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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Abraham4christ(m): 8:01am On Jul 09, 2016
Na crime,u know see hw buhari flop him vice president
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by fromnigeria(m): 8:02am On Jul 09, 2016
''Her adult son''
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:04am On Jul 09, 2016
I believe the question should be: is it right for a 22 year old man to allow himself to keep getting beaten by his mum?

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Kosy79(f): 8:04am On Jul 09, 2016
No the mothers show stop d beating at d age of 50 since d upbringing is a lifetime. See let me tell u if u like use rod to whip his ass once his heart is closed up no reverse sometime soft words melts a solid/hard heart not cane. I really hate people flogging their children is so disgusting. The more u beat them d more stronger n use they will be to it and if they commit offence they will say nothing will happen afterall is flogging na nothing more.

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:05am On Jul 09, 2016
me wey mumcy dey fear na hm she go beat...lol.d guy is either an slowpoke or a man wit a kids brain. mum stop beating me wen I was 13.cus I no lie I mature quick. d highest she does nw is to shout @ me. d day dat nigga challenges her, n she seez anger in his eyes, she go stop. bt I no say mke u beat am bck ooo. unless u want mke swear take u on a stroll

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:08am On Jul 09, 2016
the day the pikin go change am for her, she go know...

parent need to understand that there is stage when beating a child should stop, especially when he/she start pushing her away whenever she wants to beat him.

that should be a clear indication,cos one day the devil might use him ooo, the fact that she is a mother doesn't mean the young man doesn't have a mind of his own... he can decide to use it anyhow and apologize after the deed... grin

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Krismart(m): 8:08am On Jul 09, 2016
If your mum still beats you at that age then definitely something is wrong with you as a person. A parent no matter how strict will never beat a RESPONSIBLE child at that age
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by abbeyty(m): 8:08am On Jul 09, 2016
is this child or adult abuse ? just confuse don't know which one to liking it to..is the guy a dummy who can't stand up for himself. some of his mates don get two kids of their own
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Ellieanna: 8:11am On Jul 09, 2016
jmichlins:
My former landlady still beats her son even when the son has made millions and has his own family. Children upbringing is a lifetime stuff
That one strong oh
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by NaWetinDey(m): 8:12am On Jul 09, 2016
A mother who beats her 22+ son is constructing a timebomb that could blow her out of this world.
You can claim that you are training him and you forget when you start abusing your privileges. If you couldn't do it from infancy to about 14, forget it; you failed as a mother.
One day, when the young man cannot take it again, he will impulsively hit you or, in trying to defend himself from your beatings, push you to your death.
The highest caption will be: Son Beats Mother to Death, Police Confirms

At this stage in his life, only talks and corresponding mature actions can do even little.

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:13am On Jul 09, 2016
At 22!, Jeso Kreste!,
don't remember the last time i received beating..
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:16am On Jul 09, 2016
jmichlins:
My former landlady still beats her son even when the son has made millions and has his own family. Children upbringing is a lifetime stuff
African mentality. Don't pray to have a son that will stay you on the neck
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by ehix89(m): 8:17am On Jul 09, 2016
Rods doesn't correct anyone older than 13, Words does, Use rods during the formative years and words during adulthood. Can't recall the last time I was flogged. I never turned out a menace in the society, African parents should learn.

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:18am On Jul 09, 2016
SexyStrawberry:
No matter how old u are, u will still remain a child in ur mother's eyes.
But seriously the woman needs to cut him some slacks as our new generation boys are very rebellious, she's lucky to have one who's cool headed.
not someone like me Sha... I will burn make like unbearable for my parents if sth OK such happens. I am aka CAUSE TROUBLE
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by NemzySeries(m): 8:20am On Jul 09, 2016
so unfortunate d parents lack parenting skills.......y not give d guy time limit on wen hiz xpected to home instead of beating him or rada do a 1 on 1 chat wit d guy on issues dey feel he haz derailed? D're jst lucky d guy is a chicken if not dem ma sef 4 hear am

