@Madam coldharmattan, leave it for God. He neither sleeps nor slumbers. It shall be well with u and ur kids. You for spill d name sef .
As for madam side chick/ baby mama, you will always be d second best, another option, never good enough to be the first.

May God protect our homes from scavengers. Amen

morning mamas

my cappo mitchyy pls follow wat all mamas av said by relaxin ur back nd u can even rest both ur legs on a stool,weldone luv to blushy cheeks cute hansel.

enkaydewdrop abeg show today o..we dey miss u

iyabetajos pls rest welk nd follow mumi zaynie's advice,ara n fe simi, regrds to dadi ma.

coldharmattan..hmm u knw mamas av said it yestaday dat ur dh will find fault wt ur outburst here nd might use it against u anyway ...am speechless sha.my elder mamas wil contribute wen they r online bt i will say dis ryt here now unless u mention d name of dis suspect nd lets all thrash d issue ryt now,pls beta go settle it at home,most mamas here av challenges we deal wt on a daily basis coupled wt pregnancy wahala again so we cant b derailing dis thread based on rumour or heresy,d issue is affectin me now cuz i dey vex bt ova sumone i dnt even knw,it luks lik u r dangling a bone in a dog's face,my tongue is literally out now bt i jst cant taste it so go nd settle dis sensitive issue elsewhere madam nd dont forget to involve GOD nd HE will fight ur bAttle gallantly,all d best ma.(i av a strong feeling dat dis mam is one of us too).

If truly dis s a snatching machine among us which is nt even surprising well sum mamas av said it all yestaday,Karma is a bia.tch

swearest, babe wake up o. read wat u wrote again. I guess u r married right? It's women like u that encourage men to cheat, I'm sorry to say. your advice to cold harmattan can be summed up as doing more if she has been doing little, doing extra more if she has been doing enough. pray tell, how does that help? you are simply trying to say that men get to make up excuses and just cheat!!!!!

How many women has gone to other men coz their husbands keep late nights, don't provide enough etc? marriage is a partnership. isn't the husband suppose to help his wife overcome her weaknesses? same as the wife? ..... anyway , ignore me plz. lemme attend to better matter.

Mr husband dat impregnated another woman, I know I don't know the whole stories but lemme just tell u this, if coldharmattan ever decides to stop fighting for her marriage, I hope she strips you to the last pin, for all that you are worth. you deserve to start afresh with your baby mama and test her love and loyalty.

madam baby mama forming funky, if you intentionally hooked a married man, even if u didn't do so intentionally but found out along the way before getting pregnant, you are still at fault even if it's after getting pregnant, you still can't be exonerated. For sticking to him till this point and forming Don jazzy for a woman u have caused so many sleepless nights, I hope you know wats coming to you. You can't hide. u ll reap war u sow and you may get the man with all his baggages and you ll regret it. It won't be a happy ever after for u one way or the other and I sincerely hope it won't be. yes I said it

Any woman that tries to take another woman's husband intentionally without Consent of first wife and gloating about it deserves all the misery coming her way, more than she can handle.

voltrons, defenders of the universe, I won't be replying uall

coldharmattan, if u r legit u ll pull tru one way or the other, you ll survive. I pray for happier days for you.

Iomoge2, abeg ma send me that your peppersoup recipe since u made it while preggy, did u use normal market peppersoup spice?

Finally coldharmattan nairaland can't help you fight this battle. We may gang up against snatcher woman but that won't bring peace to your home. take it to God!!!! fight for your man. have you seen the movie war room? you should. seek counsel of elders and make a decision.

you don't have to name whoever ( eventhough I ll be honest and say I'm dying to know the madam that is borrowing another's husband but I must admit that that's not a solution ). you don't have to do this in public Coz our interests here is aproko and a little wisdom maybe.

I pray God gives u strength to face squarely wats coming and I pray u win too.

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Fever and back ache.
Okay.....my own opinion o,
- never ignore fever. And the pain is it a soreness? It might be an indication of infection.
- back ache is common in mama's that delivered via CS esp with epidural. It occurs along the spine.
- it might just be malaria.
- you need to rest and take care of your self like you still have your baby. Your body needs a long time to heal, longer than regular cos the babies help us to heal faster.
- it could still be lochia. I re-saw lochia 6 weeks postpartum.

