice

OP let me guess, your mother never kissed you good night when you were a child, yes? Probably the cause of your attention seeking.

no be lie sha

charix:
OP let me guess, your mother never kissed you good night when you were a child, yes? Probably the cause of your attention seeking.

flexyfit:
she won't marry herself...people should leave her alone....she's not the only celebrity that is single with that age....haba....free her joor....everytime linfa this linda that....haba

Nobody is asking her to marry herself, the advice is that she should makes herself marryable.


Who wants a wife that is always fighting wizkid, emeka ike, tonto dike, don jazzy etc?

Staying single might be karma's menu for her for using her blog to destroy women and their marriages.

Reason is simply smelly Vjay-jay

BreketeMind:
I think it reveals a low mentality on the part of the bulk of Nigerians that they should be so obsessed with someone else's singleness. Is singleness a crime? NOTE: By minding her business without her even knowing u acknowledge she's greater than u. Enough of this crap.

Bro, but Linda has never minded her business. She makes a living out of exposing people's privacy. Example, femi kuti children

Maybe she doesn't want to get married.

Also people obsessed over Tonto and even Ucge Jombo and there were silenced in one day.....their wedding day.

aloeeverhealth:
Bro, but Linda has never minded her business. She makes a living out of exposing people's privacy. Example, femi kuti children

Thanx 4 educating me. Now i know why so many people hate her so much. well... it's well.

That's her #GidiBlues. Mrs. Laila Ikeji is happily married mother and banker and still blogging daily with millions of readers. Bella Naija is married and she is in fact richer than Linda Ikeji, but does not make noise about her riches. And Stella Dimoko 'Korkus is married with children.

Who told ya all fu..ckers that marriage is the only pathway to happiness? No wonder many are stuck in unhappy marriages today. Marrying for all the wrong reasons, like society pressure.

This generation is full of immature pricks indeed, Wizkid insult a lady such a word as "smelly well you know what......and ya all start a trend on that.

toothless lions with no opinions of their own.........so quick to jump and insult a lady just because a stoopid kid like wizkid says it. The real question here is not Linda Singleness, but rather your jobless and loneliness.

Tallesty1:
Nobody is asking her to marry herself, the advice is that she should makes herself marryable.


Who wants a wife that is always fighting wizkid, emeka ike, tonto dike, don jazzy etc?

Staying single might be karma's menu for her for using her blog to destroy women and their marriages.

This is the most senseless thing I have seen you post on nairaland. Chai
As far as I'm concerned, most Nigerian men want an independent woman like Linda who can hold her ground, the only problem is men like the OP and you are intimidated by women, who are richer than they are. Thus when you don't have any other thing to use in abusing them, you turn to their singleness.

Nigerians and marriage are like buhari and junketting.

UIA04:
This is the most senseless thing I have seen you post on nairaland. Chai

Actually you're the one making zero sense here.

UIA04:
As far as I'm concerned, most Nigerian men want an independent woman like Linda who can hold her ground,

Then why is Linda single:-/ if her type is the next best thing after sliced bread?

UIA04:
the only problem is men like the OP and you are intimidated by women, who are richer than they are.

This is one warped mentality of some Nigeria ladies that drives me nuts.


Nigeria men are not scared of successful women rather they are scared of control freaks.The type of woman that only feels good about herself if she makes you feel less than her.

These are the women that my brothers are scared of. It is called being careful and not insecurity.

Men are scared of women that have personality disorder.

Secondly, if a host of studies are to be believed, marrying these women(career women) is asking for trouble. If they quit their jobs and stay home with the kids, they will be unhappy ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2003). They will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Social Forces, 2006). You will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2001). You will be more likely to fall ill ( American Journal of Sociology). Even your house will be dirtier ( Institute for Social Research).

Have you seen that it just isn't a Nigeria thing?

The same studies have found that professional women are more likely to get divorced, more likely to cheat, less likely to have children, and, if they do have kids, they are more likely to be unhappy about it.

Men are not scared of women with wealth, they're simply not ready for their endless troubles.
Nobody will willingly pierce his body with many sorrows.

UIA04:
Thus when you don't have any other thing to use in abusing them, you turn to their singleness.

