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Yh! The subject said it all.
I've been dating this girl for a year plus now, I finds out she's a virgin(not that she told me), then I decided not to disflowered her.
After some months of dating each other, I've to relocate for job seeking, when ever I call her, I do remind her how kind I've been to her by not dis virgin her, and she always promise she would keep it. After like eight months of being away, I came back for some purpose, we met and discussed and she still assured me of her virginity (I didn't confirmed tho).
So, I was about returning back to my destination on completion of the programme I came for(that's after 2 months, we hardly sees during this period bcoz of my tight schedule), I sent for her inorder to have some chats with her (purposely on how to maintain her virginity and how to cope with other guys).
I asked as usual, for her to reply as usual, she was just crying, I was like what's wrong?
She said and I quote, "I can't explain myself, all I knw was that I went to a birthday party in school and after some days I noticed I'd lost my virginity"
I was just laughing bcoz virginity is not something u can be checking upon time & also, how would someone have sex without knowing? I pleaded her to stop d crying, changed the subject matter and called it a day(coz I presume she was jst kidding or flattering maybe to knw my reaction towards that, but I got no msg, calls nor explanation from her for the past 4days)
Note: I ain't street guy nor loyal, am not lost in d game either
I just wanna knw the real truth.

So if you're in my shoe, what would you do?
Wat advice can u give 2me?


The virginity doesn't freak me tho, but how would someone be dis virgined and u wouldn't knw, not even the person that disflowered you, this where am confused
Please help me ooo



Kindly pardon my English

Na when she dey do exercise, she lost am.

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I dont understand..you mean she lost her virginity without her knowledge? Nope! That's not possible. Besides, she stated that she went for a birthday party which means that maybe she was drugged and raped or she cheated on you and didnt know how to cover it up. Virginity is not sim card you can lose anyhow.

ADVICE: Tell her to say the truth. Girls and lie are like 5&6.

Bros, she has been disvirgined tey tey, she just lied to u, make sure you go bang her too immediately, some of this gals can lie for Africa.
Virginity na niddle ni?

She knows d truth bt probably feelin so guilty...

Sugarcious:
I dont understand..you mean she lost her virginity without her knowledge? Nope! That's not possible. Besides, she stated that she went for a birthday party which means that maybe she was drugged and raped or she cheated on you and didnt know how to cover it up. Virginity is not sim card you can lose anyhow.

ADVICE: Tell her to say the truth. Girls and lie are like 5&6.

The bold area baffles me alot.
I tried to asked if she was drunk, drug, raped, I even asked if dia were blood all over her lap wen she got home? All she could say is NO, while sharing crocodile tears

Nawa to u ooo!!!dnt ask her any questions because its annoyin wen they start their coverin up lies..now the thing has opened u can start enterin now..

Lol at "discussing how to maintain virginity"

I don't know what boys of nowadays are looking for in virginity.

Those it add more money to your bank balance, does it increase your personal worth, does virginity brings good fortune,

If your answer is no. So why worry

make I ask Google I will get back to u

dissybling:
make I ask Google I will get back to u

Google wont even know. Ask baba.

OP, it's me who took her virginity. Lol, but some girls can lie about the issue of virginity ehn, na so one babe told me she lost her virginity the first time she shaved. even till today I still see that girl and be like *baba oh, you can lie*


other reasons I have heard is, *I was raped by my ex, and that's why we broke up* * It was a mistake* they never admit anything.

TPAND:
I don't know what boys of nowadays are looking for in virginity.

Those it add more money to your bank balance, does it increase your personal worth, does virginity brings good fortune,

If your answer is no. So why worry

The fact you do not value it does not mean everyone else should not. Take it or leave only exclusively decent girl keep their virginity till their twenties nowadays and that is a fact. Any girl with such quality as every right to be proud about it.

redarrr:
She knows d truth bt probably feelin so guilty...

Bro, a Guilty person wouldn't lie. So is just plain stupid and a terrible liar

TPAND:
I don't know what boys of nowadays are looking for in virginity.

Those it add more money to your bank balance, does it increase your personal worth, does virginity brings good fortune,

If your answer is no. So why worry

U need to go tru my post again
I'm not freaked abt a lady being a virgin or not
but the fact remain that, she has been honest to herself up to the age of 23+, I met her virgin and I've been maintaining that. So how wud d virginity be gone like needle without knowing it whereabouts?

Sugarcious:
Google wont even know. Ask baba.

Google is still processing abeg WO be de baba mk I ask am too

so what u are telling me is that you didn't phork her still?

ayokellany:
The fact you do not value it does not mean everyone else should not. Take it or leave only exclusively decent girl keep their virginity till their twenties nowadays and that is a fact. Any girl with such quality as every right to be proud about it.

Well said...God bless you for this wise words.

already you know she lost her virginity through sex. if you are really curios to know how it went down, you must put her in a good mood first of all before asking her what really happened at the party...you self what were you expecting after leaving her for 8 months knowing fully well that guys are not smiling this days

TPAND:
I don't know what boys of nowadays are looking for in virginity.

Those it add more money to your bank balance, does it increase your personal worth, does virginity brings good fortune,

If your answer is no. So why worry

YES IT DOES

This ur matter taya me ooo

Yes OP its possible she lost her virginity without peneration......... it has happened countless of times to other girls either through sport or Horse and Bike Riding..... Don't gt me wrong, am nt saying shes telling d truth, I jus want u to knw its possible for a girl to lose her virginity tru those means

either she was hypnotized or just a make up story to cover her shit

Mr poster... u are just obsessed with been with a virgin!!! all the post was talking about is virgin this.. virgin that...na u b virginity keeper?? free the girl jare..u left 4 like 8 good months, and when you showed up.. Na 2 ask about virginity.. no de deceive yourself,u are a learner.