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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by joyousmother2016: 11:20pm On Jun 19, 2016
mytimetotestify:
Happy sunday to my sis and bro in the house...@joyousmother2016 pls can you give me the no of the akure midwife and her price.

mytimetotestify; I lost my phone and so I just bought a new phone, all contacts gone. 4realwoman contacted the Akure midwife & also purchased the herbs but that it didn't work for her. Just like I have said, I have not used her herbs but I opted for surgery because of finances.
Since a mama here has tried it & it did not work for her don't you think for another alternative?.
Is your fibroid hindering conception? How big are they?
If you still want to try your luck then you can go to previous pages where I've shared the num.
Benignsweet, a mama here (I hope I got the moniker right) also has herbs/supplements for dissolving fibroids. I don't know what it is but you can contact her if you still want to try the herbal route.
You can also seek for advice here from other sabi mama's on the best option for fibroid treatment. But, like I said, some mama's here adviced me to go for the surgery, I went & today by the grace of God I'll be 2months fibroid free in the next couple of days. I went into the theatre with fibroids the size of a 5 months old foetus, fibroids that blocked my cervix & also my fallopian tubes, I slept, woke up & discovered they are gone... Just like a dream, just a day.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by LAAR: 11:52pm On Jun 19, 2016
Hello beautiful mums, I discovered this thread few months ago after Ttc for a while. I never tot conceiving will be an issue until tried for several months after marriage without success. I would feel pregnancy symtoms which always turned out neg. my AF reduced to any 1 day instead of 3/4days, ran to a clinic and was placed on injections to treat infections. After treatment the usual symtoms continued. Changed to a general hospital and after series of test, scan I was certified ok. I req for hormone test but I was asked to return after 3mnts. I prayed to God for directions, and read abt the symtoms I was having and everything pointed towards the high prolactin. I went to a pharmacy got bromegon, I started with half morning and half evening for 2days before moving to 1/1. The side effects was terrible and dh asked me me stop using it after abt 1week. I noticed the pregnancy symtoms stopped. It's one mnt nw and I missed my period a test confirmed a BFP .So grateful to God.t king of kings. May every woman Ttc receive her testimony IJN Amen.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by greenpea: 12:07am On Jun 20, 2016
Happy Birthday MumiKendra, bountiful new year filled with babies IJN
Ttc especially this thread has given me so much support, all I think am going thru some one has seen better or worse, so coming here is one great relief from ttc anxiety.
At a point I told my mum the devil is making my DH disinterested in bd especially during my fertile window, but when I hear others recounting thier ordeal I no am not alone and just look up to God.
Redeemed I had to snap at a woman for calling me out for ttc prayer in church, told her God sees everywhere and stopmaking me d cynosure of everyone.
4 Real let's keep on praying for direction, if it's surgery that God will touch DH,s and convince him.
Baby dust to all

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by MarJuly(f): 12:15am On Jun 20, 2016
Happy birthday mamakendra,
Praiseworks, thank you. I've not called her since oct n dh has not ask me to do so. There's nothing she has not told dh n fil concerning my womb. I just summoned courage 2014 and asked her, she denied. I just told her that I believed them n she should allow us to sort our issues.
This feb dt we had issues, I told dh if u really trust ur mum, tell her to bring another drug for u n he did not response.
As for me n by the grace of God, am stronger than them. Am praying n hoping that God will set d man I truly fell in love with free.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Fvine: 6:22am On Jun 20, 2016
LAAR:
Hello beautiful mums, I discovered this thread few months ago after Ttc for a while. I never tot conceiving will be an issue until tried for several months after marriage without success. I would feel pregnancy symtoms which always turned out neg. my AF reduced to any 1 day instead of 3/4days, ran to a clinic and was placed on injections to treat infections. After treatment the usual symtoms continued. Changed to a general hospital and after series of test, scan I was certified ok. I req for hormone test but I was asked to return after 3mnts. I prayed to God for directions, and read abt the symtoms I was having and everything pointed towards the high prolactin. I went to a pharmacy got bromegon, I started with half morning and half evening for 2days before moving to 1/1. The side effects was terrible and dh asked me me stop using it after abt 1week. I noticed the pregnancy symtoms stopped. It's one mnt nw and I missed my period a test confirmed a BFP .So grateful to God.t king of kings. May every woman Ttc receive her testimony IJN Amen.
Congratulations, may you deliver supernaturally a healthy baby. May God continue to bless your marriage and thank him for blessing you so soon after marriage, Ttc is a terrible something. And remember to pray for your Sisters here. Go to the Pregnancy Thread and join there so that you can learn pregnancy stuff from new moms and old moms alike. Have a blessed week.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulhome: 8:52am On Jun 20, 2016
This TTC! this TTC.
This TTC has tot me so many lessons ooo.
* I now now know so much about my body and my health
*I have another family here. since 5:am was here reading through other pple's stories. Hubby don talk tire say first thing I could do this morning was to carry fone. We no pray sef. Well, my prayer life has reduced drastically. I told him since he values other pple more than his wife, I now have a family here

