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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Israellb(m): 10:40am On Jun 16, 2016
Seriously?? How will u be going on ur first date and bring along two of ur friends He's on a date with u, not u en ur friends..

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by SSkillzzz(m): 10:41am On Jun 16, 2016
and these people will be advocating for equal rights when they can't even pay for their own movie tickets...smh

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by donbenedict(m): 10:41am On Jun 16, 2016
PassingShot:
[size=15pt]The guy messed up big time.

He was informed of her friends coming and he gave the nod.

At that time, he could have given an indication he was not cool with those friends being around. Any reason would do.

By refusing to pay, and not offering apology for not paying, show he is the opposite of a gentleman.[/size]
same thing I just chipped in.. I wonder why people can't just see clearly dat she asked for permission first and he accepted.. with their silly comments and all.. it's really really pathetic

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by tunahper(m): 10:42am On Jun 16, 2016
Until ladies nowadays realise guys of these days don't chill for shit again before they wise up.. Even all monkeys in idanre Don dey become human beings..just 3k ko, 300 hundred ni.. PARASITES!!

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Ghost447(m): 10:42am On Jun 16, 2016
Feranchek:
Lol. I know guys will enjoy this story. Buh I think the guy in this story is quite a jerk!! For heaven's sake she mentioned that she'll be coming with her 2 friends, and the pomo gut Said YES! Since you know you weren't financially buoyant to cater for all of them, why agree to let her come with her friends? I'm sure she'd have still come if you told her not to come with her friends. Let's be unsentimental and say the truth biko. The level of immaturity in some guys in quite annoying


(Waiting for those who'll bash me. I know Y'all! So I won't be surprised tongue)
"I'm coming with my friends" and "you will pay for their tickets" aren't the same thing.

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by EFEJOKU(m): 10:43am On Jun 16, 2016
na first date...the girl for use her mind...the economy don strong
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by sokera: 10:43am On Jun 16, 2016
Only Nigeria Ladies do this nonsense ...

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by loomer: 10:44am On Jun 16, 2016
Feranchek:
Lol. I know guys will enjoy this story. Buh I think the guy in this story is quite a jerk!! For heaven's sake she mentioned that she'll be coming with her 2 friends, and the pomo gut Said YES! Since you know you weren't financially buoyant to cater for all of them, why agree to let her come with her friends? I'm sure she'd have still come if you told her not to come with her friends. Let's be unsentimental and say the truth biko. The level of immaturity in some guys in quite annoying


(Oya Bashirus!!! Ngwanu, coman bash me!! I dey wait!! I know Y'all! So I won't be surprised tongue)

Bros, she go always cook the story to favour her. You think say I believe that part?

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by zeal22(m): 10:45am On Jun 16, 2016
Here in the UK, everyone bears their bills, date or no date, if u like come with your village, OYO

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 10:45am On Jun 16, 2016
Julietcutie:
grin the guy tho lol ...but he would have told the gal not to bring her friends along when she told him she would be coming with friends... he didn't act right



leave dat tin abeg...is she a kid?...dis an experience da will make her sensible enough next time

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by mamachizzy(f): 10:46am On Jun 16, 2016
Am a lady, but I support that guy. Did the guy ask to go on a date with the gal, or with her friends; Ladies need to stop this nonsense. A guy asks u out, and u want to go with ur entire kindred just to see if he will impress u, does that sound normal
Beside since the money was "just 3k", why is she complaining. While u are busy thinking he needs to impress u, u forget that u also need to impress him. Bringing all ur gal frnds along for a date with a guy, says a lot about u as a lady!!!!!

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by castrokins(m): 10:46am On Jun 16, 2016
Why Would She Even Contemplate Going With Her "family" To Her First Date? It Was A Date For Herself And The Guy.





Julietcutie:
grin the guy tho lol ...but he would have told the gal not to bring her friends along when she told him she would be coming with friends... he didn't act right

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by greatness22(m): 10:46am On Jun 16, 2016
And when the ladies get home you will hear the following discussion;

Sarah; Queen, where you take catch that mugu?

Queen; Lol, nah for Nairaland oh!

Jennifer; We finish the guy money, the mumu nor fit chop common popcorn.

Queen; I don tell am say on Sunday nah my birthday. (general laughter)

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by koboko69: 10:46am On Jun 16, 2016
donbenedict:
She asked him if it was ok to bring her friends along, and he said yes to that...



So why is he now getn all angry abt it?


If he didn't wish to cover the bills, he would hav specifically asked her she shouldn't bring her frnds along..


As for me I don't blame the lady. Because she asked for permission first.. and he agreed.

She did not ask if he had money to pay. What's thr sense tagging friends along on a "first" date. Is that not to be b/w 2 prospective couples for the fact they haven't even met b4.
Thr guy could assume she meant is it ok to bring my friends on our first date.
Its only in Africa you have to spend for gf and all her friends to impress.

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Habbatmakolly: 10:47am On Jun 16, 2016
[quote author=Feranchek post=46617339]Lol. I know guys will enjoy this story. Buh I think the guy in this story is quite a jerk!! For heaven's sake she mentioned that she'll be coming with her 2 friends, and the pomo gut Said YES! Since you know you weren't financially buoyant to cater for all of them, why agree to let her come with her friends? I'm sure she'd have still come if you told her not to come with her friends. Let's be unsentimental and say the truth biko. The level of immaturity in some guys in quite annoying


(Oya Bashirus!!! Ngwanu, coman bash me!! I dey wait!! I know Y'all! So I won't be surprised tongue)[/

The guy agreed and dis not not commit any offence. the babe asked if she could come along with her friends alone and did not ask if the guy had enough money to cater for them. dont always assume guys will be gentle, girls should also learn to be prudent.

