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How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 5:18pm On Aug 26, 2016
Women seem to think that men are too thickheaded and inattentive to identify which of them are cockgobbling cumguzzling sluts. Or they prefer to believe their sly poses of innocence and white lies are good enough to keep men in the dark about their sexual histories. They would be wrong. The dirty little secret is out: Men have finely tuned straydar for slutty women because they are the ones more likely to cheat. Women lie more about their sexual pasts to men and to themselves, or otherwise expend great effort covering it up, because they know that men will downgrade them as potential long term mates if their sluttiness were revealed in all its jizz-spackled bukkaked glory.

Here is a list of tramp tells:
She broaches the subject of sex first.

The more explicitly she talks about sex before you’ve banged her, the likelier she has a storied slutty past.
She suggests kinky sex acts.

If you’ve been dating a short while and she eagerly implores you for public sex before the glow of bedroom missionary sex has worn off, you’ve got a slut.
She’s neurotic and disagreeable.


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Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:24pm On Aug 26, 2016
Re: How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 5:26pm On Aug 26, 2016
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3. She’s neurotic and disagreeable.
Emotionally flighty girls are vaginally flighty girls. They are ruled by their vaginas. If she’s the gossipy, backstabbing, conniving sort who drips with sarcasm and generally disdains everyone around her, you can bet her black soul will seek sustenance on a carousel of cock.

4. She frequently goes commando.
Yeah, as guys, we think it’s hot when we slide our hands under our girlfriends’ dresses during dinner in a fancy restaurant and discover a panty-less pussy waiting for us, but what if you notice she’s sans underwear while you’re both shopping in Whole Foods? At a family picnic? In church? On a ferris wheel? In a glass elevator? You get the picture.

5. She’s got that crazy, hyper, coked-up look in her eyes.
Welcome to attention LovePeddler land! Chicks who can’t breathe without being the center of attention are chicks who are unable to control their craving for fresh cock. You want to be on the lookout for manic depressives and girls who can’t make it through a ten minute conversation without screeching in phony excitement.

6. She shows a lot of cleavage all the time.
No worries if she’s accentuating her tits on the first date to entice you, but if she’s got those colliding death stars displayed for the world to admire every time you’re out with her, you’ve got a woman on your hands who is addicted to advertising herself. And there will be buyers, oh yes!

7. She *really* seems to know what she’s doing in bed.
Hey man, nothing like getting a BJ from a chick who knows how to hit the underside with her tongue, but it does make you wonder how much dick it required for her to reach that level of professionalism.

8. She has an impressive collection of vibrators and admits to wacking off to porn.
She’s a high testosterone sex fiend who values sexual novelty more than pair bonding. This type of girl is a creature of her id. High T girls are easy to spot. Check for forearm hair, narrow hips, broad shoulders, a penchant for cursing, a flat ass (adjusted for race), career ambition, and status whoring.

9. She asks you how many women you’ve slept with or accuses you of being a player.
One word: projection.

10. She seems “hard”.
If she’s got that tough, tankgrrl aura about her, like she’s been through dating hell and back, and her cynicism is worse than yours, you know she’s been used like a cheap LovePeddler.

11. She’s incredibly circumspect or incredibly forthcoming about her past or sex in general.
In the course of a few dates, occasionally the conversation turns to past loves or sexual experiences, or views on men and women and the dating scene. Normally, these exchanges are blessedly brief and act as useful springboards for other topics, but when she seems like she’s hiding something big you’ve got a right to be suspicious. Listen for tells that give the game away. Stuff like “Oh well, we all have our skeletons”. Or “I’ve learned so much growing up.” Or “Men are pigs.” (The last one usually said by a record breaking slut.) Naturally, you want to write off any girl as GF material who brags about her CRAZY and WILD college years. Believe me, those years included more than college.

12. She tells you about all the places she’s traveled.
Yeah, chicks love to travel, but how many have put their dreams into action? If your date has been around the world twice with multiple stops in Rome, Rio, Vegas, LA, or some Appalachian backwater you can be sure she’s “traveled” straight into the crotch of an exotic local at every destination.

