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drestoneokuta:
He who finds a wife........ Sigh

skarlett:
You are not in their shoes, so you can't be so sure, that is whether you're speaking from personal "experience" or not

I don't support campus runs but I'm not against it either cos I believe in the dictum, 'live and let live'. You can never give satisfactory reasons why ladies go into campus runs without sounding spiteful, petty and judgemental so it all boils down to my latter statement, your write-up is skewed


Ps: If you can't take constructive criticism without sounding supercilious, then you've got a lot to work on, on yourself without throwing shades at campus runs girls. Aloha!

[color=#1980BC]After writing epistles to criticize the Op's write up you then say you don't support them? Then What point exactly are you standing on?

It is either you are in support of girls who engage in such stuff or you don't at all. I still don't understand what will make a girl go into such business for money when there are other girls like her who can't do such.

What shoes are you talking about here madam? It's not in every case that you "live and let live", if you are a parent and you discover that your daughter is engaged in such activity will you follow up this your slogan because you want to be liberal?

If we decide to follow this your slogan that means fraudsters, armed robbers, kidnappers and other people who do things because they are poor will walk freely on the streets.

What is bad is bad! No need justifying it at all [/color]

donKonji:
@OP ur closing out statement is a bit scary for we married men. In my case before I married my wife she confessed she had been banging a senior colleague at her work place but had long quit the lifestyle before we started dating. It wasn't pleasant but I still forged ahead with marrying her because I felt she was penitent. Fast-forward 10 months after marriage, we had a baby boy who shockingly didn't look anything like me or my spouse. Curiously I started researching on her former colleague whom she had a relationship with. To my surprise the man was fair, short and had similar attributes to my son. I quickly had to arrange for a DNA test to confirm if I was really the dad. The lab report came out I was told the child belonged to me with 99.99% certainty. I am still freaked out because the boy has grown and still looks nothing like me but more like the other man. I have secretly ordered 2 more DNA tests and they all came out positive.
Just wanted to share this experience because my wife doesn't come across like the flashy type and if she didn't confess her past indiscretions to me I wouldn't have ever known. Looks can really be deceptive. I asked her whether she was a runsgirl in university but she said she wasn't. Don't even know if that's true.

[color=#1980BC]Your case though. [/color]

Mom007:
You sound like a you are sad for all the things you missed out on in school and trust me, you missed out on a lot. Being a good girl in the University is not by shutting your self up in your room all the time cus there are some lessons you have to learn and experiences you have to get before you can call yourself a graduate. it's more of following your conscience. Every one knows what is right and wrong. Do things that will not shame your parents should they hear about it. A word is enough for the wise.

naijaboiy:
[b][color=#1980BC]After writing epistles to criticize the Op's write up you then say you don't support them? Then What point exactly are you standing on?

If we decide to follow this your slogan that means fraudsters, armed robbers, kidnappers and other people who do things because they are poor will walk freely on the streets.

What is bad is bad! No need justifying it at all [/color][/b]

donKonji:
@OP ur closing out statement is a bit scary for we married men. In my case before I married my wife she confessed she had been banging a senior colleague at her work place but had long quit the lifestyle before we started dating. It wasn't pleasant but I still forged ahead with marrying her because I felt she was penitent. Fast-forward 10 months after marriage, we had a baby boy who shockingly didn't look anything like me or my spouse. Curiously I started researching on her former colleague whom she had a relationship with. To my surprise the man was fair, short and had similar attributes to my son. I quickly had to arrange for a DNA test to confirm if I was really the dad. The lab report came out I was told the child belonged to me with 99.99% certainty. I am still freaked out because the boy has grown and still looks nothing like me but more like the other man. I have secretly ordered 2 more DNA tests and they all came out positive.
Just wanted to share this experience because my wife doesn't come across like the flashy type and if she didn't confess her past indiscretions to me I wouldn't have ever known. Looks can really be deceptive. I asked her whether she was a runsgirl in university but she said she wasn't. Don't even know if that's true.