On the negative side
*my fears of conception came through, cos of my past termination even the last one in 2013, after 4 months of marriage wen no show, went to a pharmacist for some vitamins, the woman blasted me for my anxiety and said since I wasn't up to 30, that I should go and try for a year. that God wasn't happy wit me for being anxious. I went elsewhere to get pregnacare after wch on serious persuasion and going to see a doc, hubby now agreed to do SFA, it was a very bad report. We have done more than 5 SFA, from bad to worse. But I'm sure this next one will be perfect
* My prayer life reduced drastically partly because I'm in a church I don't understand their activities
* Those women in that church always coming to console me on how God will do it for me. it gets me sad. My hubby is so insensitive about what I'm going through
* When I'm talking with people, they always look at my tommy
* Left my last place of work where i was managibg without pay because my boss has loud mouth always wanting to know why my stomach was shooting (i was just adding weight wch affected my stomach, now its flat because I'm depressed and have lost weight)
* I teach in children dept but that hasn't really gotten me depressed. It's those mother's there that even make me notice that I'm in the midst of kids because if i ever miss service, they will be preaching how I shud not leave bc God will use them to bless me ( Sure I know it though, I didn't join the dept for dt reason, I like kids much and since the church takes too long to close, I'm very occupied talking with kids)
*Most times I feel all alone because my hubby pays more attention to his family than me. We live in same place. Both flats facing each other. it gets me sad.

What I have done
* joined a prayer group. But I'm trying to escape because they always call me out for prayers. Last time, the woman massaged me with anointing oil in presence of every1. Wanted a place I will just go and cry out my pain.
* I joined a fashion school because I want to kill boredom. I'm always on my sewing machine. it helps to hasten my days.

But i know God will crown our efforts with Good reports. Plz wish my congrats in advance

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mumredeemer: 9:01am On Jun 20, 2016
@ Mamakendra, Happy Birthday! may the Lord fulfill all your heart desires and give you everlasting happiness. please rock in style and don't allow ttc to mar your happiness.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mumredeemer: 9:10am On Jun 20, 2016
LAAR:
Hello beautiful mums, I discovered this thread few months ago after Ttc for a while. I never tot conceiving . It's one mnt nw and I missed my period a test confirmed a BFP .So grateful to God.t king of kings. May every woman Ttc receive her testimony IJN Amen.

