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Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by Cheund: 6:35am On May 16, 2016 |
Dyt: 24 weeks |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by focus7: 7:51am On May 16, 2016 |
oloyede252:The man dey impregnate her at any giving opportunity. I read someone advising her to separate rather than divorce, I disagree with that, the Man does not deserve a wife, he should get a goat for a companion. A man that is not responsible for anything in a relationship that all he's good at doing is terrorising the wife does not worth it. Ladies should stop marrying for the sake of just having a man to stay with or to be called a husband, that's why they end up being victims of the marriage, they should marry for companionship. |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by oloyede252(m): 8:14am On May 16, 2016 |
focus7:mr man i dont know why you are quoting me but we can add your focus to the story...op come finish your story o..have you moved out? |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by aforti(m): 8:26am On May 16, 2016 |
Op. Read and mediate on @shaybebaby's advice. This is a thousand dollars advice. Even arrange counselors can't give you this first class advice. Obtain freedom, free will,Which even God himself gave to us even when he knows we could chose against him. All I see is people enslaving themselves in the name of marriage. God is more interested in your happiness than the length of your marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by HaneefahRN(f): 9:32am On May 16, 2016 |
Haven't you heard of the word divorce?.Sincerely marriage has been seriously abused, some people just use it as a means to enslave a fellow human . I know someone in a similar situation, with an irresponsible husband, he couldn't keep a job cos of his lack of sense of responsibility. The woman takes care of the family finances plus home care. Whenever it's time to pay the rent he leaves the house for her and the kids, knowing fully well she'll pay, after she has paid he'll come back. Beats her even in public, even in their Children's school. Took her car from her and use it to carry concubines about. Uses force to take her salary from her. To top it off went to bring a second wife to the house. And this is a man that claims to be a religious leader o. Thank God she is already on the divorce processing, the useless man is now coming with his family members to beg her. Telling her to stay cos of her children. They'll be telling women to stay in bondage in the guise of marriage. Better to be single and happy than married and suffering in every aspect. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by Nobody: 11:10am On May 16, 2016 |
Cheund: so sorry for your predicament. I'm sure you must have seen somebody these behavior and attitude in him before marrying him. anyway, you need to protect your kids and yourself from harm. if you can relocate to another country or state and start afresh, that would be good. if he finds you though, he might kill you. that's why I advice out of the country. remain incommunicado with him for a while, maybe he will come back to his senses. |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by TinyIslamic92: 11:36am On May 16, 2016 |
nyben4eva:Fnvyvat pbagvahe, jub tbrf gurer |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by focus7: 2:33pm On May 16, 2016 |
oloyede252:Tell me where I have gone wrong for quoting you. |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by D2diff: 4:22pm On May 16, 2016 |
Cheund, please never confront him with separation or divorce. If you do, you are at more risk of grievous bodily harm, death and increased and more frequent abuse. It is a proven statistical fact. Can you please take shaybebaby's advice? It is positive and inspiring. If at all you want a family meeting, do it when you are not staying with him. Don't ever accept responsibility for whatever that he did. Don't allow any family member including your siblings and mother to speak you into living with a violent man. Remember that your children may end up seeing his behaviour as normal and carry on with the cycle of abuse therefore it is up to you to ensure that it stops. You should be able to get a restraining or a non-molestation order from the court if you do not want to leave the house for him. Shaybebaby, you will make a good psychologist Acidosis: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by shaybebaby(f): 7:33pm On May 16, 2016 |
D2diff:You flatter me, thank you very much for the compliment. |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by Nobody: 9:59am On May 17, 2016 |
TinyIslamic92: AN ZR,AN ZR.FNVYVAT CNYREZB SEVTNGR. |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by TinyIslamic92: 12:59pm On May 17, 2016 |
nyben4eva:Alonso h arire rpub zr he qrpx anzr |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by 9ja4show: 4:47pm On May 17, 2016 |
utenwuson: He will still benefit that car from the divorce |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by 9ja4show: 4:50pm On May 17, 2016 |
HaneefahRN: Just like that? You think marriage will always feel like the first spark always? If you want a perfect relationship, get a dog. You think its childplay to live with another human being when its hard sometimes to live with oneself 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by 9ja4show: 4:56pm On May 17, 2016 |
