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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Champagnepapi: 6:27pm On Jun 02, 2016
I was dating a girl way back.. Which we loved each other so much.. Suddenly, her sister showed discomfort in our relationship and asked her to break up... She told me the reason and she eventually did... I can't understand something there.. Why'd she succumb to her sister suggestion? It brings me the question if she really did love me?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jun 02, 2016
Twaci:
Welcome darling kiss

Thanks bae wink

Let the questions roll cheesy

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:27pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
optional1 dat twaci or any lady answers a question first doesn't mean another lady won't answer it. We guys need different opinions on d same issue so we can knw how to handle the matter optimally. So please ur work should be to answer and not to keep asking questions.. infact I asked a question just nw so answer it!



Ok boss!

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by iykekelvins(m): 6:28pm On Jun 02, 2016
mhiz:

Maybe its because I'm still young, I've nt met any guy I'm older than, that's rili matured or can hold up a good conversation.
Thanks for your answer

One thing that bothers me again about girls


You express your feelings for a girl you truly like, and she's like'' you just want to use and dump me''

I don't get why some of them think like this

Cc: Twaci and other ladies here

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 6:28pm On Jun 02, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
Twaci answer me this.....why do some females expect us males to be mind readers?..
This case usually occur when the guy gives the impression that he is a Know-all.

Could be she's left clues and signs as to a particular situation but you failed to notice.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jun 02, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Why do girls get mad/jealous when their BF gets side chick? undecided

No lady wants to share her man especially when she is giving her 120% . so it is only rational that she gets almost the same level of commitment back.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JoeCutie(m): 6:29pm On Jun 02, 2016
Twaci:
I never said men and women are equals. But then, I feel that most men feel we should be submissive even when ill-treated. Now that is what I am not in support of.

Respect, they say, is reciprocal.
So it's safe to say you're not an advocate for gender equality then?

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jun 02, 2016
Champagnepapi:
I was dating a girl way back.. Which we loved each other so much.. Suddenly, her sister showed discomfort in our relationship and asked her to break up... She told me the reason and she eventually did... I can't understand something there.. Why'd she succumb to her sister suggestion? It brings me the question if she really did love me?

Before I answer your question, please tell me how long uve known/dated this girl in question before the sister came in...

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ikombe: 6:30pm On Jun 02, 2016
Announcer007:
Why do women refuse their husbands sex but still go fvck houseboys , plumber, driver or securityman?
dis wan don dey watch film too much undecided

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 6:31pm On Jun 02, 2016
Announcer007:
Why do women refuse their husbands sex but still go fvck houseboys , plumber, driver or securityman?
what kind of husband are we talking about?

Women work with their emotions. They love being complimented, they want their man to think of them as sexy, spontaneous, breath-taking. They want heat, passion, they need to feel wanted, appreciated, loved.

Where a husband is cold and unwelcoming, rarely compliments his wife and is generally sour toward her, she looks outside to the man who compliments her, the man who notices her new hairstyle and tells her she looks good with it, the man who tells her she has a beautiful smile. The man who looks at her like he would give an arm and a leg to be with her....the man with passion in his eyes.

That's what makes a wife stray, that coldness and lack of fire in a relationship

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 6:31pm On Jun 02, 2016
Announcer007:
Why do women refuse their husbands sex but still go fvck houseboys , plumber, driver or securityman?
Could be she's unsatisfied with her marital sex life.

Communication (true and heartfelt communication) is advised here.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 6:32pm On Jun 02, 2016
JoeCutie:
So it's safe to say you're not an advocate for gender equality then?
No I am not. smiley
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jun 02, 2016
iykekelvins:
Thanks for your answer

One thing that bothers me again about girls


You express your feelings for a girl you truly like, and she's like'' you just want to use and dump me''

I don't get why some of them think like this

Cc: Twaci and other ladies here

Women are the weaker vessels...

Most times, its easier for a lady to be "used and dumped" than vice versa.

Behind that statement she made is a lady silently hoping that you allay her fears and give her reasons why you're gonna stick with her and not dump her.. It's not rocket science wink

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 6:33pm On Jun 02, 2016
Champagnepapi:
I was dating a girl way back.. Which we loved each other so much.. Suddenly, her sister showed discomfort in our relationship and asked her to break up... She told me the reason and she eventually did... I can't understand something there.. Why'd she succumb to her sister suggestion? It brings me the question if she really did love me?
she didn't.

A woman who loves you will abandon her entire family to be with you, that's how crazy women in love are

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 6:33pm On Jun 02, 2016
Third question

In your opinion ladies, what are those things you don't like that guys always form a habit of doing

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Maxi112: 6:34pm On Jun 02, 2016
my second question.


