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What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Eddygourdo(m): 4:48pm On May 21, 2016 |
I have to now contend that a marriage I attended last year, filled with joy and plump is finally over. Chidi never expected to be a divorcee and am sure neither did tolani. Yet all our pleas to him to forgive and forget fell on deaf ears. Not because he didn't forgive, but he could not forget. I remember my reason for not visiting this fellow any longer, I couldn't understand the lack of boundaries his wife displays. Unto say I no wan make mistake nack my padi wife, I had to keep off and lie I am never in town. I always had this thinking that something was amiss, till the unpalatable story of him seeing sperms in her buttocks when he tried having a quick sex one day, apparently she was having an office affair and never cleaned up properly on the said day he tried to have a quickie. She later confessed and all but it appears that on the day in question she denied everything flatly. Chidi will always point to that denial and swear it was due to God's grace he didn't strangle her. He could touch another man's sperm on his wife and yet she was denying it. I tried to make him see reasons that she was scared and its human nature to deny at such moment , and if after a year he could get past the sex part, why couldn't he just let go of the denial part. Today dat marriage has officially ended. Tolani changed during the past year of their issues, the once bubbly and flirty woman did everything to see that her marriage was salvageable. Yet her unfortunate past ruined her. To cheat could be devil's work but to lie about cheating is definitely man's work. Its a deliberate ploy to decieve, to humiliate, to outsmart and denigrate a loved one. I understand my buddy though, even if I feel he forgave the sex but not the deception , and that he might regret that since I can confirm that she turned a new leaf. What hurts the most and why exactly........ The sex ? Or the accompanying lying and deception. Even both |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Vikky014(f): 4:50pm On May 21, 2016 |
the lying and deception hurts most nt the sex 1 Like |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Chazzyboy: 4:52pm On May 21, 2016 |
Trust |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by BiafraBushBoy(m): 4:52pm On May 21, 2016 |
sex and imagination of how it happened... |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Nobody: 4:55pm On May 21, 2016 |
The sex first.. I'm closer to STDs with that. The deception is not something new to me lol. I've been lied to over and over I've come to that stage where I just believe people cos I HV to for the mean time only to find out over time for sure for sure. |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by cruzita(f): 4:56pm On May 21, 2016 |
Both of them is damn painful .Extra marital affair KILLS AND DESTROYS .BE WARNED |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by ZeeAfrica(f): 4:57pm On May 21, 2016 |
To have someone u care abt not give a damn abt u. Coz once someone cheats, means dey dnt realy care abt u dat much |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Eddygourdo(m): 4:58pm On May 21, 2016 |
Vikky014:I thought dat was a male thing. Guess women feel the same about the lies too |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by rosieluv(f): 5:02pm On May 21, 2016 |
both hurts |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Vikky014(f): 5:02pm On May 21, 2016 |
Eddygourdo:i so much hate lies eh. it is better to tell me the truth despite dt it hurts than to deceive and lie to me. y shld i think abt d sex who sex epp |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by donbenedict(m): 5:03pm On May 21, 2016 |
Oh my gosh she catches me red handed cheating on her and I deny flatly to her dat I don't knw what she is talkn about? Ryt? Lord even knws I will die dat night |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by PunkyV(f): 5:03pm On May 21, 2016 |
The deception of the sneaky toad To be double-crossed is the most painful & the most infuriating thing ever. It makes me almost epileptic with fury (the shakes) because you feel like such a dummy. It's humiliating. The sex is not much of an issue with me. It's his D after all. He just wont be sharing it with the world while with me. Full stop. It's disrespectful. |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Eddygourdo(m): 5:11pm On May 21, 2016 |
Vikky014:funny. Truthful e no epp anyone. Though for std purposes and hiv it should be monogamous |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Eddygourdo(m): 5:12pm On May 21, 2016 |
donbenedict:hahahahaha funny u |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Eddygourdo(m): 5:13pm On May 21, 2016 |
PunkyV:am guessing both could hurt you in equal measure |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Nobody: 5:17pm On May 21, 2016 |
I must call smellinganus, seems he can relate to this..( a lil bit) |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by abouzaid: 5:19pm On May 21, 2016 |
rubbish, imagine your girlfriend you live in the same compound with bringing in a man and spend the night with him in the full view of your compound people, then you would know what pain is, even God does not forgive all sins yet i forgave and she did worse. that was a big mistake on my part. |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Vikky014(f): 5:22pm On May 21, 2016 |
Eddygourdo:yes u r right |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Eddygourdo(m): 5:22pm On May 21, 2016 |
abouzaid:what a public disgrace. You tried in forgiving such. With a gun to me head, I won't forgive such a woman oh |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Nobody: 5:23pm On May 21, 2016 |
PunkyV:Does that mean he has to as a matter of rule swear down he'll stick with you before he has his way with you? You talking deception as if he has promised for better for worse on the altar. |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by PunkyV(f): 5:24pm On May 21, 2016 |
Eddygourdo: Not the sex much. |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by PunkyV(f): 5:29pm On May 21, 2016 |
pinceprinz: I just EXPECT people to have a moral compass & be decent, is all. I don't expect oaths, I just expect them to know right from wrong. Finish. If he doesnt understand that, then he shouldnt be with me. End of. |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Nobody: 5:34pm On May 21, 2016 |
PunkyV:If that's the case, then its not the deception; actually your standards . All I can infer from your piece. You want a unidirectional as.shole who don't do two. Hope you'll meet up with all of his fantasies? He won't have any excuses at that ykno? |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by abouzaid: 5:38pm On May 21, 2016 |
Eddygourdo:believe me,if i tell you the full gist,you would deliver a dirty slap to my face for been such w weakling, love is indeed a weakness. |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by SmellingAnus(m): 5:39pm On May 21, 2016 |
KashyBaby:sweetheart to me is the lie that follows the cheatt that hurts me more... I can get married to LovePeddler but to to a foolish liar... |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by abouzaid: 5:44pm On May 21, 2016 |
PunkyV:if you really meant what you wrote, then can we be friends? |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by PunkyV(f): 5:45pm On May 21, 2016 |
pinceprinz: LOL, well it's the whole package. I'm really sensitive to betrayal & yes, I also have very rigid principles. If he thinks I dont meet his fantasies, then I prefer he leaves than do sneaky shìt behind my back. That gets to me like nothing else. |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Nobody: 5:48pm On May 21, 2016 |
PunkyV: Oh OK, Till you meet the robot that'll meet all your specifications anyway... |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by Nobody: 5:53pm On May 21, 2016 |
the sex is the painful part, cos it'll be difficult to continue having sex with my hubby ooo, what of the disease he might give me |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by PunkyV(f): 5:55pm On May 21, 2016 |
pinceprinz: I'm already one step ahead, I dont need a relationship to feel whole so whether the "robot" does exist or not, it'll always be rainbows & lollipops in Punkyville |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by PunkyV(f): 5:56pm On May 21, 2016 |
abouzaid: Of course |
Re: What Hurts Us Most In A Cheating Partner...the Away -sex Or The Deception by halfricanadian(f): 5:58pm On May 21, 2016 |
PunkyV: its like u my twin We av d same brain mindset nd approach to life |
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