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by wizflower(f): 8:21am On Jul 09, 2016
general111:
It shows the mother didnt train him well.for her to be beating her 22 yr old is a sign that she did a bad job bringing him up.
What has training him well has to do with the fact that the young boy came back late and maybe instead of him to apologize for his action, he felt he's too big and exchange words with the mother eeeh. Okoro no dey grow tall pass wo plant am abeg.
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Wolex143: 8:22am On Jul 09, 2016
general111:
It shows the mother didnt train him well.for her to be beating her 22 yr old is a sign that she did a bad job bringing him up.
thats nt a point at all. There is no way u can teach ur children and be expecting them nt to misbehave jst like dt, its nt possible oga, if u teach ur children with iron hand infact with whatever hand he/she wil misbehave. For instance those girls that get to campus and turn to another things like aristo etc, did u wnt to say that they were nt taught at home? Infact pple like them wen they ar at home they might be behaving like jesus christ bt on getting to campus they'll turns anoda things entirely. So u have nt point ooo.
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by omofabulous(f): 8:23am On Jul 09, 2016
iomoge2:


The one u don't beat that's an animal nko

My SIL has been a medical doctor for over 10years n her mum still slaps her when she misbehaves or is about to.

My mum inclusive.
She still does what is needed.

U r never too grown for your parents.
Read my earlier post n see if u were d parent of the boy, what will u do?
am not saying we too big for our parents to beat us, but am just saying it should be done the right way, counselling is far better than beating what do you think?

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:23am On Jul 09, 2016
SexyStrawberry:
No matter how old u are, u will still remain a child in ur mother's eyes.
But seriously the woman needs to cut him some slacks as our new generation boys are very rebellious, she's lucky to have one who's cool headed.

I wanna assume by "cool headed", you mean someone who would not beat his mama back.

Am I right?
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by abbeyty(m): 8:26am On Jul 09, 2016
iomoge2:


The one u don't beat that's an animal nko

My SIL has been a medical doctor for over 10years n her mum still slaps her when she misbehaves or is about to.

My mum inclusive.
She still does what is needed.

U r never too grown for your parents.
Read my earlier post n see if u were d parent of the boy, what will u do?


one day she go hit your head with a pestle or give you a hot slap that will probably send you into a coma for many months. this is a pure abuse, violent does not solve problem

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by blayde(m): 8:29am On Jul 09, 2016
Like WTF! Whipping a child(a man by lawful standards) at 22 will only inspire rebellion and poor self esteem. D day my father realised i have outgrown spanking (he used to whip me with twisted heavy wire)and resolved to counselling na dt day he himself experience rest of mind. I miss my stubborn days though when men were boys and explored d world. I'm a good son now with lots of recommendation both home and abroad. wink
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by NemzySeries(m): 8:29am On Jul 09, 2016
Krismart:
If your mum still beats you at that age then definitely something is wrong with you as a person. A parent no matter how strict will never beat a RESPONSIBLE child at that age
baba I stand to disagree with u on dis note.....sum parents dunt kw d limit certain conducts are to b stopped. is he d worst child in d neighbourhood? 4 christ sake he wuz beaten bkos he came home arnd 7pm rather why not give him a time limit wen hiz xpected to b home? dere wuz an issue here on NL sumtime ago abt a 30yrs old gal who's bin beaten by her mum bkos she went on a date wit a guy arnd 6/7pm & came bk 9pm n d annoying tin is dat shez a worker, graduate & shez 30!!!Bliv me wen i say sum parents lack parenting skills

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by mimicue(f): 8:30am On Jul 09, 2016
It's wrong .. Why should
You sti be beaten at that age.. Some parents though .. It's different if it's just once in a while that u get slapped maybe you offended but beating you like a 10year old is out of it. They should be aware that at that age their children are old enough for correction and Nigerian parents need to learn that beating a child is not discipline because after all they will grow to learn with ' is it not beating ' syndrome and still do what they like grin .. The mother should continue till d day the boy will raise his hand against her while she is beating

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:34am On Jul 09, 2016
Greenbullet:
Nigerian parents got no chill at all.imagine the boy hit her back out of anger the probability that she survives is extremely low,even some Nigerian fathers beating their sons ,I PITY YOU ,if that or 18 yr old son hit u back u will understand the difference between protein and fat.

You are a disgrace to watever species yu from!


Yu mean yu will be happy to see yur younger sibling hit ur papa or mama while punishing him/her?!!! Ode!!

