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herbie27:
We are all humans, bt in dis ur case you obviously have no excuse....she may forgive you bt wat's the assurance that you won't do it again or even in marriage.

I can only snap and cheat on my spouse wen i'm no longer sure where the relationship is heading, and not wen everything is rosy.

KingErnesto:
Yea dear..tnx much i appreciate. I'm gonna make things right this time, am gonna make sure she realise she's i love her so much to let go..

I got a newline and called her last nyt at about 1am..she abruptly hung up when she realised it was me speaking..but i had to talk to her that or i wouldnt sleep. So i disturbed her line till she picked and listened to me..i asked to come over and she declined .i begged her so much den she finally suggested i come but she hasnt forgiven me yet.


I'll be heading for her abode in a bit. I just hope luck is on my side this time.
Thanks luv.

KingErnesto:
Young lady, don't conclude too soon .

I love her so much and i hope you know , we humans ain't perfect. I was quick to accept my wrong deeds, and yes, ifeel so remorseful right now. I wish i could swiftly turn back the hands of time and make things right.


I've never been serious with any lady..we just had fun. But this particular seems different and she turned on a switch in my system like no other lady has ever done...dang ..hope u understand dear.

SWITANN:
but the guy sounds genuine about being remorseful, just try harder to get her attention back @ king Ernesto. she will eventually forgive u.

smileysmiley:
do it the tuface idibia way... give her one long romantic epistle on how you are a retired Playboy cause of her and how she caught you during your weak moments and how she is the strength you need blah blah blah.... then end it with the proposal.... I hope you do love her though, don't break her heart

99foxxy:
This your story nobi novel? but if it's true then you're a big time player and you sound familiar.

KingErnesto:
Hello!! ....I just got back from her place ....luckily i met 2 of her friends and one of her sister too all outside. She acted like she never knew me. I knew she was still angry. I instantly got on my knees and begged her like a child ...i almost cried with my head on her laps. Her friends intervened and pleaded on my behalf before she raised me and gave me a warm hug and we shed tears together ...i swr i'll never want to hurt her feelings anymore...and am cutting off everyother female friends i once had fun with.


Thanks once more...i had to share this with you guys cuz my friends are not telling me what i wanna hear..i needed to be judged, yes!..

KingErnesto:
Lol,,am not much of a singer..but i'll get some crew to do that for me on my birthday..am gonna make her feel so special that day i myt propose.. Lol

KingErnesto:
Lol..luv , nobi novel now...It's my experience i sincerely shared ..and how do i sound familiar?

Hunnydropps:
I'm so glad to hear that! I've been a sucker for love today and am glad it worked for you. Just remember she still may go thru hard times just be gentle, patient, and understanding with her.
Good luck and God bless your relationship.

jashar:


there's no love without self-control bro. Just say she's a nice girl you don't wanna loose.

Understandable. But I really don't feel you should be rushing to marry anyone now. You need time to learn self-control, so when you get married you'll be able to resist temptations.

KingErnesto:
Hmmmm , self-control u say... Thanks luv, i'll work on that and i might slow down on getting married as for now. Thanks again..seems i have alot to work on with my relationship with her.

I'll try my best to bring back that connection and get to know her better with more interest. I just don't wanna lose her..

You're welcome bruv.
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My dear, in this life, we need help. Self control isn't going to be easy, you'll need a greater force than yourself to overcome temptation.
Jesus comes to mind. . If you haven't gotten under His Lordship, do it today. He has the help everyone needs. He never promised us a smooth sailing here on earth, but the assurance we have is that He'll be with us through the storms of life.

Just surrender all to Him. Beyond caring, He loves you.

All the best.