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Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 5:35am On Jul 17, 2016
Number 1 cause of r.ape:

Rapists.

Number 2 cause of r.ape:

Rapists.

Stop excusing this heinous act, or coming up with "reasons" it happens, or blaming the victims.

If you rape, you are a rapist. And you have no excuse at all. No one invites rape. No one wants to be raped.

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Nazaretha(m): 6:54am On Jul 17, 2016
3rd reason: Rapists!


Totally, I concur. Imagine, just a week ago, a 27 year old was caught forcefully laying with a 9 year old girl in the bush. What could have been his reason? Immoral dressing?

Rapists and anyone with an iota of pity for them are fvcked! I regard it as a more heinous crime than stealing.

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by izuch(m): 6:57am On Jul 17, 2016
undecided

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Cutehector(m): 7:17am On Jul 17, 2016
Op is right. It all starts with one's thoughts.

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Nobody: 12:53pm On Jul 18, 2016
The truth is..anyone who actually justifies this barbaric act is a rapist himself!!..#aRapist has no excuse for his actions
#just like a Prostitute has no excuse for her acts too!

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by bitchcrafts: 12:55pm On Jul 18, 2016
Bridgetania:
The truth is..anyone who actually justifies this barbaric act is a rapist himself!!..#aRapist has no excuse for his actions
#just like a Prostitute has no excuse for her acts too!
Gbam! Ko ni baje fun e

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by opsyswagg: 12:56pm On Jul 18, 2016
grin cool cool cool
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jul 18, 2016
Pornography is another huge factor that causes rape.

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by bitchcrafts: 1:05pm On Jul 18, 2016
foolinlove:
Number 1 cause of r.ape:

Rapists.√

Number 2 cause of r.ape:

Rapists.√

Stop excusing this heinous act, [s]or coming up with "reasons" it happens, or blaming the victims.[/s]

If you rape, you are a rapist. And you have no excuse at all. No one invites rape. No one wants to be raped√.

'No one wants to be raped' is right, but 'no one invites rape' is like saying poop won't attract flies .

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 10:41am On Jul 19, 2016
bitchcrafts:


'No one wants to be raped' is right, but 'no one invites rape' is like saying poop won't attract flies .

You seem to find the concept of consent very difficult to understand.

Let me illustrate:

Theft - taking property without permission.

Owning property does not invite theft. Invitation to take property removes the criminal act.

If I have money and someone takes it without my permission, then someone has stolen from me. However, if I invite someone to take my money, then it is no longer theft.

No one imvites someone to perpetrate a crime against them. The act of invitation removes the criminal element.

Sex with consent is sex. Sex without consent is rape.

If you were raped by a man, and he said you were asking for it - even though you were just going about your business - that doesn't mean you weren't raped. He could say your clothes provoked him, or that you were drunk or ANYTHING. It doesn't remove the criminal element because you did not want sex with him.

I am not saying you will or should be raped. I am asking you to step into the shoes of a rape victim and stop blaming people for crimes done against them.

You are basically saying that anyone who doesn't wear a fire proof suit is asking to be set on fire.

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 10:43am On Jul 19, 2016
Bridgetania:
The truth is..anyone who actually justifies this barbaric act is a rapist himself!!..#aRapist has no excuse for his actions
#just like a Prostitute has no excuse for her acts too!

This thread is about rape. If you'd like me to open a thread about olosho, I will. But please keep the discussion here about the topic.
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 10:46am On Jul 19, 2016
WindUpMerchant:
Pornography is another huge factor that causes rape.

I'm on the fence about this one.

Pornography is often violent and demeans women. When consumed at a young age, males may get the idea that women "like it rough" and therefore don't stop sexual acts when the woman says no or asks please stop.

But as for a cause? I'm not sure. It can be a contributing factor in some cases, but not all rapists have viewed pornography. I'm sure rape occurred before pornography existed.
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by bitchcrafts: 5:26pm On Jul 19, 2016
foolinlove:


You seem to find the concept of consent very difficult to understand.

Let me illustrate:

Theft - taking property without permission.

Owning property does not invite theft. Invitation to take property removes the criminal act.

If I have money and someone takes it without my permission, then someone has stolen from me. However, if I invite someone to take my money, then it is no longer theft.

