MsGlobalwonder:
and you believe she was actually cheating? smh

Even if she was cheating it still doesn't warrant violence not to speak of the fact that the man also cheated on her.

I hate hypocrisy.

damogul:


My bro even the Police knows the man has no case to answer which is why they are now shifting to check his mental stability. Pls the man should hire me as his lead council for this case.

I just remembered something. Trusay, some guys can be ruff ryders (rough riders) all in the name of pleasing a woman. So the boss must have ghetto-gagged the shyte out of her. And when a chic has been ghetto-gagged, she needs at least a three-day breather to be normal, both mentally and physically cos of the trauma. You can't rule that out cos some men don't know how to handle OPPs (other people's properties) - they always misuse/abuse them.

But the husband tho. He should've just walked away and used the whole day to think about his next line of action. Then love can be fatal sometimes and the emotion always attract instant reaction. Some folks aren't just 100% and even the slightest touch may kill them. And when issues are like that, the last person to touch them will always take the blame - not the other things.

God knows best and we need to pray at all times against being victims circumstances and being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Even if the fatal blow came from the man, it's obvious that he didn't do it deliberately. Not premeditated. I hope it's manslaughter and not murder. What's the sentence for manslaughter in naij?

MsGlobalwonder:
no man can be turned to a beast! A beast is a beast and should do the times of his crimes. It's irresponsibility to blame someone else for one's actions. There is always a way out. divorce. Separation. Break up. Nothing is by force. Everyone should be responsible for their actions.

first, I am not a proponent of domestic violence nor do I preach separation and divorce as if we only get married to divorce.

Now, what u failed to understand is that while we all seem to, and should have controls of our actions. The same cannot be said of our reactions to situation either physical, emotional, psychological etc.

An example is: A woman was in argument with her husband over an allegation that her inlaws where abusing her. She goes ahead to accuse the man of being the one talking behind her back to the relatives. AFTERTHOUGHT 1. I PERSONALLY FIND IT DISGUSTING WHEN A WOMAN ARGUES WITH HER HUSBAND.

All this while in the argument, the man was calm, trying to pacify his wife that he couldnt stoop so low to the point of cursing his wife to his relative. Buh nay, she became more aggressive, reigning all types of curses on her husband+his immediate family, in front of their 23yr old son who just got married. AFTER THOUGHT 2. IT TAKES A MAN WITH A PATIENCE GREATER THAN THE MOST PATIENT WOMAN EVER NOT TO BECOME ANGRY AT THIS POINT.-I hope u agree with me.


She became more aggressive and she follows it with confrontation, I mean the wife stood up to and approach her husband, shouting and cursing to her husbands face. It was a horrible experience that their 23yrs old son had to leave the scene due to the embarassment. AFTER THOUGHT 3: THIS IS THE POINT WHERE MANY WOMEN TURN THEIR LOVING HUSBAND(some) TO BEAST.

It isnt bout the action, it is the reaction.

MsGlobalwonder:
you only wish a killer will be freed. If only wishes are horses. You must think the authorities are always on NL. He isn't going nowhere, to make it as a deterrent to potential killers like you supporting a killer. So, you can be prepared for the times. KMT!

MsGlobalwonder in case you do not know let me educate you. If the police can prove that the wife was in Abuja with her lover for the weekend and her phone shows his contact and times of call then this case is trash and the reason for water in her head would be conclusive and medical report would be that she unknowingly killed herself.

Allow me explain. There is what is known as WATER POISONING... and this is when a person drinks an unusual amount of water quickly in a short time immediately after a vigorously stressful exercise. This causes electrolyte imbalance in the body and water accumulation in the head known as swolle head syndrom and it is often fatal if not medicaly handled as an emergency.

If she indeed spent a sex filled weekend in abuja then this might show she killed herself involuntarily. Like I said earlier such does not kill immediately but applies pressure to the brain and such a person would pass put anf eventually die if help isnt rendered fast.

Hope you now understand. Its not about what the husband did its about what the medical report clearly states.