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@madam zayine....good morning...biko touch light my own matter as to back pain after cs...I am 9months post position this week.I still feel d pain on my spine especially when I carry my son who is on d chubby side for long.d consultant Anaesthetist told me DAT I should always use any pain killer that works for me and take my mind off it.paracetamol or panadol works for me.I only take it wen d pains stays more than a day which is not always.....now my question is how long will d effect of this epidural remain cuz I was thinking that by now it should have been over....biko oooo come to my aid....thanx....

iomoge2:
In the name of the Lord Jesus I bring all our unborn children to You Lord and thank You for this gift of grace that has been granted to us.
Lord You have heard our prayers as you did Hannah in the bible and have granted us the privilege of bringing a new little life into the world.
I pray that our pregnancy may be free of complications and that our little baby will be born perfectly healthy and complete. Amen

Lord I pray that your hand of grace would be on our children not only in the womb but once they are born.
May they come to know and love You Lord and grow into strong and healthy children who comes to know the Lord Jesus as their Saviour.

Father I thank and praise You for all the great things that you have done for us and for all the things as yet unknown that You have in store for us all.

Lord I love you and stand in awe of the wonderful miracle of life that is growing inside of us and I lift up my hands to praise Your glorious name,

Amen

*Muslim Mamas, edit to pray as it suits.

Amen

Hmmmm,this is indeed a man's world,@ madam coldharmattan I will suggest you find yourself a job to enable take care of your babies and think less of your husband,start getting close to your family cos you need them more now .

As for that husband of urs ,just hand him over to God,never fail to put your case up to God everyday,pray for him too cos ladies are getting desperate this days.

Same goes to all the mamas in the house,we all have to put our Dh in prayers DAT no strange woman will locate them cos them no dey use eye see married men.

And you olosho,remember whatever you put down,comes back for you, karma is a real bitch, and God is really watching you on 10 D,you will soon harvest the ant infected yam you planted.

Frotius you just said my mind I was salivating and rushing to read the whole with hope that certainly with thus brazenness of the baby mama coldharmattan will definitely say her name, but alas she didn't

I am more angered than surprise because I knew she will not! ( maybe there's no such person after all ) and if there is why in Gods name are you still shielding her identity? Even after she reported you to your husband? Madam abeg I will still sit on the fence for now till you complete what you started, theres no point heaping curses on an imaginary husband snatcher Bible said for every idle word we speak and false witness we bare we shall be held accountable for it.
Let God settle your matter He sees everything.
Good morning house.

so many mini skirted demons des days.... and so many diick thinking men. nah wa o.

mamas make una no vex that it's this matter that is bringing me out after a long while.

iyabetajos and all mamas dat have put to birth, congratulations and kisses to your los.

waddling mamas, you all shall waddle to victory in Jesus name.

Awaiting mamas, this year shall not pass you by in Jesus name.
I may not comment often but be sure you all are in my prayers.

Hi to all my friends and acquaintances within and beyond nairaland. how's you all doing?
And to all my friends waiting to be made, I can't wait to get to know you all.
My able seniors, I salute. my juniors, I hail....
Repping 03/14 and 10/ 15 til infinity...... my team mates before before, how many of una Don carry again?

mitchyy:


This is really sad. I'm sincerely short of words...

same here wit me,some women can be wicked, may God keep protecting our dh's from snatchers,how is Hansel send these kisses to him

smokeydrinky:
swearest, babe wake up o. read wat u wrote again. I guess u r married right? It's women like u that encourage men to cheat, I'm sorry to say. your advice to cold harmattan can be summed up as doing more if she has been doing little, doing extra more if she has been doing enough. pray tell, how does that help? you are simply trying to say that men get to make up excuses and just cheat!!!!!

How many women has gone to other men coz their husbands keep late nights, don't provide enough etc? marriage is a partnership. isn't the husband suppose to help his wife overcome her weaknesses? same as the wife? ..... anyway , ignore me plz. lemme attend to better matter.

