foolinlove:


Thanks.

You can make a difference also. Educate your children well. Call out your friends for bad attitudes and behaviour. Etc.

foolinlove:


So if rape is going to happen, mostly perpetrated bu friends and family, what do you suggest women do?

Exercise the normal amount of security exercised by all people (protecting themselves against theft, arson, murder, violence), or have women segregated from men (potential rapists) at all times?

Everyone exercises personal security, women and men. It doesn't stop crime.

Next in the news: to avoid robbery, don't own anything. To avoid rape, don't be a woman. To avoid murder, be dead already.

Do you go to any extreme lengths to protect YOURSELF from rape? Probably not. But it still may happen to you. You just go about with a normal amount of personal care and protection.

If rape is endemic, then maybe we should focus MORE on teaching men not to rape, than on how women can protect themselves. Especially since rape is not commonly done by strangers in dark streets, it is done by friends and family.

When men have such a huge panel of "defences" for why they do this crime, including women not protecting themselves adequately, then this crime will still be endemic.

Solution: teach men not to rape. Just like we teach people not to steal and murder.

Mafking:


Hey what do you mean by that That advice is an insult... you didn't have to do that OK

Leave my unborn babies outta this OK Abi na you go teach me how to raise my kids??

And of course all my friends are cool headed(they don't on smoke, drink and all that sh¡t).. they are always conscious...
. Now that you've got my future family and present friends into this now.. . Thank you

bitchcrafts:
I only asked a simple straight forward question oh..

Women and not allowing "stvpid things" like logic ruin their argument tho...

Anyway, I have heard your repeat and repeat OK , and yo VERY RIGHT! and I was VERY WRONG .

Women can in fact start wearing only pants and bra to work and job interviews so far it suits them , Happy now?

bitchcrafts:
I already mentioned the highlighted when i said the rape whirlwind is endemic tho... Now, Compare and contrast, a bank where the bank officials are very meticulous in their dealings and the one very open, loose and carefree with the money, which's more liable to getting pilfered?

foolinlove:


You seem to find the concept of consent very difficult to understand.

Let me illustrate:

Theft - taking property without permission.

Owning property does not invite theft.

VaginaTerrorist:

Yes Owning Properties and Flaunting them anyhow in harsh economy when you already knew there are too many poor people around might provoke the Innocent to become a thief.
Though I dont support stealing.

ojuu4u:


y arguing with a fool? Tell her to kip roaming abt unclothedness, if the way one dresses is not immediate cause definately it MAY be remote cause. Even if its 1% dressing is one of the reasons

foolinlove:


It may be one of the reasons a rapist gives for raping. It is not a justifiable reason.

Why take the word of a violent criminal over that of the victim of his crime? Because he's a man?

foolinlove:


So the owner of the property is blamed and the criminal goes free?

ojuu4u:


now that u concured am satisfied, i am an advocate of anti rapist, anybody that rapes must be punish severely, but we must warn our girls/women to dres decently becouse even if they executed the rapist. The agony an traumatic experienc of the victim can nt be quantified, beta not to be raped than sending d rapist to jail. Do away with seductive dresses

VaginaTerrorist:
yes o sometimes. Though its not good.

foolinlove:


Please read back over my posts. I do not agree with you at all.

Even women who wear niqab get raped. You are also in need of education on this matter.

ojuu4u:



ok. keep going naked in the name of fashion, pls when u raped dnt hestitate to post it on NL, surely i wil console u and voice againt who ever that gang rape u

foolinlove:


That actually happens over there?

Victims are routinely blamed for crimes? So if I am set on fire, someone will blame me for not wearing fire-proof suit?

VaginaTerrorist:

1. Nobody blames anybody for being victim. It only the animal kindom dat one can rush behind a girl and bang her without some formal process. And no one blams victim for their woes. But with all due respect girl, PRECAUTION is very good, dont forget SELF SECURITY CONCIOUS, SAFTY FIRST!


Dont follow a guy you are to ready to sleep with to his room. Dont walk through darkspots because they are shortcuts. If You are one of those blessed with big boobs, ensure you ware smart loose cloths, stay off extem short skirts. And for the boys with Big Dickson, dont wear tight jeans.

2. Avoid friends that may take advantage of you. Stay off drinks. These are some safty tips to prevention. Then if a silly boy still goes ahead to capture the lady and bang her. Abeg dat lady should not wait one min,,,, just come and lay a report fast so he can be made to pay for his crimes.

Do you know any victim in you area? Have you any evidence? Feel free...

foolinlove:

Smh.

