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We have known each other for over 3 years, she did this in 2014 and I caught her and she swore never to do it again. we have not been close for a while now though we communicate everyday. but yesterday something happened, I called her with the only line she has which I bought for her then after seeing two missed calls from her and the line said switched off, so I fortunately logged on to Wsup and saw that she was online and has even dropped some offline for me, so I quickly tried the line several times it continued saying switched off, as soon as I typed a message asking her what was happening with her line, she went off. I have been asking her since morning of the number she is using which she didn't synchronize on Wsup for me not to see, and she kept denying.
please what should I do? I love this girl so much that before next year run out I will settle down with her.
Advice me am so worried because she has done it before and swore even with sand against herself which by Gods grace I later caught her red handed and she confessed of her relationship with one guy like that who was even sleeping with her.

Probe her

Jst relax d technical advisers will soon be here.

Fiancee you say? Kindly re-evaluate the relationship to know your stands. Probably you might not be her only "fiance" afterall

I hv always said it never marry a girl that have dated more than 3 guys if nt dis is wht u wil be experiencing.

Jst call her seat her down nd talk to her since u love her.

These wh0res ain't loyal.

Fiancée & yet you haven't been close for a while? What does that mean? Is the distance physical or emotional?

Seems the jackal could be back to her old tricks.

Why are you monitoring the poor lady like a monitoring spirit? Somebody cannot gave whatsapp number again?

Never do the mistake of marrying a cheat

ojun50:
I hv always said it never marry a girl that have dated more than 3 guys if nt dis is wht u wil be experiencing.

Jst call her seat her down nd talk to her since u love her.

pls share ur reasons

belloabd1914:
pls share ur reason for being against marrying som1 u have dated for more dan 3 years, mayb I could learn a thing or two.

Read again, He said "... Someone that have dated more than three guys"

SeverusSnape:
Read again, He said "... Someone that have dated more than three guys"

my bad, sorry.

I know her family house, but she has been staying with the mother for a while where the mother is taking treatment, but all efforts to get the address yielded nothing as she refused to give me even after promising severally to do so though she comes around once in a while like two months

Forget her.

That's my honest, and straight from the heart piece of wisdom for you!
Once there are trust issues before marriage, believe me, there's little chance of any improvement once you tie the knot.

If she feels smart by getting away with two timing, she is bound to sharpen her skills after wedlock.
Few people (both male and female) change after marriage. Keyword: Few
Since there's no way to find out if she's among the minor few, best thing is to walk away right now, than live with a much bigger regret later.

Never trust any lady you never met as a Virgin.

belloabd1914:
pls share ur reasons

op i don't want to remember somtin bt that my stand.
Yr woman is still communicating with one of her ex. Jst seat her down nd talk to her.

be alert, fraud marriages on the loose

don87:
We have known each other for over 3 years, she did this in 2014 and I caught her and she swore never to do it again. we have not been close for a while now though we communicate everyday. but yesterday something happened, I called her with the only line she has which I bought for her then after seeing two missed calls from her and the line said switched off, so I fortunately logged on to Wsup and saw that she was online and has even dropped some offline for me, so I quickly tried the line several times it continued saying switched off, as soon as I typed a message asking her what was happening with her line, she went off. I have been asking her since morning of the number she is using which she didn't synchronize on Wsup for me not to see, and she kept denying.
please what should I do? I love this girl so much that before next year run out I will settle down with her.
Advice me am so worried because she has done it before and swore even with sand against herself which by Gods grace I later caught her red handed and she confessed of her relationship with one guy like that who was even sleeping with her.

Have you listened to Regea blues by harissong?....Even your boo gat a boo.#Wish up.

Well wat can i say?

Nothing just b calm nd ease d pressure clear ur head make ursef abi too happy to notice her she will come around hersef

don87:
I know her family house, but she has been staying with the mother for a while where the mother is taking treatment, but all efforts to get the address yielded nothing as she refused to give me even after promising severally to do so though she comes around once in a while like two months

and she is your fiancee

I hate to see men acting cowardly in the name of I love her very much.You see all possible traits that you are not the only guy in her life,yet you can't summon courage to walk away from the relationship/courtship because of one stupid transient feeling/lust you call love.

Jorussia:
I hate to see men acting cowardly in the name of I love her very much.You see all possible traits that you are not the only guy in her life,yet you can't summon courage to walk away from the relationship/courtship because of one stupid transient feeling/lust you call love.

Thjs is true. U may love her but she don't love you. Her actions say everything. She keeping ones on the side because she isn't 100% invested.

Time u change ur number and never speak to her again.

[quote author=foolinlove post=46903831]Thjs is true. U may love her but she don't love you. Her actions say everything. She keeping ones on the side because she isn't 100% invested.

Time u change ur number and never speak to her again.

My own is that if I discovered that a gal I love is cheating on me, I will frustrate her by withdrawing every financial assistance from her. But I will stil be nacking her. And I will never mention anything marriage again in the relationship.

[quote author=nwakibe post=46903991][/quote]That's a bit childish.