Mr husband dat impregnated another woman, I know I don't know the whole stories but lemme just tell u this, if coldharmattan ever decides to stop fighting for her marriage, I hope she strips you to the last pin, for all that you are worth. you deserve to start afresh with your baby mama and test her love and loyalty.

madam baby mama forming funky, if you intentionally hooked a married man, even if u didn't do so intentionally but found out along the way before getting pregnant, you are still at fault even if it's after getting pregnant, you still can't be exonerated. For sticking to him till this point and forming Don jazzy for a woman u have caused so many sleepless nights, I hope you know wats coming to you. You can't hide. u ll reap war u sow and you may get the man with all his baggages and you ll regret it. It won't be a happy ever after for u one way or the other and I sincerely hope it won't be. yes I said it

Any woman that tries to take another woman's husband intentionally without Consent of first wife and gloating about it deserves all the misery coming her way, more than she can handle.

voltrons, defenders of the universe, I won't be replying uall

coldharmattan, if u r legit u ll pull tru one way or the other, you ll survive. I pray for happier days for you.

Thank you so much for this! A lot of women go through a lot in their marriages but it never occurs to them to step out for peace. Instead they are advised to pray. It saddens me when a woman is told to do more when her man errs. Doesn't anyone understand that she's in pain at that moment?

A man cheats and the reason is maybe she's no longer sexy or not good in bed or maybe she pushed him out with her attitude. It is well. Lemme not say too much. God will help us women in this life.

Coldharmattan this ur allegation to an anonymous mama here is nt the solution. Now nobody knows if ure d baby mama tryin to tarnish the image of a genuine mama or the other way round. Why hide d moniker anyway are you that nice?
I dont kno who is who, but to u baby mama, its not too late to make ammends God will still forgive you. Why wud u derive joy in causing a woman like you pain and agony in her life and marriage, do u know how many curses you would have received? Why? Why? Why give a married man attention in the first place? Is the word 'no way' not in ur dictionary? Why do we help all these married men cheat? Believe me if 80 percent of all d girls dating married men should learn how to say no, infidelity will drastically reduce. Pls and pls lets help our fellow women. There are so many single guys out there.

Legit mama, work on ur self and face ur man. Find out those areas u guys need to work on n make amends asap. Do u nag? Are u an untidy woman? Make urself attractive Etc there must b somethin chasing him outside unless he was born to b a chronic womaniser in that case, theres nothing our God cannot do, he sees it all and knos it all. Go to him in prayer.
Its not the end of the world. If it still doesnt work out, move on, and put urself n children together, who knos God is trying to keep you safe from dangers that lie ahead.

Beautiful morning mamas in da house and happy Eid El-Fitr to all my muslim sisters.

dexterush:


Lmoa,am Igbo oh ,but you self reason am na,no be only them sabi drink milk plus they will still suck it from the breast,so in other words am only helping them preserve it in the almighty store room

@ Almighty Store Room. Carry go Joor, nothing do you Sis.

A big thank you to all the mamas that have given their advice @fortius, @soonest,@ozycy.for the questions you asked me @ liftedhands, the rupture happened 4yrs ago and the doctor told me that the cut was a full one from up to down.if i had even one child i wouldnt have bothered to try again am so worried, goodmorning every body.

Gud morning everyone.Am a silent reader for sometime now, I want to register officially now hope am welcome? I am a second time mom but lost my first. Am team September, Edd is 4 Sept.Mum zaynie am loyal bringing my dollars soon.My able captain sugar I hail o.c congrats to all that have delivered

Mumtwins08:
I don't know but this is very strange ..... I am a fair person .... I know pregnancy makes the face or neck darker .... But I haven't changed in my face ... 34 weeks 3 days today . But rather it's my butt that is pitch black .... It's so funny when I bath and I see the contrast ... Any one got that ?

same here wit me oo,thou i am naturally fair,but since I get pregnant I come fair pass person wey dey bleach,and I dont rub cream,even my stretch marks disappeared,my skin come look more fresh,my dh was telling me last night this my pregnancy mks me to look more prettier, is like I will be carrying belle every yr for him

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coldharmattan:
Thank you all for your contributions.


