Re: ......... by Nobody: 10:38am On May 22, 2016 |
Let's get back to basics, what attracted you to date him in the first place? Surely there were warning signs that led to red flags like him being constantly dependent on you from the beginning? |
Re: ......... by yinkeys(m): 10:55am On May 22, 2016 |
Enahi:
Hi Nothing much really. I just thought i'd tell you how much of a good heart you have, even though some guys shove it down your throat. After reading your story, me i just dey wish you happiness sha 1 Like |
Re: ......... by Enahi(f): 11:03am On May 22, 2016 |
yinkeys:
Nothing much really. I just thought i'd tell you how much of a good heart you have, even though some guys shove it down your throat. After reading your story, me i just dey wish you happiness sha Awwww..... thank you so much. How are you? |
Re: ......... by Enahi(f): 11:05am On May 22, 2016 |
Adanna86: Let's get back to basics, what attracted you to date him in the first place? Surely there were warning signs that led to red flags like him being constantly dependent on you from the beginning? No dear I didn't show him any sign, I am a very simple person. 1 Like |
Re: ......... by shigo20(m): 11:31am On May 22, 2016 |
takink advantage of u being a nice person lol.u better confesss urself,u dey look for husband |
Re: ......... by Nobody: 11:46am On May 22, 2016 |
Enahi: Why me? Why are you men very manipulative? I am tired, tired and irritated.
It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little. The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.
Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.
Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.
I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.
I am tired. A wise man once told me you can't complain when you have a choice. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ......... by Nobody: 11:54am On May 22, 2016 |
who told you to try all nigerian men |
Re: ......... by alobright17(m): 12:26pm On May 22, 2016 |
Op Can you make it to Ghana? |
Re: ......... by yinkeys(m): 2:00pm On May 22, 2016 |
Enahi:
Awwww..... thank you so much. How are you? In God's hands. Thank you |
Re: ......... by Nobody: 2:03pm On May 22, 2016 |
Oga o epic narrative story of there life in a sentence. |
Re: ......... by Enahi(f): 7:05pm On May 22, 2016 |
shigo20: takink advantage of u being a nice person lol.u better confesss urself,u dey look for husband You dont just understand and I guess you probably didn't read all I wrote. |
Re: ......... by Enahi(f): 7:06pm On May 22, 2016 |
alobright17: Op Can you make it to Ghana? Sorry to do what in Ghana? |
Re: ......... by chigoizie7(m): 7:15pm On May 22, 2016 |
Enahi: Why me? Why are you men very manipulative? I am tired, tired and irritated.
It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little. The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.
Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.
Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.
I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.
I am tired. Now u see how we feel with all these over demanding girls all around naija, just 2k and 3k and u are complaining. Albeit, u must have fùcked a whole lotta naija men to conclude they ain't good? Just 1 outta +ver 100million doesn't mean naija dudes are mean, u are jsut with d wrong guy. 2ndly ask urself a question, is the problem actually from the guys? Or am I @ fault? There shouldn't be anything more justifiable dan being always used and dumped by men @ will. There is a problem somewhere. Figure it out 1 Like |
Re: ......... by shigo20(m): 11:10pm On May 22, 2016 |
Enahi:
You dont just understand and I guess you probably didn't read all I wrote. lolz |
Re: ......... by kazyhm(m): 11:18pm On May 22, 2016 |
Enahi: Why me? Why are you men very manipulative? I am tired, tired and irritated.
It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little. The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.
Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.
Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.
I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.
I am tired. I think its about choice when you won't consider a reasonable man because they are not flashy my opinion |
Re: ......... by alobright17(m): 11:50pm On May 22, 2016 |
Enahi:
Sorry to do what in Ghana? To spend some time here in Accra believe me you'll like it here |
Re: ......... by makydebbie(f): 8:18am On May 23, 2016 |
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Re: ......... by SuperSupremo(m): 8:46am On May 23, 2016 |
We ghanaians are here,especially when men like me lives both in Ghana and Nigeria.
U are very welcomed and appreciated ok |
Re: ......... by alobright17(m): 9:13am On May 23, 2016 |
makydebbie: lol..why? One week visit here will give her a good relaxation of mind and soul,with all expenses paid trip. Meanwhile you no dey try kraahhh and me no go mind you,just keep it up. |
Re: ......... by makydebbie(f): 9:20am On May 23, 2016 |
alobright17: One week visit here will give her a good relaxation of mind and soul,with all expenses paid trip.
