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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Abraham4christ(m): 8:01am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Na crime,u know see hw buhari flop him vice president |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by fromnigeria(m): 8:02am On Jul 09, 2016 |
''Her adult son'' |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:04am On Jul 09, 2016 |
I believe the question should be: is it right for a 22 year old man to allow himself to keep getting beaten by his mum? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Kosy79(f): 8:04am On Jul 09, 2016 |
No the mothers show stop d beating at d age of 50 since d upbringing is a lifetime. See let me tell u if u like use rod to whip his ass once his heart is closed up no reverse sometime soft words melts a solid/hard heart not cane. I really hate people flogging their children is so disgusting. The more u beat them d more stronger n use they will be to it and if they commit offence they will say nothing will happen afterall is flogging na nothing more. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:05am On Jul 09, 2016 |
me wey mumcy dey fear na hm she go beat...lol.d guy is either an slowpoke or a man wit a kids brain. mum stop beating me wen I was 13.cus I no lie I mature quick. d highest she does nw is to shout @ me. d day dat nigga challenges her, n she seez anger in his eyes, she go stop. bt I no say mke u beat am bck ooo. unless u want mke swear take u on a stroll 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:08am On Jul 09, 2016 |
the day the pikin go change am for her, she go know... parent need to understand that there is stage when beating a child should stop, especially when he/she start pushing her away whenever she wants to beat him. that should be a clear indication,cos one day the devil might use him ooo, the fact that she is a mother doesn't mean the young man doesn't have a mind of his own... he can decide to use it anyhow and apologize after the deed... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Krismart(m): 8:08am On Jul 09, 2016 |
If your mum still beats you at that age then definitely something is wrong with you as a person. A parent no matter how strict will never beat a RESPONSIBLE child at that age |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by abbeyty(m): 8:08am On Jul 09, 2016 |
is this child or adult abuse ? just confuse don't know which one to liking it to..is the guy a dummy who can't stand up for himself. some of his mates don get two kids of their own |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Ellieanna: 8:11am On Jul 09, 2016 |
jmichlins:That one strong oh |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by NaWetinDey(m): 8:12am On Jul 09, 2016 |
A mother who beats her 22+ son is constructing a timebomb that could blow her out of this world. You can claim that you are training him and you forget when you start abusing your privileges. If you couldn't do it from infancy to about 14, forget it; you failed as a mother. One day, when the young man cannot take it again, he will impulsively hit you or, in trying to defend himself from your beatings, push you to your death. The highest caption will be: Son Beats Mother to Death, Police Confirms At this stage in his life, only talks and corresponding mature actions can do even little. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:13am On Jul 09, 2016 |
At 22!, Jeso Kreste!, don't remember the last time i received beating.. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:16am On Jul 09, 2016 |
jmichlins:African mentality. Don't pray to have a son that will stay you on the neck |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by ehix89(m): 8:17am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Rods doesn't correct anyone older than 13, Words does, Use rods during the formative years and words during adulthood. Can't recall the last time I was flogged. I never turned out a menace in the society, African parents should learn. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:18am On Jul 09, 2016 |
SexyStrawberry:not someone like me Sha... I will burn make like unbearable for my parents if sth OK such happens. I am aka CAUSE TROUBLE |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by NemzySeries(m): 8:20am On Jul 09, 2016 |
so unfortunate d parents lack parenting skills.......y not give d guy time limit on wen hiz xpected to home instead of beating him or rada do a 1 on 1 chat wit d guy on issues dey feel he haz derailed? D're jst lucky d guy is a chicken if not dem ma sef 4 hear am 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by wizflower(f): 8:21am On Jul 09, 2016 |
general111:What has training him well has to do with the fact that the young boy came back late and maybe instead of him to apologize for his action, he felt he's too big and exchange words with the mother eeeh. Okoro no dey grow tall pass wo plant am abeg. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Wolex143: 8:22am On Jul 09, 2016 |