Ginaz:
when I was in school, I didn't attended any birthday or party, I never stepped out of my room after 8p.m, only time I did it's getting food for dinner or hanging around my Lodge mates rooms just for general laughter and humor.

only party I attended was my graduation party. I visited just five (5) people throughout my stay in school and only three (3) people I allowed visited. when I tell people this is what I did in school, they never believe and I don't blame them.

no girl is lose or good, everything boils down to self control. if you don't wanna live a wayward life in school then you got to get a firm hold on yourself. every bad character doesn't start in a day, before you know it, it is embedded in your personality.

I'm happy with myself how I handled everything during my schooling days. all I wanna tell some girls is that, don't throw caution to the wind, have self control in every thing you do. I'm not a good girl, but I'm trying.

skarlett:
Check out the definition of epistles, if you dunno what they are



I am indifferent to girls who do it because it is essentially their lives and their business. You cannot understand because you don't know the circumstances surrounding them and why they choose to do what they do. I don't support their doing it but I won't condemn them either because its different strokes for different folks. You don't know what they're struggling with or how bad their situation is.

I will also disallow my daughter from having a boyfriend because the same sex she's having with him is the same she'll have with an aristo for money.

Those people you mentioned can never be classified in the same group as runs girls. For one they murder and they kill, who olosho dey kill?

Since we're in the condemnation business let's condemn ladies who keep a boyfriend for whatever reasons, afterall they're essentially commiting the same sin - fornication

[color=#1980BC]This is just a baseless diversionary tactic.

First of all I'm not talking about the act of fornication here. You never saw me quoting a bible verse in my argument/opinion so please take that to the religious people. My point is on the act of selling your body for money, that which I don't need to be practicing any religion before I know it's a bad thing to do.

Fornication is a bad thing on its own(for those who see it as bad), while prostitution is another different act on it's own. After all we have married prostitutes, so you see that your point doesn't just follow.

Secondly, If you want to condemn ladies who keep boyfriends and are faithful to their boyfriends it's your choice. After all, you fall into that category too. So you can shoot yourself in the foot! [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Your case though. [/color]

abouzaid:
I'm shedding tears while reading your comment, to be honest I've so much of similar and other negative experiences with women that i now wonder if marriage is worth it, 33 and still single, I'm really trying hard to convince myself that it's still sensible to love and marry a woman again albeit with a good load of self selfishness for myself too. please don't hate your wife, remember you won't have known if she hasn't opened up to you, also run the dna test secretly in different facilities, women can go at any length to cover up their acts, God would see us through.

donKonji:
Thanks for the feedback. Like I said I have secretly conducted 2 tests without her knowledge. And it all came back +ve. What else can I do bro?

[color=#1980BC]I guess you just have to live with it. Cos it seems the child is really yours. [/color]

lordyugo:
so d conclusion is girls r worse ds days jus dt d r gud at pretence till d advent of social media which showed us finding a wife material is like finding d golden fleece?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Madam, cut the crap. We have all heard those excuses a thousand times, it still doesn't justify their acts. After all we still see people who have been in terrible conditions that didn't delve into such disgraceful and name shaming act. And it is good for you to note that the more we keep hearing stories of people who kept their dignity intact, despite their hard conditions, the more people who are so weak to go into such shameful and disgraceful act will be judged and condemned without remorse.

It's a shameful thing to do.[/color]


[b][color=#1980BC]LOL! Just to prove a point you lose the very essence of everything. So if I get you right, you mean the sex a girl has for money is the same sex another girl has with her boyfmoriend. The one she loves?

Last I checked, it's this same sex you girls attach a whole lot of importance to. When you give it to a guy who is not worthy, you writhe in pain and cry of regrets. So how come now you are equating that same sex with commercializing it.

Don't you think you are rubbishing the good girls out there? You are!

The ones who have decided to be good and stay faithful to their man you now equate what they hold in high esteem as the same thing the prostitutes do? That means every girl should just fück any man for money because it's just the same sex.

Lol and to think you always write about how you and your man engage in this sex in the most sacred of ways it's quite funny. I wonder what he will say if he reads this.

