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Adaeze003:
I didn't expect any better from this guy... coz like his handle, I think he's "lil".

mtcheeew na even this one sef

MRBrownJ:
so if a man falls out of love with his gf, it means he wasted her time?!?!?!?!?!??!?! what about all the good time they had during all this time, is it irrelevant? what about HIS time then, wasnt it wasted too? so being proper and mature means to be with people that you dont love anymore? how desperate is your sister that you would rather she be with a guy that doesnt care for her any longer, instead of being single and on the market again to potential prospects?

lets value our sistas!

She is not desperate. She doesn't even want to marry him again because she wouldn't want to make the mistake of marrying someone who doesn't love her anymore but there is a little challenge unfortunately....she needs her kidney back just in case her husband who will love her and would never want to leave her will need it someday #LOBATON

bros, just return the kidney.

disgirlfrid:
She is not desperate. She doesn't even want to marry him again because she wouldn't want to make the mistake of marrying someone who doesn't love her anymore but there is a little challenge unfortunately....she needs her kidney back just in case her husband who will love her and would never want to leave her will need it someday #LOBATON

so what you are insinuating is that everything that is given "out of love" during a r/ship, can be taken back, if it can be used by their next partner?! meaning, all the gifts that men gave women during r/ship must be returned?

hpk:
If na my sister we for don collect awa kidney before you begin type this ya epistle. just negodu!!!

LMAO

MRBrownJ:
so what you are insinuating is that everything that is given "out of love" during a r/ship, can be taken back, if it can be used by their next partner?! meaning, all the gifts that men gave women during r/ship must be returned?

Hehehehehehe this one is kidney. Anyway seriously if it were you it'd shatter you, so you should understand where everybody is coming from.

MRBrownJ:
explain the situation to her then marry and stay with her out of pity for 2/3yrs, as a "thank you" gesture for saving your life, then divorce her and move on with your well deserved kidney.

This generation is filled with people who are selfish. If you see someone who beyond all odds did something for you, then you are lucky. What is love? How can you marry someone out of pity for some years and divorce her later so as not to look bad or evil leaving them on the on set. Its normal to feel you don't love someone you have been with anymore if you meet a fresh girl. Although some men are exceptionally good. God, take away any man that is not worthy of me. AMEN.

pcguru1:
What I will say sounds harsh and painful but it's the truth, there was a thread about men sending a girl friend through school doesn't automatically mean marriage and the guy should take it like that, and really it made sense nothing was written as a contract and all. Really if she donated a kidney well that's actually brave and kinda of her, sadly this doesn't mean the guy is entitled to be married to her, yeah there's a difference between a kidney and money, but the same logic applies in a silly manner. Sadly it just shows how deceptful and ungrateful we are as humans. So if u ask me, is the man right to say he's not interested in marrying his Babe sure free will. It just shows the nature of the type of guy. What a time to be born

I don't think she gave her kidney because of marriage. Some people sell theirs for a huge amount of money;she gave hers to him out of love. Because she really wants him to be able to live. No one could do it for him. Well i think the girl should move on. She should take it as act of good deed. She should forgive him and look forward to love again. She should also pray for the guy and not curse him. Live and let live. He wants to choose another part which might be his destiny. Her dating him for 5 years is not a waste of time.And i won't advice ladies never to date because of disappointment. What if you see someone and get married within a short period and end up in a mess and regret? No one can predict the future and some people don't know what they want in life. That's the big issue.

disgirlfrid:
Hehehehehehe this one is kidney. Anyway seriously if it were you it'd shatter you, so you should understand where everybody is coming from.

the minute she gave that kidney, it wasnt HERS any longer. you cant give and take organs back, just because the person doesnt love you any longer, thats some cheap MADNESS. sadly, not even the law would be on her side as she lost any right to the organ the minute it was transplanted into someone else's body.
as for me, i can only give a kidney if that person is my parents, kids or siblings.... any other person, you are oyo.

sweetilicious:
This generation is filled with people who are selfish. If you see someone who beyond all odds did something for you, then you are lucky. What is love? How can you marry someone out of pity for some years and divorce her later so as not to look bad or evil leaving them on the on set. Its normal to feel you don't love someone you have been with anymore if you meet a fresh girl. Although some men are exceptionally good. God, take away any man that is not worthy of me. AMEN.

again, if you had read my reply CAREFULLY, you would have seen that i wrote "explain the situation to her", therefore if she still wanna get married after you told her you dont love her any longer (we all know how desperate some women out there are about marriage), then marry her out of pity or a thank you gesture, and basta!

[quote author=MRBrownJ post=45893802]the minute she gave that kidney, it wasnt HERS any longer. you cant give and take organs back, just because the person doesnt love you any longer, thats some cheap MADNESS. sadly, not even the law would be on her side as she lost any right to the organ the minute it was transplanted into someone else's body.
as for me, i can only give a kidney if that person is my parents, kids or siblings.... any other person, you are oyo.



Complicated issh. You are right anyways. The best kind of love is the one given without expectkng anything in return...which is rare. Giving someone a body part to save their life doesn't guarantee anything. Nothing is guarantee. Me too o, parent, sibs or kids.... Maybe a very nice friend sha,,, else Oyo!!!