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armyofone:
I can't speak for Diosy because I don't know her preferences that deep. Can't make love on hungry tummy, can you?

Lol, yes I can, for 'quickies'

Boring too Nl & my TV Jammed me up.

Which type of work?

Ishilove:
It was boring jare. Work work work, but in all things we give thanks. And you?

Eddygourdo:
didn't know that men had the option of kicking out women whom they percieve to add no value to the kerb. Thanks honey for enlightening me. Muaaah

They have always been doing that, where have you been hiding that you are not aware of this?
Whilst the op might be talking to women, this is not gender specific. Anyone not adding value but instead trying to take from you should be removed from your life sharply.
Again, remember value is not only about money, it's about covering the bases that you can't cover yourself or increasing the value that you have by what they contribute. This could about their actions and not necessarily about finances.

shaybebaby:
They have always been doing that, where have you been hiding that you are not aware of this?
Whilst the op might be talking to women, this is not gender specific. Anyone not adding value but instead trying to take from you should be removed from your life sharply.
Again, remember value is not only about money, it's about covering the bases that you can't cover yourself or increasing the value that you have by what they contribute. This could about their actions and not necessarily about finances.

ok dats better. But note that like you pointed out some value may not be easily quantifiable. Thus one could make the mistake a silly cow doess who says its tail has no vaalue to it or the meat seller. When the multitude of flies come then it realizes its use. Value is importaant anyway no doubting that, but no in the view that human relation should be completely value based else where is empathy.

women love it strong sometimes they forget about the jobless man, soon or lter eyes will be clear

Vivalavida99:
Beware of jobless men with strong dick!

Single ladies, especially hardworking ones should always resist the temptation of marrying jobless men in the name of love, sex or worse still to be labelled a ''married woman''. The love of a jobless man is fake, is not real, and is conditioned by poverty.


A jobless bachelor can hardly be a ''jobful'' husband! A man who could not take care of his basic material need as a single man cannot perform magic when coupled in marriage.

Poverty has an amazing way of humiliating and humbling a man thereby making him lose the very essence of his manhood--a deflated ego that accepts everything.

Poor and jobless men are always the most attentive to your emotional and physical needs.

They often make good bedroom bully, they major very well in sex and all the spoils of it--but be wary! It’s often a well-honed skill to escape poverty under the shadow of vulnerable rich women.

When these men are rehabilitated financially from the labour of their partners they always tend to recoil back to the real man poverty has hidden all this while. Their changed economic status automatically changes their taste and social comportment.

They seek their real woman outside the confines of their matrimonial boundary. Hence cheating and infidelity crept in. Their wives become object of hate giving way to domestic violence.

So, if you want a fulfilling marital relationship steer clear of all these smooth talking, flattering and emotionally supportive randy men without any sustainable means of livelihood-----‘’Ndi-oji amu eri’’. Fine young "boys" with empty pockets.

This admonition maybe difficult to adhere to in a society where women are pressured to marry in order to enjoy societal validation. Where chronological age maybe running higher. Where the so-called ‘’men of god’’ adduce spinsterhood to phantom spiritual enemy and sins.

But in all this, we still have our individual life to live irrespective of the unjust demands of the society.

So, rather than marry a lousy, lazy and good-for-nothing-man as husband, single parenthood remains a reasonable option to realise full-fledged motherhood.

A financially comfortable woman with children is happier without cashless husband

Single motherhood has never been a sin neither is it punishable by ‘’hell fire’’.

It is simply a choice and a way of life!

M.E

Cc lalasticlala, mynd44, Seun

WOW! What an extremely shallow post to the core. I am stunned that someone would be extremely insensitive to even post this.

Has it ever occurred to you that people don't wake up one day determined to be poor it just happens? The fact that you were lucky enough to be born in a family that was well off does not mean that you were better than other people who were not. Has it ever occurred to you that a lot of people in Nigeria are "cashless" due to no fault of their own but that there country has completely failed them by failing to provide an economic environment suitable for commerce to flourish and to attract foreign capital?

The other day i read that the World Bank ranked Nigeria at 169 in the world in terms of ease of doing business https://www.nairaland.com/3429269/nigeria-ranks-169th-position-world and the heritage foundation even ranks Nigeria at 116 in terms of economic freedoms index http://www.heritage.org/index/ranking. This is why there is a lot of poverty and suffering and why it is almost impossible for people to make it out of poverty if they were not born to a well to do family no matter how incredibly hard they try. The fact that you could even call another human being "lousy, lazy and good-for-nothing-man" is just beyond appalling. May God forgive you for this post.

davidif:
WOW! What an extremely shallow post to the core. I am stunned that someone would be extremely insensitive to even post this.

Has it ever occurred to you that people don't wake up one day determined to be poor it just happens? The fact that you were lucky enough to be born in a family that was well off does not mean that you were better than other people who were not. Has it ever occurred to you that a lot of people in Nigeria are "cashless" due to no fault of their own but that there country has completely failed them by failing to provide an economic environment suitable for commerce to flourish and to attract foreign capital?

The other day i read that the World Bank ranked Nigeria at 169 in the world in terms of ease of doing business https://www.nairaland.com/3429269/nigeria-ranks-169th-position-world and the heritage foundation even ranks Nigeria at 116 in terms of economic freedoms index http://www.heritage.org/index/ranking. This is why there is a lot of poverty and suffering and why it is almost impossible for people to make it out of poverty if they were not born to a well to do family no matter how incredibly hard they try. The fact that you could even call another human being "lousy, lazy and good-for-nothing-man" is just beyond appalling. May God forgive you for this post.

...and also you for not getting the gist therein. Anyways, the advice is directed at we girls, or you wanna pitch your tent with a poor guy with a strong deck too? My thought too

sisisioge:
...and also you for not getting the gist therein. Anyways, the advice is directed at we girls, or you wanna pitch your tent with a poor guy with a strong deck too? My thought too

Please tell me what is funny about making fun of people's plight? Do you know people are actually dying of poverty and for someone to say something so incredibly poor and awful is the extreme height of insensitivity.

davidif:
Please tell me what is funny about making fun of people's plight? Do you know people are actually dying of poverty and for someone to say something so incredibly poor and awful is the extreme height of insensitivity.

David, the comic angle is just to get the message across to us. By the way, she's not actually talking about the men who would be bread winners, all things being equal, but about the ones who believe that redemption from poverty is finding a woman that is loaded. Those ones who are like undercover gigolos. They are all attentive and nurturing... the woman is their job. When they eventually make it enough through her, they naturally want more from else where just like any employee of a coy that seeks better placement, job enlargement/enrichment, etc...Their true colours start to show since all their previous actions were just charades.

Agunnewi:
Bwahahahaha...And such koboless guys can pretty eh.
After spending all working hours at gym and in salon, carving their hairlines and beards, and developing 6 to 11 packs, while a real man hustles till his waistline expands.

Oji Amu ejighi kobo

Agu,onu gi dikwa bad!