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Ladies Too Are Friendzoned, Its No Big Deal... by EOOJ(op): 11:18am On Apr 28, 2016
Sometime ago, i read some comments made by some ladies about guys and i was like "hmmm, is that so"

Some of the comments went like this "if she gives a guy green light and he dosen't see it, she believes its because he is blind, a fool or an unserious guy" and she said it angrily, hisses and walks away...(exact feelings guys get when they show their own green light and the ladies in turn don't co operate due to some good reasons while others not so good or tangible)

But i believe that there is always a reason for every action. You know she is probably right when she said he might not see the green light, i agree(cause sometimes we don't) but calling him names is uncalled for.

Now in an instance where the guy actually notices the green light, so many things would be at play here. If he dosn't respond,its probably because he is not into you or uninterested but just cherishes you as a friend or sees you like a sister grin

Another instance could be that when you show the green light, he would act swiftly because he is interested and into you as well but a crazy scenerio could be that he isnt into you but just wants to chop and clean mouth.
In my latter comment, sometimes the lady would pester the guy so much that even if he isnt interested, he would give in either because he has started developing feelings or just for his evil intentions.

Some ladies ought to know that whatever happens in this world goes two ways most times(we get to have a taste of our own medcine)

A lady friend of mine was complaining that she told a guy she loved him and all the guy said was he would think about it. She had countless sleepless nights worrying me and wondering why he hasnt said anything. When i meet ladies like this, i always tell them to be patient and also remind them that sometimes thats how some guys feel too when they hear "i would think about it from a lady"

My point here is this, even ladies too are friendzoned. There's no big deal about that. Thats the reality of life. Its just that guys are more on the list than the ladiesgrin

Just me thinking out loud tongue
Re: Ladies Too Are Friendzoned, Its No Big Deal... by adegunwa4real(m): 11:46am On Apr 28, 2016
See this one o...Ladies don leave the realm of friendzoning sinnnce! Its now "brother zone" things.

That was how this bae told me that am like a brother to her the other day angry
Re: Ladies Too Are Friendzoned, Its No Big Deal... by Smellymouth: 11:47am On Apr 28, 2016
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Re: Ladies Too Are Friendzoned, Its No Big Deal... by EOOJ(op): 11:57am On Apr 28, 2016
adegunwa4real:
See this one o...Ladies don leave the realm of friendzoning sinnnce! Its now "brother zone" things.

That was how this bae told me that am like a brother to her the other day angry
c dis guy! And who told u they have left been friendzoned? The only reason why its not wel knwn is kos most guys wud nt just see sometin in skirt and let it be d way they met even if they dnt nid it
Re: Ladies Too Are Friendzoned, Its No Big Deal... by EOOJ(op): 12:01pm On Apr 28, 2016
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