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Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest(op): 2:30pm On Jun 28, 2016
I met some former colleagues of mine whom I'd seen about 6 years ago. Believe me, while I was able to recognize all the guys, it was a Herculean task identifying all the ladies, most of whom I knew to be slim/trim/curvy and unmarried then. Almost all of these once-slim ladies are now looking big and fat and absolutely less plummy than they used to be.

Why is it hard for MANY married ladies to stay trim and sexy? Is marriage a "breakthrough from hunger" or what? And why do they express shock when their husbands go after trim and shapely ladies outside? Is it that they didn't know that men are typically motivated by sensual sights?

I've seen a lot of ladies in their 30s who are so lazy to even take a 20 minutes walk in a week, at least just to exercise and burn some fat. Let's not even mention going to the gym. They drive or board okada all their lives. And when they eat, you'd ve amazed at the amount of calories they consume!

Are this category of ladies aware that the game is becoming dangerously tighter because "oga" is constantly inundated with young, trim, energetic and sexy girls on a daily basis; while his own wife keeps growing fat and out of shape and looking like his mother? Guys, do you like your wife looking like she's your mum?
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by 0ubenji(m): 2:32pm On Jun 28, 2016
Erm..before I comment..
ARE U MARRIED ??!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jun 28, 2016
Don't you know child bearing makes a woman pull on weight?
Anyway u are right on one thing, Nigerian women are too lazy to watch their weight. However, weight gain of a partner should not be an excuse for adultery.


#my2cents#
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jun 28, 2016
Mtcheeeeeew
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jun 28, 2016
Laziness. Most african women are just so lazy. All they do is get fat when dey get married... Wdf' happened to daily routine exercises?... You can't tell me u work ur arse 24hrs a day. C'mon!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest(op): 2:38pm On Jun 28, 2016
0ubenji:
Erm..before I comment..

ARE U MARRIED ??!
I know what you are driving at. Just go ahead and share your thoughts...
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by MissRike(f): 2:47pm On Jun 28, 2016
It's basically coz of child birth moreover, they're enjoying the proteinous mixtures of their husbands' hmmm.....you know


I'm MissRike
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by sinaj(f):
Average Nigerian women don't keep nanny. They wake up by 5a.m, dress up d kids nd also leave for work.


They rush back hme after work, to get d kids nd also prepare dinner.
Some of them also work on saturdays.
Nd d routine continues.

Instead of u to appreciate them, u here complaining abt their weight gain.


Pregnancy also change their body too, nd contribute to d weight gain.




The posters above calling women lazy might be typing with their pot belly resting on their laps undecided


Now Mr op, can u also explain why some men gain weight nd pot belly after marriagehuh

What stops them frm hitting d gym undecided
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by 0ubenji(m): 2:51pm On Jun 28, 2016
tomquest:
I know what you are driving at. Just go ahead and share your thoughts...
Oh gud..
Kindly ansa my questn and go take a seat in waitin at the exact location I'm drivin at coz I'm bou to hit u...lolz
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jun 28, 2016
*TOO MUCH STARCH *



Mama Nkechi chop Fufu in the morning before she go market, chop Fufu in the afternoon when she dey for market, chop Fufu in evening when she come back from market.....

If talk say she get money, she for dey chop balance diet, dey go gym....

Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by falconey(m):
sinaj:
Average Nigerian women don't keep nanny. They wake up by 5a.m, dress up d kids nd also leave for work.


They rush back hme after work, to get d kids nd also prepare dinner.
Some of them also work on saturdays.
Nd d routine continues.

Instead of u to appreciate them, u here complaining abt their weight gain.


Pregnancy also change their body too, nd contribute to d weight gain.




The posters above calling women lazy might be typing with their pot belly resting on their laps undecided


Now Mr op, can u also explain why some men gain weight nd pot belly after marriagehuh
excessive intake of calories from beer for those that drink ...........others from food their wives cook that has excess calories .

balance diet is essential to avoid the potbelly


my point is ours can be avoided but yours is almost inevitable
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by halfricanadian(f): 3:56pm On Jun 28, 2016
The problem the husband nd his relative will giv her is enof for her to swell up from within
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by falconey(m): 4:00pm On Jun 28, 2016
halfricanadian:
The problem the husband nd his relative will giv her is enof for her to swell up from within
this post is a joke right ,in this modern age a wife is disturbed by her husband's relative?

about husband disturbing wife , it goes otherwise most time.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by potbelly(m): 4:01pm On Jun 28, 2016
undecided
falconey:
excessive intake of calories from beer for those that drink ...........others from food their wives cook that has excess calories .

balance diet is essential to avoid the potbelly
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by donokoh(m): 4:02pm On Jun 28, 2016
@op na sperm dey cause am , simple and short.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by halfricanadian(f): 4:05pm On Jun 28, 2016
falconey:
this post is a joke right ,in this modern age a wife is disturbed by her husband's relative?

about husband disturbing wife , it goes otherwise most time.
Its still happening d women just dont carw any more in dis era bt its very mch still existing relatives wahala

Tah mostly husbands u guys are troublesome breeds
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Vivos: 4:19pm On Jun 28, 2016
Not that they are lazy per se,85% of african women only little or no time for themselves,they dedicate their time to their children and husband.the cooking,the laundry and cleaning work them out,the little time they get,they put into movies. They should spend at least ten mins working out at home, if not for anything,to stay fit and healthy. smileyNot that they are lazy per se,85% of african women only little or no time for themselves,they dedicate their time to their children and husband.the cooking,the laundry and cleaning work them out,the little time they get,they put into movies. They should spend at least ten mins working out at home, if not for anything,to stay fit and healthy.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by robosky02(m): 4:34pm On Jun 28, 2016
SANDOSKI:
*TOO MUCH STARCH *



Mama Nkechi chop Fufu in the morning before she go market, chop Fufu in the afternoon when she dey for market, chop Fufu in evening when she come back from market.....