If you want to restrain your daughter from having a boyfriend that's left to you. But it wouldn't stop her from becoming an aristo if she wants to and I wonder how you will feel when you find out. That wa my initial question miss.[/color][/b]





[color=#1980BC]They can never be classified so you say but what is bad is bad! Olosho nor dey kill but na still bad thing to do.

You must not kill someone before you say you are doing a bad thing that the society rejects.

Runs girls don't kill but that practice is still one of the most shamful practices on earth right from when man started breathing. Runs girls don't kill but yet when any one of you girls is insulted as a "whöre" you take it up. That's simply because it's bad and the society doesn't accept it, no amount of sugar coating or justification will change that, not even in the nearest future.[/color]


[color=#1980BC]This is just a baseless diversionary tactic.

First of all I'm not talking about the act of fornication here. You never saw me quoting a bible verse in my argument/opinion so please take that to the religious people. My point is on the act of selling your body for money, that which I don't need to be practicing any religion before I know it's a bad thing to do.

Fornication is a bad thing on its own(for those who see it as bad), while prostitution is another different act on it's own. After all we have married prostitutes, so you see that your point doesn't just follow.

Secondly, If you want to condemn ladies who keep boyfriends and are faithful to their boyfriends it's your choice. After all, you fall into that category too. So you can shoot yourself in the foot! [/color]

4C2215131:
Fatality!

[color=#1980BC]Waiting to see how she would tackle that! [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Madam, cut the crap. We have all heard those excuses a thousand times, it still doesn't justify their acts. After all we still see people who have been in terrible conditions that didn't delve into such disgraceful and name shaming act. And it is good for you to note that the more we keep hearing stories of people who kept their dignity intact, despite their hard conditions, the more people who are so weak to go into such shameful and disgraceful act will be judged and condemned without remorse.

It's a shameful thing to do.[/color]


[b][color=#1980BC]LOL! Just to prove a point you lose the very essence of everything. So if I get you right, you mean the sex a girl has for money is the same sex another girl has with her boyfriend. The one she loves?

Last I checked, it's this same sex you girls attach a whole lot of importance to. When you give it to a guy who is not worthy, you writhe in pain and cry of regrets. So how come now you are equating that same sex with commercializing it.

Don't you think you are rubbishing the good girls out there? You are!

The ones who have decided to be good and stay faithful to their man you now equate what they hold in high esteem as the same thing the prostitutes do? That means every girl should just fück any man for money because it's just the same sex.

Lol and to think you always write about how you and your man engage in this sex in the most sacred of ways it's quite funny. I wonder what he will say if he reads this.

If you want to restrain your daughter from having a boyfriend that's left to you. But it wouldn't stop her from becoming an aristo if she wants to and I wonder how you will feel when you find out. That wa my initial question miss.[/color][/b]





[color=#1980BC]They can never be classified so you say but what is bad is bad! Olosho nor dey kill but na still bad thing to do.

You must not kill someone before you say you are doing a bad thing that the society rejects.

Runs girls don't kill but that practice is still one of the most shamful practices on earth right from when man started breathing. Runs girls don't kill but yet when any one of you girls is insulted as a "whöre" you take it up. That's simply because it's bad and the society doesn't accept it, no amount of sugar coating or justification will change that, not even in the nearest future.[/color]


[color=#1980BC]This is just a baseless diversionary tactic.

First of all I'm not talking about the act of fornication here. You never saw me quoting a bible verse in my argument/opinion so please take that to the religious people. My point is on the act of selling your body for money, that which I don't need to be practicing any religion before I know it's a bad thing to do.

Fornication is a bad thing on its own(for those who see it as bad), while prostitution is another different act on it's own. After all we have married prostitutes, so you see that your point doesn't just follow.

Secondly, If you want to condemn ladies who keep boyfriends and are faithful to their boyfriends it's your choice. After all, you fall into that category too. So you can shoot yourself in the foot! [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Madam, cut the crap. We have all heard those excuses a thousand times, it still doesn't justify their acts. After all we still see people who have been in terrible conditions that didn't delve into such disgraceful and name shaming act. And it is good for you to note that the more we keep hearing stories of people who kept their dignity intact, despite their hard conditions, the more people who are so weak to go into such shameful and disgraceful act will be judged and condemned without remorse.

