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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Odunharry(m): 7:03pm On Jun 05, 2016
optional1:




I cant trust a guy y cos dey dont value my trust.


My first bf I over trusted him he batray my trust my using d method of testing to test my love for him nd later he found another gal which I neve knew until d day he did his introduction. Tell me Y i should trust a guy dat away frm me.

Second bf I trusted him I believe everything he was saying not until I found out he was jst lying on top of lie. He claim he was a virgin but I later found out he wasnt.

I can never trust a guy not even 5% of my trust to him . Dy r selfish to others.
lol...how can you truly love who you don't trust??
So cos of actions of about two guys or there about u decided never to trust anyone??
Anyways trust itself is expensive and for one to be trusted, he/she has to earn it..

Don't tell me you don't trust your current bf??

The truth is trust issues is not peculiar to you alone..Many people out there find it difficult trusting their partners mainly due to what they have experienced in the past etc
I will advice you try to build the trust together with any guy...
I have come to realize lies, not saying what you mean, know even saying what you want, past experience(both personal and non personal ), are among reasons people find it hard to trust the other.
Remember trust is an ingredient for an healthy relationship And being in a relationship without trust is like staying a car without engine you will just stay in there but trust me you guys will Neva get far.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by refiner(f): 8:58pm On Jun 05, 2016
jenigurl:

Nooo, he is all yours dearie
...lol...funny u!

I'll love to speak with you privately sha...can I send u a pm?
good evening dearsmiley

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by refiner(f): 9:00pm On Jun 05, 2016
jenigurl:

Nooo, he is all yours dearie
...lol...funny u!

I'll love to speak with you privately sha...can I send u a pm?
good evening dearsmiley
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by M2dX(m): 9:08pm On Jun 05, 2016
refiner:

....

sweety,that's a puzzle that is too hard to crack!...

and one of the cause is jealousy!
hmm, that is why there always pro when a man Mary's more than one wife.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Dejideji1(m): 9:11pm On Jun 05, 2016
How can a man make a circumcised (genitaly mutilated) woman reach orgasm? because from the theoretical research that I made, I was made to understand that it's practically impossible. Majority of Nigerian girls are in this category and the chances of getting married to one is very high. Presently I believe 70% of the ladies ages 20yrs and above currently alive today in Nigeria are circumcised.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by RoyalBlak007: 10:54pm On Jun 05, 2016
optional1:



It can never pass dat negative thought no positive thought on my head at dat moment.

Dat first thought is he gonna av sex wit me.

grin grin cheesy
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 11:05pm On Jun 05, 2016
SycophanticGoat:


tongue tongue tongue tongue
Lol
What's up, G grin
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Calmwaters(m): 11:27pm On Jun 05, 2016
*chewing pop-corn*
Nice initiative doh
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:35pm On Jun 05, 2016
Maxi112:
is it right for a girl in a relationship to masturbate?

No.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:38pm On Jun 05, 2016
Cutehector:
second question

Is it proper for a guy to begin to give gifts to a girl at the early stages of dating?

Why not? Just don't just over do it sha...
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 11:41pm On Jun 05, 2016
arinolaa:


Why not? Just don't just over do it sha...
alryt thanks....
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:44pm On Jun 05, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Why do girls get mad/jealous when their BF gets side chick? undecided


How would you like it if the girl you were dating decided to get herself a side dude? Be honest with yourself. Would you like it? Wouldn't you think she was foul?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:46pm On Jun 05, 2016
iykekelvins:
Thanks for your answer

One thing that bothers me again about girls


You express your feelings for a girl you truly like, and she's like'' you just want to use and dump me''

I don't get why some of them think like this

Cc: Twaci and other ladies here

Cuz some guys are notorious for doing that.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:47pm On Jun 05, 2016
Cutehector:
Third question

In your opinion ladies, what are those things you don't like that guys always form a habit of doing

Leading a woman on and then saying he is not ready for a relationship.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 11:49pm On Jun 05, 2016
arinolaa:


Leading a woman on and then saying he is not ready for a relationship.
ah mean who just does dat... I think those who do that are more of the females, not males..
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:49pm On Jun 05, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
It's very possible she gets same commitment even when he's got side chick.

Having a side chick does mean she's not committed to her main chick. maybe men are just wired like that (Not trying to justify cheating).