Even , in more developed countries, the highest you see a child do is call 911 which is also bad but fair
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by deluxez12(m): 8:35am On Jul 09, 2016
SANDOSKI:
[b] Pman no go hear dis one, age no matter cry

*OKORO TREE NO DEY PASS DEY OWN~ no matter dey age wey u dey, if u misbehave, Pman go hammer u beating *gringrin


Bt dis days things don dey change small small, even Pikin of 5yrs dem don stop to beat am ...gringrin
Lmao
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Cherishing(f): 8:35am On Jul 09, 2016
SANDOSKI:
[b] Pman no go hear dis one, age no matter cry

*OKORO TREE NO DEY PASS DEY OWN~ no matter dey age wey u dey, if u misbehave, Pman go hammer u beating *gringrin


Bt dis days things don dey change small small, even Pikin of 5yrs dem don stop to beat am ...gringrin

Its Okra tree

stop abusing person or person papa name .

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:37am On Jul 09, 2016
Maka y na? Eva since i enta higher insut @ 17, My parent stop beating me. Beatin dem makes d child to b affrid of dem nd s nt right.
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by sunnyt1(m): 8:39am On Jul 09, 2016
GloryIsaac:
Where do i start this ??

Well, i and a group of friends headed to a friends house yesterday to talk about certain things ahead of the evening service which was scheduled to hold by 4 pm.... on getting there, we noticed he was always touching a particular part of his head, on enquiry we found out that he got a beating from his mum the previous night because he came back late around 7pm which led to a disagreement between them.... We couldn't hold back the laughter grin, though it didn't last long because it led to an arguement on whether his mum was right to still be beating a nigga who would be clocking 23 or 24 this year (not so sure about his age though, but i know he's past 21) .

I'm fully aware that this niggas parents are strict and are really good at dishing out serious beatings since the days of adam and eve, my dad quit beating me when i clocked 13 so i find it really amusing to see a guy in his early twenties still getting some touches from his mum....
Decided to bring it to NL in order to know you guys opinion on this.....

And at what age did you get your last beating ??

Cc RoyalRoy

As long as you still depend on them for anything, they mighy spanj you for their own failure

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Ugosample(m): 8:42am On Jul 09, 2016
iomoge2:


Imagine a son you sent to school with a fees of 1.5million a year, comes back after his mates graduated and tell u he was told to leave because he didn't pass. This happened in year two n he continued collecting your money without saying.

This is someone whose accommodation is 400k yearly, feeding and all that over 300k yearly and he is studying Aeronautical Engineering.... This course is not in Nigeria so u had to source foreign currency to send him to school.

He finally comes back and at 22 bringing all sort of girls to your house when u go out claiming he is a pastor. Not knowing that without schooling he can't be a respected pastor.

When all he is interested in is carrying women n breaking up with them. The girls are even wiser n have all gone to date serious guys.

Someone who refused to follow you to your place of work where you make money to send him to school - Pure water factory - instead sleeps at home all day.

Someone who before you open mouth to talk to, he says it's his life.

Someone who has no respect for anyone.....

Please o, is it not to arrange better beating for him?
Or what else can u do?

Now he claims he has seen another school in UK.
Whereas he wasted your money schooling in Ghana (KNUST) with nothing to show for it.
Ghana that was easier to pop into.
Now it's UK that u may not see him for another 50years he is gunning for.

Well, I have told him, he can go n sell his kidney to go to UK
I am done assisting my parents to send him to school.
Smh.


If na that one, is to stop giving him money I

That one has become a wasteful man

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:44am On Jul 09, 2016
Hmm at 22 you hit me? I can take slap and walk out but hit me and I stand Watchung you. You name is sorry.

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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:45am On Jul 09, 2016
GloryIsaac:


Funny how this are set of people that keep shouting Eph 6:1-3 .... forgetting that there's a Verse 4 after it grin gringrin

This nigga should be 23 or 24 this year sef grin

Now, guys( including me grin)cant stop using that experience to throw banters at him cheesy cheesy

After yu finish reading the verse 4 of that bible passage, pls kindly open the same bible to proverbs 29 :17 and proverbs 23 :13
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:53am On Jul 09, 2016
omofabulous:
Is not a sin for parents to scold their children but doing it right is what matters, beating doesn't change a child but turns him/her into an animal

At first, it serves the desired effect but with time the child starts getting used to it and then turns into you know what

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