Meanwhile you no dey try kraahhh and me no go mind you,just keep it up. chaii...call me make we discuss am.. |
Re: ......... by alobright17(m): 9:43am On May 23, 2016 |
makydebbie: chaii...call me make we discuss am.. I know you'll be in class by now as usual,you know what I mean na So let the call be after class to avoid the Normal Normal |
Re: ......... by iamord(m): 9:51am On May 23, 2016 |
Enahi: Why me? Why are you men very manipulative? I am tired, tired and irritated.
It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little. The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.
Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.
Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.
I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.
I am tired. 2minths into the relationship. Of course he is taking advantage of you. Some guys play that game well too 1 Like |
Re: ......... by realpoacher(m): 10:02am On May 23, 2016 |
Stupedinluv: Honey there are better and bigger reasons to be tired of Nigerian men/black men in general.
I can understand what you passing through. Many guys out there are coded golddiggers. The moment they notice you earning, they start looking for a way to leech you dry. Thats why i dont let any of them know am earning, those parasites that is. And i try to keep a very low profile too. I advice you to do same if you wish.
Dating a guy who is not workingwould most times lead to heart breaks and disappointments. And what stop you from taking care of a man who is not working without complaining?... I thought you Feminists are looking for equal rights?... After all men always take care of their girlfriend or wives whether she is working or not. So stop sulking, and assume responsibility too. |
Re: ......... by Hush08181801636(m): 1:53pm On May 27, 2016 |
Pele derie... dem plenty outside... watch carefully... |
Re: ......... by Burgerlomo: 2:22pm On May 27, 2016 |
Enahi: Why me? Why are you men very manipulative? I am tired, tired and irritated.
It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little. The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.
Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.
Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.
I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.
I am tired. Try us na |
Re: ......... by romme2u: 12:01am On May 28, 2016 |
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Re: ......... by romme2u: 12:35am On May 28, 2016 |
Enahi:
Hi U again? babe u get plenty time for ur hand sha. i won't add to what a lot of people have already said but u need to work on urself. if u can't read books, watch videos and listen to audios. attend every relationship seminar around u and most importantly have a mentor or visit a psychologist. u need to understand urself and what u want so that u can spot it a mile away. don't just roll with any guy, get a spec and stick to it. look through a guy's physique to his personality and mental prowess. for as a man thinks so is he. learn to assess and analyze a guy's thinking pattern before deciding if u can roll with him. life is too short, don't waste ur time rolling from one rotten egg to another. some people cannot be help from close proximity as they will infect u with their problems. relationships are supposed to be enjoyed not endured. don't endure relationships, talk to ur partner about issues u are not comfortable with and if they don't considered ur opinions then walk. Most times some doors have to be closed for others to open. 1 Like |
Re: ......... by Kenkaniff(m): 6:48am On May 28, 2016 |
Lol I just dey follow quietly,gals and their wahala,who we wan ask the truth??call the guy to come defend himself,don't crucify him with the so called flaws.if you're tired,go ni abi them use juju tie u?? |
Re: ......... by Puresolutions: 2:10pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Enahi: Why me? Why are you men very manipulative? I am tired, tired and irritated.
It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little. The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.
Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.
Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.
I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.
I am tired. REVERSE PSYCHE IS WHAT I WANT TO COMMIT HERE .... I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK DO WOMEN HAVE PROBLEMS ATALL BESIDES MEN PROBLEMS ? WHY DO ALL LADIES ONLY SEEM TO HAVE MAN PROBLEMS WHY ? |
Re: ......... by Enahi(f): 2:44pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Puresolutions:
REVERSE PSYCHE IS WHAT I WANT TO COMMIT HERE ....
I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK DO WOMEN HAVE PROBLEMS ATALL BESIDES MEN PROBLEMS ? WHY DO ALL LADIES ONLY SEEM TO HAVE MAN PROBLEMS WHY ? Sure we do 've other problems aside man problems |
Re: ......... by Puresolutions: 3:14pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Enahi:
Sure we do 've other problems aside man problems @Enahi the forum is flooded with this same issues over and over...Is it so difficult to leave a guy? is it this difficult ? |
Re: ......... by Nobody: 3:23pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Puresolutions:
REVERSE PSYCHE IS WHAT I WANT TO COMMIT HERE ....
I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK DO WOMEN HAVE PROBLEMS ATALL BESIDES MEN PROBLEMS ? WHY DO ALL LADIES ONLY SEEM TO HAVE MAN PROBLEMS WHY ? Aside men, women still have a lot of problems. Ranging from latest fashion, looks and so on. |