If talk say she get money, she for dey chop balance diet, dey go gym....

wow

I hope you no go became iya-basera

Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by falconey(m): 4:42pm On Jun 28, 2016
potbelly:
undecided
sorry boss
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Youngpo413: 4:47pm On Jun 28, 2016
tomquest:
I met some former colleagues of mine whom I'd seen about 6 years ago. Believe me, while I was able to recognize all the guys, it was a Herculean task identifying all the ladies, most of whom I knew to be slim/trim/curvy and unmarried then. Almost all of these once-slim ladies are now looking big and fat and absolutely less plummy than they used to be.

Why is it hard for MANY married ladies to stay trim and sexy? Is marriage a "breakthrough from hunger" or what? And why do they express shock when their husbands go after trim and shapely ladies outside? Is it that they didn't know that men are typically motivated by sensual sights?

I've seen a lot of ladies in their 30s who are so lazy to even take a 20 minutes walk in a week, at least just to exercise and burn some fat. Let's not even mention going to the gym. They drive or board okada all their lives. And when they eat, you'd ve amazed at the amount of calories they consume!

Are this category of ladies aware that the game is becoming dangerously tighter because "oga" is constantly inundated with young, trim, energetic and sexy girls on a daily basis; while his own wife keeps growing fat and out of shape and looking like his mother? Guys, do you like your wife looking like she's your mum?
Yes!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Youngpo413: 4:52pm On Jun 28, 2016
halfricanadian:
The problem the husband nd his relative will giv her is enof for her to swell up from within
hahaha, you have made my day.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by halfricanadian(f): 5:13pm On Jun 28, 2016
Youngpo413:
hahaha, you have made my day.
grin grin glad i cud
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Aminat508(f): 5:15pm On Jun 28, 2016
robosky02:
wow

I hope you no go became iya-basera
wetin be this na undecided person dey fast angry
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest(op): 5:32pm On Jun 28, 2016
0ubenji:
Oh gud..
Kindly ansa my questn and go take a seat in waitin at the exact location I'm drivin at coz I'm bou to hit u...lolz
Hahaha.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest(op):
Unique04:
Don't you know child bearing makes a woman pull on weight?
Anyway u are right on one thing, Nigerian women are too lazy to watch their weight. However, weight gain of a partner should not be an excuse for adultery.
#my2cents#
Yep I know childbearing brings about weight gain. But it's not irreversible. It's just the zeal.
Besides, this wasn't the type of weight gain I was referring to. It goes beyond that. Talking about "consciously blowing out of shape" without

1) exercises to burn calories to maintain weight
2) sticking to a healthy eating habit wilhich includes the right calories intake considering ones BMI and level of physical activity.


I totally agree with you that an out-of-shape wife shouldn't be a ticket for a man to cheat. But do you realize that staying in shape is a strong attraction factor in keeping your man all to yourself?
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest(op): 5:59pm On Jun 28, 2016
MissRike:
It's basically coz of child birth moreover, they're enjoying the proteinous mixtures of their husbands' hmmm.....you know


I'm MissRike
Lol MissRike does that explain why the husbands stay trim while wives blow out of shape? So much about protein supplements!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest(op): 6:08pm On Jun 28, 2016
sinaj:
Average Nigerian women don't keep nanny. They wake up by 5a.m, dress up d kids nd also leave for work.


They rush back hme after work, to get d kids nd also prepare dinner.
Some of them also work on saturdays.
Nd d routine continues.

Instead of u to appreciate them, u here complaining abt their weight gain.


Pregnancy also change their body too, nd contribute to d weight gain.




The posters above calling women lazy might be typing with their pot belly resting on their laps undecided


Now Mr op, can u also explain why some men gain weight nd pot belly after marriagehuh
Oh yes some men gain weight and pot belly. That's a topic for another thread (probably there's a thread on NL which explores the subject).

Talking about pregnancy, do you think that the weight gain during the process is irreversible? I could mention well known Nigerian ladies who are still in a fantastic shape even after putting to bed.

From my own little observation, too much food coupled with lack of exercise is the biggest contributor.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest(op): 6:10pm On Jun 28, 2016
halfricanadian:
The problem the husband nd his relative will giv her is enof for her to swell up from within
Now you're looking at it from an entirely new perspective. What kinda problems are you taking about here?
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by halfricanadian(f): 6:12pm On Jun 28, 2016
tomquest:
Now you're looking at it from an entirely new perspective. What kinda problems are you taking about here?
I kno a lot of women that tend to swell up wen stressed or constantly undergoing pressure while some loose weight
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest(op):
donokoh:
@op na sperm dey cause am , simple and short.
Sperm ke? How many wives dey give "head", talk less of to swallow?

I disagree with you sir!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest(op): 6:16pm On Jun 28, 2016
halfricanadian:
I kno a lot of women that tend to swell up wen stressed or constantly undergoing pressure while some loose weight
Sounds like depression. You don't think food is a culprit? Cos when they are depressed they tend to eat more.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by halfricanadian(f): 6:19pm On Jun 28, 2016
tomquest:
Sounds like depression. You don't think food is a culprit? Cos when they are depressed they tend to eat more.
Not everyone eats wen depressed food is a factor to gaining weight nd lack of exercise
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