No one imvites someone to perpetrate a crime against them. The act of invitation removes the criminal element.

Sex with consent is sex. Sex without consent is rape.

If you were raped by a man, and he said you were asking for it - even though you were just going about your business - that doesn't mean you weren't raped. He could say your clothes provoked him, or that you were drunk or ANYTHING. It doesn't remove the criminal element because you did not want sex with him.

I am not saying you will or should be raped. I am asking you to step into the shoes of a rape victim and stop blaming people for crimes done against them.

You are basically saying that anyone who doesn't wear a fire proof suit is asking to be set on fire.
Who's talking about consent?
Look here, you're getting me totally wrong ! While at it that the rape act is inexcusable, it still is a pandemic. It is even gonna persist to be endemic- call me pessimist but that's the truth! ; Rape is arguably as old as man. I mean, The mere fact that you got a pusee pasted in between your two legs is sure gonna attract the daredevil rapist just like the sweet scent of nectar attracts bees. Don't u fukcing gerit?

So, it is yr fukcing responsibility[/I] as a lady to fukcing look after your fukcing self! Nobody's gonna do that for ya! ; [i]The company you keep, where you go and when you go there, how you carry yourself, what you wear and how you wear what you wear and stuffs like that! ; yo doing this not just because yo apprehensive af being raped which is in all sense not a fool proof a preventive measure but also because you are a woman; you represent dignity, you are beauty, you command respect so you should allow me to just by seeing you respect you ; packaging yourself well, dress well... Skimpy dresses, bum shots etc should be kept at home for house chores, making your man's head tumble in arousal etc... Long enough dresses should follow you out; u know how glorious Michelle Obama look in those loose, beautiful long gowns right? uhlalah! Damn Hot wink, American women in their suits and long pant? Yikes! boss lady grin and so on and so forth....

I'm not gonna argue this any further, if u can't get yourself to see things from my perspective after all these painstaking long talk, you can as well Go Fukc yourself! Ciao..

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 5:38pm On Jul 19, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Who's talking about consent?
Look here, you're getting me totally wrong ! While at it that the rape act is inexcusable, it still is a pandemic. It is even gonna persist to be endemic- call me pessimist but that's the truth! ; Rape is arguably as old as man. I mean, The mere fact that you got a pusee pasted in between your two legs is sure gonna attract the daredevil rapist just like the sweet scent of nectar attracts bees. Don't u fukcing gerit?

So, it is yr fukcing responsibility[/I] as a lady to fukcing look after your fukcing self! Nobody's gonna do that for ya! ; [i]The company you keep, where you go and when you go there, how you carry yourself, what you wear and how you wear what you wear and stuffs like that! ; yo doing this not just because yo apprehensive af being raped which is in all sense not a fool proof a preventive measure but also because you are a woman; you represent dignity, you are beauty, you command respect so you should allow me to just by seeing you respect you ; packaging yourself well, dress well... Skimpy dresses, bump shots etc should be kept at home for house chores, making your man's head tumble in arousal etc... Long enough dresses should follow you out; u know how glorious Michelle Obama look in those loose, beautiful long gowns right? uhlalah! Damn Hot wink, American women in their suits and long pant? Yikes! boss lady grin and so on and so forth....

I'm not gonna argue this any further, if u can't get yourself to see things from my perspective after all these painstaking long talk, you can as well Go Fukc yourself! Ciao..

You have contradicted yourself.

Ladies look hot covered up and uncovered. But rapists only target those that are uncovered regardless of how hot they look? Untrue. Women who wear niqab get raped, too.

I do see things from your perspective, but your perspective is warped.

Instead of teaching women to protect themselves, teach men not to rape. Teach them it's unexcusable under any circumstance.

What you are doing is telling men that rape is bad, but if a woman is wearing something that makes them look desirable (either short clothes or a pant suit) then it's ok.

It is never ok.

P.s. rape is very rarely about sex. It is about power.

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by bitchcrafts: 6:25pm On Jul 19, 2016
foolinlove:


You have contradicted yourself.

Ladies look hot covered up and uncovered. But rapists only target those that are uncovered regardless of how hot they look? Untrue. Women who wear niqab get raped, too.

I do see things from your perspective, but your perspective is warped.

Instead of teaching women to protect themselves, teach men not to rape. Teach them it's unexcusable under any circumstance.