VaginaTerrorist:
since your are shaking your head, tor, okay ooo bye bye ooo.

foolinlove:


It's like you can't read or comprehend anything I have said, you just say the same stuff to me that every man says. That's why I'm shaking my head.

Why don't you read rhe arguments I put forward and see for yourself how unjust it is to assign women the task of controlling men's behaviour and thoughts?

Bridgetania:
The truth is.. ...a Prostitute has no excuse for her acts..!

bitchcrafts:
Who's talking about consent?
Look here, you're getting me totally wrong ! While at it that the rape act is inexcusable, it still is a pandemic. It is even gonna persist to be endemic- call me pessimist but that's the truth! ; Rape is arguably as old as man. I mean, The mere fact that you got a pusee pasted in between your two legs is sure gonna attract the daredevil rapist just like the sweet scent of nectar attracts bees. Don't u fukcing gerit?

So, it is yr fukcing responsibility[/I] as a lady to fukcing look after your fukcing self! Nobody's gonna do that for ya! ; [i]The company you keep, where you go and when you go there, how you carry yourself, what you wear and how you wear what you wear and stuffs like that! ; yo doing this not just because yo apprehensive af being raped which is in all sense not a fool proof a preventive measure but also because you are a woman; you represent dignity, you are beauty, you command respect so you should allow me to just by seeing you respect you ; packaging yourself well, dress well... Skimpy dresses, bum shots etc should be kept at home for house chores, making your man's head tumble in arousal etc... Long enough dresses should follow you out; u know how glorious Michelle Obama look in those loose, beautiful long gowns right? uhlalah! Damn Hot , American women in their suits and long pant? Yikes! boss lady and so on and so forth....

I'm not gonna argue this any further, if u can't get yourself to see things from my perspective after all these painstaking long talk, you can as well Go Fukc yourself! Ciao..

foolinlove:


Someone's feeling sensitive.

If you are that disgusted by rape then make an active attempt to fight rape culture.

Otherwise, don't be disgusted by rape.

Mafking:


I was expecting a sorry for my kids at least...

Buh you surprised me again..

Kontinu

foolinlove:


I do feel sorry for your kids.

Your daughters specifically, who will be treated every day in the same way you have treated me.

Mafking:


Wow! You will make a great mum yourself....

And how have I treated you

You felt I treated you bad and you didn't even talk about it... .

I feel you offended ma kids and I brought you to notice about it(feel the difference)

I will always protect ma kids anywhere even if they are not yet born(that's the kinda dad I wanna be).. .

Mafking:


Wow! You will make a great mum yourself....

And how have I treated you

You felt I treated you bad and you didn't even talk about it... .

I feel you offended ma kids and I brought you to notice about it(feel the difference)

I will always protect ma kids anywhere even if they are not yet born(that's the kinda dad I wanna be).. .

foolinlove:


Protect them by giving them rights. Teach them not to judge based on gender stereotype.

You have been treating me as if I am stupid . That's how men will treat your daughters. Do you want that?

It's women like me who will stand up for the rights of your daughters to be treated as humans, not as lesser beings than men.

foolinlove:


Because of your attitudes, and your perpetuation of these attitudes, your daughters will be exposed to all manner of sexual aggression.

If your daughter is raped, blame will be assigned to her. She will be shamed and called a slvt.

Women like me will fight to prosecute her attackers and stand up for her right to bodily autonomy.

Mafking:


@firstbolded...stop telling me how to raise my kids... Have you fathered a child before ni

@secondbolded... i never treated you as stupid... have been taking you very serious(I still am).. I don't take stupid people serious

@thirdbolded.. You just cursed my daughters again and I still have said shii about your fam

@fourthbolded.. . I never said anything against your ambition in fact I respect it... I respect strong women

@myadviceforyou.. . What I deduced is that you are very close to a rape victim.. And your hate for rape and ambition to stop it (which are both good things) are affecting you negatively ...
You are too aggressive for a female
Please don't let this things change you..
#OneLove

foolinlove:


I am too aggressive for a female?

There you go again with your gender stereotypes.

I never cursed your children. I stated a fact - that your daughters are going to be treated as if they are inferior to men. They will be victims of rape culture like all women.

You can help stop that attitude, but you refuse to take advice from a woman.

Mafking:


Haha sister must you bring my daughter into this (if only you know how much I respect my kids)

on a more serious note we both despise rape
Buh our approaches are different which really shouldn't be a Problem...

Buh you can argue.o
I can't marry someone like you...
You will just kill me before my time..

Buh think about all that i have said.. . OK sweery? ?