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Excellent response from our gentlemen but some answers really got me LMAO

Alright let's proceed to the last set of questions.

Microflux:
Let's proceed to the next aspect
Relationship, marital affairs, family questions
You have been dating your girlfriend for several years and it's time to married her but you discover few weeks to the wedding date that she is an HIV patient not because of sexual intercourse but due to other means of transmission. Will you still marry her? If YES/NO, state your reasons.

No. Marrying her will be detrimental to her life and mine. It will affect our kids if we have one, it may also lead to me contracting it. I will be starved of sex . And if this happens, the essentiality of the marriage is faulted. Because she won't help me. The best I can do is to cater for all her needs and encourage her, that would be a term and condition for the wife I marry after our separation.
Of recent, there is an increase in the act of incest most especially fathers molesting their daughters. What do you think could have triggered this shameful act? What solutions do you think it's necessary to curb this situation?

Stiff penalty should be attached to the crime. And the mothers should be sensitized on the importance of monitoring and checkmating the affairs btw the child and father.
Men are atimes intimidated when their girlfriends/wives are more successful than them in the area of finance, career, etc because they feel such ladies may become arrogant in the future. Are you the type that will become intimidated when your girlfriend is more successful than you?

Intimidated? No I think I lost that in my Lexicon years ago. Instead of intimidation, I call it challenge. I will only iron out matters with her and make our responsibilities as a parent know to her
If you find yourself in a situation where you have concluded the interview process for a job of N300,000 monthly income but the HR manager who happens to be a woman ask you to sleep with her else you should forget about the job. Will you forfeit the offer or consider it by sleeping with her?

No. I will forfeit the job. I can't because of a job loose the integrity I have built for years, my value and I integrity will fetch me a better job. But I will make sure I destroy her career and marriage, she can kill her spouse

Coming from you, nice.

KINGinVAHALA:
You have been dating your girlfriend for several years and it's time to married her but you discover few weeks to the wedding date that she is an HIV patient not because of sexual intercourse but due to other means of transmission. Will you still marry her? If YES/NO, state your reasons.

I sincerely wont go ahead with the wedding, love and trust has always been 2 sore enemies and even if i decide to marry her the future surely wont go well with us. I have my goal and aim i have set for my future home and any woman that doesnt meet these goals/aims surely wont be part of it.


Of recent, there is an increase in the act of incest most especially fathers molesting their daughters. What do you think could have triggered this shameful act? What solutions do you think it's necessary to curb this situation?

According to those who sees and take religion as life, they would answer this with a simple answer, "the world is coming to an end."
But i wont follow such path nor nurse such thought, not that these people are wrong because this is what the believe but i feel before waiting for the world to truly come to an end according to them, some things must be put in place to address and curb this since we are still on earth.
Curbing this has to first do with moral upbringing, a man that is morally brought up wouldnt be told that he wasnt and isnt supposed to commit such atrocity.


Men are atimes intimidated when their girlfriends/wives are more successful than them in the area of finance, career, etc because they feel such ladies may become arrogant in the future. Are you the type that will become intimidated when your girlfriend is more successful than you?

NO, nothing intimidates me, i have always been a man with a broad heart and my preference has always been independent ladies, so to me its a big plus.


If you find yourself in a situation where you have concluded the interview process for a job of N300,000 monthly income but the HR manager who happens to be a woman ask you to sleep with her else you should forget about the job. Will you forfeit the offer or consider it by sleeping with her?

hmmm, this is touch, not the answer but been sincere. Individual differences differs and my reaction and action towards this would be determined by my disposition at that point.

I see you.......You doing great

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You have been dating your girlfriend for several years and it's time to marry her but you discover few weeks to the wedding date that she is an HIV patient not because of sexual intercourse but due to other means of transmission. Will you still marry her? If YES/NO, state your reasons.

I wouldn't marry her not because I am stigmatizing her, but because she waited till the point of marriage before she told me. Definitely, she would be hiding other things from me.
In a relationship, I love when both parties are plain.



Of recent, there is an increase in incest act most especially fathers molesting their daughters. What do you think could have triggered such shameful act? What solutions do you think it's necessary to curb this situation?