@ LAAR, congratulations and happy bumping. Thanks for coming 2 share your bfp news. This is the kind of news we have been expecting and praying for. May God keep you and your Lo as you carry to term and deliver safely.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by suremum: 9:10am On Jun 20, 2016
LAAR:
Hello beautiful mums, I discovered this thread few months ago after Ttc for a while. I never tot conceiving will be an issue until tried for several months after marriage without success. I would feel pregnancy symtoms which always turned out neg. my AF reduced to any 1 day instead of 3/4days, ran to a clinic and was placed on injections to treat infections. After treatment the usual symtoms continued. Changed to a general hospital and after series of test, scan I was certified ok. I req for hormone test but I was asked to return after 3mnts. I prayed to God for directions, and read abt the symtoms I was having and everything pointed towards the high prolactin. I went to a pharmacy got bromegon, I started with half morning and half evening for 2days before moving to 1/1. The side effects was terrible and dh asked me me stop using it after abt 1week. I noticed the pregnancy symtoms stopped. It's one mnt nw and I missed my period a test confirmed a BFP .So grateful to God.t king of kings. May every woman Ttc receive her testimony IJN Amen.
Congratulations dear! May u carry to term and deliver safely. Pls was your period able to get back to the normal 3 to 4 days? I am having same issue as my period as reduced to 2 days and I am really worried about it. Pls I will appreciate your reply. Thanks and God bless
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by 4realwoman: 9:23am On Jun 20, 2016
@ Mamakendra, Happy birthday.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mumredeemer: 9:28am On Jun 20, 2016
@ Zaynie, please don't stop visiting your sisters with the children. Yes, they may feel sad when you leave but I think the sadness will be more of loneliness than self pity or envy and you cannot compare it to the feeling of joy they have and the fun they have with those children. In my early days of ttc my neighbour gave birth to a baby girl that grow to love me so much, she sleeps and wake in my apartment, she eats from the same plate with my husband and I, she follows me everywhere, she worships with me in my church. new members tot she was my daughter. she knows when I am sad, she will come and seat beside me hug me and give me a smile that will make me smile back. She was the angel sent by God to help me cope with ttc. One day, I woke up, I did not see my Peace (her name is Peace) the mother took her to go and drop for the grand ma in the village, she did not even inform me. The girl was 3 yrs then. I felt so empty, I cried everyday like I lost my real child because she was the child I never had,. I cared for her for those 3 years because the mother was a club girl, hardly knew what to do and never had time for her which I think was the main reason she took her to grand ma so she will have time for her runs. She use to tell the girl that I was her mother. I was so sad that DH wanted to adopt a child for me. My sadness was not because I did not have a child but because I missed that girl so much ( I am even shading tears as I type) She was so wise and fun to be with. even if I had children then, I don't think my love for her would change.
So I think not taking you children to your sister will create an emptiness in them and they may feel bad that you are withholding because they don't have not knowing you are trying not to hurt their feelings.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by haryourlar: 9:36am On Jun 20, 2016
@LAAR Congratulation may God keep you as carry to term and deliver safely IJN. Mine is d soonest IJN

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 10:02am On Jun 20, 2016
*dancing shoki* This is the kind of news we hv been waiting for.. Bfp!
@ LAAR, Congrats dear. May u carry safely and joyfully to term. More announcements pls.

(If Nig was like civilised countries where more ppl mind their business, I will just go n adopt a cute sweet baby to start with till my babies start coming. Caring for an adopted kid can also take one's mind off ttc & who knows if na dat time belle go just enter cos one is too busy loving another kid. I gbadu children too)

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mumredeemer: 10:06am On Jun 20, 2016
[quote author=fruitfulhome post=46740708]This TTC! this TTC.

@ fruitful, one thing I don't understand is people telling ttc women 2 love children so that God will bless them wd their own. Do they think we r ttc because we hate children? one woman in my church told me to love children and started giving me instances of people who showed love to children and were blessed with theirs. I told her that if God give children to people because they love children, I will have a carton load because even when I was single like a mama said here mothers use to drop off their children with me and I care for them and naturally children love me till date. My pastor's wife once told me that she saw me cooking for children and that I should go to the children department to teach so that God will bless me with my children. I told her bluntly that, that is not my ministry, I am not going. I told DH she should av told me you are posted to children dept and not to tell me I should go there so that God will bless me with mine. How many of the mothers there taught in children department before they were bless? The club girl in my story, that did not even care for the little girl did she not get pregnant again? She even told me that God is wicked for making her pregnant again when she cld not even care for the first. She said she even ask God whether God did not see me when He passed my door to come and give her a child? Once the child was sick, I gave her money to take the girl to hospital, when I came back from work, I took food to her and the child in the hospital only to get there and discover she left the child with one uncle and went to club, when the uncle saw me he disappeared. My DH wept that night. When the girl came through and saw me she just jump on me and DH said I should not leave her. I ended up spending the night in the hospital. The only food the girl had was the food I took to the hospital. Why am I saying all this? you love a child because your have love in your heart for children not because you expect God to use that to give you your own. The bible says "it is not of him that willeth nor of him that runneth, but of God that showeth mercy. May God show us mercy in this journey.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 10:14am On Jun 20, 2016
fruitfulhome , no b only u oo. I loved my former church but I was not too sad we were relocating and leaving it. Reason was most got to know we were ttc cos my sweet pastor will anoint my tummy for conception openly during anointing service n pray for us for conception openly. The way it was going, I am thinkin ppl would hv started thinking we had been ttc for some good number of years whereas its been a year & half.
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But I seriously thank God for my Pastor & the anointing on Him. (pls mamas who feel their issues hv defied science or drugs should try the spiritual route i.e anointed ministers/churches or alphas/mosques). Some things I never knew came to the surface. Will share when I get my Bfp this year by His grace.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by delor: 10:30am On Jun 20, 2016
mumredeemer:
@ Zaynie, please don't stop visiting your sisters with the children. Yes, they may feel sad when you leave but I think the sadness will be more of loneliness than self pity or envy and you cannot compare it to the feeling of joy they have and the fun they have with those children. In my early days of ttc my neighbour gave birth to a baby girl that grow to love me so much, she sleeps and wake in my apartment, she eats from the same plate with my husband and I, she follows me everywhere, she worships with me in my church. new members tot she was my daughter. she knows when I am sad, she will come and seat beside me hug me and give me a smile that will make me smile back. She was the angel sent by God to help me cope with ttc. One day, I woke up, I did not see my Peace (her name is Peace) the mother took her to go and drop for the grand ma in the village, she did not even inform me. The girl was 3 yrs then. I felt so empty, I cried everyday like I lost my real child because she was the child I never had,. I cared for her for those 3 years because the mother was a club girl, hardly knew what to do and never had time for her which I think was the main reason she took her to grand ma so she will have time for her runs. She use to tell the girl that I was her mother. I was so sad that DH wanted to adopt a child for me. My sadness was not because I did not have a child but because I missed that girl so much ( I am even shading tears as I type) She was so wise and fun to be with. even if I had children then, I don't think my love for her would change.
So I think not taking you children to your sister will create an emptiness in them and they may feel bad that you are withholding because they don't have not knowing you are trying not to hurt their feelings.