MsGlobalwonder:
and you believe she was actually cheating? smh

Worst case scenario her host network provider will provide the transcript of her conversations with the boss.

My No. 1 suspect is the Lover
Then The victim before the man.

skywalker001:
if u'r not contented wit d result u can go 2 hell and ask d victim d cause of her death...

Please go ahead and ask for us. Thanks.

damogul:



This is not about being emotional or because the deceased is female this is about facts. You being female are also being emotional as this happened to one of same gender but to me thats not being realistic. What most people just want to hear and read about is a man beats his wife and they want to hang him by his balls but nobody wants to know why he even got pushed to the extent of doing so... yes I said PUSHED because most men would never raise their handson their wives but women are in a league of their own when it comes to provoking reactions from men.

If the landlady testified of his quiet nature and he also said he loved the wife so much so that he even got her a car though yet enroute and if he said (without being coerced) that he slapped her under provocation then he is being somewhat honest if all that had been confirmed. His kids are old enough to say if daddy beats mummy often and if mummy was home all weekend.

All facts right now point that the husband isnt culpable because if he said he slapped her and the pathology report says his slap wasnt what caused the water in her head then he has no case. He would probably be taken for counselling and then released. HE IS A FREE MAN.

Screw emotions, let's talk facts.

Have you ever spoken to abusive people and their victims? I have. All the abusive people denied doing more than a slap or a push, even when confronted with evidence of their violence (one went so far to say the bruises on his wife was caused by her falling down the stairs and maliciously blaming him. Even with the black eye). So Lekan Shonde saying he "merely" slapped her is expected. So what explains the bruises on her body?

Have you ever been in trouble with the Nigerian Police? I haven't but I've read on this website how even following someone to the Polic station as a witness can result in you being detained until you "bail" yourself for a crime not committed. So the landlady (unless she lived with them) can easily say she saw and heard nothing. Who wants to get into trouble over murder?

Most men would never raise their hands against women. Okay but the problem is, whenever it happens, you man take it as if it is a challenge to ALL MEN and come out swinging in defence of your gender. I don't take anyone calling women a golddigger personally, but you take someone calling a man violent personally. And you dont see the problem with it.

Domestic violence is not about anger, it is about Control.

The victim's sister shared text/ whatsapp messages from Lekan Shonde where he was begging a friend to plead with his wife not to leave him after beating her and cheating on her and impregnating another woman outside his marital vows of faithfulness. And you men are not only willfully ignoring that information, you are accepting his allegations against his wife as FACT (without a single shred of proof, someone somewhere would have brought out something to show his wife was a cheat by now) and ignoring the PROOF and EVIDENCE of his violence in the past (his own words using his number and his wife's number to speak to her friend to beg her not to leave after the last beating and embarassment of having his pregnant mistress come to his home and confront her). So what is the reason for that?

I have spoken to some respected lawyers about this case and they said (from the information they have), Lekan Shonde is already guilty of Battery (the autopsy found Contusions/Bruises on her and most likely they were fresh as at the time of death and the accused cannot say that he wasn't the one who beat her) and the autopsy is to determine if he is also guilty of Manslaughter or Murder. So sorry, he's not walking free. And one of those lawyers is a SAN. The least of those lawyers has practised Law for 10 years. So they know the Law better than all of you.

Respiratory seizure means she couldn't breathe normally on her own and it caused her death. It is not a final report because something caused it (yes I asked a Doctor. See how I'm backing up my words with facts? You should try it sometime). So what caused her to stop breathing? Until the autopsy report is signed by the Chief Examiner, no-one knows. But her death was most likely caused by trauma. So your "hero" Lekan Shonde better start figuring out what he is going to say to explain himself.

"Water in her brain"/Hydrcephaulus has only 3 causes: either she was born with it, either she developed it after 50 years of age or Severe head trauma. The victim isn't over 50 and the symptoms of Hydrocephalus would have been noticed from birth (and she won't have lived this long if she had it). But yeah, let's ignore facts so you can make stuff up to suit your narrative.