Why do some girls prefer MouthAction/ romance over penetration?

hope I'm not spoiling the fun here

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ireneony(f): 6:34pm On Jun 02, 2016
Announcer007:
Why do women refuse their husbands sex but still go fvck houseboys , plumber, driver or securityman?
which kind question be dis.
U are not married yet. ..let it slide.
Get to the river first before crossing the bridge

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 6:35pm On Jun 02, 2016
iykekelvins:
Thanks for your answer

One thing that bothers me again about girls


You express your feelings for a girl you truly like, and she's like'' you just want to use and dump me''

I don't get why some of them think like this

Cc: Twaci and other ladies here
Once bitten, twice shy, they say.

Could be she's been hurt before and wouldn't want to go through that path again.

True love is when you make her forget it all.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jun 02, 2016
mimzy:


No lady wants to share her man especially when she is giving her 120% . so it is only rational that she gets almost the same level of commitment back.
It's very possible she gets same commitment even when he's got side chick.

Having a side chick does mean she's not committed to her main chick. maybe men are just wired like that (Not trying to justify cheating).

I've seen married men who places their wife and family above every other things cheat on their wife

My point is, a wise dude can still keep a side chick without changing nothing

That said, I'm a 'one girl' dude tongue tongue

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ireneony(f): 6:36pm On Jun 02, 2016
All guys here should ask me any issue concerning ladies.
U all are welcome

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by iykekelvins(m): 6:36pm On Jun 02, 2016
mimzy:


Women are the weaker vessels...

Most times, its easier for a lady to be "used and dumped" than vice versa.

Behind that statement she made is a lady silently hoping that you allay her fears and give her reasons why you're gonna stick with her and not dump her.. It's not rocket science wink
Thank yousmiley
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jun 02, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Why do girls get mad/jealous when their BF gets side chick? undecided
How would you feel if you find out that your girl is two timing??.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jun 02, 2016
mhiz:

How would you feel if you find out that your girl is two timing??.
is that answer to my question?

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by RoyalBlak007: 6:38pm On Jun 02, 2016
Girls always have "assistant boyfriends"..Which is so true...there is always that other guy who's better than their current bf...who might be 'just a friend' or 'my cousins friend' or 'my bf's elder broda'

Say something to this....true innit?

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by naijamakossa(m): 6:38pm On Jun 02, 2016
big or small dickson which do girls prefer
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 6:39pm On Jun 02, 2016
ireneony:
All guys here should ask me any issue concerning ladies.
U all are welcome
I asked a question, u should look up the thread and answer.m questions are for the general house(ladies), and not just one person to answer

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by safarigirl(f): 6:39pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Third question

In your opinion ladies, what are those things you don't like that guys always form a habit of doing

1) Not listening to us

2) Thinking we're 'just over-reacting' when something is important to us

3) Forgetting birthdays/anniversaries and the likes

4) Not complimenting us when we put effort into lookin good (for you) or even worse, telling us we "looked better before"

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Third question

In your opinion ladies, what are those things you don't like that guys always form a habit of doing


I assume ure talking bout a lady ure already dating. If yes.then find below:

Stalking her
Acting like you don't care when in actual fact you do
Taking her love for granted
Forgetting special dates e.g bdays, anniversaries...
Taking her out to a party then ignoring her all tru d time at the party.
Cheating
Reminding her of her lapses that your ex had in abundance undecided

I could go on and on. Lol

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 6:40pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Third question

In your opinion ladies, what are those things you don't like that guys always form a habit of doing
1. Do not give me the dream of forever when its not.

2. You can have female friends but I should come first.

3. No passwords on phones please cheesy (just joking oh!)

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
Third question

In your opinion ladies, what are those things you don't like that guys always form a habit of doing

Asking other girls out and telling me its just for fun. Maybe gossiping.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 6:41pm On Jun 02, 2016
Cutehector:
I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him shocked


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool.. buh she just doesn't seem to return the feelings.

It's really hurting me cuz i"v been there.



Well for me this girl like this guys jst as he is, she didnt jst reject d guy lyk dat as u said she doesnt av a feeling for d guy which u cant force her to accept u.

To me I will prefer that guy as a friend instead of avin him as a boyfrnd cos if I date him I might not b comfortable as he was to me b4 d relationship started.

To d girl she might b in love with some1 else nd decision to give dat guy a try nd find out she cant love dat guy d way she love her boyfriend.

She might reject d guys cos of religion nd tribe also. Cos her parent might not b ready to accept d guy so is better she doesnt start a relationship dat wont lead to marriage.


My view on your female friend.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by JeffreyJamez(m): 6:42pm On Jun 02, 2016
Twaci:
This case usually occur when the guy gives the impression that he is a Know-all.

Could be she's left clues and signs as to a particular situation but you failed to notice.

...and what if the guy keeps asking "what's wrong?"..and keeps getting "nothing" but he feels something is wrong?..how do you explain that?

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