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Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by donephi(m): 9:11pm On May 12, 2016 |
Do you know how common it is for partners hurt each other and then try to get back together? Apparently, more common than you can ever imagine. There are so many things – big and little that can happen between partners from cheating to dishonesty and so on and as much as these things can cause the person at the receiving end so much pain, it is only right to admit that everyone should be allowed to make mistakes as long as they regret it. No matter how much you hurt your boo, it is very possible to move on and gain back their trust. It will take a lot of work and a lot of time but it is definitely possible. Below are ways to adopt in trying to get a boo to trust you again. Adopt Honesty: At this point, you can’t even afford to tell any more lies especially since you’re towing a thin line. You must be as brutally honest as possible about whatever it is without being too specific (You’re not trying to cause more trouble!). Questions should be answered even if you have to repeat the answers over and over again. Put the truth out there no matter how hard it might seem. Keep at it: Persist! You need to keep at it no matter what it takes because it will take a lot. Prepare yourself for it. Your boo might push you forward and backward all in a bid of trying to get back to trusting you so if you want this, you must persist and not desist! Do You Know What You Want? Do you? Because what’s the need of going through all this trouble if you’re not really about this person? You better decide what you want and go for it even if it is not at all connected to your boo. Leaving them will be much better than hurting them and trying to win back their trust again and again, Earn the trust: Yes, earning trust means giving up some of your own comforts. Whatever you need to do to get them to trust you, you should do. Earning means putting in the work to get what you need or what you want. Source:greennews |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by MRBrownJ: 9:15pm On May 12, 2016 |
all depends on how you lost that trust and the person involved |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by talk2alabama: 9:18pm On May 12, 2016 |
No matter how much a guy has hurt a girl, when he is sorry, and means it, and proves beyond all reasonable doubt dat he is a changed man, she will grow to give him another chance |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by Nobody: 9:21pm On May 12, 2016 |
It's easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a cheating partner to get back boo 's trust. |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by Nobody: 9:22pm On May 12, 2016 |
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Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by kiddoiLL(m): 9:23pm On May 12, 2016 |
aint got nothing to say
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Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by flexyfit(f): 9:25pm On May 12, 2016 |
talk2alabama:...what about the girl? |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by talk2alabama: 9:27pm On May 12, 2016 |
flexyfit:i"l forgive her.. i'm talkn abt me now.. |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by donephi(m): 9:29pm On May 12, 2016 |
talk2alabama:It's easier for a lady to trust a guy than a guy to trust a lady |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by donephi(m): 9:30pm On May 12, 2016 |
ThatVvnGurl:Not in all cases |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by donephi(m): 9:32pm On May 12, 2016 |
SANDOSKI:true but you can always give him another chance, the previous could be a mistake |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by Nobody: 9:36pm On May 12, 2016 |
donephi: Yeah I bliv in dat, but____________
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Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by donephi(m): 9:42pm On May 12, 2016 |
SANDOSKI:Yea, he/she could have changed for the worse or for the better due to the paradigm shift but it's advisable to hope for the better |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by Nobody: 9:47pm On May 12, 2016 |
donephi: Yeah, dats true
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Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by flexyfit(f): 9:58pm On May 12, 2016 |
talk2alabama:....ok |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by donephi(m): 9:59pm On May 12, 2016 |
SANDOSKI:Psychology might be wrong cos sometimes we claim we've forgiven them but we just pile the wrongs they've committed and one day we regurgitate them to thier face |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by Nobody: 10:03pm On May 12, 2016 |
donephi: Not really....
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Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by donephi(m): 10:08pm On May 12, 2016 |
SANDOSKI:Yeah, but how many of us play by this rule even when we know it? |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by Nobody: 10:21pm On May 12, 2016 |
donephi: You right.. Everyone has a different mind set. We are not Saint. Dat is why everyday we learn how to treat people most especially our love ones. Learn how to forgive n forget, learn how to control our anger ....
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Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by donephi(m): 10:36pm On May 12, 2016 |
SANDOSKI:Wow! Dip words from a princess. Hope your heart is as beautiful as your face? |
Re: Getting Back Your Boo's Trust After You Hurt Them by Nobody: 10:40pm On May 12, 2016 |
donephi: Hmmmm_______ I dunno
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