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i am a man in my thirties and married with three kids,i went to greet my friend and saw this lady.the lady leaves there and sells things like recharge cards there.so one day we started talking and she told me i once toasted her in d past .she tried to remind me and also said i bought her fried meat and drinks.so o just remembered,but that day i was drunk but nothing transpired that day,and personally iv stopped drinking and vowed not to and GOD has helped me to stop it successfully .we both became friends and she tried everything possible to date me but i refused not in querrelling manner but with an understanding.her husband is late and she also has kids.she too had a man in her life but always telling me she does not like d man in question.so i advice her as a christian that outside marriage sex is a sin she should pray with her pastoe that GOD should give her a man may be a widower or a single man.because aftet i stopped drinking i choose to work for GOD and he has really help both in d school i registered to be trained as a worker for GOD and in church.i know where she was driving to with her body language and sometimes food which i always refused.so she called me and asked me a question saying if a woman gets pregnant for me would i abort it.and my reply was dat no woman outside can be pregnant for talk of aborting.anf she asked me why i told her i can never engage in extra marital affairs.that outside my wife no woman will see or feel my unclothedness,since dat time i noticed she drastically changed .both d way she greets me and how she even look at me.today i greeted her and before she answered it was something else.she frowned so noticeable and this is a woman i see everyday b cause i must see dat my friend.we do d same automobile bizness i dont know im not owing her.but should i confront her about her change in attitude towards me or what? pls matured advice

am nt married but I knw the best thing is for u to run for ur dear life...
sum1 wants to ruin your marriage and u are asking wat to do...



ignore the person lik she doesn't exist


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this is super story...

I could barely read the post. Use paragraphs next time.

My advice is that you keep greeting her and if you get tired, start acting as though she doesn't exist. Things will be fine IJN

1. Let ur wife know abt it. 2. Let your friend know. 3. Flee from sin, cos that's what the Bible says. 4. Abstain from your friends house.
I guess that should help.

please. Just don't interract with her anymore. She's eeeevvilll

U get time oo OP..to haunt urself wit unnecessary issues.