D2diff: Who is talking about beating here, she never for once said he is violent ; every issue in marriage is now violet Abi? How are we sure this woman is not abusive at home since she's bold enough to say she feeds him here 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by D2diff: 5:07pm On May 17, 2016 |
Did you miss the slaps and the strangling part? And it is wrong to say you feed a man, why? Don't men count it against greedy and ungrateful women or what exactly are you trying to say? Tell me, who on earth doesn't use that line to score cheap points evena father can use the same line on a child not to mention husband to wife or wife to husband. How has it reduce what makes the husband a man? I know you are looking for trouble but I don't have your time today! 9ja4show: 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by D2diff: 5:10pm On May 17, 2016 |
You can tell this to your daughters or sisters in abusive homes Misogynist! 9ja4show: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by remioshy(f): 5:23pm On May 17, 2016 |
oloyede252:someone is pouring out her heart with pain and all you can say is this, na WA o, if you don't AV any advice for her, then u zip it 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by shaybebaby(f): 5:25pm On May 17, 2016 |
9ja4show: She did mention being strangled though, not sure how that does not equate violence. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by 9ja4show: 5:29pm On May 17, 2016 |
D2diff: I don't have time to spare either, you must be an abusive woman , I just pray for that innocent man who will put you in his house. |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by 9ja4show: 5:31pm On May 17, 2016 |
D2diff: When you get married and you go about bragging how u feed a man, we will be here when he beats you black and blue ...ediot. |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by D2diff: 5:34pm On May 17, 2016 |
I am very abusive. I don't have time for stvpid people who have chosen to be biased, unreasonable, selective and sexist. I pity the unfortunate woman that will end up in your house. Good riddance to bad rubbish 9ja4show: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by HaneefahRN(f): 5:34pm On May 17, 2016 |
9ja4show: What is this one saying? Give this same advice to your daughter when her husband beats and tries to strangle her. There is no perfect marriage but it is stupidity staying where your life is threatened. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by 9ja4show: 5:36pm On May 17, 2016 |
Cheund: Op; I don't support violence against women but don't listen to women telling you to divorce , if you check them out you will see they cant even keep a boyfriend not to talk of husband...I know you provide for the family but don't override your husband cos of that, you should let him take the wheel sometimes , there is nothing wrong with you providing for your family... a man ego have no cure ooh 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by HaneefahRN(f): 5:36pm On May 17, 2016 |
D2diff: I'm thinking that is how he treats his wife. So all the fingers point at him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by D2diff: 5:36pm On May 17, 2016 |
Is that how you beat your gf/wife? You must think I am like one of the mor.ons you surround yourself with? I shouldn't have replied you the first time. My mistake 9ja4show: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by D2diff: 5:41pm On May 17, 2016 |
Imagine the nonsense he is spitting Would the woman have mentioned the feeding part without a genuine reason? As if most people do not everyone mention it when they feel betrayed and diassapointed with the recipient. The only issue that thing could concentrate on was turning the feeding part to a gender thing This forum don tire me. Bunch of idiots running around. HaneefahRN: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by 9ja4show: 5:42pm On May 17, 2016 |
D2diff: You will end up all by yourself which is not a bad thing you know, push your husband to the wall and receive the reward...i love good women and i am very selective. Shouts out to all beautiful,hard-working women out there who will not go about telling people how she feeds her man...(You will sure get a slap for that kind of abuse). |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by 9ja4show: 5:42pm On May 17, 2016 |
D2diff: You will end up all by yourself which is not a bad thing you know, push your husband to the wall and receive the reward...i love good women and i am very selective. Shouts out to all beautiful,hard-working women out there who will not go about telling people how she feeds her man...(You will sure get a slap for that kind of abuse) |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by D2diff: 5:43pm On May 17, 2016 |
How is she overriding her husband? What stvpid ego? Do you also think you have an ego? Wonders shall never end. 9ja4show: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by 9ja4show: 5:45pm On May 17, 2016 |
D2diff: You made a good decision to reply me because you need some morals..You think abuse is only when you slap and beat up someone ? You go about telling people that your husband can't provide for you and you expect him to not reply you with a slap 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Unfair To Me. Pls Help!!! by D2diff: 5:46pm On May 17, 2016 |
Bla bla bla What would enter your brain that would make you to even dare touch me? Fvck off! I don't have time for senseless people. 9ja4show: 1 Like |
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