But the fact that some of you guys are accusing her of dying due to stress from illicit lovemaking with her alleged lover, is disgusting. And has no basis in proof unless she had an existing condition.

You may clap for yourself if he goes scotfree but remember, the young generation of men who are reading your comment and seeing all this, now know that there is nothing, absolutely nothing, stopping them from beating up any female they feel is not towing their line (it won't matter whether or not reason is involved). And those young man will date and marry your daughter, your nieces one day.

So all the best. Because when that day comes and you're standing over your daughter's grave whilst he husband claims she allegedly cheated and gets away with her murder, remember this: you defended other killers in your youth.

khalhokage:


Even if she was cheating it still doesn't warrant violence not to speak of the fact that the man also cheated on her.

I hate hypocrisy.

my dear, I was wondering o. People calling the dead an adulterer because she is not alive to defend herself. Lekan will say anything to make himself the great guy. There are evidences in chats he had with folks. He is so insecure and fears he won't be able to satisfy her in bed because of the age difference. Eni ti o ti ku ni tie ti gbe. Somethings are not worth dying for sha, marriage? Never!

emmaliver:
You are d one displaying your quackery. When a pathologist tells u water in d head, cant u figure out she had cerebral edema which obviously affected d respiratory centers n caused resp arrest. Now what are the causes of Cerebral edema?? Trauma is one major cause. Do the linkage n next time be mindful of how u condemn pple wen u dont understand a thing.

Auxiliary nurse were you called?

MetaHuman:
read you no go read.. Just be commenting based on topic ..

Well its respiratory seizure due to water in the head. Not suffocation or strangulation.. The post is not to long to read.

And what else Falana?

ULSHERLAN:


We can't still judge based on what the families said cos you and i know how families can be sentimental after the passing of their own to blaming the other person for the cause. Im not saying the husband killed her and i wont say he didn't. I just want the law take its cause based on evidences brought forward during the autopsy

let's assume this is the real autopsy result, what do u think?

omobaekiti:
respiratory seizure due to water in her head that's what the report said...or did you not see that,they would not use the word "seizure" if the case was suffocation or strangulation, by using the word seizure they have eliminated the possibility of the above mentioned two...always read farabale-aly.

Hey awe moora

MsGlobalwonder:
my dear, I was wondering o. People calling the dead an adulterer because she is not alive to defend herself. Lekan will say anything to make himself the great guy. There are evidences in chats he had with folks. He is so insecure and fears he won't be able to satisfy her in bed because of the age difference. Eni ti o ti ku ni tie ti gbe. Somethings are not worth dying for sha, marriage? Never!

You're contradicting yourself. I don't think the man would lie to the feds since they can easily retrieve messages from her phone. So it's plausible she was an adulterer.

And if he can't satisfy her in bed, why didn't she call off the marriage and go marry the guy ghetto-gagging her? When women start making excuses for other women fvcking around, especially the ones with kids, it's problematic. That just shows how effed up the world is today. Divorce is always an option if sex is the primary reason why you got married and the man isn't giving you what you want.

popcykaylah:

Them say water in her brain caused the respiratory seizure..did you even read the post atall?

Respiratory seizure and suffocation are they different?

skywalker001:
if u'r not contented wit d result u can go 2 hell and ask d victim d cause of her death...

Haba. What a terrible thing to say of the dead. Are u insinuating that the victim is already roasting in hell? Fear God oh.

MsGlobalwonder:
let's assume this is the real autopsy result, what do u think?

It also revealed that water clustered in her head. Again, the report which was reportedly signed by one Dr. Shoyemi, a Pathologist at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, LASUTH, Ikeja, disclosed that late Ronke Shonde died as a result of respiratory seizure. But it ruled out the possibility of her death due to violent marks on her face

culled from the report.