Ds post brot me out and I actually shed tears reading it b/c I felt d same wt my sister's kids. She will be killing me if she stops her children from coming on holidays. I look forward to their holidays, its stressful having dem around but its joyful. My sister will always wonder ao I glow during dr stay wt all d stress. They call me mum and dey are my children. Even if I hv children now, those children already hv a space in my heart. Its true I feel lonely wen dey leave and d children cry too or even refuse to leave. In summary I enjoy d love I received from dem more dan anything in ds world. Dey scater my house and give me a reason to wake up everyday. When my house help dat I cared for so much left, my world crashed b/c its nice having to care for someone aside ursef. Pls don't stop taking ur children to ur sisters and don't ask dem any question b/c u will be hurting dem. They love u and even love ur children more. Don't deny dem d joy of having dem around.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by 4realwoman: 10:47am On Jun 20, 2016
Prayer list for this week.
Let not forget our praise and worship for i kw that our prayers has bn ans just waiting for the manifestation.

Those of us praying for twins and triplets let start preparing for them ooooo cos no time to delay as dollars is just increasing anyhow o.
AS U DESIRE IN UR HEART SO SHALL YOU GET IN Jesus NAME, AMEN.

Monday - starting from 20th June,2016.

1.Tsquaure, 2.Sanrima, 3. Mumihaja, 4. Mummyejire, 5. chigirl45, 6. Pweetymii, 7. Fumbaby, 8. Lynsunny, 9. 4realwoman, 10. Melsmum, 11. CravingChic, 12. MummyEsther, 13. Tenderchic, 14. Pweetiebabe, 15. Amfertile, 16. Mumjk, 17. Happymummy, 18. Mandydaisy, 19. Rainyday, 20. Zenoj, 21. RipVanWink, 22. Mrsfrank, 23. uche13, 24. Fruitfulwoman, 25. Ejaisky, 26. Ladiva, 27. Sammiejo, 28. Dammol, 29. Ademide02, 30. Drdreluv, 31. lily19, 32. Miraclebaby, 33, Anikeayun, 34. Teeteetracy, 35. Alwaystrue, 36. FOTMAG, 37. Omankem, 38. Peacefulwealth, 39. FavourMSJ, 40. Beegurl, 41. Hotmomma,

Tuesday - starting from 21st June, 2016.