general111:thats nt a point at all. There is no way u can teach ur children and be expecting them nt to misbehave jst like dt, its nt possible oga, if u teach ur children with iron hand infact with whatever hand he/she wil misbehave. For instance those girls that get to campus and turn to another things like aristo etc, did u wnt to say that they were nt taught at home? Infact pple like them wen they ar at home they might be behaving like jesus christ bt on getting to campus they'll turns anoda things entirely. So u have nt point ooo. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by omofabulous(f): 8:23am On Jul 09, 2016 |
iomoge2:am not saying we too big for our parents to beat us, but am just saying it should be done the right way, counselling is far better than beating what do you think? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:23am On Jul 09, 2016 |
SexyStrawberry: I wanna assume by "cool headed", you mean someone who would not beat his mama back. Am I right? |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by abbeyty(m): 8:26am On Jul 09, 2016 |
iomoge2: one day she go hit your head with a pestle or give you a hot slap that will probably send you into a coma for many months. this is a pure abuse, violent does not solve problem 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by blayde(m): 8:29am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Like WTF! Whipping a child(a man by lawful standards) at 22 will only inspire rebellion and poor self esteem. D day my father realised i have outgrown spanking (he used to whip me with twisted heavy wire)and resolved to counselling na dt day he himself experience rest of mind. I miss my stubborn days though when men were boys and explored d world. I'm a good son now with lots of recommendation both home and abroad. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by NemzySeries(m): 8:29am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Krismart:baba I stand to disagree with u on dis note.....sum parents dunt kw d limit certain conducts are to b stopped. is he d worst child in d neighbourhood? 4 christ sake he wuz beaten bkos he came home arnd 7pm rather why not give him a time limit wen hiz xpected to b home? dere wuz an issue here on NL sumtime ago abt a 30yrs old gal who's bin beaten by her mum bkos she went on a date wit a guy arnd 6/7pm & came bk 9pm n d annoying tin is dat shez a worker, graduate & shez 30!!!Bliv me wen i say sum parents lack parenting skills 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by mimicue(f): 8:30am On Jul 09, 2016 |
It's wrong .. Why should You sti be beaten at that age.. Some parents though .. It's different if it's just once in a while that u get slapped maybe you offended but beating you like a 10year old is out of it. They should be aware that at that age their children are old enough for correction and Nigerian parents need to learn that beating a child is not discipline because after all they will grow to learn with ' is it not beating ' syndrome and still do what they like .. The mother should continue till d day the boy will raise his hand against her while she is beating 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:34am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Greenbullet: You are a disgrace to watever species yu from! Yu mean yu will be happy to see yur younger sibling hit ur papa or mama while punishing him/her?!!! Ode!! Even , in more developed countries, the highest you see a child do is call 911 which is also bad but fair |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by deluxez12(m): 8:35am On Jul 09, 2016 |
SANDOSKI:Lmao |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Cherishing(f): 8:35am On Jul 09, 2016 |
SANDOSKI: Its Okra tree stop abusing person or person papa name . 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Maka y na? Eva since i enta higher insut @ 17, My parent stop beating me. Beatin dem makes d child to b affrid of dem nd s nt right. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by sunnyt1(m): 8:39am On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac: As long as you still depend on them for anything, they mighy spanj you for their own failure 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Ugosample(m): 8:42am On Jul 09, 2016 |
iomoge2: If na that one, is to stop giving him money I That one has become a wasteful man 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:44am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Hmm at 22 you hit me? I can take slap and walk out but hit me and I stand Watchung you. You name is sorry. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:45am On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac: After yu finish reading the verse 4 of that bible passage, pls kindly open the same bible to proverbs 29 :17 and proverbs 23 :13 |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:53am On Jul 09, 2016 |
omofabulous: At first, it serves the desired effect but with time the child starts getting used to it and then turns into you know what 1 Like |
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