1)Tunde might have been a wife beater causing the marks on her face who knows maybe due to what he heard and saw about his wife cheating (who knows if this is even true) but i dont still think he beat her to death then leaving her locked up inside

2) no one knows the wife's state of health prior to the incident, she could be dealing with some kinda ailment undisclosed which could have triggered when Tunde left the house.

P.s im not a medical practitioner, i just refuse to be sentimental with the situation.

Shym3xx:


You're contradicting yourself. I don't think the man would lie to the feds since they can easily retrieve messages from her phone. So it's plausible she was an adulterer.

And if he can't satisfy her in bed, why didn't she call off the marriage and go marry the guy ghetto-gagging her? When women start making excuses for other women fvcking around, especially the ones with kids, it's problematic. That just shows how effed up the world is today. Divorce is always an option if sex is the primary reason why you got married and the man isn't giving you what you want.

comprehension.. comprehension!!!!! Did I say the woman said he can't satisfy her? The man is Insecure!! He monitors her everywhere. He is paranoid too, he accuses her of things she didn't do. Not everything is on NL. The Chat he had with the person that pleaded with Ronke last to return to him before he killed her is everywhere. How was I supporting adultery? Is death the solution of adultery? Which adultery are we even talking about? She committed adultery and he was still desperately and frantically begging her to come back to his house? You have chosen to believe she was cheating and truly you have a right to your choice. But please, be sure you are saying the truth against the dead especially when evidences of the reverse is commonplace. Cheers.

searchng4love:

And what else Falana?

ask Google

ULSHERLAN:


It also revealed that water clustered in her head. Again, the report which was reportedly signed by one Dr. Shoyemi, a Pathologist at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, LASUTH, Ikeja, disclosed that late Ronke Shonde died as a result of respiratory seizure. But it ruled out the possibility of her death due to violent marks on her face

culled from the report.

1)Tunde might have been a wife beater causing the marks on her face who knows maybe due to what he heard and saw about his wife cheating (who knows if this is even true) but i dont still think he beat her to death then leaving her locked up inside

2) no one knows the wife's state of health prior to the incident, she could be dealing with some kinda ailment undisclosed which could have triggered when Tunde left the house.

P.s im not a medical practitioner, i just refuse to be sentimental with the situation.

did u forget or slyly left out the "head injury" part?

freshvine:


Worst case scenario her host network provider will provide the transcript of her conversations with the boss.

My No. 1 suspect is the Lover
Then The victim before the man.

which lover? The one Lekan said she had? And you believe it absolutely even against autopsy result in front of you. You try..

damogul:


MsGlobalwonder in case you do not know let me educate you. If the police can prove that the wife was in Abuja with her lover for the weekend and her phone shows his contact and times of call then this case is trash and the reason for water in her head would be conclusive and medical report would be that she unknowingly killed herself.

Allow me explain. There is what is known as WATER POISONING... and this is when a person drinks an unusual amount of water quickly in a short time immediately after a vigorously stressful exercise. This causes electrolyte imbalance in the body and water accumulation in the head known as swolle head syndrom and it is often fatal if not medicaly handled as an emergency.

If she indeed spent a sex filled weekend in abuja then this might show she killed herself involuntarily. Like I said earlier such does not kill immediately but applies pressure to the brain and such a person would pass put anf eventually die if help isnt rendered fast.

Hope you now understand. Its not about what the husband did its about what the medical report clearly states.

lool. Like I asked someone earlier, is it that you didn't see the "head injuries" part or you slyly chose not to talk about it? Oh.. the alleged "lover" banged her head to stupor thereby injuring it abi?

MsGlobalwonder:
comprehension.. comprehension!!!!! Did I say the woman said he can't satisfy her? The man is Insecure!! He monitors her everywhere. He is paranoid too, he accuses her of things she didn't do. Not everything is on NL. The Chat he had with the person that pleaded with Ronke last to return to him before he killed her is everywhere. How was I supporting adultery? Is death the solution of adultery? Which adultery are we even talking about? She committed adultery and he was still desperately and frantically begging her to come back to his house? You have chosen to believe she was cheating and truly you have a right to your choice. But please, be sure you are saying the truth against the dead especially when evidences of the reverse is commonplace. Cheers.

