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Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by mizzochocinco: 2:37am On May 16, 2016 |
Mindfulness:grandpa are you 50 and single? |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by MissCheesom: 7:07am On May 16, 2016 |
ivyT: Ok.. |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by MissCheesom: 7:14am On May 16, 2016 |
mizzochocinco: I've ended the relationship |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by redgem(f): 7:51am On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom: That was a bad move sis.. How long have you both been dating? I know men can be annoyingly stupid most times but there is what we call endurance, give him time and watch him closely before you make a decision.. Because right now, you will be among the list of women who were at fault. Play the fool for now.. |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by MissCheesom: 7:56am On May 16, 2016 |
redgem: I've ended the relationship already |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by redgem(f): 7:59am On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom: Hmmmmm, was he in support of your decision I. E did he say anything after you told him about the breakup? |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by johnson232: 8:01am On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom:yeah... but women are better at hiding secrets |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by johnson232: 8:04am On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom:u weren't even serious abt the relationship... |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by MissCheesom: 8:04am On May 16, 2016 |
redgem: He actually said nothing about d breakup was just beating around the bush |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by MissCheesom: 8:07am On May 16, 2016 |
johnson232: I was serious about it...what were you expecting me to do? People said I should run now before its too late |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by johnson232: 8:08am On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom:what do u mean by beating abt the bush? why are u trying so hard to paint this guy black? |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by johnson232: 8:09am On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom:damn!!! so because people said so, u decided to end it? |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by aforti(m): 8:09am On May 16, 2016 |
A child can never think of getting married when he is still enjoying the attention of everyone around. Yes he is 38 but he is just a big child. Don't expect anything responsible from him. Besides marriage is a choice, age should not be a criteria for marriage. He is not ready for it and he has the right not to be ready for it even if he is 50yr. 1 Like |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by PresVA: 8:12am On May 16, 2016 |
redgem:Must he be in support of her decision? ? What other red flag does she need before she calls off the relationship? Or you want the man to engage her before she calls it off? That's how it starts, she'll be encouraged to endure, before you know it they're married and OP comes here crying. .. The signs are so glaring... I'm even suspecting he's married, all these calling off appointments and hiding calls are huge pointers. .. The decision is hers anyway, no be me go live with the man... 3 Likes |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by redgem(f): 8:12am On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom: That means, he hasn't really accepted the breakup... Did you meet him to tell him or you just sent a message like how girls do? Note: you don't breakup through chats or messages, that is a sign of Cowardice. If you really want to break up with him, set up a meeting and tell him, in that way you can really deduce something from his reaction |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by MissCheesom: 8:16am On May 16, 2016 |
johnson232: I'm not trying to paint him black, I laid an accusation and he could not really prove himself |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by redgem(f): 8:19am On May 16, 2016 |
PresVA: I'm saying she shouldn't just end the relationship because he cancelled their appointments or refused to pick some certain calls There should be a reason for everything, we should not jump into conclusion |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by MissCheesom: 8:20am On May 16, 2016 |
johnson232: They made good points |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by redgem(f): 8:26am On May 16, 2016 |
aforti: You made a good point but her earlier post said he talked about marriage to her. Why talk about it when you are not ready? Giving the lady hope |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by MissCheesom: 8:27am On May 16, 2016 |
redgem: We had a chat...... |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by redgem(f): 8:55am On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom:Call him and ask to meet him |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by Nobody: 10:29am On May 16, 2016 |
mizzochocinco: I am 55 and single. Is it a problem? |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by MissCheesom: 10:43am On May 16, 2016 |
redgem: I'm not sure I can do that... |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by redgem(f): 11:24am On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom:That's called pride and we ladies display dat a lot. All good though |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by cococandy(f): 2:07pm On May 16, 2016 |
He's a married man. OP don't be fooled. He won't take calls in your presence, goes MIA unexpectedly and cancels appointments without warning at the last minute. If that guy is not married, I'll add x to my username. Good thing you dumped him. Those are what we call destiny blockers. He won't get serious with you and he won't leave you so that a better person can have a chance with you. Until you're 35, then he'll find an excuse to break up with you after wasting 8yrs of your life and in the process making you say no to others who might have been better for you. Then you start looking for how to start a new relationship when that's not what you planned for yourself at that stage. |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by Nobody: 2:50pm On May 16, 2016 |
THE REASON WHY HE ISNT MARRIED YET COULD BE 1)HE IS ALREADY MARRIED{YET STILL CLAIMS SINGLE TO GET YOU IN HIS BED,I HAVE MET SUCH GUYS),OR HE HAS A BABYMAMA, OR HE IS A DIVORCEE. 2)HE FEELS THAT EVERY WOMAN HE COMES ACROSS IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH(fault Finder) 3)FEAR OF COMMITMENT. 4)HE IS A WOMANIZER. 5)MONETARY/FINANCIAL PROBLEMS. |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by yvelchstores(f): 3:41pm On May 16, 2016 |
Miss cheesom, RUN, RUN AS FAST AS U CAN, D SIGNS ARE EVERYWHERE, D GUY IS A NO NO. 1 Like |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by StPete: 5:48pm On May 16, 2016 |
Your man is either a chronic womanizer or already married. One or both! |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by thorpido(m): 8:30pm On May 16, 2016 |
onegig:Lol,even at 38yrs. |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by ogawisdom(m): 9:31pm On May 16, 2016 |
MissCheesom: God's time is the best |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by mizzochocinco: 7:17am On May 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness:kai 55? can I get you a walking stick |
Re: Man at 38 Not Married, Wat Could B Wrong & Should I Continue wit D Relationship? by Nobody: 8:12am On May 17, 2016 |
mizzochocinco: In 20 years. |
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