She knew he was married cos they were together for more than a year.
She told him about my coming here....hmmmm....na wa o!
My DH was the one that told her to join this thread o because we both found out about this thread during my second pregnancy.
I was on this thread for my second and third but never spoke up. Only to read.....

Now my DH called me, furious and putting blames on me even though they are the ones that offended.
He even mentioned divorce.
You won.
You can have him.
He will soon show you his true colour unless you have correct jazz to hold him down.
That was my mistake.
My kids and I will be fine. We will be wiser and stronger for it.


Thanks to all mama here.


After ttcing for up to 5 years.
Gave up my wonderful job to take care of the home so that he can focus and bring home the cheese. Business that I gave him capital for.
Turned my back on my family because he didnt get along with them.
My friends left me one by one when I couldnt keep up.
You dont like me making up but your new baby mama na ojuju.
You dont like me going out but she is always taking pictures at parties.


I attacked her cos she knew he was married.
She used this pregnancy to hook him for financial gains.
She flaunts his pictures online with them both.
She is well respected here, forming my husband is the best....mtchew! Borrow pose!!!!!!!
Better take all you can from him cos after this divorce, beggar go see una, dash u money sef.
I am taking you to the cleaners

Please just ignore this message, the one whom it is intended for knows herself.
oya run and report me again o.
Our husband's favourite.
Yeye dey smell.

Hmmm ayam flabbergasted.ife dey happen ooo.

smokeydrinky:
swearest, babe wake up o. read wat u wrote again. I guess u r married right? It's women like u that encourage men to cheat, I'm sorry to say. your advice to cold harmattan can be summed up as doing more if she has been doing little, doing extra more if she has been doing enough. pray tell, how does that help? you are simply trying to say that men get to make up excuses and just cheat!!!!!

How many women has gone to other men coz their husbands keep late nights, don't provide enough etc? marriage is a partnership. isn't the husband suppose to help his wife overcome her weaknesses? same as the wife? ..... anyway , ignore me plz. lemme attend to better matter.

Mr husband dat impregnated another woman, I know I don't know the whole stories but lemme just tell u this, if coldharmattan ever decides to stop fighting for her marriage, I hope she strips you to the last pin, for all that you are worth. you deserve to start afresh with your baby mama and test her love and loyalty.

madam baby mama forming funky, if you intentionally hooked a married man, even if u didn't do so intentionally but found out along the way before getting pregnant, you are still at fault even if it's after getting pregnant, you still can't be exonerated. For sticking to him till this point and forming Don jazzy for a woman u have caused so many sleepless nights, I hope you know wats coming to you. You can't hide. u ll reap war u sow and you may get the man with all his baggages and you ll regret it. It won't be a happy ever after for u one way or the other and I sincerely hope it won't be. yes I said it

Any woman that tries to take another woman's husband intentionally without Consent of first wife and gloating about it deserves all the misery coming her way, more than she can handle.

voltrons, defenders of the universe, I won't be replying uall

coldharmattan, if u r legit u ll pull tru one way or the other, you ll survive. I pray for happier days for you.

My dear, please take a carton of chilled pure heaven (I love that drink die) for this your post . That comment from swearest rubbed me the wrong way and I wanted to say something, then I calmed down and said its too early abeg Lol. It pains me when I hear enabling statements like this from women.

coldharmattan:
Thank you all for your contributions.


She knew he was married cos they were together for more than a year.
She told him about my coming here....hmmmm....na wa o!
My DH was the one that told her to join this thread o because we both found out about this thread during my second pregnancy.
I was on this thread for my second and third but never spoke up. Only to read.....

Now my DH called me, furious and putting blames on me even though they are the ones that offended.
He even mentioned divorce.
You won.
You can have him.
He will soon show you his true colour unless you have correct jazz to hold him down.
That was my mistake.
My kids and I will be fine. We will be wiser and stronger for it.


Thanks to all mama here.


After ttcing for up to 5 years.
Gave up my wonderful job to take care of the home so that he can focus and bring home the cheese. Business that I gave him capital for.
Turned my back on my family because he didnt get along with them.
My friends left me one by one when I couldnt keep up.
You dont like me making up but your new baby mama na ojuju.
You dont like me going out but she is always taking pictures at parties.


