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Nyceguy92:
Feelings of disinterest in virtually everything occurs normally once in a while.
This happens mostly when one is under pressure of work or feels he has not achieved much.
Boredom can also manifest the way you feel.

You have to realise that everything will not work out as you want them.
Ever heard of the saying "Every disappointment is a blessing?"
I think it means there is a better plan or strategy than we had, which will soon work in our favour.

You may have to take time off work or away from your environment.
Visit some close friends and hang out with them.

sometimes when i try do sometin d right way...i end up destroyin more things

Hiroto:
sometimes when i try do sometin d right way...i end up destroyin more things

Give more thoughts to your options before you finally decide. If you can, seek the opinions of people you trust.
If you are married, it might wise to ask your wife for her views in your major decisions. Women sometimes are more analytical than men.

Nyceguy92:
Give more thoughts to your options before you finally decide. If you can, seek the opinions of people you trust.
If you are married, it might wise to ask your wife for her views in your major decisions. Women sometimes are more analytical than men.

women?? I'm not married but i hav gfs to talk to

[quote author=Hiroto post=47906971]women?? I'm not married but i hav gfs to talk to[/quote
Lol...That's O.K. Choose the sensible ones and talk to them.
By the way, was there a significant event in the recent or remote past that you think could have contributed to the way you feel?

[quote author=Nyceguy92 post=47908405][/quote]Got bullied by a group of girls nd boys in my younger days since then i disliked most people i see

Hiroto:
Got bullied by a group of girls nd boys in my younger days since then i disliked most people i see

Oh, I see..
Vitally everyone has had one bully experience or the other. It happened to me in earlier school days.

The mindset is to not allow it to affect you negatively.
I am sure that if you see any of those bullies now you guys will laugh over it.

Nyceguy92:
Oh, I see..
Vitally everyone has had one bully experience or the other. It happened to me in earlier school days.

The mindset is to not allow it to affect you negatively.
I am sure that if you see any of those bullies now you guys will laugh over it.

sometimes wen i hav nothin to be happy about at dat moment nd i remember those times it just way me down badly, nd my thinking is always if i cld hav done something differently then BAM!! angry mood activated

Hiroto:
I don't know if this is age related but am so tired to the extent i cant live. I hate everything i do and anything everyone else does. Pls what is wrong wit me?

Warning: I wont reply u if i dont see a point in what u say or if u insult me.

what's happening is that, you are being affected by what u r thinking of, once your thinking is negative, its gonna affect d way u feel and causes depression and d likes, all u need to do is just to try as much to dismiss any negative thinking and see dem as just thought, I think with that u can get better....or go see a psychologist...

holland002:
what's happening is that, you are being affected by what u r thinking of, once your thinking is negative, its gonna affect d way u feel and causes depression and d likes, all u need to do is just to try as much to dismiss any negative thinking and see dem as just thought, I think with that u can get better....or go see a psychologist...

I will try changing the way i think to see if there would be any improvement