42. Lilyspringamour, 43. Precy22, 44. Waistbead 45. Mumigrace, 46. Legendsmother, 47. Janix2, 48. stina4u, 49. Redeemed 50. Rute 51. Gsawlah 52. NoLuvLost 53. Mumydidi, 54. Omowunminow, 55. Sammiejo, 56.Twinmummy2, 57. Babyadorable, 58. Peddylov, 59. Ayashow, 60. Ayaakanoh, 61. Perculiar, 62. Wonyi, 63. Joyousmother2016, 64. 99billiondollar, 65, cathibok, 66 Doromay, 67. Jennygurl, 68. Immibabe, 69. Itissettled3, 70. Mamakendra, 71. Mummyelena same as CovenantBabies, 72. Fatme, 73. Iyabejilantinla, 74. Joyfulmama, 75.Ayaayo, 76. Ayauche, 77. Safe06, 78. Prettmum, 79. Blomi, 80. Stephyberry, 81. Divinemandate, 82. Rgee

Wenesday - starting from 22nd June, 2016.

83. Babyfacenum1, 84. Glo27, 85. Contumely,86. Blessediva, 87. Joyfulmoda, 88. Iretinyeee, 89. Lovina, 90. Conyema12, 91. IyeEjima, 92. Fertilewomb, 93. Jessicafruity, 94. Mumsoon, 95. Oluwashinadara01, 96, Dazzle86, 97. Exegesis, 98. mum2bsoon, 99. Triangullar, 100. Mrsedeh, 101. Janedyke6, 102. Finecheek12, 103. Royal30, 104. Smithsydny., 105. Maymay1, 106. Rozeeb, 107. Lauracares, 108. Boyeen, 109. Laurasmum, 110. Spiritualgal, 111. Peddyloveh, 112. Venuss, 113. Hope43, 114. Curvilicious, 115. Zeezzy, 116. Ononmplanet, 117. Godmercy2015, 118. Kudibaby, 119. Xtiana250, 120. Ommyk , 121. Eridemilade, 122. Ibari, 123. Uwasam,

Thursday - starting from 23rd June, 2016.

124. Praisefulmum, 125. Santagelo25, 126. Caringpro,127 Fonnyswt, 128. Odunma, 129. Stellx , 130. Anewdawn, 131. Hypraise, 132. Marjuly, 133. es33, 134. Iyabejilantilan, 135. LadyGuinivere, 136. Mamacajah, 137. Cuddlemoi, 138. MumJedidiah , 139. Kussy4, 140. Okhionkpai, 141. Ruttybabie, 142. Mydeporch, 143. Futureday, 144. Aghadiaye, 145. Diva90, 146. Hevenly,147. Amarapearl, 148. Greenpea, 149. liliamaka2003, 150. Venizia, 151. Lollyekiat, 152. Chom4shizzle same as Sixx, 153. Olamitie, 154. Mubzay, 155. Ejimikeokwu, 156. Mztenny, 157. Rukkington, 158. Neeky1, 159. Ijay024, 160. Momofthey16, 161. Rossy4doll, 162. Fvine, 163. Mum2SnD, 164. Ahmanim,

Friday - starting from 24th June, 2016.

165. Lookingud, 166. Mommatriplets, 167.Davidolawale, 168. Somvade, 169.Oluwadamelola, 170. Nikz, 171. Decency8, 172. Oyescodee, 173. Kikilistic, 174. Shiloh, 175. Mercifull, 176. Hopefulmum ,177. Foe123, 178. Aghaibiam, 179. Anastasia49, 180. . Peterian, 181. Adetunrayo, 182. Godkay, 183. Oomiyale, 184. Vanny2, 185. fertilewoman, 186. Favouredestiny, 187. Somuadi, 188. MiraclefromGod, 189. Temilayooluwa, 190. Ijay024, 191. Delor, 192. Loisemm, 193. Kweenkong, 194. Adelolo, 195.therealmom, 196. wholesomegrace, 197. ugommazan, 198. orente21, 199. Icesnow, 200, Nubiaqueen, 201. Dadsonval, 202. Eriolaoluwa, 203. Firstlady123, 204. Rubyz, 205. AyaSunday,

Saturday - starting from 25th June, 2016

206. Shanicemel 207. Schipolkky2211, 208. Emerald65, 209.Towerofgrace, 210. Omotolani22, 211. NiceCJ, 212. gracechinwe, 213. AyaTiraj, 214. Heroesoff8, 215. Queenbuki, 216. Praiseworks, 217. Haryourlar, 218. Lalabu, 219. Iceboo, 220. Giftedbabies, 221. mamateniola1, 222. Futureday, 223. Mumkachi, 224. Lily1990, 225. 3greatnations, 226. Foriletie, 227. Baaby, 228. BeeBlossoms, 229. Fruityqueen, 230. Graceyy83, 231. Momoftheyear16, 232. Supermama, 233. bidemibunmi, 234. Youngmum1, 235. 13july, 236. Kataleya, 237. Nike08, 238. Chimemela, 239. fertilechic, 240. blessingmama, 241. Client 242.Gladysogochuku, 243. Lizzypaul, 244. cynthiabelle, 245. Adorablewifey, 246. Babemama,

Sunday - starting from 26th June, 2016.