I attacked her cos she knew he was married.
She used this pregnancy to hook him for financial gains.
She flaunts his pictures online with them both.
She is well respected here, forming my husband is the best....mtchew! Borrow pose!!!!!!!
Better take all you can from him cos after this divorce, beggar go see una, dash u money sef.
I am taking you to the cleaners

Please just ignore this message, the one whom it is intended for knows herself.
oya run and report me again o.
Our husband's favourite.
Yeye dey smell.

This is really sad, God will make a way for you and your kids.

To all Muslim mamas in the house happy Eid-el-fitr.

I[quote author=Favouredmom post=47211064]I decided to post prayers, sleep first, before I then chook mouth for mama coldharmattan matter.

What scares me sometimes about social media especially Nairaland is how people like posts that have an undertone of quarel. I know the mama in question is pained (if the story is true) but what do people gain from liking such posts. Someone is hurt and you are liking her posts. Seriously? It beats my imagination! How will people with other real life issues trust our judgements when we seem to be biased. This is not the first time this has happened here. Sometimes I wish Seun can make public whoever likes a post.

On the matter gangan, Madam, other mamas have advised you very well. Have a heart to heart discussion with your husband if possible. If you have to reach out to the lady in question depending on the peculiarity of the situation, then do so. No one can dictate to you how best you can get closure. Just let your kids and the future be in focus in all you do. Above all, please keep in mind that two wrongs will never make a right. To be honest, some of us might do worse if in your shoes but let wisdom prevail. The Lord is your strength in this trying time.

And to the preggy woman that was accused, if it's true, your conscience will tell you and that is the greatest judge the Almighty has put in us. Remember what goes around comes around. You can't abort anyway but please leave this home in peace and let the man take care of the unborn baby you people have brought into this mess. If you did not know, it's still not too late to make amends. Your own husband will locate you by Gods grace

December babes, you guys aren't quiet again na, no be everytime una go dey talk. I follow up on everyone and we've improved. Na gradual gradual, as our pregnancy progresses we will definitely have more questions that'll bring us out. Phundek dear, sorry I omitted your name in the last roll call, my apologies. Will include it now.

Creamchiccb, your BS was interesting which goes to show that one needs to keep an open mind about delivery and should never stop praying.

God bless us all and keep our homes

Abeg make una indulge with this rice and assorted meat pepper soup for late night dinner with homemade fruit juice, make we all cool temper jare Perfect for the weather
Iomoge2 you are in the spirit
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I will only accept dat apology on one condition.send my own rice peppersoup to my house.mehnnn dat food look sumptous oh.my mouth just deyvwater for bed wey I dey.

sugah:
Over 200 unread msgs...una dey try. I just have to do this!! I was waiting for the beginning of the month for a roll call but who says we have to wait for beginning of the month sef? Team September mamas are special!! Very special that we can vex and decide to do roll call every day or every week..mamas make una hold me make I no vex

So here we go. Cha cha cha September mamas Kwenu!!!! Sexilicious September mamas!! Swaggalicious September mamas!! Supernatural September mamas!!! Kwenu oooo!!!!!
We have officially broken a record at almost 50 members so far. We shall be the team that everyone else would look up to . We've gat it all. We've got numbers, we have twins, we have tripplets, we have plenty team blues and pinks and most especially (and the one very close to my heart) we have many mamas that crossed over from the TTC thread. We are truly blessed!!!

Oya swaggalicious mamas come out and answer roll call, come along with your baby sex (just give us team green if you don't want to share) and EDD.

