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Topestbilly:
So having kids out of wedlock shows one is irresponsible abi?

I said he's a responsible father cos he has being able to keep his responsibilities with al his wives and kids without social interference... only a strong n responsible man can do dis...

Are you now suggesting or perhaps saying he is responsible for having kids out of wedlock. Only a responsible man will @whatever circumstances avoid having s*x not to talk of having kids outside marriage

Yes having kids out of wedlock Z irresponsibility!!! Even the Bible says marriage bed should be undefiled. Only a responsible man will have his bed n marriage undefiled

[quote author=eph12 post=46698914]He could have chosen not to take care of his kids. Nobody will arrest him[/quote


That will embrace him more irresponsible

Iseoluwani:
Are you now suggesting or perhaps saying he is responsible for having kids out of wedlock. Only a responsible man will @whatever circumstances avoid having s*x not to talk of having kids outside marriage

Yes having kids out of wedlock Z irresponsibility!!! Even the Bible says marriage bed should be undefiled. Only a responsible man will have his bed n marriage undefiled

Why don't you leave dis wedlock thing n let's talk about his responsibilities as a father and a husband.

Topestbilly:
Why don't you leave dis wedlock thing n let's talk about his responsibilities as a father and a husband.

The Bible says it Z not good for a man to be alone,in other words someone responsible and matured. If one Z not matured n he marries all he will do Z having affairs outside that makes him irresponsible. One can b 70yrs of age n not been responsible. What happened to him that mdevhim have kids outside marriage LACK OF MATURITY N RESPONSIBILITY

THE AFRICN MAN Z JUDGED AS BEEN RESPONSIBLE WHEN HE MARRIES SET FOOD ON THE TABLE N DOES NOT HAVE AN ILLICIT AFFAIR OUTSIDE MARIAGE

None of them has ever start a twitter trend for justice like an hatchtag that can make our politician do d right thing why? they are on the payroll of the senator, gov et al if they talk...u know d rest.

greatness22:
With the growing trend of scandals and negative publicity involving celebrities (entertainers et al ) these days, is it still healthy to have them as role models??

Eat a balanced diet, you will be healthy; that's all!

No

Yes If you are talking about Onyeka Nwenu, Sunny Ade, Chisty Igbokwe, Bright Chimezie, etc

Celebrities are like fish in a glass tank everything they do is for attention even the so called scandals. Their lives are by definition fake. You can't emulate something that isn't there

A role model can influence a persons life in a positive light....if you cant be a good example ...then you can be a horrible warning .

some celebrities are good role models and some are just a bad warning.

We just have to study the HABITS and struggle of the successful ones........Some are successful with ...bad habits...sexual orientation...how they conduct themselves .....depending on what you want.

children are great imitators.. so give them something great to imitate.....you can be a role model to your kids.. they learn by what you are rather than what you teach.