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A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by Nobody: 3:24pm On Aug 11, 2016
There can be no lasting peace no matter how hard we try if we do not first make peace with the past. It is by this act that we can forgive ourselves and others. This forgiveness brings peace to us and to others. No one can beat his chest claiming to have no skeleton in the closet of his past, skeletons that take the shape of words, actions, assumptions and all. We are all imperfect and our imperfections endear us to ourselves. Let me explain what I just said. When we wrong someone, naturally a chasm is created, a rift birthed by negative energy. When we admit our wrong and apologise, a counter energy is produced also naturally to fill the rift, to erase the chasm. The hurt felt from the wrong reveals to us that we could have lost the relationship, this makes the one more dear to the other. This is why some people will hold on to each other because of nothing but what they've been through together.

Life is not as tough as we make it, our continuous attempts to pick wants over needs have complicated things for us. Remember, when all else fails, love never does, and the best way to feel love is to give it.

Alabi Idahor Osawaru
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by unibenstudent1(m): 3:31pm On Aug 11, 2016
Mumu,who this epistle help
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by dollyjoy(f): 3:34pm On Aug 11, 2016
cool
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by obiorathesubtle: 3:42pm On Aug 11, 2016
Aite.. Apologise for wrong.. I can do that..
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by MzPecs(f): 3:42pm On Aug 11, 2016
So no matter what someone's past may have been involved with, learn to forgive in love and not criticism that is filled with so much hate..


Oliviaarims.. Is anyone troubling you because of your past? angryundecided
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by Nobody: 4:49pm On Aug 11, 2016
@Olivia what happens when yu forgive people,they repent but repeat the process continously..have u ever been in this kind of loop ?
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by IamLEGEND1: 4:54pm On Aug 11, 2016
Hahahahahahahahahahahhahshshahahaha.
This one don turn to Aristotle overnight.
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by Donnyperry(m): 7:43pm On Aug 11, 2016
Nawah oh...SMH
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by bitchcrafts: 11:31pm On Aug 11, 2016
So true!... However, "Of course I won't just deny myself the joy of feeling the pain, venting the anger, feeling the complexities and the likes when they are borne to surface; I'm just human , not some demigods smiley ...Yeh Yeh , but I have no control over my inner peace, the love I shine and the grudges I'm to hold cos like before; I am just human; I will continue to complicate an uncomplicated situation; I'm not fake."
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by Nobody: 12:03am On Aug 12, 2016
what's this one even saying?
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by RENOWNED2(m): 12:09am On Aug 12, 2016
Op, I Need My Mb Back.
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by newsphase(m): 12:25am On Aug 12, 2016
Thank you.... I am impressed
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by IYIMAN: 9:04am On Aug 13, 2016
Oliviaarims the philosopher is here again. Humans have the right and privilege of choice, and there are two divides in life (positive and negative). The right is to choose whichever works for your existence and being. Whatever you do, be sure to be non-maleficent.
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by uyisteven(m): 12:02pm On Aug 21, 2016
Oliviaarims:
There can be no lasting peace no matter how hard we try if we do not first make peace with the past. It is by this act that we can forgive ourselves and others. This forgiveness brings peace to us and to others. No one can beat his chest claiming to have no skeleton in the closet of his past, skeletons that take the shape of words, actions, assumptions and all. We are all imperfect and our imperfections endear us to ourselves. Let me explain what I just said. When we wrong someone, naturally a chasm is created, a rift birthed by negative energy. When we admit our wrong and apologise, a counter energy is produced also naturally to fill the rift, to erase the chasm. The hurt felt from the wrong reveals to us that we could have lost the relationship, this makes the one more dear to the other. This is why some people will hold on to each other because of nothing but what they've been through together.

Life is not as tough as we make it, our continuous attempts to pick wants over needs have complicated things for us. Remember, when all else fails, love never does, and the best way to feel love is to give it.

Alabi Idahor Osawaru
*****
My first attempt of derailing.
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Am tempted 2 use one of your pic I probably stole as homescreen..Tried it once and it was *insanely* Beautiful...But that cud be classified as *Grade A* stalking...Too young for that.
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by Nobody: 12:14pm On Aug 21, 2016
Guilty conscience?
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by joseph1832(m):
daretodiffer:
Guilty conscience?
You should know.

If I didn't know better I'd say Oliviaarims sound a lot like MizMyColi. I hope she hasn't been filling your head with her opinionated 'love mantra jargon?'. grin
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by bitchcrafts: 12:58pm On Aug 21, 2016
In short, what u have is what you give and what you give is what you ultimately get...smh!
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by HIGHESTPOPORI(m): 1:11pm On Aug 21, 2016
joseph1832:
You should know.

If I didn't know better I'd say Oliviaarims sound a lot like MizMyColi. I hope she hasn't be filling your head with her opinionated 'love mantra jargon?'. grin
What exactly did she do?
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by jashar(f): 1:12pm On Aug 21, 2016
hmmm...
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by henrylowe(m): 12:36pm On Aug 22, 2016
A lamentation of a renowned nairaland runs girl trying to redeem her image back with unnecessary dairy updates and thread... I can see guilty conscience is troubling someone.
Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by misspicy(f): 2:38pm On Aug 22, 2016
When in the face of scandalous controversy,and one choose to keep his/her calm doesn't mean one is guilty.


Only the knowledgeable ones will understand what I typed above.The foools are free to assume because like I always say

[size=15pt]IDGAF[/size] grin


btw,who send wetin person talk,when dem no born them well to face me offline tongue

Re: A Lil Piece Of Wisdom... by joseph1832(m): 9:38am On Sep 12, 2016
misspicy:
When in the face of scandalous controversy,and one choose to keep his/her calm doesn't mean one is guilty.


Only the knowledgeable ones will understand what I typed above.The foools are free to assume because like I always say

[size=15pt]IDGAF[/size] grin


btw,who send wetin person talk,when dem no born them well to face me offline tongue
Really? shocked
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