Let us welcome our newest members: HerteEnUke26 Chubby100 and fabmummy (on behalf of her sister)


1. sugah....EDD 1st Sept......Team blue
2. Chili89...EDD 8th Sept....
3. Uglybetty1
4. Loistee..................Team blue
5. Mowojuoluwa**********God knows best ****
6. Serefunmee
7. Blessedmum......Team blue
8. Mummyife.....Team blue
9. Olaoyekemi....
10. switlolly27....EDD 26th Sept....Team Green
11. Funmz.....EDD 25th Sept....Team green
12. Ibari 
13. Starbuck
14. Cheerychy **waiting for your transfer letter**
15. Carinmom 
16. Beebee12 
17. AdaEkube.......
18. Teal................Team blue
19. HillyMa...........Team blue
20.MamaOO.....EDD 2nd Sept....Team blue
21. Sexyshe......... Team blue
22..Jina24......EDD 26th Sep........Team pink
23. eigmaticme........Team pink******God knows best***
24. Simababe..........baby's leg closed
25.Ahmanim
26. Tiimzy
27. besttbabe
28. Tippex
29 Haleematm.........Team blue
30. Odycute
31. Babysugar1.......Team blue
32. PresVA
33. Itunumary 
34. Tallgirlslim......Team blue
35. Mumgb...........Team pink
36. Jesusbaby1.....Team pink
37. hormobollar......Team pink 
38. harphorlarsadeh..... 
39. Chizeal.....
40. Faari........wants to be surprised. 
41. mymoneygrows...EDD 13th Sept.. Team Blue&Pink... our only iyaibeji
42. portable4real...........
43. tipsyjules......Team blue.
44. Coldfeet (on behalf of her sister Iyaibeta) Team blue, blue and blue
45. Lastbornop
46. OmoNwa
47. HerteEnUke26....EDD 8th Sept...Team Green
48.Chubby100....EDD 20th Sept...Team Blue
49. Fabmummy (on behalf of her sister )....EDD 21st sept...Team green
50.

Present ooo, our able team captain you are welcome back. i had a scan and revealed a baby girl and EDD is 17th Sept.

My fellow waddlers , how market? Don't forget today is bumptuesday o. Come and flaunt that bump hubby gave you.

hotmomma:
Iomoge2, abeg ma send me that your peppersoup recipe since u made it while preggy, did u use normal market peppersoup spice?

I was going to request for recipe too o before the snatching story took me away. Imoge2 please I need the recipe, help a sister that has lost her appetite. TIA

Hmmmmmmmm, so short of words

God help us.....

Come and join me Mama's,food is ready

Mitchydiva welcum mam..pls do mingle wt mamas here..dis one u dey share nAme wt my cappo na

Liftedhands..sis God knows and sees all o.

iomoge2...pls i nid d recipe too o cuz i ate dis peppersoup afta i gave birth to my first infct it helped wt my breastmilk flow then,mayb not dis type bt i knw yam dey inside too

Mumtwins08.....dats funny o..thank God na ur butt now atleast it is hidden..dnt wori..u r almost at ur destination.

Api Eid-el-fitri to our muslim sisters and hapi public holiday to us all.

#team September, ow we dey?
#starbuck my EED partner, hmm op we wnt birth on same day like this
#July, pls move very fast so that August can also pass by.
#All, av a fab holiday.

Maam coldharmattan pls mention the person's moniker.....why are thou protectin the person .may God be with you and restores your home back to you for the sake of your kids.


Please mention the well respected mama's name.

nancyij:
Come and join me Mama's,food is ready

Contunu!!!

the idea of mentioning the name is not a good idea. That wont solve the problem at home. may Allah solve all our problems.

mam smokeydrinky..u made a very sound statement bt there s a particular one am gonna address which is abt mentionin d moniker's name,we all knw it wont change anytin but u cant just kip attackin sumone if u aint ready to bear d brunt,fine aproko alwz dey wiareva women gada bt apart frm d erujeje behind d scenes dat likes wahala post,since i joined dis forum,av seen serious cases dat av been handled wt wisdom,av seen tears dat av bn wiped off faces,av seen issues dat mamas here Av addressed wisely nd i respect us all for dat,so u cant rule it out dat na only aproko wt little wisdom we get here,its insulting nt all of us bring issues here nd mamas here av bn helpful to our homes,we are sisters here nd we treat issues wt enuf wisdom dat we can give nd i still insist dat if she cant mention d moniker,y bring d mata here?we cant even differiate d truth frm d lie,May d LORD bless and keep our homes#Peace.