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MzzTega:
Alright. You welcome.

lol at your signature. You weren't there in the days of Solomon na.

So I can take his place. Nice to find whom King S couldn't find in his days. Bae let's get started

She thought she had made investment in you....who do es that...abeg dont pay her anything

donbenedict:
lol wat would fifty k mean to me wehn i'm got 5million in my account den? Just let her go dats all. U just neva knw what the girl be planning.. warn her if she ever gets in ur radar, she'd regret it..

Over time, it has been proven that when you succumb to blackmailers, they tend to come back rather than just leave! They enjoy their spoil, and still make quick passes at such again whenever the opportunity comes glittering!

funnynation:
no bi say i no get some ''guns'' wey fit take care of her or even chop her raw but at dis point of my life. I don't need to engage in all dis mess. I need to follow issue now with pen and paper.

Kweke! Who's talking about assault here, no try am o, she will only get substantial grounds to even lay more claims!

SirREX94:
Over time, it has been proven that when you succumb to blackmailers, they tend to come back rather than just leave! They enjoy their spoil, and still make quick passes at such again whenever the opportunity comes glittering!

alright.. cuz person like me, if I get blackmailer na to just corner d person kill am allah.

osedvgirl:
@op, will get back to you as per your siggy



topic, women be disgracing women since immemorial, don't give her a dime, its a scam or rather tell her to pay for the sperm you wasted on her before you pay her

This ose girl nor go kill me with laugh ohh.. Rotfl, make she come pay for the sperm wasted on her.

On a more serious note Op, I'll go with Falconey on this.. The moment you pay her any dime, you'll start paying forever. Trust me. You guys never had a written agreement or document and she has no right to any claim that you owe her any dime neither do you. Just get a lawyer, forward it to court, make her bring along a surety and if she should ever come across your path again, she should be remanded. What nonsense.

As for #Osedvgirl, your matter ehhh. You too get bad mouth

pucelle:
Wait are you the same funnynation on IG?

my own for IG na Funnynation comedian

Charles4075:
This ose girl nor go kill me with laugh ohh.. Rotfl, make she come pay for the sperm wasted on her.

On a more serious note Op, I'll go with Falconey on this.. The moment you pay her any dime, you'll start paying forever. Trust me. You guys never had a written agreement or document and she has no right to any claim that you owe her any dime neither do you. Just get a lawyer, forward it to court, make her bring along a surety and if she should ever come across your path again, she should be remanded. What nonsense.

As for #Osedvgirl, your matter ehhh. You too get bad mouth

abi na

Thank you all.. Atleast my mind don strong like Aso rock now..

Do you think she is not going to ask for more?I think she is jealous of you and also planning to blackmail you.
The best thing to do is to take a legal action.

funnynation:
thank u bro.. I thought of it as well. Even though i don't know how she came up with the figure but i wanted paying her on monthly basis but she insist on having it once.

she wants to milk you dry.turn you into a money dispensing machine.dont give her that pleasure.

Funny nation u need medical help

Mugu. You better drag her down to the nearest police station and make.hervsign an undertaken that should anything happen to you, she should be held responsible. You can also sue her with threat to life. 10k don arrange all this one. It's better than paying 75k. Maga

funnynation:
Good morning Nairaland Nation. As you all know, my name is funnynation. I need advise towards my present challenge am facing with my ex. I met this girl early 2012 and we started as friends because I helped her when she was looking for shop to rent. Around the month of March that same year we started dating and everything started going down well, we share thesame dream by then to end up as husband and wife. At a long we started having issue, she get zero chill (hot temper na her second name). She can pick offence even when you laugh at a wrong time and the most annoying aspect of it that she keep threatening me that she will break up with me. She just believed that I don't have option in life because by then I was doing little job. I even introduced her to my family members and she did thesame.. Around 2014 when both us couldn't hold our head again, we decided to give the relationship a break.

*Fast forwarded to 2016*

She started calling me again that we need to make peace and I have moved on with my life. When she saw my first comedy skit online and she watched my program on TV then she changed her plan, she told me that she have calculated all the money she spent on me and the ones she borrowed me that all the money is #73,000 and I should pay her with immediate effect or I will see the other side of her.

Yesterday she gave sombody phone to talk to me and the man claimed to be a police man started shouting on me that I should pay the money on or before end of the month. The only money that I know she gave me was #15,000 and I wanted paying her but when she said 73k I decided to change my mind. She claimed to spend on me but I know she contributed to my problem last two years because of the way I spend on her. I do buy her cloth on weekly basis, I do buy her mother cloths, I do buy cloths and baby food for her elder sister. I do give her maintenance fee. As she keep threatening me because she believe that entertainment have started paying me big and she want to extort cash from me.

Please should I report to police or should I just wait for her next action or should I back it up with my lawyer? Please good people what will I do because I don't want her case to affect my career because am still coming up in the industry.
*Advice please*



@Nairaland official comedian

give her your own quote with all the money you spent on her etc ahh money must cancel money

osedvgirl:
its a scam or rather tell her to pay for the sperm you wasted on her before you pay her

spar kwa! Na wa for u o

U sef!!! Watin? If she says she need her money back, give it to her in other to avoid her wahala. Though I'm advising based on the topic I couldn't read. Modified. I had read through give her the money. It is what less.