Stop being emotional and be logical.

You posited that the man thinks he can't satisfy her in bed and since the man isn't a robot, she must've said something to that effect, and/or her body language. I'm sure you're not a kid and definitely not a virgin. Since you've had sex in the past, you should know that when a man thinks he can't satisfy you in bed, it's cos of what you said or ya body language after the act. So, my comment stands.

Oh, "he say, she say...not everything is on NL". Where did you get ya own story from or do you know the family? I don't deal with one-sided information from the supposed victim's emotional family and friends trying their best possible to exonerate her from any wrong doing - I deal with information from neutrals. No one is perfect on this planet. And based on what I've read thus far from neutrals, with nothing to gain/lose from the ordeal - the picture is different.

Okay, let's even go with ya "he say, she say...not everything is on NL" argument: it paints a picture of a mentally unstable and possessive man with insecurities. So, why did these "he say, she say...not everything is on NL" folks allow her to return to the man? Why are they now talking when the deed has been done, when they could've stepped in at the right time to save two lives and put the innocent children in a better space? They all deserve to be locked up as well.

mukhcech:


first, I am not a proponent of domestic violence nor do I preach separation and divorce as if we only get married to divorce.

Now, what u failed to understand is that while we all seem to, and should have controls of our actions. The same cannot be said of our reactions to situation either physical, emotional, psychological etc.

An example is: A woman was in argument with her husband over an allegation that her inlaws where abusing her. She goes ahead to accuse the man of being the one talking behind her back to the relatives. AFTERTHOUGHT 1. I PERSONALLY FIND IT DISGUSTING WHEN A WOMAN ARGUES WITH HER HUSBAND.

All this while in the argument, the man was calm, trying to pacify his wife that he couldnt stoop so low to the point of cursing his wife to his relative. Buh nay, she became more aggressive, reigning all types of curses on her husband+his immediate family, in front of their 23yr old son who just got married. AFTER THOUGHT 2. IT TAKES A MAN WITH A PATIENCE GREATER THAN THE MOST PATIENT WOMAN EVER NOT TO BECOME ANGRY AT THIS POINT.-I hope u agree with me.


She became more aggressive and she follows it with confrontation, I mean the wife stood up to and approach her husband, shouting and cursing to her husbands face. It was a horrible experience that their 23yrs old son had to leave the scene due to the embarassment. AFTER THOUGHT 3: THIS IS THE POINT WHERE MANY WOMEN TURN THEIR LOVING HUSBAND(some) TO BEAST.

It isnt bout the action, it is the reaction.

so, if my inference is correct; you are saying because the woman won't stop talking and being confrontational; it turns the man to a Beast, thereby unleashing his beastly nature on the woman. Let me ask too. If it was Flowd Mayweather the boxer that was talking and being confrontational, will the man beat him up? I'm sure the answer is NO. Why? Because he knows that the worst of his beast can't hurt Mayweather's pinky finger. But he will go ahead to pummel the woman because he seem to be able to over power her.

MsGlobalwonder:
lool. Like I asked someone earlier, is it that you didn't see the "head injuries" part or you slyly chose not to talk about it? Oh.. the alleged "lover" banged her head to stupor thereby injuring it abi?

Indeed you are a wonder! The autopsy report is in plain English. If she had head injuries they would have caused internal bleeding in her head and not water retention. This is why the pathologist said the head injuries was not the cause of death. Water in her head came from another source and not from her injuries. Its as simple as ABC. I have already stated what causes water retention in the head. Its different from drowning. She was not drowned otherwise the report would also say so. But it clearly said " water in her head" . Water retention is not the same thing as bleeding in her head.

searchng4love:
Hey awe moora

okun oga mi

damogul:


Indeed you are a wonder! The autopsy report is in plain English. If she had head injuries they would have caused internal bleeding in her head and not water retention. This is why the pathologist said the head injuries was not the cause of death. Water in her head came from another source and not from her injuries. Its as simple as ABC. I have already stated what causes water retention in the head. Its different from drowning. She was not drowned otherwise the report would also say so. But it clearly said " water in her head" . Water retention is not the same thing as bleeding in her head.

