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Some ladies are the architect of their misfortune.
You meet a nice guy. A really nice guy
You both seem to hit it off
He asks you out for a date. You oblige
Everything is going smooth
He invites you over
You both got frisky
The intimate moments were bliss
Then you do it.
You download every problem you have to him
Your mother is sick
Your younger brother needs to get an admission
Your rent is expired
You need to change your hair and the host of other 'needs' that manifests in a twinkle.
That is so ugly. A Very ugly character
I have a friend who does this. She meets a new guy and almost immediately, her financial needs finds it way of popping up. The relationships never last. She ends up complaining about how men are unserious. What does she expect really?
You do not not put money upfront in a new relationship. It's a red flag for anyone who wants to take you serious.
Simply enjoy the moments and the joy of a new relationship. Bask in emotions that is budding at the moment.
There are good men out there. You ask yourself why your relationships do not last and wonder if the 'weenshes' from your village is not on your case.
Check within. An ugly character is an ugly one.
Good men exist. Don't buy into the stereotype of 'good men being extinct'
Sometimes, all you have to do is Slow Down.

Dats tru.

Cutehector:
Dats tru.

Dis one ur always on nl, do u ever have time to take ur bath?

pennytration:
Dis one ur always on nl, do u ever have time to take ur bath?

End time question