Guys can be poor, so you have the mind to tell us that a lady spent on you?

funnynation:
Good morning Nairaland Nation. As you all know, my name is funnynation. I need advise towards my present challenge am facing with my ex. I met this girl early 2012 and we started as friends because I helped her when she was looking for shop to rent. Around the month of March that same year we started dating and everything started going down well, we share thesame dream by then to end up as husband and wife. At a long we started having issue, she get zero chill (hot temper na her second name). She can pick offence even when you laugh at a wrong time and the most annoying aspect of it that she keep threatening me that she will break up with me. She just believed that I don't have option in life because by then I was doing little job. I even introduced her to my family members and she did thesame.. Around 2014 when both us couldn't hold our head again, we decided to give the relationship a break.

*Fast forwarded to 2016*

She started calling me again that we need to make peace and I have moved on with my life. When she saw my first comedy skit online and she watched my program on TV then she changed her plan, she told me that she have calculated all the money she spent on me and the ones she borrowed me that all the money is #73,000 and I should pay her with immediate effect or I will see the other side of her.

Yesterday she gave sombody phone to talk to me and the man claimed to be a police man started shouting on me that I should pay the money on or before end of the month. The only money that I know she gave me was #15,000 and I wanted paying her but when she said 73k I decided to change my mind. She claimed to spend on me but I know she contributed to my problem last two years because of the way I spend on her. I do buy her cloth on weekly basis, I do buy her mother cloths, I do buy cloths and baby food for her elder sister. I do give her maintenance fee. As she keep threatening me because she believe that entertainment have started paying me big and she want to extort cash from me.

Please should I report to police or should I just wait for her next action or should I back it up with my lawyer? Please good people what will I do because I don't want her case to affect my career because am still coming up in the industry.
*Advice please*



@Nairaland official comedian

BETTER give that girl her MONEY BEFORE she use JUJU on You!

You know if she use JUJU your life no go ever be thesame by!

.........Are you serious !!!

even if you pay her.... she might also come back to also extort money from u there by making u her ATM whenever she needs cash....

just beat her to her game by reporting her to d appropriate security(esp. soldiers) just a little warning we get her off ya back....

Same here oooooo, pls help

Una 2 no get sense.... NEXT!!!

funnynation:
thank u bro.. I thought of it as well. Even though i don't know how she came up with the figure but i wanted paying her on monthly basis but she insist on having it once.

Make sure there are atleast two witness when giving her the money.

But wait o,
Why will a girl be spending money on a guy in a relationship?
Am I that old fashioned?

So una don finally turn dis world up side down instead of woman eating from man now man dey eat from woman.nawau oooooo

Op dont be dumb ooo. What money? Did you collect any money from her? Was it documented?

What if you pay 73k and she comes back with another.

You were in a mutual relationship. You gave and she gave.

Its over and its over. If she cannot move on with her life, send her map on how to get to 3rd mainland bridge.



If i hear say u pay ehn,

falconey:
Pay what? did they sign any agreement while dating that he will refund her of any dime spent on him or otherwise.

Remember, he doesnt want to dent his career.

Mine said 650k instead of 100k she borrowed me. Thank God I sort her the 100k sharply and we go our separate way.

What's the fuzz? I met a white lady online.She spent over $1000 on me.We broke up, but she NEVER asked me to pay back.
It's the poverty level and mentality here that are doing some of these people in.

73k only?? and she is making noise. when someone i know has been receiving $300 monthly from his babe for the past 8months. mtcheeeeew never mind her jare.

funnynation:
Good morning Nairaland Nation. As you all know, my name is funnynation. I need advise towards my present challenge am facing with my ex. I met this girl early 2012 and we started as friends because I helped her when she was looking for shop to rent. Around the month of March that same year we started dating and everything started going down well, we share thesame dream by then to end up as husband and wife. At a long we started having issue, she get zero chill (hot temper na her second name). She can pick offence even when you laugh at a wrong time and the most annoying aspect of it that she keep threatening me that she will break up with me. She just believed that I don't have option in life because by then I was doing little job. I even introduced her to my family members and she did thesame.. Around 2014 when both us couldn't hold our head again, we decided to give the relationship a break.

*Fast forwarded to 2016*

She started calling me again that we need to make peace and I have moved on with my life. When she saw my first comedy skit online and she watched my program on TV then she changed her plan, she told me that she have calculated all the money she spent on me and the ones she borrowed me that all the money is #73,000 and I should pay her with immediate effect or I will see the other side of her.

Yesterday she gave sombody phone to talk to me and the man claimed to be a police man started shouting on me that I should pay the money on or before end of the month. The only money that I know she gave me was #15,000 and I wanted paying her but when she said 73k I decided to change my mind. She claimed to spend on me but I know she contributed to my problem last two years because of the way I spend on her. I do buy her cloth on weekly basis, I do buy her mother cloths, I do buy cloths and baby food for her elder sister. I do give her maintenance fee. As she keep threatening me because she believe that entertainment have started paying me big and she want to extort cash from me.

Please should I report to police or should I just wait for her next action or should I back it up with my lawyer? Please good people what will I do because I don't want her case to affect my career because am still coming up in the industry.
*Advice please*



@Nairaland official comedian

And how much will u pay d lawyer?
Act like ur lawyer gave u a legal advice nd tell her she should bring documented evidence of her giving u d money as a loan rather than a gift and also bring ur own fake list as a counter claim.
but most importantly u should f$!#/€£g man up, she knows u r soft dats y shes tryn to extort u.dnt be a wuss dat a cop called u, if he calls u rake back at him dat he should come to ur lawyers chambers.

FunnyNation if u get the money, pay her, get her to sign before witnesses never to show up in ur life again. this kind pesin fit drag ur name inside mud if u come big pass like dis ooooo