13. She never has a break between men longer than one week.
If she’s the type who can’t stand to be single and monkey swings from one man to the next, sometimes with sperm-sharing overlap, odds are high she’s a slut.

14. You’re tapping her for the first time and she doesn’t remind you to put on a condom.
We men have an excellent fallback system for flushing out the sluts. If we think you’ve been around, we act as if we’re going to rawdog you, only to reach for the condom at the last possible second. If you haven’t reminded us to put one on during the long pre-penetration buildup, and it looks like you’d have been OK taking our unwrapped meat, we have all the evidence we need that you’re a skank.

15. She never stops shit testing you.
A girl who is constantly testing you for alpha congruency is a girl who would jump to another man the moment you betatize yourself. Worthy girls keep the shit testing to a bare minimum. Turn on your love light, baby.

16. She buys you a lot of gifts.
I’m not sure why this is a leading indicator of sluttiness, but in my experience it is. Especially if she showers you with little gifts early in the relationship. I open the floor to a discussion of theories for this particular observation.

17. She’s OK with making out in bars.
Self-explanatory.

18. She lets you snort coke off her ass.
Oh yeah, big time slut.

19. She has a lot of slutty friends.
Ye shall know her by her support group.

20. Your gut tells you she may be a slut.
Always go with your gut. It will almost never lead you astray.

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Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:26pm On Aug 26, 2016
No way did you just counter me undecided
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Hahaha cheesy
Excuse my laughter but..
What does half this have 2 do with being sluty?

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Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:28pm On Aug 26, 2016
There is no such thing as a slut. These kind of demeaning terms are just social constructions.

We are all naturally preprogrammed to want sex. Whichever way you view sex now, is just environmental conditioning. There is no right or wrong way to have sex. A girl can choose to have sex with any man she wants, whenever she wants. That's her choice. It doesn't make her a bad or abnormal person. It's only prove that she is human.

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Re: How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 5:32pm On Aug 26, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
No way did you just counter me undecided
••••••
Hahaha cheesy
Excuse my laughter but..
What does half this have 2 do with being sluty?

this thread is direct counter to what you did

so lets go on....
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:33pm On Aug 26, 2016
Caravan:
There is no such thing as a slut. These kind of demeaning terms are just social constructions.

We are all naturally preprogrammed to want sex. Whichever way you view sex now, is just environmental conditioning. There is no right or wrong way to have sex. A girl can choose to have sex with any man she wants, whenever she wants. That's her choice. It doesn't make her a bad or abnormal person. It's only prove that she is human.
there ya go wink see I knew I liked you grin

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Re: How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 5:35pm On Aug 26, 2016
Caravan:
There is no such thing as a slut. These kind of demeaning terms are just social constructions.

We are all naturally preprogrammed to want sex. Whichever way you view sex now, is just environmental conditioning. There is no right or wrong way to have sex. [b]A girl can choose to have sex with any man she wants, whenever she wants. [/b]That's her choice. It doesn't make her a bad or abnormal person. It's only prove that she is human.


no way

that's a slut on the loose grin
Re: How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 5:37pm On Aug 26, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
there ya go wink see I knew I liked you grin


you like it abi

that

"A girl can choose to have sex with any man she wants, whenever she wants"

but you call the guys name hmm grin
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:39pm On Aug 26, 2016
rainerboy1010:


this thread is direct counter to what you did

so lets go on....
Well, I used up all my fight on my own thread. I gots no more ta give.
••••••
Maybe I'll come back 2morrow and argue with you grin
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:39pm On Aug 26, 2016
i wont read that garbage!
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:43pm On Aug 26, 2016
cool
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:44pm On Aug 26, 2016
rainerboy1010:



you like it abi

that

"A girl can choose to have sex with any man she wants, whenever she wants"

but you call the guys name hmm grin
yeah.
She got a right 2 choose what she does with her body and she should not be labeled harshly because of her gender
••••••
And ERM I never said a man was a hoe for having sex or multiple sex partners
...... Unless he got a woman
Re: How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 5:45pm On Aug 26, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Well, I used up all my fight on my own thread. I gots no more ta give.
••••••
Maybe I'll come back 2morrow and argue with you grin