247. Fruitfulhome, 248.kittana, 249. madamfunds, 250. mumchristine, 251. lolarde, 252. Tatanda17, 253. Breadplanets, 254. Mumchidiebube, 255. Xtasly, 256. jasmos, 257. priscaver, 258. ciscajewel. 259. Cutegirly, 260. Adaugo01, 261. Chypoo86500, 262. mumreddemer, 263. cherrybabe1, 264. iceboo, 265. child260, 266. mamaTB, 267. Chijiuche, 268. fpeter, 269. Helen01, 270. Goddaytosin, 271. mumAwesom, 272. Mumemma, 273. Creamyice, 274. MissTols, 275. rhukkie, 276. Myzphayor, 277. Chrisdada16, 278. Nneejima, 279. iamfruitful04, 280. Mumredeemer, 281. Movingheights, 282. Candance, 283. adelah, 284. blakky83, 285. MamaTriplets1.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by mumredeemer: 10:57am On Jun 20, 2016
@ All, please has anyone bought something from The Drug Store?, I mean the online shop a mama posted here sometime ago. I tried to buy some supplements but got error message when trying to checkout. I contacted them by mail, but got no response. Please I need help from anyone who has bought from them successfully. Tanx.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Towerofgrace: 11:18am On Jun 20, 2016
joyousmother2016:
I read through mama's comments how almost all never knew they will become ttc in life.. Mine is different,
There are times I am tempted to give up but then I console myself that if God can give me a hubby then He can as well give me children.

Joyousmother2016, you post brought me out, you and i are in the same boat as per knowing earlier than others

I grew up with the fear of that i may not have children, when my friends and other girls around me were having their period i was not, the first time i visited a gynea i was told to relax, that some girls start their period late, i think i was around age 15, not that i am blaming my mother but she never stood by me to really understand what was happening, when i got into the university my boyfirend became worried as i was sexually active and would not get a period, i never told anyone i was not getting any period out of fear of being ostracized and stigmatized so i went to a clinic where the doc said he wanted to perform a D&C on me and i ran as fast as my legs could carry and told my mum, who started to abuse me that i was lieing to her after going for an abortion, i wept bitterly, she told my sister who called me and together we started the endless journey to the hospitals, docs and diagnostic centres.

i have been molested by lab technicians and docs, what does a girl of 18-19yrs who visits Ayinke House (Ikeja general hospital) as early as 6am all by herself to pick tally for consultation know about HSG, scans, blood tests and drug prescription? I clearly remember the student doc who sent me for HSG test in error, well i didn't know what the test was about neither was there google to educate me to cut the long story short i was molested by the lab techician and never recived an apology from the hospital after i was told that the test shouldn't have been prescribed I had started to take all sort of hormonal drugs at this point, as young as 17yrs the ones i can never forget were primolut N and bromegon. Eventually i was told i had an ovarian cyst that needed surgery, surgery was booked around the time of exams in my school and blood donors could not be found for me, so the scheduled surgery went down the drain besides i was tired of the visits to the hospital and then i heard about IVF so i just said so far i have a womb i will carry a child and decided enough was enough.

i must have been in my early twenties when i met a female gynea who advised i should get married and then start trying to get pregnant, that it would be a waste to keep taking drugs not knowing if they have any effect and considering that fibroid was seen in my scan that is should just relax so i stopped taking all drugs and visiting hospitals but starting praying and fasting and asking God to never let me wait a day for my children. My thinking was, knowing before marriage was a blessing and i had the opportunity to pray ahea.

So many relationships i ended because i didn't feel like a woman and was scared i won't be able to have children, at a point in my life i went on a drastic weight loss programme which made me lose like 30kg and that was the turning point in my life, as my period became somewhat regular and gradually became regular in my late twenties all Thanks to BABA God who decided to pick my call.