If the law of our land can be amended so that they(culprits) would be made to face death or life imprisonment, I assure you it would reduce drastically. Of recent, the number of rape cases is on the high, but how many have been trialed openly and sentenced accordingly? It all falls back to the law in place.


Men are intimidated when their girlfriends/wives are more successful than them in the area of finance, career, etc because they feel such ladies may become arrogant in the future. Are you the type that will become intimidated when your girlfriend is more successful than you?


Though its not the prayer of any man not to be capable of his wife expenses but if my wife has an upper hand than me.. I will support her and show her love. But not a girlfriend.


If you find yourself in a situation where you have concluded the interview process for a job of N300,000 monthly but the HR manager who happens to be a woman ask you to sleep with her else you should forget about the job. Will you forfeit the offer or consider it by sleeping with her?

Dicey, but no I won't sleep with her, for the sole reason that she must have done so to other male staffs. Its better i forfeit it. Cause I don't know the type of diseases she has.

you guys are doing great...today seems the best

Franchise21:
[b] * I won't take the risk of getting married to her. It will be a painful decision bt I have to quit, not just for my sake but for the sake of my unborn kids. Yes, I knw, scientifically, the kids can be prevented from contracting the deadly disease but PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE

* It's just a sign of we being in the end times. So many atrocities are being committed. I posted one on Nairaland this morning about a father impregnating his daughter and aborted it. He blamed it on the devil. I think mothers should try and get closer to their daughters, they should often have conversations with their daughters, so their daughters can easily confide in them

* I can't be intimidated if my girlfriend/wife is more successful than I am. I'd love to marry a career woman. I love girls with brains and are also hardworking

* It's a difficult decision but truth be told, with the current situation of things in the country, I'd sleep with her and ask God for forgiveness [/b]

Lolzz!! Quite honest

Here are the last set of questions

Politics, Foreign Affair and General Knowledge

The current situation of the country is so depressing that the inflation rate, unemployment, insecurity, epileptic power supply, etc. have sporadically increased. The past and present government seems not to get it right in the policies they made. If you are to be the president of this country for few months, what measures will you take to fix these situations.


Looking at the situation of incessant terrorist attack in some European countries, do you think its right for europe to shut their borders against innocent refugees from troubled/war torn zones since terrorists use this medium to infiltrate?


Only few among the Mr. Nairaland past winners have contributed positively to this forum. If you are to be the winner of Mr. Nairaland 2016, what innovations do you want to bring to this forum?


What do you think you have/possess that will give you an edge over other contestants?


Cc

KINGINVAHALA
PHOTOSHOOT
MICROFLUX
FRANCHISE21
ELDAILLEST

Microflux:
Let's proceed to the next aspect
Relationship, marital affairs, family questions
You have been dating your girlfriend for several years and it's time to married her but you discover few weeks to the wedding date that she is an HIV patient not because of sexual intercourse but due to other means of transmission. Will you still marry her? If YES/NO, state your reasons.

No. Marrying her will be detrimental to her life and mine. It will affect our kids if we have one, it may also lead to me contracting it. I will be starved of sex . And if this happens, the essentiality of the marriage is faulted. Because she won't help me. The best I can do is to cater for all her needs and encourage her, that would be a term and condition for the wife I marry after our separation.
Of recent, there is an increase in the act of incest most especially fathers molesting their daughters. What do you think could have triggered this shameful act? What solutions do you think it's necessary to curb this situation?

Stiff penalty should be attached to the crime. And the mothers should be sensitized on the importance of monitoring and checkmating the affairs btw the child and father.
Men are atimes intimidated when their girlfriends/wives are more successful than them in the area of finance, career, etc because they feel such ladies may become arrogant in the future. Are you the type that will become intimidated when your girlfriend is more successful than you?

Intimidated? No I think I lost that in my Lexicon years ago. Instead of intimidation, I call it challenge. I will only iron out matters with her and make our responsibilities as a parent know to her
If you find yourself in a situation where you have concluded the interview process for a job of N300,000 monthly income but the HR manager who happens to be a woman ask you to sleep with her else you should forget about the job. Will you forfeit the offer or consider it by sleeping with her?

