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Wise Up by scribble(op): 12:18am On Jun 12, 2016
Just a reminder to all the grown men coming to Nairaland to cry about a girl breaking their heart, please man up. Its not that serious. Go to the gym or the park. Read a newspaper article. Do some work. Look for a job. Fantasize about 2019 or the year after. Remember election years determine the aftermath.

But stop chasing girls up and down. Get you some paper. It is food for your soul before it will be demanded of you where you will be solo, so yolo.

If she wants to cheat and youre not married to her you dodged a bullet. If youre married you can walk away permanently and find love all over again. Win win.

Worry about not cheating when you finally have money.
Re: Wise Up by Vinshu(f): 12:23am On Jun 12, 2016
Do you realize that some men already have the jobs, the paper, the money, fantasised over about 2019 and the only thing left is a girl? So what should such men do in such a situation?

It's not a bad thing to cry or feel hurt. It makes you feel better.
Re: Wise Up by adebayal(m): 12:31am On Jun 12, 2016
Only gaulible falls in love and get hurt.... Love and relationship are too over hyped abeg..
Re: Wise Up by Tapout(m): 12:57am On Jun 12, 2016
Vinshu:
It's not a bad thing to cry or feel hurt. It makes you feel better
I know guys that became hardcore players after series of failed relationships. Is Their recent life style ur definition of "feeling better"??
Re: Wise Up by Vinshu(f): 1:02am On Jun 12, 2016
Tapout:
I know guys that became hardcore players after series of failed relationships. Is Their recent life style ur definition of "feeling better"??
It's part of it.

They are letting out their sadness and pain. When it's out, they become happy again.

These so called hardcore players end up having wives and become daddies. Don't they?
Re: Wise Up by Tapout(m): 1:26am On Jun 12, 2016
Vinshu:
It's part of it.

They are letting out their sadness and pain. When it's out, they become happy again.
in order words, u wouldn't mind being a victim of Transferred aggression from such guys??


These so called hardcore players end up having wives and become daddies. Don't they?
obviously at some point, a guy has to settle down.. but I doubt if u would prefer to have such a guy as a life partner
Re: Wise Up by Vinshu(f): 10:28am On Jun 12, 2016
Tapout:
in order words, u wouldn't mind being a victim of Transferred aggression from such guys??




obviously at some point, a guy has to settle down.. but I doubt if u would prefer to have such a guy as a life partner
The "victims" you say, are not victims but collateral damage.

Besides, I'm married. So I'm unavailable.
Re: Wise Up by Tapout(m): 10:42am On Jun 12, 2016
Vinshu:
The "victims" you say, are not victims but collateral damage.

Besides, I'm married. So I'm unavailable.
I thought as much... I rest my case.
Happy sunday.... My regards to ur hubby smiley
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