It's a shameful thing to do.[/color]

[b][color=#1980BC]LOL! Just to prove a point you lose the very essence of everything. So if I get you right, you mean the sex a girl has for money is the same sex another girl has with her boyfriend. The one she loves?

Last I checked, it's this same sex you girls attach a whole lot of importance to. When you give it to a guy who is not worthy, you writhe in pain and cry of regrets. So how come now you are equating that same sex with commercializing it.

Don't you think you are rubbishing the good girls out there? You are!

Sorry good girls, I didn't intend to rubbish y'all. Better sir?

The ones who have decided to be good and stay faithful to their man you now equate what they hold in high esteem as the same thing the prostitutes do? That means every girl should just fück any man for money because it's just the same sex.

That's every girls choice now, isn't it?

Lol and to think you always write about how you and your man engage in this sex in the most sacred of ways it's quite funny. I wonder what he will say if he reads this.

that's for him to say dear

If you want to restrain your daughter from having a boyfriend that's left to you. But it wouldn't stop her from becoming an aristo if she wants to and I wonder how you will feel when you find out. That wa my initial question miss.[/color][/b]

[color=#1980BC]They can never be classified so you say but what is bad is bad! Olosho nor dey kill but na still bad thing to do.

You must not kill someone before you say you are doing a bad thing that the society rejects.

Runs girls don't kill but that practice is still one of the most shamful practices on earth right from when man started breathing. Runs girls don't kill but yet when any one of you girls is insulted as a "whöre" you take it up. That's simply because it's bad and the society doesn't accept it, no amount of sugar coating or justification will change that, not even in the nearest future.[/color]

[b][color=#1980BC]This is just a baseless diversionary tactic.

First of all I'm not talking about the act of fornication here. You never saw me quoting a bible verse in my argument/opinion so please take that to the religious people. My point is on the act of selling your body for money, that which I don't need to be practicing any religion before I know it's a bad thing to do.

Fornication is a bad thing on its own(for those who see it as bad), while prostitution is another different act on it's own. After all we have married prostitutes, so you see that your point doesn't just follow.

Secondly, If you want to condemn ladies who keep boyfriends and are faithful to their boyfriends it's your choice. After all, you fall into that category too. So you can shoot yourself in the foot! [/color][/b][/i]

Like I've been pointing out, I'm not condemning anyone. That I'm not an olosho doesn't mean I'm not other things, we all sin differently. Tomorrow someone can come up with a thread condemning people who smoke weed and I'd say the same thing...its their life and their business

Ginaz:
when I was in school, I didn't attended any birthday or party, I never stepped out of my room after 8p.m, only time I did it's getting food for dinner or hanging around my Lodge mates rooms just for general laughter and humor.

only party I attended was my graduation party. I visited just five (5) people throughout my stay in school and only three (3) people I allowed visited. when I tell people this is what I did in school, they never believe and I don't blame them.

no girl is lose or good, everything boils down to self control. if you don't wanna live a wayward life in school then you got to get a firm hold on yourself. every bad character doesn't start in a day, before you know it, it is embedded in your personality.

I'm happy with myself how I handled everything during my schooling days. all I wanna tell some girls is that, don't throw caution to the wind, have self control in every thing you do. I'm not a good girl, but I'm trying.

naturalwaves:
It may sound offensive but I can authoritatively assert that nowadays, about 70% of Nigerian ladies are prostitutes. I remember joining a very good social networking site BADOO about 12 years ago and all seem well. Go there now and see how Nigerian ladies have shamelessly turned it into a tool for prostitution. You can hardly make regular friends there, all they know is hookup, zex, money. Most of them are so senseles that the only asset they think they have is their veevee.... Public asset. What a shame!

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Waiting to see how she would tackle that! [/color]

donKonji:
Thanks for the feedback. Like I said I have secretly conducted 2 tests without her knowledge. And it all came back +ve. What else can I do bro?

COMPAQ:
Most of them on badoo are guys mind you! They are posing as girls an
d trying to extort money for "transport"