Now i can't say that i am angry, but i am tired extremely tired, too tired to pray and fast. I know to each its own but when i see people around me who are still waiting for over a decade and see their hope and faith, i just loss hope. As at my last visit to the doc, everything is alrit between me and dh and our case is termed "unexplained infertility" so rest my case and become siddon dey look.

BABA GOD unto your hand i commit everything and ask that you have mercy on me and my sisters here. let Your glory shine forth in our lives,as we call those things that be not in faith let there be manifestations, open Your flood gates and shower us with BFPs this month Lord. As You visited Mary in the 6 months and the Angel brought good news to her so Angels will visit us this month be bring goodnews to us. In Jesus Name i pray!!!!

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jun 20, 2016
good day fruitful women. I'm 22 and will be getting married in November by God's Grace. I'm scared of not getting pregnant after marriage because I always spot from ovulation day to the day I will see my AF of which I know it is not normal. So I googled about it and from what I saw it is caused by low progesterone. please what can I do to increase my progesterone level. my AF is always 28 or 27 days and regular.
cc Fvine, Cherrymum1 and other sabi mums

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by cherrymum1: 12:59pm On Jun 20, 2016
Briana17:
good day fruitful women. I'm 22 and will be getting married in November by God's Grace. I'm scared of not getting pregnant after marriage because I always spot from ovulation day to the day I will see my AF of which I know it is not normal. So I googled about it and from what I saw it is caused by low progesterone. please what can I do to increase my progesterone level. my AF is always 28 or 27 days and regular.
cc Fvine, Cherrymum1 and other sabi mums

You can't use Dr. Google to conclude. I would have said wait for at least a year after marriage but I can see that your blood dey hot to get answers. Don't worry mummy Fvine will critically torchlight ur matter. She will tell u d necessary tests to care out, what to use and all. Don't worry she will soon land. Lemme help u copy some sabi mamas
Cc: Sugah, kaffy4bill, soonest, babythug, tchiwinnie, onegai, mamakendra, ayauche and other sabi mamas please help us torchlight this matter.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by cherrymum1: 1:05pm On Jun 20, 2016
Towerofgrace, u go born. U go carry belle. U go born sorry u go ask God to give other people Na. U didn't see ur own period. Me I was bleeding constantly non-stop without reason. They even took the blood I was bleeding for culture abi wetin Dem call am. TMI o. Today the blood will be wine in colour, tmrw red, next tmrw dark green, next week, pinkish, another day bright red, soon almost orange wetin I no see. I was buying pad in big nylon as in the way the factory people go and distribute it to supermarkets. Mscheew, Na just delay jare. U will carry your children.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 1:09pm On Jun 20, 2016
@ cherrymum1 thanks for ur response, I'm not TTC now so my blood no dey hot(lol). just always feel uncomfortable with the spotting but I will take your advice and wait till after marriage. thanks fruitful women

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fpeter(f): 1:17pm On Jun 20, 2016
Good day sisters, hope we all had a wonderful weekend?

@fruitfulhome, my dear sis. you need to chill and just make yourself happy.
Don't be too concerned about what others are doing or saying behind your back.
Truth is they may just be truly concerned and thinking they're helping you. Please
relax your mind and bear with their insensitivity. As for your hussy, try and speak to
him about your feelings, you know when to get his attention. ALL WILL BE WELL dear.

@TowerofGrace, I felt your pain dear. It is well with you, some of us don't really have
supportive mothers but what can we do? I feel they're ignorant and so i don't blame them
I thank God you now have your AF. My sis, you've done all there is to do. It is time for you
to sit back and watch God do the impossible. I was told i didn't need any medications that
my only option was an IVF...i am not bothered because i know the track records of the God
i serve. I know it could get tiring and depressing when praying and nothing seems to be happening.
Just don't give up, even when you lack the strength just thank God and remind Him that you know
HE is able to do all things. Get good gospel songs that you may play repeatedly and just stir your
faith from there.


Isaiah 41:13 For I the LORD thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Onegai(f): 1:18pm On Jun 20, 2016
cherrymum1:


You can't use Dr. Google to conclude. I would have said wait for at least a year after marriage but I can see that your blood dey hot to get answers. Don't worry mummy Fvine will critically torchlight ur matter. She will tell u d necessary tests to care out, what to use and all. Don't worry she will soon land. Lemme help u copy some sabi mamas
Cc: Sugah, kaffy4bill, soonest, babythug, tchiwinnie, onegai, mamakendra, ayauche and other sabi mamas please help us torchlight this matter.