I've seen married men who places their wife and family above every other things cheat on their wife

My point is, a wise dude can still keep a side chick without changing nothing

That said, I'm a 'one girl' dude tongue tongue


What is this one saying? undecided So because some married men are doing, it makes it okay?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:51pm On Jun 05, 2016
RoyalBlak007:
Girls always have "assistant boyfriends"..Which is so true...there is always that other guy who's better than their current bf...who might be 'just a friend' or 'my cousins friend' or 'my bf's elder broda'

Say something to this....true innit?



Please don't generalise. Every girl does not have an "assistant boyfriend" only some do, not all.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:52pm On Jun 05, 2016
Cutehector:
ah mean who just does dat... I think those who do that are more of the females, not males..

Guy's do it a lot. It's annoying.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 11:54pm On Jun 05, 2016
Cutehector:
I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him shocked


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool.. buh she just doesn't seem to return the feelings.

It's really hurting me cuz i"v been there.

OH SHIT ! i cant believe i missed this thread !!!

Honestly mr Cutehector , from my experience, there is nothing you can do to get a girl attracted to you.

If a girl isn't attracted to you. Just move On quickly, they have this type problem. They usually have the type of guys they like.

You need to have the understanding that any girl can be replaced, so you won't waste your time on a girl.

In conclusion, He is not her type.

You know people always come up with excuses saying, girls want a little bit of a bad guy in a good guy. (ITS JUST AN EXCUSE)

The Most important thing is, Women should speak up when they don't like a GUY ! and they should speak up ON TIME.

So that He can move on to the next girl that is HIS TYPE
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:55pm On Jun 05, 2016
iykekelvins:
Ladies in the house

Some girls find it hard to trust good-looking guys that are asking them out.

They feel they're flirts. Why so?

They probably think they will never have them completely to themselves as other girls will be lusting after them.

They might feel insecure that the good-looking guy might dump them once when they find someone else.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 11:56pm On Jun 05, 2016
arinolaa:


Guy's do it a lot. It's annoying.
well its a pity u'v been associating with the wrong set of guys... My condolences to that.. So i guess u just want a guy who's gona mean wat he says ryt?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:57pm On Jun 05, 2016
firstking01:
My humble question...what do girls really want in life, i bet the op can't answer this question cos even google sef no know amundecided

Real love. God's type of love and not worldly lustful love.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 11:58pm On Jun 05, 2016
Cutehector:
well its a pity u'v been associating with the wrong set of guys... My condolences to that.. So i guess u just want a guy who's gona mean wat he says ryt?

Yeah. Everything happens for a reason sha.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 11:58pm On Jun 05, 2016
arinolaa:


What is this one saying? undecided So because some married men are doing, it makes it okay?
Is this one drunk? Did I say it's ok? Show me where I stated that it's ok

Pls stop quoting me
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by RoyalBlak007: 11:59pm On Jun 05, 2016
arinolaa:


Please don't generalise. Every girl does not have an "assistant boyfriend" only some do, not all.



Everygirl do..

some don't just realize it
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 12:00am On Jun 06, 2016
arinolaa:


Yeah. Everything happens for a reason sha.
funny enough it does... Its a pleasure meeting u by the way
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 12:01am On Jun 06, 2016
Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments
Wait. Be patient. If you are strong Christian then its advisable to flee from all forms of sexual immortality.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 12:03am On Jun 06, 2016
arinolaa:



How would you like it if the girl you were dating decided to get herself a side dude? Be honest with yourself. Would you like it? Wouldn't you think she was foul?
undecided
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by bitchcrafts: 12:04am On Jun 06, 2016
arinolaa:

Wait. Be patient. If you are strong Christian then its advisable to flee from all forms of sexual immortality.
hi nice girl, remember me?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 12:06am On Jun 06, 2016
arinolaa:

Wait. Be patient. If you are strong Christian then its advisable to flee from all forms of sexual immortality.
what are the forms of sexual immorality if i may ask
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Penboy: 12:18am On Jun 06, 2016
arinolaa:

Leading a woman on and then saying he is not ready for a relationship.
really?? how am i supposed to know when I'm leading a woman on??
I'm just being nice for all i care.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by arinolaa(f): 12:21am On Jun 06, 2016
Penboy:


really??
how am i supposed to know when I'm leading a woman on??

I'm just being nice for all i care.

What I mean is that there are some guys who will be sending innuendos, take a lady out on dates, making sexual advances, call her every second and then somewhere along the line he will say he is not ready for a relationship. Despite all of that he will still want to continue being friends and see where things lead... Its very confusing.

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