nothing fascinates them like this topic
Re: How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 5:48pm On Aug 26, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
yeah. She got a right 2 choose
••••••
And ERM I never said a man was a hoe for having sex or multiple sex partners
...... Unless he got a woman

what's the difference

when he has to "stick in" to ...... many


and


she "receives" many undecided
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 26, 2016
rainerboy1010:


what's the difference

when he has to "stick in" to ...... many


and


she "receives" many undecided
Hey! I modified and added more.
•••••••
There is no difference and I called neither a hoe for having multiple sex partners.
••••••
Hiw are you constantly misunderstanding that? undecided
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:52pm On Aug 26, 2016
why the mention angry
Re: How To Spot A Slut by TheSonOfMark(m): 5:54pm On Aug 26, 2016
Caravan:
There is no such thing as a slut. These kind of demeaning terms are just social constructions.

We are all naturally preprogrammed to want sex. Whichever way you view sex now, is just environmental conditioning. There is no right or wrong way to have sex. A girl can choose to have sex with any man she wants, whenever she wants. That's her choice. It doesn't make her a bad or abnormal person. It's only prove that she is human.


Hogwash! Morality is the depiction of good and bad; social rules designed or adopted by the society to guide them.


Most societies frown upon women having multiple sexual partners. Women who flaunt this societal rule are deemed "SLUTS".


Re: How To Spot A Slut by lilmax(m): 5:57pm On Aug 26, 2016
there's no need to prove most of them are grin
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 5:57pm On Aug 26, 2016
TheSonOfMark:



Hogwash! Morality is the depiction of good and bad; social rules designed or adopted by the society to guide them.


Most societies frown against women having multiple sexual partners. Women who flaunt this societal rules are deemed "SLUTS".


I knew you thought that undecided
•••••••
Anyway yer quite wrong it's just morally wrong for a man 2 have multiple partners as it is women
If yer going of the standards set for mankind by the Bible
••••
Re: How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 5:58pm On Aug 26, 2016
Berlyn:
why the mention angry

you are the special one jare
how you doing



here to counter KingCheezyPuff
Re: How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 5:59pm On Aug 26, 2016
TheSonOfMark:



Hogwash! Morality is the depiction of good and bad; social rules designed or adopted by the society to guide them.


Most societies frown upon women having multiple sexual partners. Women who flaunt this societal rule are deemed "SLUTS".




ten gbosa for you


you just hit the maze on the head
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 6:03pm On Aug 26, 2016
rainerboy1010:



no way

that's a slut on the loose grin

I posted this on another thread, and I'll just post it here, just to clarify my point.

Thousands of years ago before our ancestors shifted from foraging to agriculture, the humans who existed at that time lived freely. They had sex whenever they wanted, however they wanted, wherever they wanted, and with whomever they wanted. It was also a means of reproduction and expansion of their species, so it served multiple purposes. Nobody cared about who they had sex with. There wasn't anything like marriage, or dating. They just moved from place to place, hunted, gathered food on the way, and hid from cold, rain and wild animals.

But when they shifted to agriculture, segmentation emerged. Humans began owning land areas for themselves, and they cultivated crops and built shelters on those land areas. Since men were viewed as physically stronger than women, they were the ones in charge of the protecting their agricultural territory from animals and fellow humans, as well as the cultivation of crops on those land areas. This was also how marriage originated, as the more powerful men took women for themselves, as their own personal sex mates, helpers to help them cultivate crops, and also as vessels to help them produce more hands to cultivate the crops. The women who were alone and who needed protection and a sense of belonging also drifted towards men who they felt could provide them these things.

From there on, marriage and dating grew into the conventional thing that it has become. And systems like government and religion were created to sustain this new way of life.

So, my point is, human beings are genetically designed to want sex. That urge for sex is ingrained in our DNA. If a girl decides to satisfy her urge for sex whichever way she wants, then that's her business. You are complaining and calling people sluts because they decided to satisfy their natural cravings? That's silly.

