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Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by tobechi20(m): 9:55am On Jan 10, 2015 |
Amaka Iberosi: 114 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by lomaxx: 10:12am On Jan 10, 2015 |
Marriage is a choice. And if anybody feels they can stay happy unmarried, then they should stay that way. This country is a democratic country and the constitution affords everyone a freedom of choice. No one should choose to get married and come here to say they were manipulated. That's blatant rubbish!!! 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Nobody: 10:19am On Jan 10, 2015 |
Nice one OP. The best are the religious hypocrites who will cite the Bible to judge and condemn others forgetting these passages: "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?" "Do not judge, or you too will be judged." I remember one thread about Genevieve Nnaji. It was about a dress she wore. The ladies commented on the dress, and 80% of the MALE posters asked why she wasn't married, yet. Are men more desperate to get married? 46 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by elantraceey(f): 10:22am On Jan 10, 2015 |
Nice one op The pressure they put on ladies sometimes is too much , forgetting that marriage is not just a day affair. 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by loomer: 10:24am On Jan 10, 2015 |
SAY WHAT? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by TV01(m): 11:31am On Jan 10, 2015 |
What is this foul-smelling hot mess early on a Saturday morning A tipper load of bovine scatology to ruin the weekend ! Thank God TV01 NL' Foremost marriage advocate and defender of delightful matrimony is at hand - it must be sanitation day ! tobechi20:"Good" husbands are scarce, and thinking like this is not helping the situation. Best prepare and start early for your matrimonial adventure tobechi20:Nope, but long-term, the thoughts of the vast majority will turn to marriage - and indeed, society flourishes best that way. As above! tobechi20:Nope, it's not a crime, it's a societal ill, and rightly stigmatised, it has no benefits over child-rearing in wedlock and has a cost to society. tobechi20:Another societal ill, which should be avoided, and would be vastly reduced if my earlier advice were taken and applied. tobechi20:There could be changes in approach that would improve things, but overall the emphasis on marriage is the right one. tobechi20:Be as that may be, don't attack marriage, work to better prepare people for it tobechi20:Anyone who cares about their family or friends will be concerned about their marital prospects and outlook when they are of age. tobechi20:Inverted logic - which characterises this whole post - does refusal to abort cause single mothers? tobechi20:Should divorce be lauded? Encouraged?? Celebrated Or even considered a good thing. Did you put any thought into this tobechi20:Every one is responsible for their own choice - no one is forced to marry. And manipulation would all but disappear if my advice above is taken tobechi20:Are single women forced to get pregnant? Are they best advised to have children without the presence of a committed father. Single mothers pursue marriage hard because of the burden of raising children alone, not the other way round. Honestly? tobechi20:Very few women are cut out for long-term spinsterhood or men for bachelorhood. It's absolutely right that she is prepared and encouraged to marry. tobechi20:If they are correctly prepared and don't do it for selfish reasons, divorce will be rare. Teach them to do it properly not reject whats best for them and society. tobechi20:Yes, it's a mans world - and nothing is changing anytime soon. Despite the best efforts of purveyors of neo-ideologies. And why? Not least 'cos women want it that way ! Now please take this losers charter, this attack on the family, this outrage against society and shove it. It's foul and smellier than a 2buff stanky kitty-kat thread ! Are you married ? And if not, why not, don't you realise there's a best window of opportunity? that good spouses are scarce? That it's best to commit as soon as you are ready and have your children in wedlock? That all the best reception halls are booked until 2020? that good caterers are scarce, that quality aso ebi, decent fuji bands and chauffeured limosines are becoming more expensive by the day, that... ! TV 56 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by tobechi20(m): 12:38pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Then after the whole manipulation exercise, you both enter another war zone called Marriage..... Lolz This is when "for better for worse" comes into another form of manipulation. You will cheat on her, beat her, refuse your responsibility,make babies with other women, bring in women to your matrimonial home, boldly tell her that you are tired and you don't love her...... ( She is now scared of the word "DIVORCE") Instead of leaving you, she would turn to prayer warrior.... Lolz..... You are on the receiving end. Keep nagging young girls to marry, keep calling single mothers and divorcees names...... You men are the ones on the receiving end, because you are going to spend the remaining part of your life here on earth with a woman you don't love. As For My Women...... Because you still want to keep pleasing the Naija society at large, you have become desperate. Some of you live with useless men who haven't't paid one kobo on your heads, and some of you have desperately turned breadwinners, while the man is busy gallivanting about.... hmmm Because you heard that husbands are scarce, most of you are just grabbing any thing with third leg just to update your Facebook status to "MRS"...... Odiegwu.com Keep manipulating men to marry you by fire by force, and within few months of your so called marriage, you will bring your marital problems to Facebook pages or groups for advises... (The same advise some of you will ignore now) Rather be single and be at peace, than being in a marriage that lacks peace. When love leads two people into marriage, they tend to enjoy the marriage no matter what life throws their way. But when a marriage is being manipulated upon, it becomes hard work trying to maintain the marriage. Marriage is not a do or die affair, and the last time I checked, marriage certificate is not the gate pass to heaven's gate. Tobechi njoku 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I just love this Op. Blunt and straight to the point like me. He has mentioned all the problems involved with nigerians in particular. And to think this is coming from a male, its sooooo refreshing. He has echoed my exact thoughts. Nigerians coming up with useless manipulations to force people into bondage. The problem with people who do things for the society is that they refuse to see they are prisoners!! Imagine being a prisoner in your own country because of some flimsy reason as pleasing the society. You are all under bondage. He couldnt have said it any better. Got nothing to add. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by edwife(f): 2:05pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
