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idnoble135: You better pray it does not. If i were you, i'd abstain till the wedding night.

That isn't the solution because the wife will fall a victim.

@OP Only the CREATOR can deliver you. Ask for his help.

Young man my advice to u is to see a psychologist. I believe you have subconscious issues with sex and sexuality. If you want you I can recommend a psychologist to help with your problem

u are sick

Monicasque: u are sick

Why take it personal nah?

Lakotai: Why take it personal nah?

no doll. m not taking it personal i just think you are demon possesed thats all. If you keep sleeping with the whole of this nigeria , you must be careful because there are so many spirits out there, you might not know the kind you have slept with one day and u might ruin your life remember 2 SHALL BECOME 1. How many portions are in you?

Monicasque: no doll. m not taking it personal i just think you are demon possesed thats all. If you keep sleeping with the whole of this nigeria , you must be careful because there are so many spirits out there, you might not know the kind you have slept with one day and u might ruin your life remember 2 SHALL BECOME 1. How many portions are in you?

Lol

I don't go around sleeping with the whole of Nigerians! Don't get me wrong I said my girl friend and ex...

Thanks for your advise.

I want to start experimenting with 4 of the advices I've got here. I will let you know them very soon

MicroBox: You still have the fear of God in you,please do stop before you will start appreciating them after sexvv

You see I need GOD

OlamiB: It might because you dont truly love them before sex, sometimes sex bonds the emotional love between you and your partner and it also makes the love stronger-all thing being equal-.

Sex is sex what is emotional there? When you love someone it doesn't determines how you will feel after sex with them

Suggestions I got are not working joor...
Any doctor in the house? No love Doc in NL?

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Seriously I feel for u oo buh I tink its because u don't get emotionally attached to ani of dis girls before u av sex with them. Do u av a girlfriend?? I min r u in love?? Maybe if u fall in love with a girl genuinely den u wudnt hate her after d whole tin.

wow long time ago, but been long i slept with anyone sha, hope i wont feel same way again

Lakotai:
I don't know why this kind of thing is still happening to me!

Somebody HELP!

I thought that when I get older it will stop but it hasn't! Each time I have sex with a girl I hate her after it and sometimes I managed to hide it from her.

I started having sex at an early age of ..... And maybe that is the cause. But am not too sure.

Have you been in my shoes before or can you manage to put yourself in my smelling shoes?

But do you have any advise for me? Because I pity these girls that fell victim of my stupid mood after sex.

Please Note: don't use this revelation against me outside of NairaLand.

Thanks.

u were sexually abused and used wen u were younger dats why
And u can seem to forgive ursef for dat
Dats y u don't appreciate ladies after avin sex wt u (after u av sex wt dem)

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Lakotai:
I don't know why this kind of thing is still happening to me!

Somebody HELP!

I thought that when I get older it will stop but it hasn't! Each time I have sex with a girl I hate her after it and sometimes I managed to hide it from her.

I started having sex at an early age of ..... And maybe that is the cause. But am not too sure.

Have you been in my shoes before or can you manage to put yourself in my smelling shoes?

But do you have any advise for me? Because I pity these girls that fell victim of my stupid mood after sex.

Please Note: don't use this revelation against me outside of NairaLand.

Thanks.

.....i think you need Jesus in your life

Coz you still a kid...

A kid? i'm 20 something now!

ayamAgenius:
Coz you still a kid...

it happens to some guys, take for instance the story in 2 samuel 13, ammon loved tamar but after sex he despised her.

Hating a girl after sex is not because you are with her just for sex, but may be as a result of ur religious background, may be your heart convict you what you are doing is wrong so you will hate her for making you to err...

Or maybe because your mind isnt yet mature enough...