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Hey folks

I have a question... If a Nigerian girl introduces me to her father / family. How serious is this?

Thanks

On what basis?
Introduced as a friend?
A fiancé?
I think how you were introduced should matter most!!

She introduced me as boyfriend but I got the blessing of the family.

suedman85:
She introduced me as boyfriend but I got the blessing of the family.

You are still not safe...
Blessings like..

Your marriage will last long..
You'll be together forever
You'll get us bouncing baby boy and girl?

Blessings in what form, be specific, bro...

For me would be important to know how serious this is then? They expect now an immediate marriage? What if she breaks up (told me this get her into trouble as she already introduced me)?

Blessing in term of the family will support a marriage (very religious)

You are coming back to the story you should have told at the start.

Are you guys dating?
How long?

I see sorry it's late here (us). Yeah we're dating since two years but long distance relationship

suedman85:
She introduced me as boyfriend but I got the blessing of the family.

Now whether the Relationship will be serious or Not depends on You.

husband tinx

I definitely want to marry her - and the relationship is awesome. the question for me is. If she would break up or so (for any reason whatsoever) would she have trouble with the family?

suedman85:
I see sorry it's late here (us). Yeah we're dating since two years but long distance relationship

Nice Job!
Are you emotionally and financially ready for the marriage not weeding, as they've promised handling the wedding expenses...

Reason I ask is, cause she told me the one who is introduced to the father will definitely be the husband/man and no backing up of it

suedman85:
I definitely want to marry her - and the relationship is awesome. the question for me is. If she would break up or so (for any reason whatsoever) would she have trouble with the family?

After the wedding?
That's not a breakup, its called divorce!
And that word "divorce" is not a small issue.

Before the wedding during the engagement phase so to speak. If she would break up or so would that be an issue or is it more or less ok for the family? As I have been introduced already

suedman85:
Reason I ask is, cause she told me the one who is introduced to the father will definitely be the husband/man and no backing up of it

Guy, don't attempt to marry simply because "fear"..

If you have reasonable reasons why the relationship won't work, what's bad in calling her parents and explaining things to them...

I did that to my ex..
And I was glad I did.

But if you see her as a potential wife.. Hold her well oh.. if you are ready for the responsibilities that comes from being a husband and a father, set the car on motion, bro.

I'm defiantly ready and hopefully she is too. Thank you very much! I will go for it and hope we have a prosper life

open your mouth and ask her na. Na we introduce you?

Very serious bro
I've only done that once

mizzbouqui:
Very serious bro
I've only done that once

That is exactly what I'm hoping for. Just want to see how it is in Nigeria when somebody introduce its love to their parents. Here it is also a big deal but nothing fix. Just to see also the seriousness on her side if it's same as mine