What you are doing is telling men that rape is bad, but if a woman is wearing something that makes them look desirable (either short clothes or a pant suit) then it's ok.

It is never ok.

P.s. rape is very rarely about sex. It is about power.


Well, That makes sense my darling! But why not a more comprehensive approach? Like Teach women to protect themselves, teach men not to rape, Teach them it's inexcusable under any circumstance? wink

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Nobody: 12:36am On Jul 20, 2016
foolinlove:


I'm on the fence about this one.

Pornography is often violent and demeans women. When consumed at a young age, males may get the idea that women "like it rough" and therefore don't stop sexual acts when the woman says no or asks please stop.

But as for a cause? I'm not sure. It can be a contributing factor in some cases, but not all rapists have viewed pornography. I'm sure rape occurred before pornography existed.
well u got a point.
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 8:40am On Jul 20, 2016
bitchcrafts:


Well, That makes sense my darling! But why not a more comprehensive approach? Like Teach women to protect themselves, teach men not to rape, Teach them it's inexcusable under any circumstance? wink

Everyone is taught to protect themselves from certain things. People lock their houses to prevent theft for example. No one blames a person when they are robbed.

By teaching women to protect themselves against this specific thing also teaches them that they are partially responsible when rape occurs.

Which is why when women attempt to prosecute this crime they are asked "what were you wearing, have you had sex before" to try to excuse what happened and assign the blame to the woman. These questions are irrelevant.

After robbery, no one asks "how was your house painted, did you ever give your money to charity before" etc. because its irrelevant.

Women are not in the slightest responsible for getting raped. No one is responsible for crimes perpetrated against them.

Rape will occur regardless of what women do. Even if they stayed home and hid under the bed all the time. Because the vast majority of rapes are not done by strangers or random attackers on dark streets. Most women are raped by men they know - friends and family members.

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Marlvin(m): 9:24am On Jul 20, 2016
WindUpMerchant:
Pornography is another huge factor that causes rape.
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This is ridiculous. why blame it on porn industry?

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Nobody: 9:28am On Jul 20, 2016
Marlvin:

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This is ridiculous. why blame it on porn industry?
Ridiculous? ..you kidding me!
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Nobody: 9:29am On Jul 20, 2016
Nicely said op.

*clapping*. smiley
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Marlvin(m): 9:38am On Jul 20, 2016
WindUpMerchant:
Ridiculous? ..you kidding me!

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No am not. you got facts to back up your statement?
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by saintdennis(m): 12:07pm On Jul 20, 2016
If you put all the blame on the rapist then how bout the victim? No blame @ all? Mtcheeew
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by bitchcrafts: 5:42pm On Jul 20, 2016
foolinlove:


Everyone is taught to protect themselves from certain things. People lock their houses to prevent theft for example. No one blames a person when they are robbed.

By teaching women to protect themselves against this specific thing also teaches them that they are partially responsible when rape occurs.

Which is why when women attempt to prosecute this crime they are asked "what were you wearing, have you had sex before" to try to excuse what happened and assign the blame to the woman. These questions are irrelevant.

After robbery, no one asks "how was your house painted, did you ever give your money to charity before" etc. because its irrelevant.

Women are not in the slightest responsible for getting raped. No one is responsible for crimes perpetrated against them.

Rape will occur regardless of what women do. Even if they stayed home and hid under the bed all the time. Because the vast majority of rapes are not done by strangers or random attackers on dark streets. Most women are raped by men they know - friends and family members.
I already mentioned the highlighted when i said the rape whirlwind is endemic tho... Now, Compare and contrast, a bank where the bank officials are very meticulous in their dealings and the one very open, loose and carefree with the money, which's more liable to getting pilfered?

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 2:24am On Jul 21, 2016
bitchcrafts:
I already mentioned the highlighted when i said the rape whirlwind is endemic tho... Now, Compare and contrast, a bank where the bank officials are very meticulous in their dealings and the one very open, loose and carefree with the money, which's more liable to getting pilfered?

So if rape is going to happen, mostly perpetrated bu friends and family, what do you suggest women do?

Exercise the normal amount of security exercised by all people (protecting themselves against theft, arson, murder, violence), or have women segregated from men (potential rapists) at all times?

Everyone exercises personal security, women and men. It doesn't stop crime.