No. I will forfeit the job. I can't because of a job loose the integrity I have built for years, my value and I integrity will fetch me a better job. But I will make sure I destroy her career and marriage, she can kill her spouse

well succinctly put. respect bruv

KINGinVAHALA:
You have been dating your girlfriend for several years and it's time to married her but you discover few weeks to the wedding date that she is an HIV patient not because of sexual intercourse but due to other means of transmission. Will you still marry her? If YES/NO, state your reasons.

I sincerely wont go ahead with the wedding, love and trust has always been 2 sore enemies and even if i decide to marry her the future surely wont go well with us. I have my goal and aim i have set for my future home and any woman that doesnt meet these goals/aims surely wont be part of it.


Of recent, there is an increase in the act of incest most especially fathers molesting their daughters. What do you think could have triggered this shameful act? What solutions do you think it's necessary to curb this situation?

According to those who sees and take religion as life, they would answer this with a simple answer, "the world is coming to an end."
But i wont follow such path nor nurse such thought, not that these people are wrong because this is what the believe but i feel before waiting for the world to truly come to an end according to them, some things must be put in place to address and curb this since we are still on earth.
Curbing this has to first do with moral upbringing, a man that is morally brought up wouldnt be told that he wasnt and isnt supposed to commit such atrocity.


Men are atimes intimidated when their girlfriends/wives are more successful than them in the area of finance, career, etc because they feel such ladies may become arrogant in the future. Are you the type that will become intimidated when your girlfriend is more successful than you?

NO, nothing intimidates me, i have always been a man with a broad heart and my preference has always been independent ladies, so to me its a big plus.


If you find yourself in a situation where you have concluded the interview process for a job of N300,000 monthly income but the HR manager who happens to be a woman ask you to sleep with her else you should forget about the job. Will you forfeit the offer or consider it by sleeping with her?

hmmm, this is tough, not the answer but been sincere. Individual differences differs and my reaction and action towards this would be determined by my disposition at that point.

I'm speechless


u re doing a good job here

Kinginvalhala where did you coin your moniker from ? Why did you skip that question? Are you hiding something?

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You have been dating your girlfriend for several years and it's time to marry her but you discover few weeks to the wedding date that she is an HIV patient not because of sexual intercourse but due to other means of transmission. Will you still marry her? If YES/NO, state your reasons.

I wouldn't marry her not because I am stigmatizing her, but because she waited till the point of marriage before she told me. Definitely, she would be hiding other things from me.
In a relationship, I love when both parties are plain.



Of recent, there is an increase in incest act most especially fathers molesting their daughters. What do you think could have triggered such shameful act? What solutions do you think it's necessary to curb this situation?

If the law of our land can be amended so that they(culprits) would be made to face death or life imprisonment, I assure you it would reduce drastically. Of recent, the number of rape cases is high, but how many have been trialed openly and sentenced accordingly? It all falls back to the law in place.


Men are intimidated when their girlfriends/wives are more successful than them in the area of finance, career, etc because they feel such ladies may become arrogant in the future. Are you the type that will become intimidated when your girlfriend is more successful than you?


Though its not the prayer of any man not to be capable of his wife expenses but if my wife has an upper hand than me.. I will support her and show her love. But not a girlfriend.


If you find yourself in a situation where you have concluded the interview process for a job of N300,000 monthly but the HR manager who happens to be a woman ask you to sleep with her else you should forget about the job. Will you forfeit the offer or consider it by sleeping with her?

Dicey, but no I won't sleep with her, for the sole reason that she must have done so to other male staff. Its better i forfeit it. Cause I don't know the type of diseases she has.

nice boss

The current situation of the country is so depressing that the inflation rate, unemployment, insecurity, epileptic power supply, etc. have sporadically increased. The past and present government seems not to get it right in the policies they made. If you are to be the president of this country for few months, what measures will you take to fix these situations.

Hmmm, firstly I would regionalise the country into geopolitical zones..creating a governor of governor from each zones. The 6 zones, to be precise. After doing that.. There is a great advantage to that. Now each G.O.G would be tasked to tackle 3 problems. Power, Technology, and Infrastructure.
So each G.O.G is responsible for his geo political zones.. Analyst | economist | would come into play here.