Even a doctor will tell you to wait a year of trying to conceive before tests. Because of your age. You're in the prime of life! You can run tests if you feel like but wait and see if there will be a problem first before trying to treat it and cause more complications.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by babythug(f): 1:24pm On Jun 20, 2016
Onegai:


Even a doctor will tell you to wait a year of trying to conceive before tests. Because of your age. You're in the prime of life! You can run tests if you feel like but wait and see if there will be a problem first before trying to treat it and cause more complications.

I agree and with cherrymum1 as well!

Cc- briana17
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fpeter(f): 1:29pm On Jun 20, 2016
Dear Fruitful mamas in Abuja,I was invited to a service in Wuse 2 that would be coming up on the 25th of June by 7am.
The venue is at Merry Makers Gardens opposite former Iluobe now NNPC filling station. I intend going because I've been
following them on FB and WhatsApp...the convener is Prophetess Nonnie Roberson Ministries and their WhatsApp number
is 08035653948...even if you won't attend, it would be good to join the WhatsApp group to encourage yourself with the
testimonies shared by women who have been in the same situation as us. We're blessed in Jesus name.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by kaffy4bill(f): 1:49pm On Jun 20, 2016
Onegai:


Even a doctor will tell you to wait a year of trying to conceive before tests. Because of your age. You're in the prime of life! You can run tests if you feel like but wait and see if there will be a problem first before trying to treat it and cause more complications.


Supported.
Cc:briana17
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jun 20, 2016
Towerofgrace:

at my last visit to the doc, ev goodnews to us. In Jesus Name i pray!!!!

Am crying at your post! can't imagine! May God hear our tears speedily! you are strong ooooooo!
some of us are learning to be more grateful if people like u can still praise God!am some point I almost stopped going to Church, prayer is not usually wit zeal and expectations like before but I still know God of the sparrow does not abandon His own!

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Towerofgrace: 2:58pm On Jun 20, 2016
Fpeter thanks for the words of encouragement. I agree with you, some don't know any better becos the were not brought up any different, i love my mother to a fault and now she is so supportive but more like an oyinbo kind of woman, she won't poke her nose where u don't call her but render all the help she knows how to. Very soon out testimonies will be heard.

Cherrymum1 aka mummy Lami of laive, i never knew you ttc'd oo, i love it when i meet people with so much positive attitude towards life regardless of what comes their way. God bless you and Olamide real good, everything you need to be a wonderful and great mother God will provide for you thanks for the prayers and encouragement. You are a rare gem.

Priscaver, a resounding Amen to your prayers, ttc is not what i wish for even my enemy. There is nothing i can do than keeping believing and trusting God. HE has come through for me in the past, i know HE won't disappoint me now, though hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life, i am holding on to reach the tree of life, when God will be merciful unto me and grant me my Oluwadahunsimi Ireayomide.

Fertility blessings @all !!!

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by cherrymum1: 3:20pm On Jun 20, 2016
[quote author=Towerofgrace post=46752107
mummy Lami of laive, i never knew you ttc'd oo, i love it when i meet people with so much positive attitude towards life regardless of what comes their way. God bless you and Olamide real good, everything you need to be a wonderful and great mother God will provide for you thanks for the prayers and encouragement. You are a rare gem. [/quote]

I so love this your prayer jare. God should provide with ease all I need to take care of her.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fpeter(f): 3:23pm On Jun 20, 2016
@MamaTB, don't worry all will be well...report him to God through prayers. I know what you're going through
My husband is a very stubborn man too, such that I have to rehearse things in my head before broaching the
subject to him. Even when i had to go to the hospital for the tests, he said i should pay for them myself and
i felt really pained but wetin I go do? Pls continue praying for him because God will definitely change his heart
even yesterday here we still argued because i dared ask him after my welfare and he just took offense. It's
not easy to overlook them but God is our strength. I talk better through WhatsApp to him because trying to
face him one on one is always a deadlock. He always gives excuses why he can't listen to you at the moment.

The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord,
Like the rivers of water;
He turns it wherever He wishes.
PROVERBS 21:1

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