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Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 6:04pm On Aug 26, 2016
rainerboy1010:



ten gbosa for you


you just hit the maze on the head
he hit it on the head with his double standard
but you where ready 2 feed me 2 the lions for the same thing? undecided
Re: How To Spot A Slut by rainerboy1010: 6:11pm On Aug 26, 2016
Caravan:


I posted this on another thread, and I'll just post it here, just to clarify my point.

Thousands of years ago before our ancestors shifted from foraging to agriculture, the humans who existed at that time lived freely. They had sex whenever they wanted, however they wanted, wherever they wanted, and with whomever they wanted. It was also a means of reproduction and expansion of their species, so it served multiple purposes. Nobody cared about who they had sex with. There wasn't anything like marriage, or dating. They just moved from place to place, hunted, gathered food on the way, and hid from cold, rain and wild animals.

But when they shifted to agriculture, segmentation emerged. Humans began owning land areas for themselves, and they cultivated crops and built shelters on those land areas. Since men were viewed as physically stronger than women, they were the ones in charge of the protecting their agricultural territory from animals and fellow humans, as well as the cultivation of crops on those land areas. This was also how marriage originated, as the more powerful men took women for themselves, as their own personal sex mates, helpers to help them cultivate crops, and also as vessels to help them produce more hands to cultivate the crops. The women who were alone and who needed protection and a sense of belonging also drifted towards men who they felt could provide them these things.

From there on, marriage and dating grew into the conventional thing that it has become. And systems like government and religion were created to sustain this new way of life.

So, my point is, human beings are genetically designed to want sex. That urge for sex is ingrained in our DNA. If a girl decides to satisfy her urge for sex whichever way she wants, then that's her business. You are complaining and calling people sluts because they decided to satisfy their natural cravings? That's stupidity.


your theory is very very wrong

1.humans don't just have sex with anyone and anywhere as they want
each one drinks from his own wife

2agriculture or whatever you think was never the origin of marriage at least the bible said God instituted marriage.

3. every one is made for someone so a girl can not satisfy her self in whatever way she wants no

the society does not permit that not even the bible
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 6:15pm On Aug 26, 2016
TheSonOfMark:



Hogwash! Morality is the depiction of good and bad; social rules designed or adopted by the society to guide them.


Most societies frown upon women having multiple sexual partners. Women who flaunt this societal rule are deemed "SLUTS".



And who determines this "morality?" Religion? Last time I checked, religion was man made, and entirely contingent on the culture it originated in.

Society? If it's society, then who or what is society? The aggregation of humans like you and I. If morality is designed by imperfect beings like you and I, then morality is in itself flawed.

Of course there are certain aspects of morality that is universally accepted, at least by empathetic humans. Particularly the ones that involve causing harm to other people. But there are certain aspects of this so called morality that are inherently silly, and only systematically propagated by religion and culture. Eg, classifying a persons sexual preference as wrong and dictating who and how someone's supposed to have sex.

Does society(which is basically people like me), have the right to tell me when I should and should not have sex, how I should have sex, with whom I should have sex, and the number of sexual partners I should have? Big No.

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Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 6:22pm On Aug 26, 2016
rainerboy1010:



your theory is very very wrong

1.humans don't just have sex with anyone and anywhere as they want
each one drinks from his own wife

2agriculture or whatever you think was never the origin of marriage at least the bible said God instituted marriage.

3. every one is made for someone so a girl can not satisfy her self in whatever way she wants no

the society does not permit that not even the bible

Pick up a history book and read, and stop arguing blindly.
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 6:45pm On Aug 26, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
there ya go wink see I knew I liked you grin

I thought you hated me?
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 6:48pm On Aug 26, 2016
Caravan:


I thought you hated me?
well,I like this yer comment.
Re: How To Spot A Slut by Nobody: 6:50pm On Aug 26, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
well,I like this yer comment.

Okay. wink
Re: How To Spot A Slut by hyeeshat(f): 9:15pm On Oct 09, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
yeah.
She got a right 2 choose what she does with her body and she should not be labeled harshly because of her gender
••••••
And ERM I never said a man was a hoe for having sex or multiple sex partners
...... Unless he got a woman
lol

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