In tackling power, I won't stop at just the dam use.(hydro-source) ... The biodegradable system, solar system,... And other efficient system would be in place..

For infrastructure, housing is the major key, factor... With mass of housing gone into waste, low income housing in the country is now mostly high income, the major way to tackle urban housing issues is to create an open space, ...build an open plan, any one who wants to buy would buy and redesign to his taste.. At that, cost of materials are reduced....with of course the Right checking and checklist system in place.




Looking at the situation of incessant terrorist attack in some European countries, do you think its right for europe to shut their borders against innocent refugees from troubled/war torn zones since terrorists use this medium to infiltrate?

I would have said Yes, we are talking about lives, but then not everyone from the troubled war zone is a terrorist. So no, it is wrong to shut their borders to all, a proper security check would suffice.


Only few among the Mr. Nairaland past winners have contributed positively to this forum. If you are to be the winner of Mr. Nairaland, what innovations do you want to bring to this forum?
Let me start by saying, when people ask me what is with you and Nairaland, I reply by saying on Nairaland, no knowledge is a waste, so going by this, if I am to win this edition, I would contribute positively by creating reasonable topics both on my career path and any knowledge I think would be useful. Eg: photography, blogging, farming and a lot more.

What do you think you have/possess that will give you an edge over other contestants?

I am a man of my word, intelligent, smart, gentle I do not mince words so my yes is always yes, and no is no. A visionary, and a great leader,
Integrity, honesty humility isn't in doubt. And my social life, is top notch



Thanks!

wristbangle:
Here are the last set of questions

Politics, Foreign Affair and General Knowledge

The current situation of the country is so depressing that the inflation rate, unemployment, insecurity, epileptic power supply, etc. have sporadically increased. The past and present government seems not to get it right in the policies they made. If you are to be the president of this country for few months, what measures will you take to fix these situations.


Looking at the situation of incessant terrorist attack in some European countries, do you think its right for europe to shut their borders against innocent refugees from troubled/war torn zones since terrorists use this medium to infiltrate?


Only few among the Mr. Nairaland past winners have contributed positively to this forum. If you are to be the winner of Mr. Nairaland, what innovations do you want to bring to this forum?


What do you think you have/possess that will give you an edge over other contestants?


Cc

KINGINVAHALA
PHOTOSHOOT
MICROFLUX
FRANCHISE21
ELDAILLEST

[b] * As a President of this country, concerning the issue of inflation, the naira is falling against the dollar because our major export, "the crude oil" price has fallen. We need to diversify our economy. Explore agriculture, we have lots of potentials there, from cassava, to cocoa, palm oil and so on. We need to stop being a consuming country n move into being a producing country. We should purchase home-made products. As regards unemployment, attract foreign investors into the country to invest, industries will be built, produce made in Nigeria goods and from there, employment spaces will be available for our youths. Take a look from China and borrow their ideas, with their high population, they are the fastest growing economy in the world. As regards insecurity, we need to equip ur military, purchase sophisticated weapons and recruit the best personnels, not just some pot-bellied officers. As regards the power sector, we have some alternatives, we should move into solar and not just rely on gas. Heard electricity can be gotten from uranium; now that's good news

* It would be wrong for Europe to shut it's doors against innocent refugees because they seek refuge and Europe is seen as the best place for that. But, the security personnels should screen them thoroughly incase of terrorists

* Nairaland has turned to a forum where our youths engage in e-war due to religious, ethnic and political differences. I'd create threads to enlighten us on why we should give peace a chance to reign. What does the future hold for us if we have this kind of orientation in our youth days as we claim "YOUTHS ARE THE LEADERS OF TOMORROW". I'd preach the merits of Peace, Love and Unity

* All the contestants are unique in their own ways. But I believe any pageantry contest is about looks and brain. These, I possess alongside the right charisma, humility and being able to socialize with anyone irrespective of our backgrounds [/b]

Let's exercise patience with our gentlemen. The questions are not easy to answer.