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Pls.. Help My Relationship...can't Just Sleep Over!! by horke(op): 9:55am On Jul 05, 2016
THIS HAPPENED LAST DAYS IN MY FIANCE'S OFFICE
(I am very far from her, east to west) because am a corper here serving in d east....
I know she loves me.. For her to even always discloses her extra affairs... Now she sent previous chats of dis guy in her office disturbing her ...... Below

Good morning lady and happy Sunday. Please, respond to my chats whenever you see them and don't change your attitude towards me. I don't like accusing you, but I think I should not keep quiet if I observed any change in your attitude.
Or you want me to stop chatting with you. If you send a chat to someone and the person didn't respond when you expect a response how will you feel? I may have done something wrong or offended you but if you don't open up to me how will I know?
I am under serious emotional challenge, just wondering what is going on. Please stop treating me like this. I have a lot of things on my head already you are now adding and compiling to my worries. This is too much for me to bear. Although when asked you might reply me in such a way that I will be un defensive but deep down, you know you've changed.
All I want is your LOVE, CARE, CONCERN, Friendship and Communications. The stress of life is too much, seeing someone to share ones happy and sad moment with, keeps one going and helps one a lot in achieving ones goal in life.
I don't want to stop living, the moment you stop communicating with me, I stop living. Please where ever have gone wrong please tell me.
Waking up this morning I felt so sad. And every day of one life should be joyful. Before you gave me Joy, Peace and Hope for a better tomorrow.
I don't think am asking a lot from you but just explanation on the change of attitude. It's killing me secretly and silently.
Last week Saturday and Sunday I was weeping of it, this week again. How long will this continue? One question I need to asked is that is Love painfulhuh?.
May be you will respond when am DEAD. You don't know that when one think too much one can harm one self. You want me to harm myself. At this point I can do anything am just too stressed.
Whatever makes me not to be able to read, it is not ordinary it's beyond me.
....Just tell me the reason for all this and I will stop troubling you....Sadly even without malaria am having a high body temperature. I can feel it. I hope not to hbp.

Now See my bae(fiance) response to me

"" This is about someone I told you about before, Am getting fed up of this hanging on my neck seriously

And she (bae) asked me again:-

(I am at a crossroads I don't know what to do)?

Pls Nairalanders...what should I sayhuhhuh
Re: Pls.. Help My Relationship...can't Just Sleep Over!! by ahnie: 10:07am On Jul 05, 2016
#hands him guguru and fanta#
Re: Pls.. Help My Relationship...can't Just Sleep Over!! by emeijeh(m): 10:20am On Jul 05, 2016
ahnie:
#hands him guguru and fanta#
Babe u wicked! grin
Advise him na
Re: Pls.. Help My Relationship...can't Just Sleep Over!! by horke(op): 11:11am On Jul 05, 2016
Pls...na advice abeg oooo
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