Let me tell you what is likely to happen when a guy asks for Linda's hand in marriage.

Each member of the family will buy one Laser-Sharp Binoculars that can pierce through his flesh and bones and zoom the guy's soul to search his spirit to know if he's after the her wealth.

Even when the Binoculars reads negative, they still won't believe it, they will become very envious and are likely to disrespect the guy.

The guy have alota work to do to prove his not after their sister's money before they can respect him.....

The mama will be like, "My daughter, that guy is after your money. He's not good for you, wait my dear, when a good guy comes I will tell you".

Who wants that?

Finally, these women, especially those working in an office or something of that nature do not know that there are things one needs to succeed in business and work.

These things are direct opposite of what we need to have successful marriage and most of these successful women do not know where to cut the line.

To succeed in business, you have to be stubborn, in control etc. Bring these things into your marriage and you are in trouble.

Some successful women would rather blow the house up and everything in it than compromise or take personal responsibility.

Who Wants This?

Women Naturally want to exert control over everything. They enjoy to make those around them feel inadequate, insecure, nervous, angry, anxious and physically sick.
Go to married men that have richer wives and ask them, they will tell you that the message their women pass in everything they do is I don’t trust you to be able to do it right;I don’t respect your judgment; I don’t think you are competent; I don’t value your insight. I can do it all alone.

Stay Alone Then.

Tallesty1:
Actually you're the one making zero sense here.
Then why is Linda single:-/ if her type is the next best thing after sliced bread?This is one warped mentality of some Nigeria ladies that drives me nuts.


Nigeria men are not scared of successful women rather they are scared of control freaks.The type of woman that only feels good about herself if she makes you feel less than her.

These are the women that my brothers are scared of. It is called being careful and not insecurity.

Men are scared of women that have personality disorder.

Secondly, if a host of studies are to be believed, marrying these women(career women) is asking for trouble. If they quit their jobs and stay home with the kids, they will be unhappy ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2003). They will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Social Forces, 2006). You will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2001). You will be more likely to fall ill ( American Journal of Sociology). Even your house will be dirtier ( Institute for Social Research).

Have you seen that it just isn't a Nigeria thing?

The same studies have found that professional women are more likely to get divorced, more likely to cheat, less likely to have children, and, if they do have kids, they are more likely to be unhappy about it.

Men are not scared of women with wealth, they're simply not ready for their endless troubles.
Nobody will willingly pierce his body with many sorrows.

Let me tell you what is likely to happen when a guy asks for Linda's hand in marriage.

Each member of the family will buy one Laser-Sharp Binoculars that can pierce through his flesh and bones and zoom the guy's soul to search his spirit to know if he's after the her wealth.

Even when the Binoculars reads negative, they still won't believe it, they will become very envious and are likely to disrespect the guy.

The guy have alota work to do to prove his not after their sister's money before they can respect him.....

The mama will be like, "My daughter, that guy is after your money. He's not good for you, wait my dear, when a good guy comes I will tell you".

Who wants that?

Finally, these women, especially those working in an office or something of that nature do not know that there are things one needs to succeed in business and work.

These things are direct opposite of what we need to have successful marriage and most of these successful women do not know where to cut the line.

To succeed in business, you have to be stubborn, in control etc. Bring these things into your marriage and you are in trouble.

Some successful women would rather blow the house up and everything in it than compromise or take personal responsibility.

Who Wants This?

Women Naturally want to exert control over everything. They enjoy to make those around them feel inadequate, insecure, nervous, angry, anxious and physically sick.
Go to married men that have richer wives and ask them, they will tell you that the message their women pass in everything they do is I don’t trust you to be able to do it right;I don’t respect your judgment; I don’t think you are competent; I don’t value your insight. I can do it all alone.

Stay Alone Then.

Wow











Such a long epistle on my short post glad you got my point.


Just read your epistle
If you like marry an unambitious lazy woman who is only interested in lying in bed and breeding kids. It's very wrong to put every woman who has a successful career in the same class of control freak wives . When we also have many men who were raised to feel they are the lord and masters and only the women should make sacrifices what do you get, broke home and a wornout overworked wife.

