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Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by analice107: 9:07pm On Apr 26, 2016 |
Sayelabola:What is the name of this Yoruba movie? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by analice107: 9:15pm On Apr 26, 2016 |
itstpia8:How accurate can lots be anyway? Just by lots Silas' destiny was thrown into chaos. Thank God for the baby which God brought to him at last. It's been years I read that book. Maybe I should download a Pdf version and read again. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Nobody: 8:33am On Apr 27, 2016 |
oloriooko: Get out of that church immediately because you are receiving a curse in place of blessing. The priest is to bless you not to curse you. To things that if you notice you must leave your church immediately: when you don't believe in your pastor - you can't be blessed by him. When he doesn't believe in you - you can't be blessed by him. The reason to be in church is to be blessed |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Sayelabola(m): 3:12pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by analice107: 4:28pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
Sayelabola:My brother I dey Ooo. I don dey go market to buy am, so make I tell them say I dey fine Yoruba movie? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Sayelabola(m): 4:53pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
analice107: Help me ask if part 2 don comot. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by analice107: 4:59pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
Sayelabola:OK, I go try, but make I no forget oo. Kai potopoto. This rain sef. Wait oo, I dey come naw naw 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Ishilove: 5:25pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
oloriooko:What she's saying is you have not given us the full details about your issue with the pastor, and there are 2 sides to every story. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by oloriooko(m): 7:33pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
Ishilove:Read my post again I did everything i could to get an audience with someone i could easily see b4 now but presently he's obviously avoiding me even my emails has not been replied which is very unusual of him My purpose of trying endlessly to see him is to ask what my offence was and duly apologise What else do you think i should do? |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Ishilove: 8:29pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
oloriooko:He is not God. Leave him alone. Are you going to church to worship him? If you feel you can't remain under his ministration then leave because it is spiritually unhealthy that you and the shepherd of the flock are not in one spirit |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by analice107: 8:52pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
oloriooko:Wait oo. Is your Mum in that church? If yes, does she know what's going on? You see? We humans are the ones who give fellow hums power over us. With a clear conscience Waka comot for that place. See, life short, no carry today wey you see take put for another person hand. When Jesus come, him go stand, you go stand. That time, him no go stand as your pastor. Him go stand to answer him own. Ah. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by ipreach: 8:54pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
leave that church and much to another church where you will have the rest of mind to serve God without pretense and grudges |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by itstpia8: 2:10am On Apr 28, 2016 |
oloriooko: You should move on for your own safety. Or at least stop going until you have sorted the matter out. Usually, most pastor complaints on nairaland tend to be obviously way out there, but this matter seems serious, and there might be more to it than meets the eye. Perhaps the pastor cannot talk to you because of reasons beyond his control. Your best bet is to stay away for now imo. Stop beating yourself up over the matter. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by itstpia8: 2:15am On Apr 28, 2016 |
analice107: If not for the mercy of God, he'd have been a goner for sure. His ailment and his trusting nature did not help him with the church. Casting lots might have been considered standard practice perhaps, back then. The book is readily available online. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by analice107: 8:25am On Apr 28, 2016 |
itstpia8:I have downloaded it already. Refreshing my memories |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by OmoPastor(m): 11:55am On May 06, 2016 |
oloriooko:Am interested in your topic please note the following: 1. i assume your pastor is actually called by God to lead His people 2. i assume you are born again 3. i assume you are committed not only to but also in that church 4. i assume you truly desire a solution i have read the numerous responses to your post and its quite amazing that so many think leaving that church is the outright solution i have the following points for you to consider: 1. leaving that church is NOT the solution because facing persecution even from brethren is part of what we expect as Christians John_15:20 Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also. Furthermore, do you know if the new church you are planning to run to is not worse? How many churches will you run away from? Better you face the problem and grow from it. Persecutions are not allowed by God for your destruction rather they should make you stronger and more deeply rooted in God's assured love. 2.rather than consider running away, why not pray and ask for directions because your presence in that church is not accidental, it has a divine purpose 3. the bible has a laid down procedure to resolve disputes Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican. Matt 18:15 - 17 (KJV) 4. My candid advise is you follow these procedures which you have started but there are two more steps you have not taken. Bro, please never leave out prayers in this matter and try as much as possible to free your mind from bitterness and anger, its not quite easy but with the help of the Holy Spirit, you can do it. Shalom |
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