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by AZeD1(m): 10:48am On Jun 16, 2016
She's lucky the guy even got ticket for her.
Similar situation played out when I was in school,
-Guy (white) invites girl ( Nigerian) to the movies,
-girl brings a friend along
-guy gets to the ticket stand, asks for ticket
- girl looks bewildered
- reality dawns on girl, no free food even in Freetown.

Everyone should take care of his or her bills unless otherwise stated.

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by bejeria101(m): 10:48am On Jun 16, 2016
Wow she wantd to embarass the guy and he turnd it on her and she dey vex,who told her to bring her friends? Is he dating her friends or her? So wrong!

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Abelism(m): 10:48am On Jun 16, 2016
Monalisa185:
someone should tell that girl to go and look for somewhere and sit down...


You told him you were taking your friends along, did you ask him if he was going to pay for their tickets? If it were to be an eatery, it would have been a different case scenario, I mean how much food can they possibly consume?

This is different, you don't expect a guy to cough out 12 thousand grand in this kinda economy.. The babe is not even considerate and I think she's selfish as well. There's really nothing embarrassing there, she just didn't ask the right questions before taking her friends along...

He's neither your father nor your brother..abeg no dey give us bad name jare....Mtcheeeewwww

I like you for this statement. You are truly a matured lady

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by ademoladeji(m): 10:49am On Jun 16, 2016
Correct Guy!!!


12k to see a movie? The so called girl might even be pressing the Barbie-Pouched phones while the movie is ongoing.


No time to play Mugu

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by lilmax(m): 10:49am On Jun 16, 2016
I dont believe this lady,especially the part she asked if she could bring her friends

No reasonable guy would accept his date friends on first date,something is missing

I think she‘s one of those normal girls involving her friends on a date without asking.....she lied just to appear right

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Grayrarri(m): 10:50am On Jun 16, 2016
nnamdiokere45:
dat guy is my hero and my mentor...for dat guy to knw dat dose two babes r cumin n still bought jst two tickets for hm n his date, hm don plan am from hwz.
c'mon y nt u n ur friends choose anoda day to watch d movie if truly ur friends cld afford d tickets? girls n free tins r like twins


grin grin grin grin grin What about the one that will expect you to buy and dine her friends just to confirm to them that you korrect?? naija babes
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Grayrarri(m): 10:50am On Jun 16, 2016
SSkillzzz:
and these people will be advocating for equal rights when they can even pay for their own movie tickets...smh
##GMAM##

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by OlujobaSamuel: 10:51am On Jun 16, 2016
seems some people don't read before commenting.
I see the guy as an irresponsible dude, he was informed before the lady even decide coming along with her friends, yet the ediot accepted the offer, and we have girls here insulting the lady and some guys like the dude praising him.

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by clogogo(m): 10:51am On Jun 16, 2016
Feranchek:


Bros you no lie o0o!! And to think that almost all the guys that are commenting are actually hailing this mumu, is quite appalling!

I wish she didn't inform him of her friends that would have be a thumbs up , but I guess he was to broke to pay for her friends ... Some guys self no get money but wan get babe... Just imagine First date ..I can't go on a first date and not hold excess incase.. " That guy is a broke Dude

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by dikeigbo2(m): 10:52am On Jun 16, 2016
To be candid,the guy's action Na total knockout, he no try at all.
Real Gentle men stands with their words.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by menxer: 10:53am On Jun 16, 2016
She is one those that give ladies a bad name, how can you invite your friends on the first date with someone you hardly knew?

Now she expects us to blame the guy for not playing along.

Abeg give that guy 12 bottles of Orijin...

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 10:53am On Jun 16, 2016
princefunmmy:
That's the man! Some ladies will support the babe while sensible ones will know the guy acted well..
thou shall not quote me
i'm quoting you o tongue grin
But why should a girl be on a date with a guy she likes and take two friends along? Really some babies (girls)need to grow up, I really like what the guy did to her, it makes no sense taking your friends on a date with a guy

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by amstamon: 10:53am On Jun 16, 2016
Feranchek:
Lol. I know guys will enjoy this story. Buh I think the guy in this story is quite a jerk!! For heaven's sake she mentioned that she'll be coming with her 2 friends, and the pomo gut Said YES! Since you know you weren't financially buoyant to cater for all of them, why agree to let her come with her friends? I'm sure she'd have still come if you told her not to come with her friends. Let's be unsentimental and say the truth biko. The level of immaturity in some guys in quite annoying


(Oya Bashirus!!! Ngwanu, coman bash me!! I dey wait!! I know Y'all! So I won't be surprised tongue)

I'm sure people like u would even do worst than that oshofree babe. Imagine asking to bring your friends along for a date!!!!it's called a movie date, not an excursion. She for carry her whole community for body na. The guy too fvcked up, he could have just buy a pirated version of that same movie and share for them or better still download a mobile pirated version and send it to them through flashare so they could be watching theirs outside while he and oshofree would be inside uninterrupted . Imagine!!!

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by tman14(m): 10:53am On Jun 16, 2016
Funny thing is that she's there ranting on Twitter while maybe one of her friends fell for him and his principles.

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by doveda: 10:54am On Jun 16, 2016
What type of human being would ask a guy hether or not to invite her friends on their first date?
Feranchek:


If you were the guy, would you accept she come with her friends?

No need for the insults, by the way

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:54am On Jun 16, 2016
Correct guy...
Somebody shud pls give the guy 6bottles of origin... some GIRLS just like free tins./...
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by edorhe14(m): 10:54am On Jun 16, 2016
This is hilarious yet so serious.
I kinda like the Guy for this.
How in Gods name will I call a lady for a movie that and her friends says she wants to tag along.
For crying out loud Grow some sense and say No.
Jeez! Ladies are so fund of this

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