Most of them can't read, they're just too emotional.

It's obvious that the guy didn't hit her in head and she obviously didn't hit her head on anything, based on the autopsy report. So it's most likely cardiac arrest or mental/cerebral trauma. You can't rule out epileptic attack and respiration restrain as well. Hence they need to do more tests and check her medical history.

If it's cardiac arrest or mental/cerebral trauma, then it's mostly shock or the marathon ghetto-gagging.

Shym3xx:


Most of them can't read, they're just too emotional.

It's obvious that the guy didn't hit her in head and she obviously didn't hit her head on anything, based on the autopsy report. So it's most likely cardiac arrest or mental/cerebral trauma. You can't rule out epileptic attack and respiration restrain as well. Hence they need to do more tests and check her medical history.

If it's cardiac arrest or mental/cerebral trauma, then it's mostly shock or the marathon ghetto-gagging.

My submission is simple and direct. I deduce that she probably unknowingly carried out water poisoning which is rare but it does happen. It is when someone drinks an unusually large amount of water over a very short period immediately after a very strenuous exercise. If true that she engaged in a weekend of marathon sex then she most probably killed herself via water poisoning.

What is the argument all about.


I have seen what I was looking for, death as a result of respiratory seizure related to 'water in the head' and head injuries. I want to believe that water in the head refers to cerebral oedema which could be as a result of trauma and there is evident head injury, so she could have died as a result of domestic violence.



Lekan's mental stability is being checked.


To the people shouting she was a cheat, sebi she slept with the man in front of you.


Following.

Shym3xx:


Stop being emotional and be logical.

You posited that the man thinks he can't satisfy her in bed and since the man isn't a robot, she must've said something to that effect, and/or her body language. I'm sure you're not a kid and definitely not a virgin. Since you've had sex in the past, you should know that when a man thinks he can't satisfy you in bed, it's cos of what you said or ya body language after the act. So, my comment stands.

Oh, "he say, she say...not everything is on NL". Where did you get ya own story from or do you know the family? I don't deal with one-sided information from the supposed victim's emotional family and friends trying their best possible to exonerate her from any wrong doing - I deal with information from neutrals. No one is perfect on this planet. And based on what I've read thus far from neutrals, with nothing to gain/lose from the ordeal - the picture is different.

Okay, let's even go with ya "he say, she say...not everything is on NL" argument: it paints a picture of a mentally unstable and possessive man with insecurities. So, why did these "he say, she say...not everything is on NL" folks allow her to return to the man? Why are they now talking when the deed has been done, when they could've stepped in at the right time to save two lives and put the innocent children in a better space? They all deserve to be locked up as well.

i'm still trying to figure the correlation between if i'm having sex and what's on ground? Seriously? And you are sure i've had sex in the past? I'm still trying to understand the need for your reference? Oh, you think i'm one of the timid girls that get embarrassed with anything sex? ... "she MUST have said..." ? I give up on you. Thank God you don't work with the police. This would have been a man against woman case forgetting that Ronke too have a father and male relatives that demand for justice.

MsGlobalwonder:
did u forget or slyly left out the "head injury" part?

She could have used her head to hit the floor or wall as a result of the respiratory seizure

damogul:

My submission is simple and direct. I deduce that she probably unknowingly carried out water poisoning which is rare but it does happen. It is when someone drinks an unusually large amount of water over a very short period immediately after a very strenuous exercise. If true that she engaged in a weekend of marathon sex then she most probably killed herself via water poisoning.

I'm leaning towards cardiac arrest, or internal mental sweating. That's if she isn't epileptic.

ULSHERLAN:


She could have used her head to hit the floor or wall as a result of the respiratory seizure

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