Next in the news: to avoid robbery, don't own anything. To avoid rape, don't be a woman. To avoid murder, be dead already.

Do you go to any extreme lengths to protect YOURSELF from rape? Probably not. But it still may happen to you. You just go about with a normal amount of personal care and protection.

If rape is endemic, then maybe we should focus MORE on teaching men not to rape, than on how women can protect themselves. Especially since rape is not commonly done by strangers in dark streets, it is done by friends and family.

When men have such a huge panel of "defences" for why they do this crime, including women not protecting themselves adequately, then this crime will still be endemic.

Solution: teach men not to rape. Just like we teach people not to steal and murder.

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Mafking(m): 2:31am On Jul 21, 2016
What about All your niggers in the North that have legalized rape all in the name of culture and religion

I feel for females

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 2:34am On Jul 21, 2016
Mafking:
What about All your niggers in the North that have legalized rape all in the name of culture and religion

I feel for females

My n-people?

I abhor any culture or religious teaching that removes women's autonomy. I'm trying to fight back.
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Mafking(m): 2:44am On Jul 21, 2016
foolinlove:


My n-people?

I abhor any culture or religious teaching that removes women's autonomy. I'm trying to fight back.

Hmmm i once write a poem on rape(it was powerful even for me) cus I had to feel a bit of what rape victims feel.... It was the saddest poem I ever write

Buh the truth is there is little or nothing you can do about it...

Sadly IN nigeria today rape doesn't really count as a crime anymore...
I mean there are far more pressing crimes

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Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 2:48am On Jul 21, 2016
Mafking:


Hmmm i once write a poem on rape(it was powerful even for me) cus I had to feel a bit of what rape victims feel.... It was the saddest poem I ever write

Buh the truth is there is little or nothing you can do about it...

IN nigeria today rape doesn't really count as a crime anymore...
I mean there are far more pressing crimes(Not according to me

Once black people's rights in the west were seen as inferior and unimportant compared with other things. It changed. Because people stood up and talked.

All we can do is fight the status quo until more people listen and change their attitude.

When people respect each other life is better for everyone. I will never stop fighting for that.
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Mafking(m): 3:01am On Jul 21, 2016
foolinlove:


Once black people's rights in the west were seen as inferior and unimportant compared with other things. It changed. Because people stood up and talked.

All we can do is fight the status quo until more people listen and change their attitude.

When people respect each other life is better for everyone. I will never stop fighting for that.

Haha you talking about West black... the only thing we have in common with them is that we are black...

The west black freedom of today many people died for it... Many are still willing to die for it as of today...

Look at our country today does it look like rape will stop soon? Hell no!!

Until people are willing and ready to die for what the believe and fight for.. There won't be any changes...

Something is fvcking wrong with our country... rape is just a fruit in the tree of our country's misery...
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 3:18am On Jul 21, 2016
Mafking:


Haha you talking about West black... the only thing we have in common with them is that we are black...

The west black freedom of today many people died for it... Many are still willing to die for it as of today...

Look at our country today does it look like rape will stop soon? Hell no!!

Until people are willing and ready to die for what the believe and fight for.. There won't be any changes...

Something is fvcking wrong with our country... rape is just a fruit in the tree of our country's misery...

It was just an example of change due to social awareness, not a comment on Africa.

Every small step counts. When everyone is treated with equal respect things will get better.

Those who stand back and witness bad things happen are just as bad as those who have performed the bad acts.

Social change is not easy, but it can be done. Just because something isn't easy, doesn't mean it isn't worth doing.
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by Mafking(m): 3:23am On Jul 21, 2016
foolinlove:


It was just an example of change due to social awareness, not a comment on Africa.

Every small step counts. When everyone is treated with equal respect things will get better.

Those who stand back and witness bad things happen are just as bad as those who have performed the bad acts.

Social change is not easy, but it can be done. Just because something isn't easy, doesn't mean it isn't worth doing.

OK me I wish you luck and I will kwontinu to pray for you.. .
Re: Number 1 Cause Of R.ape by foolinlove(f): 6:27am On Jul 21, 2016
Mafking:


OK me I wish you luck and I will kwontinu to pray for you.. .

Thanks.

You can make a difference also. Educate your children well. Call out your friends for bad attitudes and behaviour. Etc.

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