tobechi20: Beautiful..... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
But why do women loves lies and self-deceit so much? All these women screaming marriage is not compulsory are the very same ones who'll say a guy dating them for four years is "wasting their time". What exactly do you want women? Women loooove getting married. Fact. Yet they want to get married strictly on their own terms, forgetting that they aren't getting married to themselves and as such need to account for other elements in the equation. Tobechi20, do you really want a society filled with single mothers and fatherless children? What sort of foolishness has seized your faculties? You think having a solid family is a luxury? Dude, you should not be dabbling into things you know nothing about. I can bet my left ball that you're not even in a serious relationship not to talk of being married or even having children. Men who carry responsibility don't have such funky(forgive me Saga) ideas and definitely don't go around spreading prescription for the degeneration of society. First things first, Tobechi20, get a girlfriend in the real world, get laid and stop looking for cheap puzzy on nairaland. You are marked, mister. Some of us will not tolerate foolishness from "men" in these parts. 48 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Nutase: 2:41pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
@op Where you raised by a single mum. Please share your experience. I'm sure u are one of those females posing as male. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by EfemenaXY: 4:37pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Excellent writeup, Tobechi20. Nothing more to add. Happiness = Health = Wealth. Don't ever compromise your happiness to please others. If you make poor choices in the vain bid to please society, society won't live with you, or bear the burden of your loveless, hell-of-a-marriage. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by lilmax(m): 5:28pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I wonder what a woman will be doing from the age of 20-30,how can you chase happiness for 10yrs,there's nothing like manipulation.set your goals right and things will flow 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 9:09pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
And who are the LOCAL women falling for these kinds of HORSE-SHYTE? Serves them right then! 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by SAMBARRY: 9:09pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
True and to buttress that 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by cococandy(f): 11:18pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Gbam tobechi20: 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by iykedare(m): 5:20am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Op,Please take this guy 's advice. 8 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by italo: 6:12am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Tobechi20, what we should be working towards is good stable marriages. It is God's plan for continuing the human race. So it is beneficial to the society at large. It is good for the upbringing of good children. It is good for the wellbeing of the spouses too. The approach you have taken is one aimed at watering down the inestimable importance of marriage. That is the work of the devil. That's why he and his agents are trying to force the rest of us to accept gay unions as marriage, legalize and promote abortion, pornographyy, casual premarital sex etc. The devil knows that all these will weaken the institution of marriage. And when marriage is weakened, society will fall apart. Humanity will be destroyed. Women were more loved and respected when society took marriage more importantly. Since society started promoting all those vices above, women have been terribly disrespected. Sometimes they're even treated like animals whose worth are only in servicing the pleasures of men. If you doubt look at our music videos. You see women shaking their bum bums and guys pouring champagne all over them and slapping them. I dont even want to talk about the humiliating dehumanization of women in pornography. No woman or man was designed to raise children alone. 95% of those single mothers and divorcees will still be preyed upon and used as guinea pigs to satisfy the sexual urges of other people's husbands. Husbands who will fight tooth and nail to safeguard the unity of their own proper families. Do you know that it is scientifically proven that a woman carries the DNA of any man she has unprotected sex with for the rest of her life? Think about the mental and spiritual consequences of this. *I strongly condemn violence and unjust manipulation from men and women alike. What I advocate is good, loving, stable and holy marriages for men and women. 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Innodon(m): 7:39am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Hahahahaha 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by sammieguze(m): 7:40am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Lolzzzzzz funny but think of it this way... All the above mentioned so called Nigeria mentality is does not apply to the whites. Does that make their marriage institution any better than ours? 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by halims008(m): 7:42am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Some seems to be true |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Jostico: 7:42am On Jan 11, 2015 |
please don't start sunday with nsogbu |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Nobody: 7:43am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Obinoscopy(m): 7:43am On Jan 11, 2015 |
But husbands are scarce. Same goes for wives, but that of husbands' is a lot worse. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by elantraceey(f): 7:43am On Jan 11, 2015 |
. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Nobody: 7:44am On Jan 11, 2015 |
lomaxx:Gbam!!! Click Like if u agree... Click Share if forever u want to remain single... Click Quote if u disagree with the post... 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by emaxadey(m): 7:44am On Jan 11, 2015 |
hmmm |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Edwardhead(m): 7:44am On Jan 11, 2015 |
i want to comment |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Nobody: 7:46am On Jan 11, 2015 |
well, to me, ill blame it ond Gej cluelessnes 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by Etizz: 7:46am On Jan 11, 2015 |
Like seriously, being single is not a good thing..... |
Re: Nigerian Mentality Used In Manipulating Women Into Marriage by babs01(m): 7:48am On Jan 11, 2015 |
make una no marry again sebi e no compulsory, useless ppl, den don dey Bleep since age 16, who wan marry una self. 2 Likes |
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