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Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by Eddygourdo(op): 6:46am On Apr 29, 2016
To be honest you all, I can never trust a woman. I haven't forgotten what happened to our brother
Samson in the hand of delilah, we all know he woke up and found out she took him to a spa, no be only barb dem barb am, even manicure and pedicure was done. Smh for oga samo

Women have always had the belief that she is the receptive one In a relationship, she wants to go on dates with other men and would tell you , it means nothing while you being caught doing the same must mean you have gotten the other bitch pregnant. They don't understand the concept that as man has the choice not to chase new women because he is in a commited relationship, so should she not allow herself to be chased. Anyway from my own personal experiences, I never take pride in being the bf to any woman, I always and will always prefer to be the other man whom she cheats with. Apparantly , such a lifestyle has made my trust issues even worse. Cos I have been and seen the worst they can do. Karma has come home to roost for me.

I handle my trust issuess by never genuinely loving or having feeling for any woman, in my head its all business. I lie , you lie, we spend small, you enjoy small, you tell me u have a bff or fiance, I nod my head in support, I pull cloth and jump on the bed, you do same, after a week you complain about ur bf to me, I pull ur cloth to console you, you dare tell me he broke up with u or vice versa, I delete you from life bbefore you expect me to take on the unfortunate or ungrateful role of being a bf to a hoe.

All these are easy when you don't love the girl, but even with my rigidity, cupid has shot me many timesand I found myself in love. Its a truly terrible experience for me. To be the other guy whom they cheat on. Very painful. Its harder to let go. Anyway there must be ways people handle their trust issues. If you don't trust a spouse at least , you will die of heart attack. While he or she lives on to cheat another day.

How do you trust the one you unfortunately are in love with, how do you handle trust issues in this day or wicked people like me. Lol
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by FreemanDave(m): 6:47am On Apr 29, 2016
undecided
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by feldido(m): 6:48am On Apr 29, 2016
Don't spy on ur partners Phone, You won't believe what ur eyes will see, next thing we'll be hearing Tbliz season 2 grin
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by Dotwillis1(m): 6:50am On Apr 29, 2016
It depends on who you Love... ..We still have trust worthy ladies out there
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by Eddygourdo(op): 6:58am On Apr 29, 2016
feldido:
Don't spy on ur partners Phone, You won't believe what ur eyes will see, next thing we'll be hearing Tbliz season 2 grin
hahahahahahaha. Abi oh
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by PonmileJ: 7:03am On Apr 29, 2016
UT depends, not all of them are bad
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by firstking01(m): 7:10am On Apr 29, 2016
So, women don make you turn to player bagrin??
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by firstking01(m): 7:15am On Apr 29, 2016
Eddygourdo, you acting the way you do cos your heart has been dashed countless times by a girl....



A guy who's heart is still a virgin might not believe this..
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by babyfaceafrica: 7:28am On Apr 29, 2016
Well for me I don't totally trust anybody at all....so that in case he or she messes up..I won't to too dissapointed and hurt.Am tired of having heart breaks and story that touches the heart.I just give a bae 50 percent trust and I keep the remaining ,if she likes she can do likewise...trust is earned not asked for.....only God can be trusted 100percent
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by Nobody: 7:33am On Apr 29, 2016
here to read comments undecided
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by ifex370(m): 7:37am On Apr 29, 2016
babyfaceafrica:
Well for me I don't totally trust anybody at all....so that in case he or she messes up..I won't to too dissapointed and hurt.Am tired of having heart breaks and story that touches the heart.I just give a bae 50 percent trust and I keep the remaining ,if she likes she can do likewise...trust is earned not asked for.....only God can be trusted 100percent
God bless you... I don't have to repeat myself
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by Vision4God: 7:43am On Apr 29, 2016
Trust God to trust ur partner. Listen to God's voice
Re: Trust Issues In A Relationship........how Do You Handle Yours by 4C2215131: 8:10am On Apr 29, 2016
Eddygourdo:
To be honest you all, I can never trust a woman. I haven't forgotten what happened to our brother
Samson in the hand of delilah, we all know he woke up and found out she took him to a spa, no be only barb dem barb am, even manicure and pedicure was done. Smh for oga samo

Women have always had the belief that she is the receptive one In a relationship, she wants to go on dates with other men and would tell you , it means nothing while you being caught doing the same must mean you have gotten the other bitch pregnant. They don't understand the concept that as man has the choice not to chase new women because he is in a commited relationship, so should she not allow herself to be chased. Anyway from my own personal experiences, I never take pride in being the bf to any woman, I always and will always prefer to be the other man whom she cheats with. Apparantly , such a lifestyle has made my trust issues even worse. Cos I have been and seen the worst they can do. Karma has come home to roost for me.

I handle my trust issuess by never genuinely loving or having feeling for any woman, in my head its all business. I lie , you lie, we spend small, you enjoy small, you tell me u have a bff or fiance, I nod my head in support, I pull cloth and jump on the bed, you do same, after a week you complain about ur bf to me, I pull ur cloth to console you, you dare tell me he broke up with u or vice versa, I delete you from life bbefore you expect me to take on the unfortunate or ungrateful role of being a bf to a hoe.

All these are easy when you don't love the girl, but even with my rigidity, cupid has shot me many timesand I found myself in love. Its a truly terrible experience for me. To be the other guy whom they cheat on. Very painful. Its harder to let go. Anyway there must be ways people handle their trust issues. If you don't trust a spouse at least , you will die of heart attack. While he or she lives on to cheat another day.

How do you trust the one you unfortunately are in love with, how do you handle trust issues in this day or wicked people like me. Lol
First off, someone like you given your confession can never trust a woman courtesy of your antecedents and you have no business being in love neither!

Like you said, karma has come knocking. Bear your cross. Be in that relationship with that girl you love while having sleepless nights over who she's sleeping with on the side. It's your curse.

Remember what Zeus did to you know who, where he had a Raven peck at the liver, kidneys and whatnot of you know who while imprisoned in the underworld as punishment for his deeds and when the organs expire Zeus would make them grow back overnight only for the Raven to repeat same action. This went on for eternity to inflict maximum pain and suffering.

Manage what you have. At least you saw it coming and while at it remember to get a paternity test done on your children too as you just may not be their biological father. Just saying...seeing you don't trust her and stuff.
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