Let me tell you I doubt if Linda, is in a hurry to get married for her not to look well and end up with a lazy bum . Only a man who has something to hide or lacks confidence would be scared, of scrutiny.

UIA04:
Wow











Such a long epistle on my short post glad you got my point.


Just read your epistle
If you like marry an unambitious lazy woman who is only interested in lying in bed and breeding kids.

I can't remember saying that we have two types of women, the independent control freaks and lazy unambitious women.

How about going for the woman who knows the difference between success in work place and success in marriage and how to achieve both?

UIA04:
It's very wrong to put every woman who has a successful career in the same class of control freak wives.

I said majority not all.

Ask men that married these women an learn from their stories.

Money brings out the jezebell in most women.

UIA04:
When we also have many men who were raised to feel they are the lord and masters and only the women should make sacrifices what do you get, broke home and a wornout overworked wife.

Good for you people.

UIA04:
Let me tell you I doubt if Linda, is in a hurry to get married for her not to look well and end up with a lazy bum

It is impossible for a lady to turn 35yrs old and not meet at least one good man .

UIA04:
Only a man who has something to hide or lacks confidence would be scared, of scrutiny.

You gave your a shot on the leg here.

Scrutiny is good but when men scrutinize and make their choice, you call it insecurity.

Tallesty1:
I can't remember saying that we have two types of women, the independent control freaks and lazy unambitious women.

How about going for the woman who knows the difference between success in work place and success in marriage and how to achieve both? I said majority not all.

Ask men that married these women an learn from their stories.

Money brings out the jezebell in most women.

Good for you people.

It is impossible for a lady to turn 35yrs old and not meet at least one good man . You gave your a shot on the leg here.

Scrutiny is good but when men scrutinize and make their choice, you call it insecurity.

Men scrutinize, jeez the way most men at least on nairaland scrutinize is to scrutinize the ass and breast for endowment, and when they fall in the hands of gold diggers they cry foul.
The part about men refusing to make sacrifices was where I expected you to defend but you couldn't. I'm tired of seeing threads bashing single women successful and blaming them for all their woes.

UIA04:
Men scrutinize, jeez the way most men at least on nairaland scrutinize is to scrutinize the ass and breast for endowment, and when they fall in the hands of gold diggers they cry foul.

The part about men refusing to make sacrifices was where I expected you to defend but you couldn't.

I'm tired of seeing threads bashing single women successful and blaming them for all their woes.

You don't defend what doesn't exist.

Any woman who thinks or says that men don't make sacrifices has no truth in her.

Please it is not good to abuse a woman that way bro

TPAND:
Reason is simply smelly Vjay-jay

4hys:
Please it is not good to abuse a woman that way bro

Sorry bro. But a good bro will tell a babe what her problem is and not toss her around and Laff behind her back.
Her problem is smelly Vjay-jay

Then buy her jik or hypo for her to soak it before watch

TPAND:
Sorry bro. But a good bro will tell a babe what her problem is and not toss her around and Laff behind her back.
Her problem is smelly Vjay-jay

Tallesty1:
You don't defend what doesn't exist.

Any woman who thinks or says that men don't make sacrifices has no truth in her.

Yimu

TPAND:
Sorry bro. But a good bro will tell a babe what her problem is and not toss her around and Laff behind her back.
Her problem is smelly Vjay-jay

You are such a lowlife

BreketeMind:
I think it reveals a low mentality on the part of the bulk of Nigerians that they should be so obsessed with someone else's singleness. Is singleness a crime? NOTE: By minding her business without her even knowing u acknowledge she's greater than u. Enough of this crap.

So Linda minds her business ?

Are you saying Linda wont still make money if she stops writing gossips about people's private lives ?

UIA04:
Wow











Such a long epistle on my short post glad you got my point.


Just read your epistle
If you like marry an unambitious lazy woman who is only interested in lying in bed and breeding kids. It's very wrong to put every woman who has a successful career in the same class of control freak wives . When we also have many men who were raised to feel they are the lord and masters and only the women should make sacrifices what do you get, broke home and a wornout overworked wife.

Let me tell you I doubt if Linda, is in a hurry to get married for her not to look well and end up with a lazy bum . Only a man who has something to hide or lacks confidence would be scared, of scrutiny.

You call men lazy bum because Linda is successful, and she wants the whole world to know when she buys toothpick or hermes bag. How many men want such a wife ?

What percentage of wives are actually richer than their husbands ? This is the control freak mentality we talking about..

Tallesty1:
Actually you're the one making zero sense here.
Then why is Linda single:-/ if her type is the next best thing after sliced bread?This is one warped mentality of some Nigeria ladies that drives me nuts.


Nigeria men are not scared of successful women rather they are scared of control freaks.The type of woman that only feels good about herself if she makes you feel less than her.

These are the women that my brothers are scared of. It is called being careful and not insecurity.

Men are scared of women that have personality disorder.

Secondly, if a host of studies are to be believed, marrying these women(career women) is asking for trouble. If they quit their jobs and stay home with the kids, they will be unhappy ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2003). They will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Social Forces, 2006). You will be unhappy if they make more money than you do ( Journal of Marriage and Family, 2001). You will be more likely to fall ill ( American Journal of Sociology). Even your house will be dirtier ( Institute for Social Research).

Have you seen that it just isn't a Nigeria thing?

The same studies have found that professional women are more likely to get divorced, more likely to cheat, less likely to have children, and, if they do have kids, they are more likely to be unhappy about it.

Men are not scared of women with wealth, they're simply not ready for their endless troubles.
Nobody will willingly pierce his body with many sorrows.

Let me tell you what is likely to happen when a guy asks for Linda's hand in marriage.

Each member of the family will buy one Laser-Sharp Binoculars that can pierce through his flesh and bones and zoom the guy's soul to search his spirit to know if he's after the her wealth.

Even when the Binoculars reads negative, they still won't believe it, they will become very envious and are likely to disrespect the guy.

The guy have alota work to do to prove his not after their sister's money before they can respect him.....

The mama will be like, "My daughter, that guy is after your money. He's not good for you, wait my dear, when a good guy comes I will tell you".

Who wants that?

Finally, these women, especially those working in an office or something of that nature do not know that there are things one needs to succeed in business and work.

These things are direct opposite of what we need to have successful marriage and most of these successful women do not know where to cut the line.

To succeed in business, you have to be stubborn, in control etc. Bring these things into your marriage and you are in trouble.

Some successful women would rather blow the house up and everything in it than compromise or take personal responsibility.

Who Wants This?

Women Naturally want to exert control over everything. They enjoy to make those around them feel inadequate, insecure, nervous, angry, anxious and physically sick.
Go to married men that have richer wives and ask them, they will tell you that the message their women pass in everything they do is I don’t trust you to be able to do it right;I don’t respect your judgment; I don’t think you are competent; I don’t value your insight. I can do it all alone.

Stay Alone Then.

wow...you know women so much, don't you?

Please can you do us all a favour aand also break down reasons why men like Banky W, Don Jazzy and co who are of marriageable age are still single?

Wait...lemme guess, they're trying to avoid gold diggers? You ever think, maybe that's what Linda is trying to avoid?

You ever think, maybe she was once in an abusive relationship and isn't keen on committing to anyone cuz of such?

You ever think maybe she has an innate fear of men from a bad experience or bad experiences of other women around her?

You ever think, maybe she has a psychological problem?

Or do you just conclude that all single women are so because they are unapproachable?

Has it not occurred to you that some of them make themselves so because it's a defense mechanism?

Maybe, just maybe some females are single because they're gamophobic? Or, is it just men that can have such fears?

Honestly, if most of you dedicated the amount of brain power you use in analysing someone's single status on your careers, there would be a ton of Dangote's in Nigeria

Naughtysite:
You call men lazy bum because Linda is successful, and she wants the whole world to know when she buys toothpick or hermes bag. How many men want such a wife ?

What percentage of wives are actually richer than their husbands ? This is the control freak mentality we talking about..

so Linda shouldn't flaunt bags she obtained with her hard earned money so that a bunch of under-achieving creatures with third legs (or a lack of it) can feel good about themselves?

So, a hard-working woman should keep her success under wraps hoping some man interpretes that to be meekness and marries her?

The women who flaunt wealth in their husband's houses, do you not call them gold diggers?

Can women ever win in a country filled with misogynists?